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From what I can see Scorpios are one of the few guys who dont chase. They usually wait for the women to come to them unless she really stands out probably. Shy taurus guys are the same way

Scorpios have too much pride to chase, plus we see through the bullshit and see it for the game that it is.


I was talking to my Virgo coworker about this yesterday.. she lost a Scorpio guy by doing this shit. She said she wanted him to ā€œfight for herā€. I was like girl, he doesn’t owe you a fight lol either you’re into him or you’re not. Cut the games. 😐
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i agree. only insecure people want to pit someone against someone else. i guess they wanna feel like they’re desirable by being fought for and stuff lol šŸ˜…but that sorta behavior is a turn off for people who are serious about love and just want something uncomplicated.

also, you can’t build a solid, enduring relationship on a shaky foundation made of games and lies.

ā€œplay stupid games, win stupid prizes.ā€ lol
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

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Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
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A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST! šŸ˜›

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From what I can see Scorpios are one of the few guys who dont chase. They usually wait for the women to come to them unless she really stands out probably. Shy taurus guys are the same way

Scorpios have too much pride to chase, plus we see through the bullshit and see it for the game that it is.


I was talking to my Virgo coworker about this yesterday.. she lost a Scorpio guy by doing this shit. She said she wanted him to ā€œfight for herā€. I was like girl, he doesn’t owe you a fight lol either you’re into him or you’re not. Cut the games. 😐
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When my Parents split up Mum kicked Dad out for some pretty inane shit, there was a small bit of money involved but it wasn't a big deal. Afterwards she would go on about "Why didn't he fight for me and his family, he should have stuck around" Lmao what a joke, Dad went off an lived a chill life on a farm.
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
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A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!






I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.

The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨
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I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.

Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.

I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
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A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!








I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.



The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨


I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.


Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.


I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.



The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
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A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!










I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.





The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨




I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.



I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.



I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.



There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.




Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.




I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer



Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.


Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.


The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol


It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.


I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.


I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.

I didn’t think my comment posted the last time so I think I responded to this twice. But yeah, those guys were beyond persistent and super annoying. One still messages me and I just leave him on read, it’s like damn, don’t you have any dignity and know when to move onto the next? 🄓
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Gotta keep those options open! šŸ˜†

I have a persistent Sag on my ass too. It was the one I dated before the Scorpio. He was way too busy and all over the place for me, but now he's pretending to have all the time in the world. Typical man lol

I leave him on read and he sends me stuff that I need to answer

"Thoughts on this?"

"Do you know of this place, in this area? Have you been?"

I'm starting to leave this on read too.

I deleted him once from my social media but he called me and asked to be put back on lol

Why can't men you're interested in be like this? It's sad that they are like this when there is no interest anymore.
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
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A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!












I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.







The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨






I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.





I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.





I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.





There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.






Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.






I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer





Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.




Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.




The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol




It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.




I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.




I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.



I didn’t think my comment posted the last time so I think I responded to this twice. But yeah, those guys were beyond persistent and super annoying. One still messages me and I just leave him on read, it’s like damn, don’t you have any dignity and know when to move onto the next? 🄓


Gotta keep those options open! šŸ˜†

I have a persistent Sag on my ass too. It was the one I dated before the Scorpio. He was way too busy and all over the place for me, but now he's pretending to have all the time in the world. Typical man lol


I leave him on read and he sends me stuff that I need to answer

"Thoughts on this?"

"Do you know of this place, in this area? Have you been?"


I'm starting to leave this on read too.

I deleted him once from my social media but he called me and asked to be put back on lol

Why can't men you're interested in be like this? It's sad that they are like this when there is no interest anymore.

I don’t mind it when the interest is mutual, it’s lovely when we are both infatuated with each other but it’s like damn, sag men seem to be even more turned on by rejection in my experience. I ended up blocking the one with the scorp moon because he sent me a manipulative message at 6 in the morning and I just didn’t have the patience for it so I shut that shit down immediately šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ and I NEVER block people but I was like no, we aren’t doing this today.

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We love a good challenge! We are hunters after all lol

I learned at an early age that women aren't supposed to be so aggressive, so I toned it down to nothing, it's easier for me now. I remember liking a boy at like 13 and chasing him and he just wanted me to leave him alone lol I didn't understand why šŸ˜†

In my head, if I liked you, you should like me Hahaha! The DELUSION!
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From what I can see Scorpios are one of the few guys who dont chase. They usually wait for the women to come to them unless she really stands out probably. Shy taurus guys are the same way

Scorpios have too much pride to chase, plus we see through the bullshit and see it for the game that it is.


