He has a Venus in Scorpio... should I be scared?

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Female venus in scorpio here 😉

Well no and yes I guess , also depends on moon and mars combo and other aspects but in general venus in scorpio is just hard to figure out . The stinger might come out once he feels betrayed or in any way unsure about your intentions . I think we do have a self-destructive tendency in love matters sometimes and spend toooo much time overthinking situations and moments . But in general I think just with every venus placement if you're motives are true and sincere , why would he need to protect himself ?

hope this helps
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They're tricky. I dated a girl with a Venus in Scorpio. Aside from the fact that she had a super confusing placement with her Libra Sun/Aries Moon, she definitely showed some paranoia and obsessive behavior. Part of the paranoia could be from her Aries Moon, but I could also tell from our conversations that she needed either to get under my skin to figure me out (mind you she wouldn't let me do this back, not saying I wanted to) or needed to see the relationship at it's darkest.

It was is she felt that the good between us would eventually fade and she needed to see that darkness ASAP. It's almost as if she needed to see what it would be like if everything fell apart, so she kinda sabotaged it. Being a Leo Sun/Virgo Moon I'm more bound by the idea of perfection or "if it ain't broke, don't try to fix it" mentality. Funny thing is, she's still in my life because we work together and both of our Mars are in Capricorn. There are definitely levels where we understand each other well and can read each others thoughts/emotions. She also still remembers our time together fondly and told me she stalks me on social media.

Having had way too many dealings with Scorpios, the best thing to do with this placement is to be consistent. You don't need to follow them into the darkness, just be real with them. Scorpios like knowing all of your secrets, but don't want you to know too many of theirs, until they trust you at least (and even then). Some are drawn to darkness and can get BURNED. Somewhere deep down they know this. The emotional highs and lows can be attractive to them in the short term, but unless there is some stability, they'll never be able to leave those who are most loyal to them. Also NEVER BETRAY HIS TRUST! Be honest always.

As a Virgo Sun, I'm going to assume he's going to be a bit paranoid in love with his Scorpio in Venus. His emotions will run deep as well. He's going to NEED to see consistency from you. He's going to want to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are loyal to him. You may find yourself initiating quite a bit too. He may create a mess just to see what you do with it. Virgos looove to collect data. Virgos can also be messy as they pursue perfection. I know a lot of Virgos who will show you their worst before they show you their best. They want to make sure you're in it for the long haul, otherwise they won't bother with you. Also again, NEVER BETRAY HIS TRUST.

Knowing his Moon and Mars would help as well, but this is all theoretical since none of us know him.
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I've read that Scorpio have the ability to destroy anything in their paths lololol therefore this discovery is rather frightening...?

What can I expect?


There is no fear of placements. His Scorpio Venus just means once he loves, he will break the law for you. Dedicated. Loyal. Deep and passionate. Ultimate protection.

Quote romantic imo
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No but make sure you always have some form of leverage over him just in case. Like don't freaking tell him everything if he's not going to even share a little.
we only lay our cards down when others do

she need to be #thefirst
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In my experience, all scorp venuses have laid their cards out first bcos they trusted me. I think it's a very good sign of them genuinely being comfortable.
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No but make sure you always have some form of leverage over him just in case. Like don't freaking tell him everything if he's not going to even share a little.
we only lay our cards down when others do

she need to be #thefirst

In my experience, all scorp venuses have laid their cards out first bcos they trusted me. I think it's a very good sign of them genuinely being comfortable with me.


manipulative double gemini
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I don't trust Geminis tbh. I don't even attract them. So glad!

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No but make sure you always have some form of leverage over him just in case. Like don't freaking tell him everything if he's not going to even share a little.
we only lay our cards down when others do

she need to be #thefirst

In my experience, all scorp venuses have laid their cards out first bcos they trusted me. I think it's a very good sign of them genuinely being comfortable with me.


manipulative double gemini

I don't trust Geminis tbh. I don't even attract them. So glad!


okay I will stop with the Gemini thing.

I ran into 3 geminis who think they're funny at the end of last year and start of this year. therapy is needed

I'm now thinking you might be a scorpio, bc as ViS the only sign I trust immediately is scorpio



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Lmao I agree they need therapy, something about their auras too...

We got lotsa conjunctions and trines going on ?
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No but make sure you always have some form of leverage over him just in case. Like don't freaking tell him everything if he's not going to even share a little.
we only lay our cards down when others do

she need to be #thefirst

In my experience, all scorp venuses have laid their cards out first bcos they trusted me. I think it's a very good sign of them genuinely being comfortable with me.


manipulative double gemini

I don't trust Geminis tbh. I don't even attract them. So glad!


okay I will stop with the Gemini thing.

I ran into 3 geminis who think they're funny at the end of last year and start of this year. therapy is needed

I'm now thinking you might be a scorpio, bc as ViS the only sign I trust immediately is scorpio





Lmao I agree they need therapy, something about their auras too...

