How nice Scorpios are?

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I thought I had posted but...what I was asking is if Scorpio lost an interest will he still be as nice and caring just not to hurt feelings of the once loved partner or will he try to end it?
Why can't you do both?
You've got to be helloova man to not to love a woman and still tell her you do!


Huh?

It can be ended and you still be nice and care for them.
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I meant continue relationships like if you still feel the same?
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Judging from your other post, it sounds like your scorp is having a hard time letting go. Not that he doesn't love you, but.. he may not be IN love with you anymore. If he wanted to be with you, he would have been by now.

Now is prolly the time you should establish some boundaries (if you so choose), and save yourself from further head/heart aches with him.
Nothing like that. It is all good except I am always questioning IF he will ever get tired of it all and will continue to be nice just to keep me happy. He took breaks before. Wheren't any lately so I am getting confused...waiting for another break and it is not happening. LOL

So just wondering.

About wanting to be with me...he does but we aren't 25 anymore. Burning bridges is not an option as of yet. It takes time at our age. Even you youngsters are dating for years and living together and then break up! Without baggage.

Having a heavy load on your hands makes it harder a lot. So we need to overcome a lot of things and all of them are living breathing and loving...so time will tell.

Thanks
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In the context of " You're awesome. I love you. I want to have sex with you. Will you marry me?"

What then
I really don't get why it is different with Scorpios than with any other sign. I would never say any of that without sincere intentions, but I'm sure there are a couple extremely manipulative players or sociopath Scorps out there that would...like any sign, group of men, etc....
Could've read any other sign the way it was said. Not this one.

Was like in the vibe of 'that's everything you want to hear, right?" ..waiting to see what I'd do.

Or maybe I just took it that way..


Would need further context if its a serious question. You should know though.

If its at a club, a bar, a pick-up spot? Then you know....

If this is a guy you've been interacting with and he's been watching you like a hawk and you get wet from the way he stares at you? Could be real...lol
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I've never even been into bar! LOL

All these stares is waaay behind. Now it is just simple 'how are you' gets me wet... LOL
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In the context of " You're awesome. I love you. I want to have sex with you. Will you marry me?"

What then
I really don't get why it is different with Scorpios than with any other sign. I would never say any of that without sincere intentions, but I'm sure there are a couple extremely manipulative players or sociopath Scorps out there that would...like any sign, group of men, etc....
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I am also very opposed to divide world by 12 signs.

However you can't deny that everyone has some characteristics like Russian are drinking, germans are immaculate and irish are drinking and my favorite americans are stupid (by people who don't speak any English)! LOL

So I had learned here a lot about Scorpios when I was lost on his 'times off'...

I had no men in my life who needed to retreat and hide to come back rejuvenated.

So I had learned to deal with crazies of this sign and understood. This is why we have

'no demands' relationships and there weren't one argument for years.

As long as he behaving respectfully - I can take crazies.

If he would once showed me disrespect (Gemini thing and it is true) - he would be history

no matter if I had to put my head in the burning oven to ease the pain...

So I am all with you BUT I am searching for these stereotypes sometimes just for...

entertainment purposes I think. Or not...

Have I answered your question? Thanks
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Judging from your other post, it sounds like your scorp is having a hard time letting go. Not that he doesn't love you, but.. he may not be IN love with you anymore. If he wanted to be with you, he would have been by now.

Now is prolly the time you should establish some boundaries (if you so choose), and save yourself from further head/heart aches with him.
Nothing like that. It is all good except I am always questioning IF he will ever get tired of it all and will continue to be nice just to keep me happy. He took breaks before. Wheren't any lately so I am getting confused...waiting for another break and it is not happening. LOL

So just wondering.

About wanting to be with me...he does but we aren't 25 anymore. Burning bridges is not an option as of yet. It takes time at our age. Even you youngsters are dating for years and living together and then break up! Without baggage.

Having a heavy load on your hands makes it harder a lot. So we need to overcome a lot of things and all of them are living breathing and loving...so time will tell.

Thanks
Only you know what's best for YOU! I was just saying if what you're doing now isn't working then maybe it's time to change things up.. Whatever it may be. The current situation for both of you may just be putting more stress on your relationship than whats needed. If you're dead set on moving forward with him then all you can do is enjoy each other's time in the now and hope for the best.

