
DUNCE
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Posted by bluemoon9043834
You said so yourself a couple pages ago...
"silent war".

Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCEPosted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCEPosted by bluemoon9043834
You are going to want to control her.. dominate her. You're the manipulative one.
*Shines the mirror back at you*
Na' I learned you can't dominate all women from Aries woman,they wont have it.haha.Aries woman,tend to be more open but they wont allow dominating,everything is equal,it's nice & the intensity is there . .but it lacks,the warmth ..a heavy scorp placement can give,from what I found.
How many Aries women have you been with? Scorpio women?
Long term?
Not many. . .I don't usually attract Aries,like that.Almost every other woman,ive dated has either a Scorpio or cancer moon,but thats another story.I'm only "Acquaintances" with Scorpio suns.I rarely ..if ever..attract women without heavy water in there chart,it's kinda strange.
That's interesting because you don't have much water in your chart.click to expand

Posted by 1urbanicblue
i admit, i was feeling kind of sorry for him. he put himself into this kind of 'underdog' position. reminds me of my brother who has an aries moon. (although he would never go online and rant about his girlfriend/or SO to leave himself vulnerable)

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DUNCEPosted by everevolvingepithet
Oh those Aquas, ever the lower octave of Libra !
Be careful Libra,I can hurt your feelings ya know.My Aries moon will upset you,sending you into an off balanced frenzy of uncontrolled unnecessary emotions.You best,sit back.
This thread is for the REAL threats of humanity,the no nonsense no s*&^34.. a@@# backwards nature of the Scorpio, of coarse.
Right, Aries moon ! oh noes ! oh lol !
What coarse are you talking about ? do you like the friction ? mm yummeh !click to expand

Posted by exoskeleton
dunce, my opinion of you is the very thing that could help your relationships with scorps, if only you chose to embrace it.
did you ever think that you're the one being suspicious and stubborn? that these scorps feel the exact same way about you as you do them?
and if you can't or won't try to connect with a scorp on a deeply emotional level, and you constantly feel the need to withdraw, then don't be surprised that they can't trust what you say. it's not playing games, it's not a need to be in control.
you're an aqua AND you lack water in your chart. so while you're all intrigued by scorps and shit, eventually you'll come to hate them completely because there's just no understanding there.

Posted by Stinger Baby
not to be rude, but all this sounds like to me is you are subliminally being insulting to scorp. so i guess in your eyes scorp is the irrational one, while you are the perfect one right? sounds like you want to change scorp's behavior cos you really dont understand it in the first place. this is why i dont bother with aquas - im sitting there chillin in my own world, and here they come with their psuedo-psycho babble bullshit. trying to analyze what's not there. sounds like if she doesnt give you your way or feel how you feel, then she's being irrational. this convo reminds me of a snake eating itself...where the hell does it end?

Posted by 1urbanicbluePosted by ellessque
^^^^^^^^ not true.
he's extremely attracted to her because she's an oddity, just look at her chart. he can't control her, so it's driving him nuts. he gets her to come to "his side", it will all be for waste anyways, because his aqua venus and gem mars will smack down the "friend card" and she will destroy him if she actually makes herself vulnerable to him.
blue is right. this is the making of a horrific accident.
with all due respect, if he's going to go after a water sign...he needs to find one who has a good balance of fire, air AND water so they can decipher his airy bullshit and get down into this soul like we love to do.
i agree with you on the parts where he needs balance. he definitely could use it. but from his posts,(even his past posts) to be honest, i dont think ANY girl of any sign wants him with his rantings/raving and confused mind.
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Posted by ellessque
^^^^^^^^ not true.
he's extremely attracted to her because she's an oddity, just look at her chart. he can't control her, so it's driving him nuts. he gets her to come to "his side", it will all be for waste anyways, because his aqua venus and gem mars will smack down the "friend card" and she will destroy him if she actually makes herself vulnerable to him.
blue is right. this is the making of a horrific accident.
with all due respect, if he's going to go after a water sign...he needs to find one who has a good balance of fire, air AND water so they can decipher his airy bullshit and get down into this soul like we love to do.

Posted by Stinger Baby
i guess im snapping off because with all aquas i have met, i go thru this too. its like they cant relax and flow with the moment. my bad dunce.