We got lotsa conjunctions and trines going on ?
this is why I blindly trust you every mafia game -_-
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Ik. I've made vis do a lot of crazy things on behalf of me it's wonderful. Probably the only placement I can say I truly got in the bag. I love you guys.
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No but make sure you always have some form of leverage over him just in case. Like don't freaking tell him everything if he's not going to even share a little.
we only lay our cards down when others do

she need to be #thefirst

In my experience, all scorp venuses have laid their cards out first bcos they trusted me. I think it's a very good sign of them genuinely being comfortable with me.


manipulative double gemini

I don't trust Geminis tbh. I don't even attract them. So glad!


okay I will stop with the Gemini thing.

I ran into 3 geminis who think they're funny at the end of last year and start of this year. therapy is needed

I'm now thinking you might be a scorpio, bc as ViS the only sign I trust immediately is scorpio





Lmao I agree they need therapy, something about their auras too...

We got lotsa conjunctions and trines going on ?
this is why I blindly trust you every mafia game -_-

Ik. I've made vis do a lot of crazy things on behalf of me it's wonderful. Probably the only placement I can say I truly got in the bag. I love you guys.
Thanks
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No ur gross
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No but make sure you always have some form of leverage over him just in case. Like don't freaking tell him everything if he's not going to even share a little.
we only lay our cards down when others do

she need to be #thefirst

In my experience, all scorp venuses have laid their cards out first bcos they trusted me. I think it's a very good sign of them genuinely being comfortable with me.


manipulative double gemini

I don't trust Geminis tbh. I don't even attract them. So glad!


okay I will stop with the Gemini thing.

I ran into 3 geminis who think they're funny at the end of last year and start of this year. therapy is needed

I'm now thinking you might be a scorpio, bc as ViS the only sign I trust immediately is scorpio





Lmao I agree they need therapy, something about their auras too...

We got lotsa conjunctions and trines going on ?
this is why I blindly trust you every mafia game -_-

Ik. I've made vis do a lot of crazy things on behalf of me it's wonderful. Probably the only placement I can say I truly got in the bag. I love you guys.
Thanks

No ur gross


Sorry no take backs
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They're tricky. I dated a girl with a Venus in Scorpio. Aside from the fact that she had a super confusing placement with her Libra Sun/Aries Moon, she definitely showed some paranoia and obsessive behavior. Part of the paranoia could be from her Aries Moon, but I could also tell from our conversations that she needed either to get under my skin to figure me out (mind you she wouldn't let me do this back, not saying I wanted to) or needed to see the relationship at it's darkest.

It was is she felt that the good between us would eventually fade and she needed to see that darkness ASAP. It's almost as if she needed to see what it would be like if everything fell apart, so she kinda sabotaged it. Being a Leo Sun/Virgo Moon I'm more bound by the idea of perfection or "if it ain't broke, don't try to fix it" mentality. Funny thing is, she's still in my life because we work together and both of our Mars are in Capricorn. There are definitely levels where we understand each other well and can read each others thoughts/emotions. She also still remembers our time together fondly and told me she stalks me on social media.

Having had way too many dealings with Scorpios, the best thing to do with this placement is to be consistent. You don't need to follow them into the darkness, just be real with them. Scorpios like knowing all of your secrets, but don't want you to know too many of theirs, until they trust you at least (and even then). Some are drawn to darkness and can get BURNED. Somewhere deep down they know this. The emotional highs and lows can be attractive to them in the short term, but unless there is some stability, they'll never be able to leave those who are most loyal to them. Also NEVER BETRAY HIS TRUST! Be honest always.

As a Virgo Sun, I'm going to assume he's going to be a bit paranoid in love with his Scorpio in Venus. His emotions will run deep as well. He's going to NEED to see consistency from you. He's going to want to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you are loyal to him. You may find yourself initiating quite a bit too. He may create a mess just to see what you do with it. Virgos looove to collect data. Virgos can also be messy as they pursue perfection. I know a lot of Virgos who will show you their worst before they show you their best. They want to make sure you're in it for the long haul, otherwise they won't bother with you. Also again, NEVER BETRAY HIS TRUST.

Knowing his Moon and Mars would help as well, but this is all theoretical since none of us know him.
How do you know she's stalking you on social media?

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I've read that Scorpio have the ability to destroy anything in their paths lololol therefore this discovery is rather frightening...?

What can I expect?
Don't be ridiculous...

The tragedy of VIS is that no one will love VIS the way VIS love other. No one is that intense. Except another VIS. And what we're looking for is depth...soulmate or twin flame....in today's society where everything is instant and superficial is a nightmare!
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Posted by TauringTheWorld
I've read that Scorpio have the ability to destroy anything in their paths lololol therefore this discovery is rather frightening...?

What can I expect?
Don't be ridiculous...

The tragedy of VIS is that no one will love VIS the way VIS love other. No one is that intense. Except another VIS. And what we're looking for is depth...soulmate or twin flame....in today's society where everything is instant and superficial is a nightmare!
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This holds true. it depends on where it lands. If a venus in Scorpio lands in Virgo then it's not too bad.. if it lands on sag n libra .. it struggles... love turns into power game play and manipulation... thanks but no thanks.