how are scorpios when they dont want you?

how would a nice scorpio act when they don't like someone around?

My view on this would be .......



... if you asked this question then you have the inkling that you are not wanted


... so instead of hanging around, waiting to be excused, why not walk away with some dignity?


... why wait to sent away?

Posted by Pesca2

no answer is also an answer

Lame, but true.

Yes....no answer is a typical scorpio way to blow someone off.

Posted by P-Angel
My view on this would be .......



... if you asked this question then you have the inkling that you are not wanted


... so instead of hanging around, waiting to be excused, why not walk away with some dignity?


... why wait to sent away?

Ding.

For me, if I don't want someone around, I will probably ignore them. Pretend they aren't there and maybe even turn away from them..not engage in eye contact or anything. But for me to do that to someone I have to have actually lost respect for them...which is usually the only reason I don't want someone around in the first place.

If I don't want them around because they irritate me or annoy me, I will probably remove MYSELF from the situation in a quiet way.

If I respect them yet we just clash, as some people do, I will probably tell them.

In saying all that, though, I've found sometimes people think I don't like them/want them around because I don't speak at all. They think I'm a snob or that I feel superior to them...when in actual fact I'm most likely paying them the most attention, wanting them to be around more than anyone else...I don't think I'm even making sense 😛

Yup I was just really curious whether they'll be direct or hide it. Anyway, this Scorpio I know already told me
he wanted me around. You see, I had to ask (hehe) coz I am one of those if I'm not wanted, I'll leave. I don't really like to waste my time either, but since he's a good person, I don't want to lose him either as a friend. I had to be sure and double check. I've had Scorpio friends and boyfriends, but this Scorpio is new. I can read him, but not really. This one is too quiet and too serious.

Posted by TypicalScorpio
For me, if I don't want someone around, I will probably ignore them. Pretend they aren't there and maybe even turn away from them..not engage in eye contact or anything. But for me to do that to someone I have to have actually lost respect for them...which is usually the only reason I don't want someone around in the first place.

If I don't want them around because they irritate me or annoy me, I will probably remove MYSELF from the situation in a quiet way.

If I respect them yet we just clash, as some people do, I will probably tell them.

In saying all that, though, I've found sometimes people think I don't like them/want them around because I don't speak at all. They think I'm a snob or that I feel superior to them...when in actual fact I'm most likely paying them the most attention, wanting them to be around more than anyone else...I don't think I'm even making sense 😛

The Scorpio I know is like that. He doesn't speak at all. Sometimes it scares me because he watches me from afar and so serious. When you are quiet, is there something you want to say to the person when you're watching them? Because the Scorpio I know does that. I'm quiet too out of the bunch that's probably why he noticed me. Sometimes he passes back and forth next to me. I don't know what to say and I'm shy so I ignore it.

Makes sense to me too... Esp. the losing respect for someone and the actions that follow. That is the only time I will completely ignore someone and give no answer.

The Scorpio I know is like that. He doesn't speak at all. Sometimes it scares me because he watches me from afar and so serious. When you are quiet, is there something you want to say to the person when you're watching them? Because the Scorpio I know does that. I'm quiet too out of the bunch that's probably why he noticed me. Sometimes he passes back and forth next to me. I don't know what to say and I'm shy so I ignore it.

Umm hmm..I've never really thought of that. I think yes..I definitely have things I want to say when I watch them because I've observed so much of them by watching from afar I can't help but have questions. The thing is..I usually get my answers by watching some more. People don't realise how much of themselves they show off just by body language. I think you could be right about him noticing you for being shy as well. I said before that I can be quite cold to people I don't respect but I notice I gain a lot of respect when I realise someone can sit back and observe the way I do instead of unconsciously 'being'. I also find I want to pick their brains about what they've observed but no matter how used to them I get I never actually ask.

I'm not too sure what you mean by passes back and forth next to you... I imagine that's just part of the observing as well...and deep thinking (probably thinking of things he wants to ask). I would say speak to him but gently; I think it might make it easier for you, as well, considering you're also shy.

Also I saw somewhere that you said he told you he wants you around, or something along those lines, after you had asked him and I just wanted to say that for me personally (and I imagine most other scorpios would be this way too) I would never ever say that if I didn't mean it. So even though he may have a 'different' way of showing you he likes you in some form or another, just know that he probably says what he means and means what he says.

I AM A SCORP, LEO RISING, SAGITTARIUS MOON
IF I AM INTERESTED...
I will be shy, awkward, weird (hot/cold), will warm up slowly to his presence. For example, there this guy I'm attracted to...although I see him everyday, it always takes me time to warm up to him, I have to let some time go by before saying hi to him and striking up a conversation, although we always do strike a conversation. I will not share as many personal details to the person I have an interest for, I will talk mainly about mainstream subjects such as the weather, hobbies, my pet, my work. I will avoid eye contact when crossing his path, I will avoid touching him or getting into sticky situations...yes I am that SHY.

