I can’t decode a Scorpio Man.

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I told my Scorpio man that

“I feel like you’re not that into me. What if I’m feeling is right for you, I’m ok with that. At least we can still be real friends.”

He replies,…

“It’s not like that. I’m into you. I like you”

But he rarely texts me in a day. He even left me on reading when I’m sending the message through the messenger. I’m the person who doesn’t take offense to someone’s rejection.

I don’t really know how should I act toward him.
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A while back my friend and i were at a gig and we met a couple of guys who invited us to the table ... they were chatting us up and my friend was throwing herself at them....cringe😬. So then i says “you guys are married”. They looked stunned and the friend looked gobsmacked. So they asked how i knew lol and i says “pretty obvious”. I tell my friend i was heading away for a while and she stayed with them at the table. Afterwards in the nightclub, one kept trying to dance with me and throwing compliments around and i kept moving away and saying “married” 😃

My friend wasn’t worried they had wife and kids at home

She’s a Gemini

Me a Scorpio

She also had an affair with a married man. She has two daughters so God knows what they thought about it, she didn’t seem to care...

Gemini and Scorpio - no go

Totally different animals....

Mercury in the head

Pluto in the feelings
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Gemini+Scorpio = 🤯

A disaster waiting to happen 💣

Quincunx = 🤔

So pretty much bad news? I am yet to meet a healthy and happy Scorpio/Gem couple.

Generally speaking yes i think so, Gem
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I am staying on that fire 🔥 axis. Leo <——>Aries.

The only fire sign I am not into is Sagittarius.

Cancer men are cool too.
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Gemini+Scorpio = 🤯

A disaster waiting to happen 💣

Quincunx = 🤔

So pretty much bad news? I am yet to meet a healthy and happy Scorpio/Gem couple.

Generally speaking yes i think so, Gem

I am staying on that fire 🔥 axis. Leo <——>Aries.

The only fire sign I am not into is Sagittarius.

Cancer men are cool too.
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Are you Leo dominant?
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In a darkness of the Scopio mind when they get deep into their thoughts and practicing ‘joy in suffering’ - Gemini are the only people who can distract them from themselves and give them relieve to exhausted minds. Scorpios cherish time with Gemini BUT don’t push it. Let him pick that time himself.

Learn pleasure in suffering. You’ll need it. ❤️


I just want him to be blunt and honest in this situation. I am Gemini, Moon-Aries, Ascending & Venus-Leo person. I never cheat on all of my past partners. As soon as I noticed that I’m getting bored of them, I take accountability and initiate the break-up. I feel like I am the most unfortunate kind of gemini. I always have pure intentions for people around me. But I never get one in Return.
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Gemini+Scorpio = 🤯

A disaster waiting to happen 💣

Quincunx = 🤔

So pretty much bad news? I am yet to meet a healthy and happy Scorpio/Gem couple.

Generally speaking yes i think so, Gem

I am staying on that fire 🔥 axis. Leo <——>Aries.

The only fire sign I am not into is Sagittarius.

Cancer men are cool too.

Are you Leo dominant?
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Gemini + Leo dominant. Actually, how would I know for sure? 🤔

I have rising, sun and mercury Gem in 1st house.
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Gemini+Scorpio = 🤯

A disaster waiting to happen 💣

Quincunx = 🤔

So pretty much bad news? I am yet to meet a healthy and happy Scorpio/Gem couple.

Generally speaking yes i think so, Gem

I am staying on that fire 🔥 axis. Leo <——>Aries.

The only fire sign I am not into is Sagittarius.

Cancer men are cool too.

Are you Leo dominant?