I was talking to my Virgo coworker about this yesterday.. she lost a Scorpio guy by doing this shit. She said she wanted him to ā€œfight for herā€. I was like girl, he doesn’t owe you a fight lol either you’re into him or you’re not. Cut the games. 😐
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That must be a Virgo thing. I had a Virgo guy who wanted me to fight for him. I never looked back.
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
click to expand
A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!



I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.



The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨

I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.


I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.


I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.


There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.



Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.



I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer


Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.


The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol


It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.


I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.


I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.

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Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

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From what I can see Scorpios are one of the few guys who dont chase. They usually wait for the women to come to them unless she really stands out probably. Shy taurus guys are the same way
Scorpios have too much pride to chase, plus we see through the bullshit and see it for the game that it is.

I was talking to my Virgo coworker about this yesterday.. she lost a Scorpio guy by doing this shit. She said she wanted him to ā€œfight for herā€. I was like girl, he doesn’t owe you a fight lol either you’re into him or you’re not. Cut the games. 😐
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That must be a Virgo thing. I had a Virgo guy who wanted me to fight for him. I never looked back.

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Yes, Virgos want you to "prove" your love. In their mind, they are the only people contributing and you're not pulling your weight when this occurs.

I'd argue they're the most difficult to love other than cappys.
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
click to expand
A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!



I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.



The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨

I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.


I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.


I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.


There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.



Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.



I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer


Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.


The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol


It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.


I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.


I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

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I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.

I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.

I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

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Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
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A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!





I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.


The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨
I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.


Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.


I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.

The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

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I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.


I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.


I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.
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Why are you with him?

Doesn’t sound like much fun?

😬
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
click to expand

A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!





I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.


The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨
I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.


Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.


I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.

The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

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I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.


I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.


I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.

Why are you with him?
Doesn’t sound like much fun?
😬
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What doesn't sound like much fun? Scorpio traits or not being addicted to sex?

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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
click to expand

Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
click to expand

A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!





I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.


The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨
I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.


Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.


I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.

The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

click to expand

I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.


I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.


I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.


Why are you with him?

Doesn’t sound like much fun?

😬

What doesn't sound like much fun? Scorpio traits or not being addicted to sex?

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Scorpio traits … for a fire sign could be difficult
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
click to expand

Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
click to expand

A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!





I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.


The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨
I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.


Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.


I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.

The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

click to expand

I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.


I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.


I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.



Why are you with him?


Doesn’t sound like much fun?


😬


What doesn't sound like much fun? Scorpio traits or not being addicted to sex?

Scorpio traits … for a fire sign could be difficult
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I accept people for who they are.

I just like understanding why people do what they do. Just because I am mentioning a negative, doesn't mean there is no positives. I've said positive things about him. This post wasn't about that.

My chart is 50% water, so maybe that's why I have patience.

He's not abusive or a detriment to my psychosis, so this isn't that much of a big deal. But I still want to understand the behavior.

Mutables are adaptable, but we have to know and understand what's happening in order to adapt.
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
click to expand

Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
click to expand

A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!





I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.

The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨

I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.

Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.

I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.

The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

click to expand
I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.

I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.

I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.
Why are you with him?



Doesn’t sound like much fun?



😬

What doesn't sound like much fun? Scorpio traits or not being addicted to sex?

Scorpio traits … for a fire sign could be difficult
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I accept people for who they are.

I just like understanding why people do what they do. Just because I am mentioning a negative, doesn't mean there is no positives. I've said positive things about him. This post wasn't about that.


My chart is 50% water, so maybe that's why I have patience.

He's not abusive or a detriment to my psychosis, so this isn't that much of a big deal. But I still want to understand the behavior.


Mutables are adaptable, but we have to know and understand what's happening in order to adapt.

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I admire your patience and understanding..

Scorpios can be so difficult to understand and live with and I’ve heard about the withholding sex thing about the men from more than one woman …. That’s really dysfunctional behaviour and I’ve no time for that … it’s manipulative and controlling. Personally I’d not feed into that …

You have psychosis? 🄺
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
click to expand

Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
click to expand

A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!





I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.

The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨

I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.

Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.

I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.

The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

click to expand
I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.

I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.

I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.
Why are you with him?



Doesn’t sound like much fun?



😬

What doesn't sound like much fun? Scorpio traits or not being addicted to sex?

Scorpio traits … for a fire sign could be difficult
click to expand

I accept people for who they are.

I just like understanding why people do what they do. Just because I am mentioning a negative, doesn't mean there is no positives. I've said positive things about him. This post wasn't about that.