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by ellessque
no wonder you are having problems.
why don't you just enjoy the damn ride instead of trying to contemplate what's next or figuring out what her next "move" is. that is so unnatural for a relationship....but this is so out of your "normal" it's driving you nuts, eh? you aren't natural in a relationship so you will drive her nuts because you are uncomfortable. typical aqua.
seems like YOU have control issues, you have to know every thing she's going to do before she does it or thinks about doing it.
chill the fuck out.
...and blue is right, we DESPISE games and those will get you left.
Control issues, God complex and the realisation they aren't from the future and/or one step ahead of anything ever is the most common downfall of the 3rd octave of air signs,
I find it cute and endearing when it's flash in the pan like all Aries Moons, makes me want to fuss over them sometimes, kinda like "Awwwww, I remember being a teenager !! " 🙂click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DUNCEPosted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCE
Hold on*
I'm LMAO right now,I am finding it so funny that the ONE Aries in here "The leaders of the Zodiac" is 1+ everyone in here,but has yet to have give an opinion of her own.
*Follower*
But I guess,it's just easier being on the safe side huh?
If you REALLY didn't know,what I was talking about. . .if you really thought I was just pure entertainment.Why were you the MAIN one posting?
Clearly,you don't believe what you are typing.I'm could be wrong,but then again I don't think so,so I am just going to assume i'm right.
Exoskeleton made an excellent point...
"you're a delusional, arrogant piece of shit constantly trying to prove your worth and "youthful power" on here. truly pitiful."
Exoskeleton rides me,she gets a high off of me giving her attention.That's our history.She has no "point" only empty opinions.You two are very alike,you two probably are the same person logged into two different accounts for all I know.What ever the case,it doesn't matter in this thread,you aren't being respected.
I was about to suggest you never trying to be a writer, lol.click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DUNCEPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DUNCEPosted by everevolvingepithet
Oh those Aquas, ever the lower octave of Libra !
Be careful Libra,I can hurt your feelings ya know.My Aries moon will upset you,sending you into an off balanced frenzy of uncontrolled unnecessary emotions.You best,sit back.
This thread is for the REAL threats of humanity,the no nonsense no s*&^34.. a@@# backwards nature of the Scorpio, of coarse.
Right, Aries moon ! oh noes ! oh lol !
What coarse are you talking about ? do you like the friction ? mm yummeh !
I only speak standard English,sorry.
Badly, for that matter 😉click to expand



Posted by everevolvingepithet
Would it still read like that if this is the case though ?


Posted by miichii
i feel bad for ur girlfriend cause you are mean and look at scorpios like we are trying to always pull a power play. I don't do that to the people I love. If they love me there is no need or feeling in me that makes me want to control that person. It's more like I am interested in controlling myself and keeping my own emotions controlled. hehe. I don't have the energy to try to control the guy I like and I would feel guilty if I was trying to manipulate him because it feels bad to do that to someone. And you should not try to 'win' some 'secret battle' you think you are having with her. She will think you are crazy and it will just drive her away. You cannot force your relationships. things will happen naturally. Just be happy you have her and that she is trying to trust you. Just talk to her and reassure her you like her. That's not a Scorpio thing. That is a girl thing. We all need that reassurance sometimes. But yah. you seem really mean.

Posted by ReasonPosted by DUNCE
I got 20 different personalities,depends on who's speaking at the time.ha
That is an unbeatable argument, a sure sign of perfect sanity, you should have started with it on page 1click to expand

Posted by ellessque
i hope these guys realize that they are only getting what they are giving.
if we are confused about you and where you stand, we will mirror the hell out of you until someone says "uncle".
so, with that said, look at your behaviour and actions and i bet you are getting the EXACT same in return.

Posted by SrgntLeebz
Dunce ima libra with an Aries moon. Got a scorpio girl I'm talkin to now, and damn is she confusing. 1 minute I feel like she totally doesn't give a shit about me, the next it's like I'm the only one she could ever want. I had no idea how to play along with her drama so I just try and be supportive and listen to what she's saying without giving to much input.