Gemini + Leo dominant. Actually, how would I know for sure? 🤔

I have rising, sun and mercury Gem in 1st house.
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Pullen at astro.com

I can take a look if you’re happy to give me date, time and place

Its good because it gives dom planets, houses etc
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Yeah, I could never date Scorp guys, even with my chart being Scorp dominant. They either too aloof or way too much, there is no in between. Lol

I think its one of the worst pairings there is🥴

Oh really? I never dated a Scorp, but before I met the Leo I am with now, I had 2 different Scorp guys chasing me (didn't meet either of them). One was way over the top, very pushy and made me feel really uncomfortable during our discussions. The other was kind of aloof so it didn't hold my interest. They just weren't my type at all, which is odd considering all the Scorp in my chart.
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They're an acquired taste 🥴
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Yeah, I could never date Scorp guys, even with my chart being Scorp dominant. They either too aloof or way too much, there is no in between. Lol

I think its one of the worst pairings there is🥴

Oh really? I never dated a Scorp, but before I met the Leo I am with now, I had 2 different Scorp guys chasing me (didn't meet either of them). One was way over the top, very pushy and made me feel really uncomfortable during our discussions. The other was kind of aloof so it didn't hold my interest. They just weren't my type at all, which is odd considering all the Scorp in my chart.
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Geminis belong with fire signs. Let’s settle it once and for all! Lol
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Gemini+Scorpio = 🤯

A disaster waiting to happen 💣

Quincunx = 🤔

So pretty much bad news? I am yet to meet a healthy and happy Scorpio/Gem couple.

Generally speaking yes i think so, Gem

I am staying on that fire 🔥 axis. Leo <——>Aries.

The only fire sign I am not into is Sagittarius.

Cancer men are cool too.

Are you Leo dominant?

Gemini + Leo dominant. Actually, how would I know for sure? 🤔

I have rising, sun and mercury Gem in 1st house.

Pullman at astro.com

I can take a look if you’re happy to give me date, time and place

Its good because it gives dom planets, houses etc
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Thanks star, I will definitely take a look and I’ll ask if I don’t understand 🤗
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Gemini+Scorpio = 🤯

A disaster waiting to happen 💣

Quincunx = 🤔

So pretty much bad news? I am yet to meet a healthy and happy Scorpio/Gem couple.

Generally speaking yes i think so, Gem

I am staying on that fire 🔥 axis. Leo <——>Aries.

The only fire sign I am not into is Sagittarius.

Cancer men are cool too.

Are you Leo dominant?

Gemini + Leo dominant. Actually, how would I know for sure? 🤔

I have rising, sun and mercury Gem in 1st house.

Pullman at astro.com

I can take a look if you’re happy to give me date, time and place

Its good because it gives dom planets, houses etc

Thanks star, I will definitely take a look and I’ll ask if I don’t understand 🤗
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No prob

Go into extended chart

Section ... Pullen

Chart type .... Simple Chart delineation (the last one)

Then scroll down to dominants
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Yeah, I could never date Scorp guys, even with my chart being Scorp dominant. They either too aloof or way too much, there is no in between. Lol

I think its one of the worst pairings there is🥴

Oh really? I never dated a Scorp, but before I met the Leo I am with now, I had 2 different Scorp guys chasing me (didn't meet either of them). One was way over the top, very pushy and made me feel really uncomfortable during our discussions. The other was kind of aloof so it didn't hold my interest. They just weren't my type at all, which is odd considering all the Scorp in my chart.

Geminis belong with fire signs. Let’s settle it once and for all! Lol

We belong with Leos. End of story! Haha

Leos have always been my most harmonious relationships with the opposite sex, even as friends. Sag & Aries are okay too, but Leo takes the cake. ALWAYS!
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If only I could find another Leo 😻

Summer is coming and they loveeee summer! Imma have to keep my eyes open for the best smile and hair in the area 😛
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Yeah, I could never date Scorp guys, even with my chart being Scorp dominant. They either too aloof or way too much, there is no in between. Lol

I think its one of the worst pairings there is🥴

Oh really? I never dated a Scorp, but before I met the Leo I am with now, I had 2 different Scorp guys chasing me (didn't meet either of them). One was way over the top, very pushy and made me feel really uncomfortable during our discussions. The other was kind of aloof so it didn't hold my interest. They just weren't my type at all, which is odd considering all the Scorp in my chart.

