How to keep calm and be patient with a scorpio?

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His4lyfe10
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Hello everyone! I've been here before but it's been awhile. I have been "officially" with my scorpio for 7 months, we've been dating a little over 2 years now 🙂. He's been hurt from a previous relationship in which he had children so he's very cautious I would say, I love & admire this man everything he does is amazing to me! My only problem is being patient & calm, because my darn anxiety runs amuck, when we met we both were living with our parents which made this a little hard but recently I got my own place which if it werent for my amazing man (co-signing), My children and I would be homeless, the thing is I wanted him to move in but he says he wants to get his own place because he hasn't had a chance to do so yet, I mean I trust him, it's his stupid best friend I don't trust who's always throwing other women in his face (he's a scorpio as well) he's previously tried to get my scorpio to go to a hotel with him and some girls, My question, how can I keep calm and not worry so much about this ideal of him getting his own place? Because in my mind I'm thinking, what's the point your name is on the lease over here, you have stuff over here, your here alot! why not move in? but then again I want him to see what it's like to be on his own, but my patience is like how long will this be for—
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Hi, why do you have problems being calm..does he give you a reason to have anxiety? If he is as amazing as you say he is you just have to trust him, especially since he's been hurt. My Scorp ex bf said the same thing to me about wanting to live on his own first. It's not that he wants to be free and be some party animal he just probably wants his own space. If and when he is ready to move in with you trust me you will know it. He sounds like a good guy so treat him like one because us Scorpios don't like to be compared to everyone else! Just be patient and give him some time to have his own place first, it will help a lot. Hope I helped.
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His4lyfe10
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Thank for the reply ashley yes it did help at times I overthink things and it makes my anxiety kick in I've too be hurt in the past, My ex whom I had a daughter with would always break up with me to mess with other girls so I have the "fear" he's (scorpio) done some things that have made me worry but never anything physical and it was before he said he loved me though he's not quite "In Love" I can tell he's coming around getting closer a little more mushy, like today right before he walked into work he txt me just to say "I Love You" he is a good man, you just never know someones will power when they have things dangled in their face, which is why I HATE his best friend!
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It's pretty normal for unmarried people to live separately. Granted, my Scorpio moved in with me before we married, but that's because we were engaged and bought a house together.
Be glad he has his own space to learn domestic responsibility. Straight from Mom's house to your house could have made you the new mom. As far as trust: trust is an issue in any situation. If he's the kind of guy to cheat, he'll make it happen even if he's under your roof.
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You have to realize that it is impossible to control any free entity besides yourself. Until you let go you will never stop feeling anxious and thoughtful about what he's doing- or how long it's going to last. I can understand your frustration about his best friend throwing other women at him, but if your Scorpio has been previously hurt and is already cautious to move too fast with your already 7 month relationship he most likely will not take just any random girl thrown at him. Your only opinion is to accept it and have faith in him if you want to be with him- if it is meant to be eventually he will want to move in with you and things will grow and prosper.
Remember this is only for the time being, all things pass. Someday you may look back at this and wonder why you were so anxious in the first place. 🙂
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I'm a Scorpio female and I can tell you I loveeeee my space and independence. Doesn't mean I care about someone less its lust a comfort thing. I like to get lost in my thoughts or to get away from life's chaos sometimes.

He just needs his space. If your insecure from being cheated on in the past share your feelings. Scorpions are sympathetic

Worst you could do is smother him. We hate when people are in our personal space or bombards us with questions. It's annoying