My chart is 50% water, so maybe that's why I have patience.

He's not abusive or a detriment to my psychosis, so this isn't that much of a big deal. But I still want to understand the behavior.


Mutables are adaptable, but we have to know and understand what's happening in order to adapt.

I admire your patience and understanding..
Scorpios can be so difficult to understand and live with and I’ve heard about the withholding sex thing about the men from more than one woman …. That’s really dysfunctional behaviour and I’ve no time for that … it’s manipulative and controlling. Personally I’d not feed into that …
You have psychosis? 🄺
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No I don't have psychosis, lol

It was used as an adjective.

I meant he is not in my head, messing it up.

I've already found a work around for withholding, so it's not happening anymore, for now.

I don't understand how you guys can be so understanding of yourselves, and treat each other with kid gloves and rally for each other in friendships with your unconditional support for all aspects of your emotions and how they are carried out, but you are difficult with other people who aren't your sign, and it's something that you guys recognize.

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Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.

The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨

I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.

Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.

I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.

The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

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I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.

I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.

I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.
Why are you with him?



Doesn’t sound like much fun?



😬

What doesn't sound like much fun? Scorpio traits or not being addicted to sex?

Scorpio traits … for a fire sign could be difficult
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I accept people for who they are.

I just like understanding why people do what they do. Just because I am mentioning a negative, doesn't mean there is no positives. I've said positive things about him. This post wasn't about that.


My chart is 50% water, so maybe that's why I have patience.

He's not abusive or a detriment to my psychosis, so this isn't that much of a big deal. But I still want to understand the behavior.


Mutables are adaptable, but we have to know and understand what's happening in order to adapt.


I admire your patience and understanding..

Scorpios can be so difficult to understand and live with and I’ve heard about the withholding sex thing about the men from more than one woman …. That’s really dysfunctional behaviour and I’ve no time for that … it’s manipulative and controlling. Personally I’d not feed into that …

You have psychosis? 🄺

No I don't have psychosis, lol
It was used as an adjective.
I meant he is not in my head, messing it up.

I've already found a work around for withholding, so it's not happening anymore, for now.

I don't understand how you guys can be so understanding of yourselves, and treat each other with kid gloves and rally for each other in friendships with your unconditional support for all aspects of your emotions and how they are carried out, but you are difficult with other people who aren't your sign, and it's something that you guys recognize.

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Oh right sorry lol

I’ve a Scorpio son and there’s no kid gloves between he and I …. actually the total opposite at times as in brutal honesty so

I can’t really relate to that. I definitely relate to my own sign but look how honest I am

about it too? There’s no pretense there.

None of my friends are Scorpios and I don’t

think I’m difficult with them?

I’m not sure though and would have to think

about it. Maybe too intolerant? I do admit to being difficult in romantic relationships….but easier in platonic relationships?

I’ve never met a Scorp who is easy going in relationships though šŸ˜‚
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Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.

The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨

I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.

Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.

I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.

The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

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I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.

I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.

I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.
Why are you with him?



Doesn’t sound like much fun?



😬

What doesn't sound like much fun? Scorpio traits or not being addicted to sex?

Scorpio traits … for a fire sign could be difficult
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I accept people for who they are.

I just like understanding why people do what they do. Just because I am mentioning a negative, doesn't mean there is no positives. I've said positive things about him. This post wasn't about that.


My chart is 50% water, so maybe that's why I have patience.

He's not abusive or a detriment to my psychosis, so this isn't that much of a big deal. But I still want to understand the behavior.


Mutables are adaptable, but we have to know and understand what's happening in order to adapt.



I admire your patience and understanding..


Scorpios can be so difficult to understand and live with and I’ve heard about the withholding sex thing about the men from more than one woman …. That’s really dysfunctional behaviour and I’ve no time for that … it’s manipulative and controlling. Personally I’d not feed into that …


You have psychosis? 🄺


No I don't have psychosis, lol

It was used as an adjective.

I meant he is not in my head, messing it up.


I've already found a work around for withholding, so it's not happening anymore, for now.


I don't understand how you guys can be so understanding of yourselves, and treat each other with kid gloves and rally for each other in friendships with your unconditional support for all aspects of your emotions and how they are carried out, but you are difficult with other people who aren't your sign, and it's something that you guys recognize.