Geminis belong with fire signs. Let’s settle it once and for all! Lol

We belong with Leos. End of story! Haha

Leos have always been my most harmonious relationships with the opposite sex, even as friends. Sag & Aries are okay too, but Leo takes the cake. ALWAYS!

If only I could find another Leo 😻

Summer is coming and they loveeee summer! Imma have to keep my eyes open for the best smile and hair in the area 😛

Girl, if you find one with a Gemini Moon, hang on to him tight!! They are the BEST match for us. Trust me!
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Okay, a deal! 🤝

I am a Gemini sun with a Leo moon. So opposite of me. Oh the ego in that room though 🤣
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Yeah, I could never date Scorp guys, even with my chart being Scorp dominant. They either too aloof or way too much, there is no in between. Lol

I think its one of the worst pairings there is🥴

Oh really? I never dated a Scorp, but before I met the Leo I am with now, I had 2 different Scorp guys chasing me (didn't meet either of them). One was way over the top, very pushy and made me feel really uncomfortable during our discussions. The other was kind of aloof so it didn't hold my interest. They just weren't my type at all, which is odd considering all the Scorp in my chart.

Geminis belong with fire signs. Let’s settle it once and for all! Lol

We belong with Leos. End of story! Haha

Leos have always been my most harmonious relationships with the opposite sex, even as friends. Sag & Aries are okay too, but Leo takes the cake. ALWAYS!

If only I could find another Leo 😻

Summer is coming and they loveeee summer! Imma have to keep my eyes open for the best smile and hair in the area 😛

Girl, if you find one with a Gemini Moon, hang on to him tight!! They are the BEST match for us. Trust me!

Okay, a deal! 🤝

I am a Gemini sun with a Leo moon. So opposite of me. Oh the ego in that room though 🤣

Ouuuu, you got Leo Moon! That might clash with a Leo Sun, two big egos. Hahah.

They seem to like my watery bits a lot. I feed their ego and they LOVE that shit. Your Moon is gonna want an ego feed too so you may struggle with one another over that a bit. Do you have much water?
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Yeah, it was a constant ego battle in my previous Leo relationship. I guess I should tone it down 😕

Venus in Cancer. That’s enough feelings for a lifetime, lol.
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I told my Scorpio man that

“I feel like you’re not that into me. What if I’m feeling is right for you, I’m ok with that. At least we can still be real friends.”

He replies,…

“It’s not like that. I’m into you. I like you”

But he rarely texts me in a day. He even left me on reading when I’m sending the message through the messenger. I’m the person who doesn’t take offense to someone’s rejection.

I don’t really know how should I act toward him.


What is the nature of your relationship? Are you dating? In an exclusive relationship? Long distance? We need a bit more detail.
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It takes a lot of work for it to work, IMO

I don’t find Scorpios to like an overly clingy person, the way Geminis can be. And they don’t necessarily like the playful mental gymnastics that Geminis have fun with.

Scorpios take it like an insult and like you are trying to make a fool out of them.

It’s a shame too because Geminis are fairly harmless and just like being playful.

It’s like Scorpios don’t know what to do with your chaotic energy.
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In a darkness of the Scopio mind when they get deep into their thoughts and practicing ‘joy in suffering’ - Gemini are the only people who can distract them from themselves and give them relieve to exhausted minds. Scorpios cherish time with Gemini BUT don’t push it. Let him pick that time himself.

Learn pleasure in suffering. You’ll need it. ❤️

I just want him to be blunt and honest in this situation. I am Gemini, Moon-Aries, Ascending & Venus-Leo person. I never cheat on all of my past partners. As soon as I noticed that I’m getting bored of them, I take accountability and initiate the break-up. I feel like I am the most unfortunate kind of gemini. I always have pure intentions for people around me. But I never get one in Return.

