Does Scorpio linger once finished in a relationship?

I have read many times that once Scorpio is finished in a relationship they do not keep in contact.

However, I am in contact with my ex Scorpio, though not often, and not usually unless I initiate contact, though he does sometimes text or email me, with random stuff.

Is this due to him not wanting to hurt me by completely ignoring me?

We had a good relationship, but he is so afraid of commitment. He did tell me he loved and trusted me. His ex was still around though and that did not fare well for me. She still has a key to his home, and he states it is due to the kids, but they are both in their 20's now and still living at home. That situation with him allowing her access to the home drives me bat shit crazy!!! She had thanksgiving dinner at his home yesterday, even though she is living with a man in a relationship.

He does date other woman, but states it is because there is no commitment.

He told me that I was the best of all the women he dated.

Yeah, well if that is true then why aren't we together?

I remind him that what he is doing is not fair to those women, but at the end of the day, they are not my concern. They will learn soon enough, and be as hurt as I am.

Your thoughts on him staying in contact please - thanks.

@notsosure, everything you said, is pretty much spot on.

I'm in a similar situation... I'm not the one reaching out to him. He is at least every other week. Silly, stringing along, game.

I've responded once. Point blank, "What do you want?"

It's all games.

Love the Cranberries... and the song. 😉

thanks for your comments

^LOL^

Posted by MagicMona
See, this is why Lot's wife got turned into a damn pillar of salt. cos she looked back when her ass knew she wasn't supposed to. what does that tell you? yall keep fucking around....salt for all yall asses.

LOL @ salty asses

I met all kinds. I had one's that stayed away because they couldn't control our situation. I had ones who stayed near because they need to know what I was doing. It's all about maturity level and where there head at. But the best thin to do in your situation is stay away.

Thanks butterfly30. He's not the maturest Scorp, but tells me he cares about me....I realize that is not the same as loving someone. He did tell me he loved me and trusted me. I'm not sure how it went wrong. We had a good thing, when he was "good". When he pulled away, it was horrible 😢 That was the only times we had arguments.