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You are a breath of fresh air!

I am always projecting things unless it is going to happen what do I do then?

I am asking questions because I hate to be caught with my guards down.

And feel stupid...

I said once I rather to be hurt than fooled. And I mean it. I can survive 'enough'

but I will be darn destroyed by 'I love you' for pitiful reason.

Though I know he is noble enough to not to stir me in a wrong direction - I am

killing time by researching on human behavior here knowing that is free of charge

and can be beneficiary for me.

Thanks again for your
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Posted by oyes0435
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by oyes0435
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by oyes0435
In the context of " You're awesome. I love you. I want to have sex with you. Will you marry me?"

What then
I really don't get why it is different with Scorpios than with any other sign. I would never say any of that without sincere intentions, but I'm sure there are a couple extremely manipulative players or sociopath Scorps out there that would...like any sign, group of men, etc....
Could've read any other sign the way it was said. Not this one.

Was like in the vibe of 'that's everything you want to hear, right?" ..waiting to see what I'd do.

Or maybe I just took it that way..


Would need further context if its a serious question. You should know though.

If its at a club, a bar, a pick-up spot? Then you know....

If this is a guy you've been interacting with and he's been watching you like a hawk and you get wet from the way he stares at you? Could be real...lol
What if it was both?


with or w/o alcohol involved? I can't remember half the shyt I say when I'm drunk, but I do know that I turn into a whore...

if you're interested, give him your number, meet up again and feel it out....

"Will you marry me?" would always sound like a pickup line to me, if I were a woman...in any context where we haven't know each other for a loooong time...

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He doesn't drink...anymore! ROFLMAO
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Posted by oyes0435
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by oyes0435
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by oyes0435
Posted by EnochtheWise
Posted by oyes0435
In the context of " You're awesome. I love you. I want to have sex with you. Will you marry me?"

What then
I really don't get why it is different with Scorpios than with any other sign. I would never say any of that without sincere intentions, but I'm sure there are a couple extremely manipulative players or sociopath Scorps out there that would...like any sign, group of men, etc....
Could've read any other sign the way it was said. Not this one.

Was like in the vibe of 'that's everything you want to hear, right?" ..waiting to see what I'd do.

Or maybe I just took it that way..


Would need further context if its a serious question. You should know though.

If its at a club, a bar, a pick-up spot? Then you know....

If this is a guy you've been interacting with and he's been watching you like a hawk and you get wet from the way he stares at you? Could be real...lol
What if it was both?


with or w/o alcohol involved? I can't remember half the shyt I say when I'm drunk, but I do know that I turn into a whore...

if you're interested, give him your number, meet up again and feel it out....

"Will you marry me?" would always sound like a pickup line to me, if I were a woman...in any context where we haven't know each other for a loooong time...


Bah. too much history needed. Knew him a year at that point. He owned the bar. Nevermind it


I concur...

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Keep concurring until something will occurring

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I wouldn't say anything I don't mean good or bad.
So you will never say I love you if you didn't love?

That's what I had heard and hoping that is how it is...

I know you guys are strange and beautiful creatures...
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It might take awhile for me to say something like that but for sure when I say it you'll feel it's authenticity.
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I thought I had posted but...what I was asking is if Scorpio lost an interest will he still be as nice and caring just not to hurt feelings of the once loved partner or will he try to end it?
Why can't you do both?
You've got to be helloova man to not to love a woman and still tell her you do!


Huh?

It can be ended and you still be nice and care for them.
I meant continue relationships like if you still feel the same?
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Happens all the time. Way of the world. Nature of dating, I suppose. I see it all of the time. Some men say it and it means nothing. But I believe if you FEEL they mean it, they do. And from my experiences with Scorpio, somehow you just KNOW how they mean it, whether platonic or romantic and SOMEHOW, they have some sort of feeling radar that lets them know how you take it. The real question here is, will it ever be said again?



In my particular case, I think I took it the wrong way and (due to selfishness) I wanted it to mean more. Now, when he says it, it is not directed towards me, but the group... I see that as I took it the wrong way and by not saying it back, he realized what I thought. Now he doesn't want to give any further romantic thoughts to my mind.

Scorps seem to know the game of chess as it pertains to romantic love better than most. He freaked me out. That is not something you say to a married woman. Platonic or not.