Be honest with yourself though…. Would you like him as much if you did know where you stand with him? 🤔 or is it a possibility that the reason you’re intrigued by him is because of the fact that you don’t know how he stands with you. Gemini can be fickle and lose interest when bored. Scorps tend to fixate on what we want, once we decide that we want it. This is why scorps and gems typically don’t work.
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It takes a lot of work for it to work, IMO

I don’t find Scorpios to like an overly clingy person, the way Geminis can be. And they don’t necessarily like the playful mental gymnastics that Geminis have fun with.

Scorpios take it like an insult and like you are trying to make a fool out of them.

It’s a shame too because Geminis are fairly harmless and just like being playful.

It’s like Scorpios don’t know what to do with your chaotic energy.

This all the time. They take it so badly and then that makes the Gem worse and it gets very clashy and misunderstandings
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It's like Scorpios don't like what they can't understand, and they take it out on the other person until they can understand it or adapt to it. But that's a them problem and not you're problem 😆

It just takes patience, it may or may not get better with time.

Could just be a fixed sign thing. Scorpios are just ready to sting anytime they feel backed into a corner or like something funny is going on.

Geminis live in the "something funny going on", mischievous world. Cause what fun is life without mischief!
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We are getting back in touch. He goes silent for almost two weeks. Then he sent me a message, three days ago. I try my best for not to overreact and keeping my coolness. He explain that he did not reply to my message because he did not know how to deal with it. And he also said he feel sorry about that.

After i saw that message from him,

I replied,

“U know what? Sometimes ur so cute. Sometimes it is difficult to read u.

But ur cuteness still wins.”

He replied,

“I thought you probably decided to never see me again if I don’t have that cuteness😒”

I replied,

"I can understand that everybody has to do their own things along with their own timeline.”

He said, “You're a really nice person.”

I replied, “thank u, for the compliment.”

Then I continued with a mix of humor,

“I think, I becoming mature in my 30’s.

I was a bad bitch when I was younger than.”

He said,…

“I know !!! 🤣🤣🤣”

He then asked when I would be ready to go on for a second date with him.

Then we finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.
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I told my Scorpio man that

“I feel like you’re not that into me. What if I’m feeling is right for you, I’m ok with that. At least we can still be real friends.”

He replies,…

“It’s not like that. I’m into you. I like you”

But he rarely texts me in a day. He even left me on reading when I’m sending the message through the messenger. I’m the person who doesn’t take offense to someone’s rejection.

I don’t really know how should I act toward him.

What is the nature of your relationship? Are you dating? In an exclusive relationship? Long distance? We need a bit more detail.
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We started as friends at first. We matched on Tinder and after chatting and getting to know each other a little more, he asked me to give him my FACEBOOK to add a friend. After that, we continue chatting through Messenger.

Before I logged out, he asked me to go out with him that night.
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In a darkness of the Scopio mind when they get deep into their thoughts and practicing ‘joy in suffering’ - Gemini are the only people who can distract them from themselves and give them relieve to exhausted minds. Scorpios cherish time with Gemini BUT don’t push it. Let him pick that time himself.

Learn pleasure in suffering. You’ll need it. ❤️

I just want him to be blunt and honest in this situation. I am Gemini, Moon-Aries, Ascending & Venus-Leo person. I never cheat on all of my past partners. As soon as I noticed that I’m getting bored of them, I take accountability and initiate the break-up. I feel like I am the most unfortunate kind of gemini. I always have pure intentions for people around me. But I never get one in Return.
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I am curious. You are the one who is initiating break ups so I am assuming you don’t get cheated on right? Good!

