How do you scorpios

How do you scorpios

How do you control your obsession with a love interest? I have a chance to start over with this Virgo I'm in love with. She's very cautious of getting close to me. She wants things to develop naturally and feels that I try and force things. I just know what I want and am aggressive at pursuing what I want. How do I just let things happen? How do I stop obsessing over her and what we are? Is it even possible?

At this point I'm scared to talk to her about it. We dated for 6 months and now have been apart for 6 months. I let the love word slip out too fast and she put the brakes on. Over the last few months I've been patient with her. I still let her know that I'm in love with her from time to time. If I let to much emotion out she'll give me the cold shoulder. She's good at the Scorpio disappearing act and she's not a Scorpio! This woman has given me a taste of my own medicine. Maybe that's why I love her so much.