Ya playing rat bastards

This topic was created in the Relationships forum by Scrumptious on Thursday, October 13, 2016 and has 38 replies.

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Theres a pisces chick i've been pursuing and she told me her last relationship she was played by of all signs, a scorpio. now she has trauma from it and is reluctant to enter into another relationship. ya playing bastards made it an up hill battle for me.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
Slow and steady wins the race. Stay the course.

for reals huh I am dating this Pisces and I feel like she has a whole story to tell me before she decides to give us a shot or not, or more like, she is waiting to see if I can handle her story. does this ring true for Pisces?

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Posted by pakmai
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Slow and steady wins the race. Stay the course.

for reals huh I am dating this Pisces and I feel like she has a whole story to tell me before she decides to give us a shot or not, or more like, she is waiting to see if I can handle her story. does this ring true for Pisces?

Reluctance, believe or not, is a sign that we like you. A lot. Pisces get hurt a lot in love lol. I ignore the guys I'm head over hills for and they real deal think I could care less for them.. It's immature but I'm working on it. My BFF who is a Pisces guy is just as reluctant as I am.

The best you can do is sincerely ask her what happened.. Why is her guard so far up.

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she has said this so many times i lost count. yea we are barely a week in, but I have never dated a Pisces so this is new to me. Yes I see her reluctance.

how would someone know that a Pisces doesnt like you?

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Posted by umisaid
Posted by LadyNeptune
Slow and steady wins the race. Stay the course.

for reals huh I am dating this Pisces and I feel like she has a whole story to tell me before she decides to give us a shot or not, or more like, she is waiting to see if I can handle her story. does this ring true for Pisces?

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The story is a metaphor for her true self.

She dating you, that's your shot.

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Posted by LadyNeptune
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Slow and steady wins the race. Stay the course.

for reals huh I am dating this Pisces and I feel like she has a whole story to tell me before she decides to give us a shot or not, or more like, she is waiting to see if I can handle her story. does this ring true for Pisces?

The story is a metaphor for her true self.

She dating you, that's your shot.

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so she sees how much effort i am putting into this? i get lazy at times

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Posted by pakmai
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Slow and steady wins the race. Stay the course.

for reals huh I am dating this Pisces and I feel like she has a whole story to tell me before she decides to give us a shot or not, or more like, she is waiting to see if I can handle her story. does this ring true for Pisces?

Reluctance, believe or not, is a sign that we like you. A lot. Pisces get hurt a lot in love lol. I ignore the guys I'm head over hills for and they real deal think I could care less for them.. It's immature but I'm working on it. My BFF who is a Pisces guy is just as reluctant as I am.

The best you can do is sincerely ask her what happened.. Why is her guard so far up.

she has said this so many times i lost count. yea we are barely a week in, but I have never dated a Pisces so this is new to me. Yes I see her reluctance.

how would someone know that a Pisces doesnt like you?

I don't think she'd give you the time of day at all. Pisces don't stick around for long so if you have her attention, you're good. I would think if she wasn't interested, she would tell you she wasn't into dating at all at the moment.

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ah nice, thank you. im continually trying to swoon her the same way she naturally swoons me

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Posted by umisaid
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Slow and steady wins the race. Stay the course.

for reals huh I am dating this Pisces and I feel like she has a whole story to tell me before she decides to give us a shot or not, or more like, she is waiting to see if I can handle her story. does this ring true for Pisces?

The story is a metaphor for her true self.

She dating you, that's your shot.

so she sees how much effort i am putting into this? i get lazy at times

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Show up. Be present. Be guinuine.

If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

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So are you a Gemini?

Pisces are just crazy and indecisive and also deceitful. Can't trust'em as far as you can throw'em

I would like to hear that too

What do you mean?

sorry i should have clarified, what do you mean by deceitful, do you have an example?

Whenever I'm talking about pisces im always referring to my boss.

He's deceitful. He will say things to get others to trip up. He's suspicious of others n their motives and uses guilt as manipulation. I cant giv a concrete example. Thts how subtle his deceit is. Hes crazy tho and thinks everyone is out to get him.

Sounds more like Scorp placements though...lol. I work with a lot of fish and they are awesome - super reliable, helpful, and highly intelligent problem solvers...

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I agree with every word. Sounds like Moon and/or Mercury detriment/problems.... specifically... perhaps even poorly aspected.

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Posted by umisaid
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Slow and steady wins the race. Stay the course.

for reals huh I am dating this Pisces and I feel like she has a whole story to tell me before she decides to give us a shot or not, or more like, she is waiting to see if I can handle her story. does this ring true for Pisces?