But having pure intentions and not getting same in return - what does that mean? You getting rid of THEM! What do t I understand? 🤔
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Yeah, I could never date Scorp guys, even with my chart being Scorp dominant. They either too aloof or way too much, there is no in between. Lol

I think its one of the worst pairings there is🥴

Oh really? I never dated a Scorp, but before I met the Leo I am with now, I had 2 different Scorp guys chasing me (didn't meet either of them). One was way over the top, very pushy and made me feel really uncomfortable during our discussions. The other was kind of aloof so it didn't hold my interest. They just weren't my type at all, which is odd considering all the Scorp in my chart.

Geminis belong with fire signs. Let’s settle it once and for all! Lol
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I am totally beginning to believe in it!!

I was just out the door. Still here. 😂😂😂
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In a darkness of the Scopio mind when they get deep into their thoughts and practicing ‘joy in suffering’ - Gemini are the only people who can distract them from themselves and give them relieve to exhausted minds. Scorpios cherish time with Gemini BUT don’t push it. Let him pick that time himself.

Learn pleasure in suffering. You’ll need it. ❤️

I just want him to be blunt and honest in this situation. I am Gemini, Moon-Aries, Ascending & Venus-Leo person. I never cheat on all of my past partners. As soon as I noticed that I’m getting bored of them, I take accountability and initiate the break-up. I feel like I am the most unfortunate kind of gemini. I always have pure intentions for people around me. But I never get one in Return.

Give the man a bit of space. If you are expecting red roses and love poems you won't get it from a scorpio. He's probably going through some shit which he doesn't want to share. Scorpios aren't the chatty Cathys share everything types.
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Don’t be so sure! I have an opposite opinion. Like totally.
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In a darkness of the Scopio mind when they get deep into their thoughts and practicing ‘joy in suffering’ - Gemini are the only people who can distract them from themselves and give them relieve to exhausted minds. Scorpios cherish time with Gemini BUT don’t push it. Let him pick that time himself.

Learn pleasure in suffering. You’ll need it. ❤️

I just want him to be blunt and honest in this situation. I am Gemini, Moon-Aries, Ascending & Venus-Leo person. I never cheat on all of my past partners. As soon as I noticed that I’m getting bored of them, I take accountability and initiate the break-up. I feel like I am the most unfortunate kind of gemini. I always have pure intentions for people around me. But I never get one in Return.

I am curious. You are the one who is initiating break ups so I am assuming you don’t get cheated on right? Good!

But having pure intentions and not getting same in return - what does that mean? You getting rid of THEM! What do t I understand? 🤔
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Sorry for my English which makes you a little confused. I wanted to mention ME in every relationship I've been with. With my current date (scorpio), we’re in the early stage of dating. Yesterday, we did agree to go on for 2nd date.
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We are getting back in touch. He goes silent for almost two weeks. Then he sent me a message, three days ago. I try my best for not to overreact and keeping my coolness. He explain that he did not reply to my message because he did not know how to deal with it. And he also said he feel sorry about that.

After i saw that message from him,

I replied,

“U know what? Sometimes ur so cute. Sometimes it is difficult to read u.

But ur cuteness still wins.”

He replied,

“I thought you probably decided to never see me again if I don’t have that cuteness😒”

I replied,

"I can understand that everybody has to do their own things along with their own timeline.”

He said, “You're a really nice person.”

I replied, “thank u, for the compliment.”

Then I continued with a mix of humor,

“I think, I becoming mature in my 30’s.

I was a bad bitch when I was younger than.”

He said,…

“I know !!! 🤣🤣🤣”

He then asked when I would be ready to go on for a second date with him.

Then we finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.


You have chosen a very correct approach!

Amazing. But Gemini women ARE brainiacs if zodiac! 😂😂😂

What I want to warn you about is - if you will be totally in love with him - this approach will win you wish that rarely comes tru. And you know why? Because you will must have this approach to the end.

After date he might be with you for a few days which will seems like a year. Then he will be gone. Like gone/gone. Until he will feel to come back. There is nothing about you in Scorpio dissapearance. You just going to have to be chill and busy with your life to not to notice this and not to get upset and not to make up stories about him being disrespectful and selfish (which would be tru in any other case but!)