Oh right sorry lol

I’ve a Scorpio son and there’s no kid gloves between he and I …. actually the total opposite at times as in brutal honesty so
I can’t really relate to that. I definitely relate to my own sign but look how honest I am
about it too? There’s no pretense there.
None of my friends are Scorpios and I don’t
think I’m difficult with them?
I’m not sure though and would have to think
about it. Maybe too intolerant? I do admit to being difficult in romantic relationships….but easier in platonic relationships?
I’ve never met a Scorp who is easy going in relationships though šŸ˜‚
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I think platonic is different too, good point.

I'm very tolerant and don't test peoples patience, so that aspect is lost on me in relationships. I also like brutal honesty, at least that's something a person can work with.

I don't mind the difficult parts as long as the good outweighs the bad, but I still like to understand them.

Difficulty doesn't bother me at all, games do.

So when the games start, we play and Scorpios usually don't like how I play them back šŸ˜†

I don't need easy going, but being difficult for fun is self sabotaging, IMO.

Plenty of Scorpios have been married for years with their spouses, so obviously there must be some sort of work around for that too.
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Lol. Hot and cold mean you are playing games. And games are a form of manipulation. As far as chasing you goes, lol 100% , even if I am in love with you, I will never chase you.


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Must be the Sag placements in you. Don't you have Leo and Sag? I swear, we are the LAZIEST at chasing! šŸ˜†
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You just need to be mysterious with Scorpios. Don't show your hand all the time and tease a bit.


My Scorpio chases and I'll pull back every now & then and disappear for a night or two. Just keep them on their toes and be an interesting person.


Match their level of interest and they'll let you know when they're ready.

ā€˜Your’ Scorpio— You didn’t just say that!
Hooked as a worm!!! It’s HER keeping you squirm on the end of the hook…not you!
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I recall her attempting to get me to fly to Cali for two years and I said no.

Who's the one hooked here?
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You just need to be mysterious with Scorpios. Don't show your hand all the time and tease a bit.


My Scorpio chases and I'll pull back every now & then and disappear for a night or two. Just keep them on their toes and be an interesting person.


Match their level of interest and they'll let you know when they're ready.



ā€˜Your’ Scorpio— You didn’t just say that!


Hooked as a worm!!! It’s HER keeping you squirm on the end of the hook…not you!


I recall her attempting to get me to fly to Cali for two years and I said no.


Who's the one hooked here?

You hooked NOW. Apparently she worked out Master Plan and you fell into her web.
She is having sick fun. You thinking she is figure-outable. And she is not because she is mental. Be careful.
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She lives over 2500 miles away from me. I am not worried about what that woman is doing lol. I will see her in October if things go steady. If not, then the show doesn't stop.
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You just need to be mysterious with Scorpios. Don't show your hand all the time and tease a bit.


My Scorpio chases and I'll pull back every now & then and disappear for a night or two. Just keep them on their toes and be an interesting person.


Match their level of interest and they'll let you know when they're ready.





ā€˜Your’ Scorpio— You didn’t just say that!




Hooked as a worm!!! It’s HER keeping you squirm on the end of the hook…not you!




I recall her attempting to get me to fly to Cali for two years and I said no.




Who's the one hooked here?



You hooked NOW. Apparently she worked out Master Plan and you fell into her web.


She is having sick fun. You thinking she is figure-outable. And she is not because she is mental. Be careful.


She lives over 2500 miles away from me. I am not worried about what that woman is doing lol. I will see her in October if things go steady. If not, then the show doesn't stop.

Exactly! You can’t wait to see her.
And most likely she is entertaining some other ā€˜fish’ in a meantime
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UNLESS, I meet someone else. Then there's no point because she will not maintain the friendship without sex probably.

šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø she probably is entertaining other men. I have a date tomorrow also.. the point here is why is she relaying that info to me? I don't tell her about women I'm out with.
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

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Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
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I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.



The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨

I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.


I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.


I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.


There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.



Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.



I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer


Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.


The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol


It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.


I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.


I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.

Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!
I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.

I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.

I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.
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Mine would too. He would use the silent treatment and not even tell me why he wouldn't be speaking to me for the next 8 hours. Moody af. The sex was great but I never got enough of it. He said it felt like life was leaving his body everytime he did it. WTF? I was like "die already but give me that dick". LOL!!!
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

šŸ„“šŸ˜¬šŸ˜‚

Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
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A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!





I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.


The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨
I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.

I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.

There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.


Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.


I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer

Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.

The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol

It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.

I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.

I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.

Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.

I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.


I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.


I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.
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Mine would too. He would use the silent treatment and not even tell me why he wouldn't be speaking to me for the next 8 hours. Moody af. The sex was great but I never got enough of it. He said it felt like life was leaving his body everytime he did it. WTF? I was like "die already but give me that dick". LOL!!!
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Fun fun fun guy šŸ˜‚šŸ˜©šŸ˜¬

like "die already but give me that dickā€ 🤣
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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

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Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.