Posted by ellessque
i hope these guys realize that they are only getting what they are giving.
if we are confused about you and where you stand, we will mirror the hell out of you until someone says "uncle".
so, with that said, look at your behaviour and actions and i bet you are getting the EXACT same in return.

Posted by ellessquePosted by DUNCEPosted by ellessque
i hope these guys realize that they are only getting what they are giving.
if we are confused about you and where you stand, we will mirror the hell out of you until someone says "uncle".
so, with that said, look at your behaviour and actions and i bet you are getting the EXACT same in return.
This is where the problem lies for me,because Scorps don't understand Aqua's IMO.So when you guys attempt to mirror,it pretty obvious & you can see why this would be confusing to an Aqua.It's like a cat,trying to mirror a dog.When an Aqua catches on to you doing this,we go into detached mode & you go into dark mode.It stops us both from learning anything about each other.Seems that Scorpio's need to be the FIRST to call "uncle" if anything.
you do realize with what i just said to you, that YOU have control of this situation, right?
why doesn't anybody GET that? silly people. smh
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Posted by aliennation
Alright, Scorps are obviously too much for you to handle. Why don't you find a sweet, rosy-cheeked Libra instead.

Posted by ellessquePosted by DUNCE
But you forget,in this scenario I the Aqua male wasn't the confused one,I didn't start the mirroring.
she communicates her REAL thoughts and feelings all day long, you just aren't paying attention. we will never sit in front of you and pour out our deepest darkest feelings with a box of tissues...that's reserved when we are alone with ourselves.
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Posted by bluemoon9043834
If you have it all figured out, why are you coming here talking about it and asking about it?
Maybe it is your unwillingness to talk?
Let me ask you a question...
What is it that you have to offer this girl?

Posted by ellessque
Dunce,
I sat here and, against my better judgement, was completely "real" with you and you STILL cannot accept the reality of THAT.
Do you SEE the disconnect?
You can write me off as a stranger feeding you bullshit off the internet or you can try to understand the point of view that she may be coming from.
Connecting with anyone at any level involves you, yourself, stepping out of your comfort zone and releasing just as much vulnerability
You both have to meet half way, that means you too.
...and you are also the man, and she is fully expecting it from you first, because that is YOUR role and so she can feel safe. we don't pick self confident, self righteous, bullyish, condescending pricks for any other reason than to see your vulnerability so we, ourselves, can feel safe and be ourselves (which is someone very similar to yourself).
so, do what ever your plan "B" is and then let us know if "L" "M" "N" "O" and "P" work out for you.

Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCEPosted by bluemoon9043834
If you have it all figured out, why are you coming here talking about it and asking about it?
Maybe it is your unwillingness to talk?
Let me ask you a question...
What is it that you have to offer this girl?
Haha.Only someone who dates me,knows this.I'd fall off the edge of the earth,for the woman that steals my heart.But to answer your question,nothing but her happiness is what I am after and what I have to offer.If I don't understand her,then that kind of makes it difficult.I like to get to the grit of a woman,because I know they appreciate that more than anything,enabling the relationship to go farther & deeper than your casual.But she's also gotta understand me,aswell.Alot of things people say on here,you will never hear anyone say out in real life.So it's nice to get these more raw perspectives,from similar types.No undercover motive here if that's what you're still thinking.I have to say,from the cooperation of some I am REALLY thankful for.REALLY helpful & I thank you.🙂You know who you are.
Lame. It is so lame.click to expand

Posted by ellessque
you don't even have to tell her about your past, she already knows and she doesn't care. we aren't wired that way.
"Before you can even THINK about,doing something against their will they will hold it against you." I addressed that in the post after, because we know this.
for the love of chocolate, you need to do something. you're lucky she don't have a fire moon because she won't wait as long and you could find her on the aqua board conversing with tiki...and then it's ALL over 😄

Posted by ellessque
goodnight, dunce. i have work in the morning and you're a fricken aqua. if you were a cap, i'd stay up 😛

Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCE
I'm sorry I couldn't give you a satisfactory answer.lol
I just don't take you seriously...click to expand

Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCEPosted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCE
I'm sorry I couldn't give you a satisfactory answer.lol
I just don't take you seriously...
So.
Looking back at all my mistakes and failures, you know what got in my way? My ego.click to expand

Posted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCEPosted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCEPosted by bluemoon9043834Posted by DUNCE
I'm sorry I couldn't give you a satisfactory answer.lol
I just don't take you seriously...
So.
Looking back at all my mistakes and failures, you know what got in my way? My ego.
Women shouldn't have big ego's,this is a mans world afterall.
That's just telling it like it is.
I'm bored. night.click to expand

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Is it a hard life being an emo from the future, dunce ?
I think this could be where your problems lie, being all knowing and misunderstood is surely the cause of this depressing outlook.