If he is genuinely interested - you’ll have nothing to worry about except when is the next ‘happy time’ will come.

Then he will get used to you and become warmer and will be letting you know (kind of) about his whereabouts.

Time will go on. And IF you will stop listening to all negative ‘Gemini and Scorpios never be together’ - you’ll win. I know I did but he was bit too late.

Scorpios is a journey for Geminis but there is something totally magical in our ‘togetherness’ and it worth headache. I wish you best on your journey. So far you going on perfectly correct. ❤️
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We are getting back in touch. He goes silent for almost two weeks. Then he sent me a message, three days ago. I try my best for not to overreact and keeping my coolness. He explain that he did not reply to my message because he did not know how to deal with it. And he also said he feel sorry about that.

After i saw that message from him,

I replied,

“U know what? Sometimes ur so cute. Sometimes it is difficult to read u.

But ur cuteness still wins.”

He replied,

“I thought you probably decided to never see me again if I don’t have that cuteness😒”

I replied,

"I can understand that everybody has to do their own things along with their own timeline.”

He said, “You're a really nice person.”

I replied, “thank u, for the compliment.”

Then I continued with a mix of humor,

“I think, I becoming mature in my 30’s.

I was a bad bitch when I was younger than.”

He said,…

“I know !!! 🤣🤣🤣”

He then asked when I would be ready to go on for a second date with him.

Then we finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.

You have chosen a very correct approach!

Amazing. But Gemini women ARE brainiacs if zodiac! 😂😂😂

What I want to warn you about is - if you will be totally in love with him - this approach will win you wish that rarely comes tru. And you know why? Because you will must have this approach to the end.

After date he might be with you for a few days which will seems like a year. Then he will be gone. Like gone/gone. Until he will feel to come back. There is nothing about you in Scorpio dissapearance. You just going to have to be chill and busy with your life to not to notice this and not to get upset and not to make up stories about him being disrespectful and selfish (which would be tru in any other case but!)

If he is genuinely interested - you’ll have nothing to worry about except when is the next ‘happy time’ will come.

Then he will get used to you and become warmer and will be letting you know (kind of) about his whereabouts.

Time will go on. And IF you will stop listening to all negative ‘Gemini and Scorpios never be together’ - you’ll win. I know I did but he was bit too late.

Scorpios is a journey for Geminis but there is something totally magical in our ‘togetherness’ and it worth headache. I wish you best on your journey. So far you going on perfectly correct. ❤️
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I totally agree with all you said. Although I am Gemini, I have Moon in Aries &

Ascendant/Rising in Leo. I was quite a “Now or Never” type of person in the past because of these “2 Fire signs” on my Birth Chart.

Then I realized my behavioral patterns and arrogant mindset can only harm my mental well-being. I trained myself to be more understanding to the people around me without losing myself. I started to feel more calm and feminine about myself after that.

And I truly appreciate that you genuinely share me ur wisdom. Thanks for showing u really care.

#June7/Gem
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Posted by Findingbalance
Posted by Gem007

We are getting back in touch. He goes silent for almost two weeks. Then he sent me a message, three days ago. I try my best for not to overreact and keeping my coolness. He explain that he did not reply to my message because he did not know how to deal with it. And he also said he feel sorry about that.

After i saw that message from him,

I replied,

“U know what? Sometimes ur so cute. Sometimes it is difficult to read u.

But ur cuteness still wins.”

He replied,

“I thought you probably decided to never see me again if I don’t have that cuteness😒”

I replied,

"I can understand that everybody has to do their own things along with their own timeline.”

He said, “You're a really nice person.”

I replied, “thank u, for the compliment.”

Then I continued with a mix of humor,

“I think, I becoming mature in my 30’s.

I was a bad bitch when I was younger than.”