IF I AM DISGUSTED BY...
i.e: There is this guy I see at my community center. I don't know how many times he has come to talk to me. I mean you don't understand, he has come up with so many different reasons to come and talk to me and everytime I thought I had been pretty clear at pushing him away but I guess not. I mean I don't even look at him, I avoid him at all cost. When he talks to me, I answer in a dry and rough manner. Everytime he comes in a section where I am, I go away. He spoke to me in French at some point and although I speak French fluently, I replied in English saying I didn't speak French, yet he came back to me a few weeks later speaking in English! I mean how ridiculous is that!!!! Anyhow...All I know is that if a Scorpio is repulsed by you...the above mentioned actions will be reflected. Next time he approaches me, I'll just give him shit and make him understand once and for all that I have no intention of talking to him nor getting to know or any other reason for that matter.

IF I AM NOT INTERESTED// SIMPLY FRIENDLY
I'll talk to you if you are on my way. I'll joke around, flirt, talk about personal stuff without caring what you think of it because I simply don't care that much for you. Which by the way isn't a bad thing, it just means that your opinion of you for me doesn't affect all that much. What you will see from me as an acquaintance or a friend is: politeness, respectfulness, friendliness and being sympathetic.

Hope this helps...wonder if other Scorpios see themselves in my description of each segment.

I AM A SCORP, LEO RISING, SAGITTARIUS MOON
IF I AM INTERESTED...
I will be shy, awkward, weird (hot/cold), will warm up slowly to his presence. For example, there this guy I'm attracted to...although I see him everyday, it always takes me time to warm up to him, I have to let some time go by before saying hi to him and striking up a conversation, although we always do strike a conversation. I will not share as many personal details to the person I have an interest for, I will talk mainly about mainstream subjects such as the weather, hobbies, my pet, my work. I will avoid eye contact when crossing his path, I will avoid touching him or getting into sticky situations...yes I am that SHY.

IF I AM DISGUSTED BY...
i.e: There is this guy I see at my community center. I don't know how many times he has come to talk to me. I mean you don't understand, he has come up with so many different reasons to come and talk to me and everytime I thought I had been pretty clear at pushing him away but I guess not. I mean I don't even look at him, I avoid him at all cost. When he talks to me, I answer in a dry and rough manner. Everytime he comes in a section where I am, I go away. He spoke to me in French at some point and although I speak French fluently, I replied in English saying I didn't speak French, yet he came back to me a few weeks later speaking in English! I mean how ridiculous is that!!!! Anyhow...All I know is that if a Scorpio is repulsed by you...the above mentioned actions will be reflected. Next time he approaches me, I'll just give him shit and make him understand once and for all that I have no intention of talking to him nor getting to know or any other reason for that matter.

IF I AM NOT INTERESTED// SIMPLY FRIENDLY
I'll talk to you if you are on my way. I'll joke around, flirt, talk about personal stuff without caring what you think of it because I simply don't care that much for you. Which by the way isn't a bad thing, it just means that your opinion of you for me doesn't affect all that much. What you will see from me as an acquaintance or a friend is: politeness, respectfulness, friendliness and being sympathetic.

Hope this helps...wonder if other Scorpios see themselves in my description of each segment.

Posted by ScorpSage
Hope this helps...wonder if other Scorpios see themselves in my description of each segment.

I do! Especially the first and last one. I kind of see myself in the middle one but might handle things like that a little differently to you... Mind you I don't really have men acting like that towards me (not that I've picked up on anyway) so for all I know I could possibly react the same as you have!

What I thought was funny is how the both of us seem to be able to flirt and joke around with friends and people we view INNOCENTLY but we can't even look at the one we want to get to know better! 😛 If I was on the outside looking in I would probably think we like our friends and have only friendly intentions with our crushes.

You also seem to be a little less socially awkward when it comes to someone you're interested in. I could never strike up a conversation. It would have to be him.

I am feeling a little jealous and envious of you right now 😛

i am a sag sun and scorpio moon...saggi with a wicked twist

Posted by TypicalScorpio

Posted by ScorpSage
Hope this helps...wonder if other Scorpios see themselves in my description of each segment.

I do! Especially the first and last one. I kind of see myself in the middle one but might handle things like that a little differently to you... Mind you I don't really have men acting like that towards me (not that I've picked up on anyway) so for all I know I could possibly react the same as you have!

What I thought was funny is how the both of us seem to be able to flirt and joke around with friends and people we view INNOCENTLY but we can't even look at the one we want to get to know better! 😛 If I was on the outside looking in I would probably think we like our friends and have only friendly intentions with our crushes.

You also seem to be a little less socially awkward when it comes to someone you're interested in. I could never strike up a conversation. It would have to be him.

