What Did You Do To Attract Your Scorpio Man?

I'd love to know. =p

*Throws some change into TaurusBabe's guitar case*

Taurusbabe has a point. He should be attracted to you for you. You shouldn't have to go out of your way to lure him in. Here imagine this, he's the fish and you're the fisherwoman. He should be jumping in your boat and you shouldn't have to get out his favorite bait and catch him on your hook. On the positive side that is nice of you going out of your way to gain some knowledge on how to draw him in.

Unusual cancer:

LMAO

Already told you ...

Pick up on what he suggests, his induendos .. and you'll know where you both stand. If he has to clearly define for you, then there is nothing to unwrap .. fuck and toss.

I've caught a couple and intelligent conversation with cleavage seems to do it every time. lol

KAV, I gotta agree with TaurusBabe, "Don't let that Virgo analysis take you over."

I know! It's tough! Virgo feels a strong attraction to Scorpio, and in my case it really unbalanced me for a while. But if I had a nickel for every time my Scorp has advised me not to think too much, I could retire and live the comfortable life of a true Southern gentleman!

Be yourself, and let him decide if he wants to pursue you. If he does, there won't be a doubt in your mind -- it can be almost too much love for us Virgs! If you could see the way my Scorp looks at me, you might think twice about starting something with one yourself!

"Hopefully when you DO realise that you've fallen into his clutches and he's in love with you, you wont be running for the hills !!! They're pretty intense."

Hell yeah! I used to refer to mine as a briefcase nuke!

Susan Miller and other astrologers have described S + V as magical, mystical, etc. -- IMHO, the only mystery is why Virgo will "let go" or "just do it" with a Scorp when he won't with any other Sign.

1. just be yourself, with no pretensions
2. they like extra feminine but confident women
3. if you are very sexy then it is wonderful - actually they wouldnt be interested,
if you are not sexy -- but then you cant fake sexiness...they can easily spot it !
4. they hate shallow hypocrites
5. depth, strength of character, reliability etc. attract them
6. they are not turned on by doormats, but they are the master NOT YOU
7. hate criticism and nagging
8. will need to be the one and only in your lives, if they like you...

the last will be checked and analyzed and reanalyzed by tests, tests, and tests.....and no amount of proof will satisfy them....

finally, you will be torn to thin shreds and analyzed ...till you nearly die with the emotional turmoil and deep sadness

will continue their sublte games of testing even when fully into you.....

above all, No....absolutely NO thought about anyone else and that is a must.

They came to me for whatever reason. 🙂

Now, why would you wanna go and do a thing like that? Don't be silly. Find yourself a nice Taurus, hun. Take my advice and thank me later.

Haha no guys! I would never change myself for anyone, come on now I'm a Virgo! I'm right all the time, whether I admit it or not =p I meant like, dates... what kind of things should we do? Do they like sentimental things.. or what? What attracts them?

Cause to tell you the truth, I don't really know how to be cute^-^; I need some advice on where to take him, or what to do so we're not just always sitting around. That would get boring really fast..

Hehe, I don't know, see I like basic things. Like... a movie and popcorn. Haha, I don't know.. thats why I posted this! I need some help planning something he'd like.

People have unique interest. So you'll have to go dig for information. Although as a Scorpio male, I prefer to do something exciting, intense, something not lame, different, and no where near home. Something memorable would work, but fun memories that he can look back on.

I agree on the intimacy. Whatever you do has to be one on one attention. Nothing too public. So that way he can feel relaxed, start to open, and bond to you. Privacy is a 100% must.

uh you did?

I never saw the comment so... blah.

apology accepted, but only if you get me Santa's sleigh and his bag of presents.

"And if you've been friends with him and don't even have a tiny idea of what he likes, do you really think you should be pursuing this——"



lol, that's what I said .. if a person picked up on the other then they would already know. Since the question is being asked, it indicates that they aren't aware of the other.

antibling : ..topazwoman's post/info is bang on the mark....

Thank you 🙂

Actually I'm satisfied when a person has proven them self without being tested.

You guys are getting it all wrong.. its not like I don't know him well, I know what he likes in different categories, I just don't know him in the romantic way, since he doesn't date- I've never seen him be affectionate to anyone else. I don't know what type of date he'd like, or anything.. I was just looking for suggestions since I'm good at doing crazy things with the group, and there's never a night we don't have fun, but I do get a little stiff when it's just us, cause I wanna do something he'll remember, but I don't know what..

So with all this help, I think I'll take him into this forest that is somewhat by his house where we can talk in private. Our friend Adrian who died used to go there a lot with us, and I think it would be relaxing for him.. We can walk around there and maybe make a fort or something that will bring our childish sides out! =D

Okay, thanks for the advice. =]