He said,…

“I know !!! 🤣🤣🤣”

He then asked when I would be ready to go on for a second date with him.

Then we finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.

I think you got it. It might take them aback at first but honesty and communication are key. But like real honesty. I know that sounds strange (because how can honesty be fake), but blunt straight from the heart kind of real honesty. Mean it. Tell him, as you did. Then let him process it. Don't dig, don't poke. Hes weighing it. Are you for real, what's the angle, etc. Patience. Then eventually he will get it. Most guarded mfers I swear lol. But they are cute, especially when they're really into something or someone, the energy is top notch (rather gem like imo).
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Thank u for sharing and caring.

Blunt honesty is one of my best personality traits. I won't give away these traits. But I'll find

an alternative way to be gently blunt & honest.

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Posted by Gem007

We are getting back in touch. He goes silent for almost two weeks. Then he sent me a message, three days ago. I try my best for not to overreact and keeping my coolness. He explain that he did not reply to my message because he did not know how to deal with it. And he also said he feel sorry about that.

After i saw that message from him,

I replied,

“U know what? Sometimes ur so cute. Sometimes it is difficult to read u.

But ur cuteness still wins.”

He replied,

“I thought you probably decided to never see me again if I don’t have that cuteness😒”

I replied,

"I can understand that everybody has to do their own things along with their own timeline.”

He said, “You're a really nice person.”

I replied, “thank u, for the compliment.”

Then I continued with a mix of humor,

“I think, I becoming mature in my 30’s.

I was a bad bitch when I was younger than.”

He said,…

“I know !!! 🤣🤣🤣”

He then asked when I would be ready to go on for a second date with him.

Then we finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.

You have chosen a very correct approach!

Amazing. But Gemini women ARE brainiacs if zodiac! 😂😂😂

What I want to warn you about is - if you will be totally in love with him - this approach will win you wish that rarely comes tru. And you know why? Because you will must have this approach to the end.

After date he might be with you for a few days which will seems like a year. Then he will be gone. Like gone/gone. Until he will feel to come back. There is nothing about you in Scorpio dissapearance. You just going to have to be chill and busy with your life to not to notice this and not to get upset and not to make up stories about him being disrespectful and selfish (which would be tru in any other case but!)

If he is genuinely interested - you’ll have nothing to worry about except when is the next ‘happy time’ will come.

Then he will get used to you and become warmer and will be letting you know (kind of) about his whereabouts.

Time will go on. And IF you will stop listening to all negative ‘Gemini and Scorpios never be together’ - you’ll win. I know I did but he was bit too late.

Scorpios is a journey for Geminis but there is something totally magical in our ‘togetherness’ and it worth headache. I wish you best on your journey. So far you going on perfectly correct. ❤️

I totally agree with all you said. Although I am Gemini, I have Moon in Aries &

Ascendant/Rising in Leo. I was quite a “Now or Never” type of person in the past because of the 2 Fire sign on my Birth Chart. Then i realized these behavioral patterns and arrogant mindset can only harm my mental wellbeing. I trained myself to be more understanding to the people around me without losing myself. I started to feel more calm and feminine about myself after that.

And I truly appreciate that you genuinely share me ur wisdom. Thanks for showing u really care.

#June7/Gem
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Yes. Arrogant mindset and ego. Not letting anyone come above me. I am also a Gemini with lots of Leo placements.

Btw, cute love story. I wish you lots of good luck. Scorpio men are not for everyone.
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Posted by Gem007
Posted by GemiMay
Posted by Gem007

We are getting back in touch. He goes silent for almost two weeks. Then he sent me a message, three days ago. I try my best for not to overreact and keeping my coolness. He explain that he did not reply to my message because he did not know how to deal with it. And he also said he feel sorry about that.

After i saw that message from him,

I replied,

“U know what? Sometimes ur so cute. Sometimes it is difficult to read u.

But ur cuteness still wins.”

