@ScorpicaRising
14 Years
He Just Can't Commit 2 U
Nope, never heard of it. The above is common symptoms women come to the board complaining about. One's I've observed as well. I think most of it is common sense. Many woman try to "slant" their experience to make it unique. And it is unique but only to them. No one wants a Bull shit man, not matter what the sign 😉
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It's not that he's a Scorpio, but maybe:He Just Can't Commit 2 U .....
(***RED FLAG: To all the ladies who come to the board asking " why do male scorps do XyZ " Maybe you're just dealing with Commitment phobic men? Men like this need professional help. Don't think you're the only one he's done this to.( If you've experienced this or more share 🙂
1. Does he pick a fight w/ you a day or so after you've had a emotionally intimate time together?
2. Does he date you w/o a title? ( or calls you his friend?)
3. Did he move on w/o telling you but left the option of returning open?.
4. Does does he get angry at you when he wronged you ( in any way) Or blame you for his actions?
5. Does he criticize you like you're the messed up one in the relationship?
6. Meets new females at: work, school, gym,etc..becomes instant friends with them. Play the" boyfriend" role with them as well but claims they are "only friends"?( Excuse me but you just met her yesterday).
7. Does he act like he's God's gift to women and that you should be lucky to have him?
8. When you walk away,does he comes running back?( Texting,asking you out again, Calling or stopping by)
9. Does he disappear for an extended period of time without word and just miraculously pops back into your life when he's ready?
10. Does he acts like what he share is exclusive between the two of you, but you learn he tells the same old stories to everyone he meets?
11. Does he date you w/ a title but is still emotionally cold?
12. Does he womanize, constantly lies and is Sexually impulsive?
13. Can he can be Hypocritical and judgmental?
14. He never says " I Love you" but loves the words: "Space, Trust me, Friends,and I care"?
15. Does he introduce you to family and friends like he's serious, but you learn .. he takes everyone he " cares for" to meet the rents?
16. Does he expects or hints that you should practice patience?...( all while your biological clock is ticking and you're passing up on every man because he got your head, heart and focus).
17. Does he expect you to make him the focus of your life, while he lives life on his own terms?
18. Is he unwilling to compromise?