A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST! šŸ˜›

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Just šŸ™he doesn’t have Venus in Scorpio

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Why? Scorpio Venus meaning good penis šŸ‘
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Haha I can attest to this. My Sag bf with Scorp Venus…best lover and penis in my life. He’s devoted, committed, loyal, intense, loving.
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A Sag with Scorpio Venus is THE BEST!



I should give this combo a try… im a scorp sun with sag mars. It would be fun if I could find a guy whose sun was conjunct my mars and whose scorp Venus was conjunct my sun. That might be a steamy combo.



The only sags I’ve attracted so far had scorp moons (two that come to mind) and they both seemed emotionally unstable like they couldn’t take no for an answer. 🤨

I dated a Scorpio with a Cancer moon and Sag venus for years and we got along great. He just use to use sex as a type of control (withholding it) and it got boring after a while. My current Scorpio is somewhat doing the same thing, sex on his terms only, and I'm starting to feel the same way.


I'm not sure why you guys are called a sexual sign. You guys aren't as sexual as us.


I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer. As a fixed sign, you guys don't understand that your no will be a yes from someone else. That is the way that mutables think. We want a good time and good feelings. No is boring.


There's really no reason for it, it's just a way for you guys to have some sort control, IMO. This should be done in another way because I don't understand why someone enjoys saying no to a person they like or are interested in or are dating.



Scorp moon to sun in a couple isn't a good combo unless there are other aspects, you guys don't even really like dating each other as Sun signs, so I think it would be the same since the moon has a some of the same qualities as the sun.



I don't think it's much of an issue for signs that get along in relationships as sun signs.

I can understand the frustration of being a Sag and not taking no for an answer


Girl I’m talking about men I never even met in person 🄓🄓🄓 im glad they were able to find a yes somewhere else. What I’m saying is they would try to pursue me through messages for like 1-2 years even after I politely turned them down. Nobody said nothing about using sex as control. šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£ I never fucked with those guys. And when I’m fucking somebody my sex drive is insatiable. Women are different from men in that regard I don’t play those games. If I turn down sex it’s because Im not in the mood. That’s it, that’s all.

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Oh! Men you never met? That's usually any guy. It's all about the chase.


The sex part was mor for relationships with a Scorpio. Maybe men are different because I've never had any sign hold out like a Scorpio Man lol


It's like they find the one thing that bugs me and they try to use it against me. It's dumb, cause that can ruin a relationship. Sex isn't everything but it's an important part of a relationship. And to use that as a bargaining tool for control is weird and detrimental, IMO.


I don't get it. It's like I don't argue or get upset about anything else, so this is what they find that will annoy me and this is all they have to use. It makes the topic more important then it has to be.


I think long term, so I really weigh out my options and ask myself if this is what I want to deal with for years. And usually my answer is no.


Yep, the Scorpio I dated would hold out on sex too because he knew I was addicted to it. It's a form of punishment. It's sick.


I have a high sex drive, but they really know how to dampen the mood. I don't think I could ever be addicted to Scorpio sex, they aren't adventurous enough for me. Its very traditional style . But I would still like it on a regular basis!

I've had to learn how to manipulate him in order to get it. It's stupid and ridiculous.


I don't like how they need to do the whole phoenix thing of tearing down and rebuilding for satisfaction. It's like when things are going too good, they think it's fake and not realistic.


I'm starting to think they don't enjoy being happy for long periods of time.

Mine would too. He would use the silent treatment and not even tell me why he wouldn't be speaking to me for the next 8 hours. Moody af. The sex was great but I never got enough of it. He said it felt like life was leaving his body everytime he did it. WTF? I was like "die already but give me that dick". LOL!!!
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LMAO! The silent treatment would most likely go unnoticed with me because I do it very well. I heard that's a Leo mars thing.

I agree with them being moody. Maybe that's why I don't notice the silent treatment because most times he is moody, I give him space and disappear. It's up to him on how long it will be.

You were draining his energy with the sex lol

If I never get enough of it, usually it's toxic, adventurous sex šŸ˜†
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In the beginning he will like a little cat and mouse, but not throughout the duration of the relationship. As a fixed sign Scorpios appreciate stability.


Edited to add this also would depend on his Venus sign though and the rest of his chart.


I knew a Scorpio with Gemini Moon and he loved the chase and instability. Scary combination of intensity and uncertainty for the poor girls he trapped.