Posted by aliennationPosted by DUNCE
Women shouldn't have big ego's,this is a mans world afterall.
That's just telling it like it is.
Try spelling it like it is.click to expand

Posted by aliennationPosted by DUNCEPosted by aliennationPosted by DUNCE
Women shouldn't have big ego's,this is a mans world afterall.
That's just telling it like it is.
Try spelling it like it is.
Try only responding,when I quote you.
Try avoiding public forums.click to expand

Posted by Stinger Baby
.....this is a man's world? I never heard of father nature.... we ladies will gladly give you guys ALL the jobs. you can have the babies, hold down careers, pay the bills, raise the kids, teach, cook, clean, and bleed monthly too while still keeping yourself looking good for us. this is NOT a man's world. man wouldn't be born without woman... unless he has a womb he's not telling anyone about. we literally control population, meaning, NO man has right to tell us when, where, and how to make a baby. we give birth to the world and we decide when, where, how, and even if we want to keep the kid or not; therefore the world is ours.

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by DUNCEPosted by everevolvingepithet
Is it a hard life being an emo from the future, dunce ?
I think this could be where your problems lie, being all knowing and misunderstood is surely the cause of this depressing outlook.
Not really,being from the future and all I pretty much know everything will work itself out.And i'm not completely misunderstood,there are others like me (other Aqua's) so I don't feel so alone,ya know?
I think the main issue comes in when dealing with the SAME problems over & over,you know..like that ONE annoyance that keeps coming back,that itch you can't scratch.. that fly,that hasn't given up. Miserable,little mutants those pest can be. .but it's just apart life,I guess,ya know?
You learn to rise,above those things,when it's all said and done.
It's god that you've finally outlined the issues you have with yourself, bravo ! 🙂click to expand


Posted by Stinger Baby
lmao. smack some sense into us? is that what you grew up to? lmao. i would love to see you try to 'smack' a scorpio woman. i wonder how long it would take for your funeral arrangements to be made. you know nothing about us at all. you so crazy. lol



Posted by Stinger Baby
lmao, i never took offense, cos i really dont give a damn, lol. thats me having my own opinion, like you have yours. how can you say you can see both sides, but then be so rude for me having my own opinion. you call me going against what you say being 'hard-headed'. contradicting much?
men are not the heads. they are often too confused as to which head to think from in the first place lol. it takes both men and women. sure the man can be king of his castle and all of that, just as long as he doesnt come around trying to rule mine.
but anyway, your point is your point and mine is mine. so what.





Posted by DUNCE
Lol.I'm not all for mushy talk so I'll keep short and sweet.
SO.
After taking in what was said,mixing it into what I already knew I was able to figure out my next moves.Things are going alot better,and misunderstandings isn't so much of a big issue anymore.I think I am understood alot better,because of what I now know.So I feel more relaxed but nothing has changed,I still live in the future.😉I don't think I will ever change a Scorps mind,on how to see things,I can be a little impatient with that,but I understand you guy's need to figure things out yourself.On a more personal level,you are right about flaws @ellessque,Scorps love to pick fun.I do it to,so it works.lol🙂 We are big kids,when fight AND that's where I end the update,thanks again for you guy's help.🙂 I know if things don't work out, atleast I now know how to have a better relationship in dealing with Scorps in the future,the answers were very cut throat.
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This isn't what this thread is about,but I am already aware now more than ever..that this is just the way Scorps are & hearing the same thing from two completely different people who don't even know each other,has convinced me.(insider)I still don't understand,the thought process behind it & I wonder if a scorp,could explain it herself.lol.It's really bizarre and kinda turns me on.