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yes, I have noticed that I am a bit like that with my pisces in mars - I think too much but have trouble getting it out concisely and getting the rest of me tuned in - my son used to tell me it's like I'm trying to push a brick through a straw sometimes.

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Posted by Scrumptious
Theres a pisces chick i've been pursuing and she told me her last relationship she was played by of all signs, a scorpio. now she has trauma from it and is reluctant to enter into another relationship. ya playing bastards made it an up hill battle for me.

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ask her to chill so you can show her that you are not going to play her - but of course you have to find out what she is all about too - cause there are always two sides to a story ...

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Posted by Scrumptious
Theres a pisces chick i've been pursuing and she told me her last relationship she was played by of all signs, a scorpio. now she has trauma from it and is reluctant to enter into another relationship. ya playing bastards made it an up hill battle for me.

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ask her to chill so you can show her that you are not going to play her - but of course you have to find out what she is all about too - cause there are always two sides to a story ...

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I asked her out at one point and she got defensive

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Posted by Scrumptious
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Theres a pisces chick i've been pursuing and she told me her last relationship she was played by of all signs, a scorpio. now she has trauma from it and is reluctant to enter into another relationship. ya playing bastards made it an up hill battle for me.

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ask her to chill so you can show her that you are not going to play her - but of course you have to find out what she is all about too - cause there are always two sides to a story ...

I asked her out at one point and she got defensive

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she sounds scared of perhaps her previous relationship friend and/or it's from self preservation - continue to talk to her and take it slow - let her tell you her story

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Posted by pakmai
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Slow and steady wins the race. Stay the course.

for reals huh I am dating this Pisces and I feel like she has a whole story to tell me before she decides to give us a shot or not, or more like, she is waiting to see if I can handle her story. does this ring true for Pisces?

Reluctance, believe or not, is a sign that we like you. A lot. Pisces get hurt a lot in love lol. I ignore the guys I'm head over hills for and they real deal think I could care less for them.. It's immature but I'm working on it. My BFF who is a Pisces guy is just as reluctant as I am.

The best you can do is sincerely ask her what happened.. Why is her guard so far up.

she has said this so many times i lost count. yea we are barely a week in, but I have never dated a Pisces so this is new to me. Yes I see her reluctance.

how would someone know that a Pisces doesnt like you?

I don't think she'd give you the time of day at all. Pisces don't stick around for long so if you have her attention, you're good. I would think if she wasn't interested, she would tell you she wasn't into dating at all at the moment.

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thank you for this i appreciate you taking time to reply it was very helpful

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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
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So are you a Gemini?

Pisces are just crazy and indecisive and also deceitful. Can't trust'em as far as you can throw'em

I would like to hear that too

What do you mean?

sorry i should have clarified, what do you mean by deceitful, do you have an example?

Whenever I'm talking about pisces im always referring to my boss.

He's deceitful. He will say things to get others to trip up. He's suspicious of others n their motives and uses guilt as manipulation. I cant giv a concrete example. Thts how subtle his deceit is. Hes crazy tho and thinks everyone is out to get him.

Like he will lie or bend the truth to a few ppl just to get them to feel guilty about something they said before. Make any sense?

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it is thank you! i will have to experience first hand to fully understand

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Posted by LadyNeptune
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Posted by umisaid
Posted by LadyNeptune
Slow and steady wins the race. Stay the course.

for reals huh I am dating this Pisces and I feel like she has a whole story to tell me before she decides to give us a shot or not, or more like, she is waiting to see if I can handle her story. does this ring true for Pisces?

The story is a metaphor for her true self.

She dating you, that's your shot.

so she sees how much effort i am putting into this? i get lazy at times

Show up. Be present. Be guinuine.

If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

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mm πŸ™‚ you are right, im floating on clouds

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Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
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Posted by umisaid
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
Posted by umisaid
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischarge
So are you a Gemini?

Pisces are just crazy and indecisive and also deceitful. Can't trust'em as far as you can throw'em

I would like to hear that too

What do you mean?

sorry i should have clarified, what do you mean by deceitful, do you have an example?

Whenever I'm talking about pisces im always referring to my boss.

He's deceitful. He will say things to get others to trip up. He's suspicious of others n their motives and uses guilt as manipulation. I cant giv a concrete example. Thts how subtle his deceit is. Hes crazy tho and thinks everyone is out to get him.

Like he will lie or bend the truth to a few ppl just to get them to feel guilty about something they said before. Make any sense?

it is thank you! i will have to experience first hand to fully understand

You dont want to experience a boss like tht. Trust me

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i hope i never do! i hope you situation works out for the best