I am feeling a little jealous and envious of you right now 😛

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**i completely understand where your coming from with this one. im a flirty sag but when im interested in someone, i dont flirt with them. i can hardly look at my object of affection...my scorpio moon takes over and its on like donkey kong.

Posted by ellessque
we are simply observing your character to see if you are worth knowing. 😛

if he's that intense could he perhaps have more scorp in his chart like a moon, venus or rising?

He has Pisces moon and Venus Libra. Not sure about the Rising. He is very serious, rarely has friends,
but direct when something bothers him. He's very kind and empathetic probably because of his moon?

Posted by bluemoon2
They act like you are not there. Ignore you and turn away from you.
- Nothing you did has to warrant it, especially if you showed signs to them that you were not interested first.

We had a project and it was our last working together, and that was the time he didn't want to look at me when I handed him something. That's when I thought I had to do something to show I at least cared. I did show it and I was greeted with a smile.

Posted by TypicalScorpio

The Scorpio I know is like that. He doesn't speak at all. Sometimes it scares me because he watches me from afar and so serious. When you are quiet, is there something you want to say to the person when you're watching them? Because the Scorpio I know
does that. I'm quiet too out of the bunch that's probably why he noticed me. Sometimes he passes back and forth next to me. I don't know what to say and I'm shy so I ignore it.

I'm not too sure what you mean by passes back and forth next to you... I imagine that's just part of the observing as well...and deep thinking (probably thinking of things he wants to ask). I would say speak to him but gently; I think it might make it easier for you, as well,

Also I saw somewhere that you said he told you he wants you around, or something along those lines, after you had asked him and I just wanted to say that for me personally (and I imagine most other scorpios would be this way too) I would never ever say that if I didn't mean it. So even though he may have a 'different' way of showing you he likes you in some form or another, just know that he probably says what he means and means what he says.

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He seems genuine. He's one of those people who doesn't talk much but when he does, its very sincere. He listens carefully too with his eyes focused on me, sometimes s

Posted by ellessque
I used to know a sag that had a scorp moon, venus and mars. He was almost more scorp like than sag.

Did he commit suicide?

Posted by ScorpSage

I AM A SCORP, LEO RISING, SAGITTARIUS MOON
IF I AM INTERESTED...
I will be shy, awkward, weird (hot/cold), will warm up slowly to his presence. For example, there this guy I'm attracted to...although I see him everyday, it always takes me time to warm up to him, I have to let some time go by before saying hi to him and striking up a conversation, although we always do strike a conversation. I will not share as many personal details to the person I have an interest for, I will talk mainly about mainstream subjects such as the weather, hobbies, my pet, my work. I will avoid eye contact when crossing his path, I will avoid touching him or getting into sticky situations...yes I am that SHY.

IF I AM DISGUSTED BY...
i.e: There is this guy I see at my community center. I don't know how many times he has come to talk to me. I mean you don't understand, he has come up with so many different reasons to come and talk to me and everytime I thought I had been pretty clear at pushing him away but I guess not. I mean I don't even look at him, I avoid him at all cost. When he talks to me, I answer in a dry and rough manner. Everytime he comes in a section where I am, I go away. He spoke to me in French at some point and although I speak French fluently, I replied in English saying I didn't speak French, yet he came back to me a few weeks later speaking in English! I mean how ridiculous is that!!!! Anyhow...All I know is that if a Scorpio is repulsed by you...the above mentioned actions will be reflected. Next time he approaches me, I'll just give him shit and make him understand once and for all that I have no intention of talking to him nor getting to know or any other reason for that matter.

IF I AM NOT INTERESTED// SIMPLY FRIENDLY
I'll talk to you if you are on my way. I'll joke around, flirt, talk about personal stuff without caring what you think of it because I simply don't care that much for you. Which by the way isn't a bad thing, it just means that your opinion of you for me doesn't affect all that much. What you will see from me as an acquaintance or a friend is: politeness, respectfulness, friendliness and being sympathetic.

Hope this helps...wonder if other Scorpios see themselves in my description of each segment.

My Liebe with a Scorp infused chart is like this.. how I wish it was the other way around.. he is everything you mention in y

*your first para..

o0oh strange.

Bump


my first post ever on DXP. Not much has changed lol.

1) a lot of people deleted since that time. It still shows the original count.

2) The gist of the thread was covered in the first (visible) reply, so I didn't bother to read the rest. Slaying egos and dashing hope since 2010! Lol.

3) not much has changed in term of stupid ass questions on the Scorp board.

4) More importantly, what was the final verdict with your hair DMV?

lol. what hair mama?

Posted by DMV
lol. what hair mama?

Up or down?

hahahahahahah both

😆! Only took six months.

Holy crap! Over four years ago... No wonder I didn't remember replying to this lol wonder how long ago I joined dxp with my original name...