How do u feel about us

Three months ago I got Into a really really bad fight with my Scorpio male friend who I was very close with. One of my closest friends. The fight was so bad that racial slures were shout... I swore I would never talk to him about. But I texted him a few weeks ago bc I kinda missed him and felt bad about the fight and wanted to make up. I was surprised in myself because once I make up my mind it's usually set for life. Stubborn, what Is else is new lol..
And he agreed to be friends with me again. I have experienced for the first time the actual meaning of love/hate between opposite signs.
Doyou scorpios experience the same love/hate with tauruses where u love them to death one minute and then the next want to hit them with a shovel in the back of the head and then burry them with it?

Racial slurs?

lmao it's so ironic u posted this because I just fought w my Taurus friend today. really he's the only Taurus I've gotten along w for a long period of time. actually scratch that I just recently met my Libra best friends girlfriend and she's a Taurus! love her. she is shy and sweet and has a soft heart. she probably has air influences and some water because I normally play well with earth signs with a lot of air. I get on with most air and fire signs, not so much earth and water but there are the rare few.

I would say it is very love/hate. I've felt very used by all of the Taurus in my life. EX: they have never offered gas money but demanded gas money from me. I bought one girl a concert ticket for MY birthday bc we were new friends and I wanted her to go and she never paid me back....happy birthday to me! lol I asked her and she goes "I didn't know I had to pay to be your friend." I was like "you told me you'd pay me back" anyways that friendship ended. I got in a fight w my Taurus friend today bc he's always having me buy him drinks yet buys me one in a blue moon and I found out he told someone "just ask Hannah, she doesn't care about money" UMMM excuse me WHAT. so I called him out and we went at it. by the end I just said sorry and that it annoyed me that he would say something like that. my Leo friend told me. I was talking to a Taurus man...and he played a fair game, up until he said "I'm not who I am yet, and I don't want a relationship just yet because I'm not who I am meant to be. if you want this to end I understand, but I don't want you out of my life" I was like "....ummm ok...bye?" lmao. I think I have just had bad luck, because the Taurus my Libra friend is dating is a real gem!!! I love her to death. we get along so well. I got along with the other Tauruses too but...I tend to let people walk on me because I don't like confrontation, but when I have had enough I blow up like a time bomb if they keep it up. I need to get better at confrontation in general. the Libra parts of me are always telling me "diplo diplo diplo" and "you won't be mad forever so it's best to avoid the conflict altogether" but my heart is saying "confront them". I like that I have the soft side, however, it also makes things difficult....and explosive later on if it's an ongoing problem.

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Racial slurs?

Yes.

I do take part, if not most, of the blame though. I'm sure my diplomatic/no confrontation is most of the issue in these friendships/relationships. though I've only been interested romantically in one Taurus. Taurus are very forward. I tend to shy away from such confrontations, which is why when I DO get angry, they are most likely confused because I had never brought it up before.

My Libra mother and brother most likely brought out my libra influences (for which I'm grateful in most cases except confrontational ones). Plus, I did those planet strength tests that were on the "Astrology" forum, and even though most of my placements are Scorpio-related, I scored the highest in Venus! Pluto was in 4th place strength-wise.

What!!!! Stop spending money on your friends so carelessly like that! Girl, no. Especially if they don't appreciate it. So did you and the Taurus make up? What did he say when you said sorry to him?

My Scorpio and I talked it out logically and made up. He will probably not trust me as much but idk, he's a bit too sensitive for me. Like people fight. Get over it. Well see what happens. Hopefully it goes back to normal

My libra rising is okay.... But I thank my Taurus sun 100% for always taking responsible when I mess up with friends or lovers. Libra ever own up to what they did wrong, like ever.

That's why I texted my Scorp. We were both wrong (I admitted to it thank u taurus sun) and I didn't want to fight anymore (thank u libra rising)

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yes we did 🙂 I told him "sorry I just had to explode about that because I've been emotional lately" and he at first told me to act like a grown woman and say no. my response was I always feel bad!!! I always think about how dry it is in the workplace and so I buy him drinks lmfao. I think too logically about everything myself as well. WHO THINKS ABOUT HOW DRY IT IS IN THE WORKPLACE?

we worked together today actually. and he was quiet at first, so I apologized again and then he warmed back up slowly. he's one of the most stubborn Bulls out there LOL! but I appreciate him very much as a friend. he always gives me the truth straight up (part of the reason the fight started in the first place), but I'm not always ready to handle it.

he was actually the one who told me the Taurus I was talking to was nothing but bad news and was just playing games. he's a good friend, just annoys me sometimes as I'm sure my passive personality also irritates him to no end lol

Don't you think he's wrong too for never buying you drinks also? What does he think you are, a money machine or something? Did apologize to you also?

yes I definitely do, which is why I finally exploded. he didn't really apologize...he more or less said he would never say that about me and that I can always tell him no. he did buy me a drink today, maybe as his own apology. so far none of the Taurus who have wronged me admitted it or apologized. I assume it has to do with being stubborn? I am not sure. I kind of accepted that as an apology.

The Taurus male I was hoping to have relations with actually blamed me when I called out his behavior. he would flirt with me and we would hang out and eat Chipotle (lol) and then the next day he would rant and rave about being with other women. I told him that's disrespectful and he told me there's nothing disrespectful about it and that I'm disrespectful for thinking so. then he went into his "I'm not who I am meant to be yet" speech. from there I just said goodbye. he made a little speech to try and redeem himself (never apologized) but I never responded because I felt I had no need to, nor did I have anything to say. the only thing I don't have him deleted from is snapchat (don't really know how to work it all that well which is pretty pathetic lol), so he will occasionally watch and screenshot the stories I make.

and I agree! Though my Scorp Sun and Virgo moon don't like being wrong either, I normally apologize just to end the fight...even if I am not the one being the big jerk but I normally take part of the blame regardless just to get it over with. The only one I feel I can't apologize to for the sake of apologizing is the Taurus man in above story, because he turned the situation around on me. It is one thing to give me an actual reason that I am in the wrong, but to just try to manipulate the situation AND me crosses the line.