He replied,

“I thought you probably decided to never see me again if I don’t have that cuteness😒”

I replied,

"I can understand that everybody has to do their own things along with their own timeline.”

He said, “You're a really nice person.”

I replied, “thank u, for the compliment.”

Then I continued with a mix of humor,

“I think, I becoming mature in my 30’s.

I was a bad bitch when I was younger than.”

He said,…

“I know !!! 🤣🤣🤣”

He then asked when I would be ready to go on for a second date with him.

Then we finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.

You have chosen a very correct approach!

Amazing. But Gemini women ARE brainiacs if zodiac! 😂😂😂

What I want to warn you about is - if you will be totally in love with him - this approach will win you wish that rarely comes tru. And you know why? Because you will must have this approach to the end.

After date he might be with you for a few days which will seems like a year. Then he will be gone. Like gone/gone. Until he will feel to come back. There is nothing about you in Scorpio dissapearance. You just going to have to be chill and busy with your life to not to notice this and not to get upset and not to make up stories about him being disrespectful and selfish (which would be tru in any other case but!)

If he is genuinely interested - you’ll have nothing to worry about except when is the next ‘happy time’ will come.

Then he will get used to you and become warmer and will be letting you know (kind of) about his whereabouts.

Time will go on. And IF you will stop listening to all negative ‘Gemini and Scorpios never be together’ - you’ll win. I know I did but he was bit too late.

Scorpios is a journey for Geminis but there is something totally magical in our ‘togetherness’ and it worth headache. I wish you best on your journey. So far you going on perfectly correct. ❤️

I totally agree with all you said. Although I am Gemini, I have Moon in Aries &

Ascendant/Rising in Leo. I was quite a “Now or Never” type of person in the past because of the 2 Fire sign on my Birth Chart. Then i realized these behavioral patterns and arrogant mindset can only harm my mental wellbeing. I trained myself to be more understanding to the people around me without losing myself. I started to feel more calm and feminine about myself after that.

And I truly appreciate that you genuinely share me ur wisdom. Thanks for showing u really care.

#June7/Gem

Yes. Arrogant mindset and ego. Not letting anyone come above me. I am also a Gemini with lots of Leo placements.

Btw, cute love story. I wish you lots of good luck. Scorpio men are not for everyone.
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Thank u for your wish 😍.

I don’t really know what’s in the store for the future with him. But I believe he come in to my life for a reason. The question is,

Does he come into my life for giving me some new life lessons to learn?

Or what else?

Who knows?

All that I can do is going with the flow.
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Posted by Gem007
Posted by borednbeautiful
Posted by Gem007
Posted by GemiMay
Posted by Gem007

We are getting back in touch. He goes silent for almost two weeks. Then he sent me a message, three days ago. I try my best for not to overreact and keeping my coolness. He explain that he did not reply to my message because he did not know how to deal with it. And he also said he feel sorry about that.

After i saw that message from him,

I replied,

“U know what? Sometimes ur so cute. Sometimes it is difficult to read u.

But ur cuteness still wins.”

He replied,

“I thought you probably decided to never see me again if I don’t have that cuteness😒”

I replied,

"I can understand that everybody has to do their own things along with their own timeline.”

He said, “You're a really nice person.”

I replied, “thank u, for the compliment.”

Then I continued with a mix of humor,

“I think, I becoming mature in my 30’s.

I was a bad bitch when I was younger than.”

He said,…

“I know !!! 🤣🤣🤣”

He then asked when I would be ready to go on for a second date with him.

Then we finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.

You have chosen a very correct approach!

Amazing. But Gemini women ARE brainiacs if zodiac! 😂😂😂

What I want to warn you about is - if you will be totally in love with him - this approach will win you wish that rarely comes tru. And you know why? Because you will must have this approach to the end.

After date he might be with you for a few days which will seems like a year. Then he will be gone. Like gone/gone. Until he will feel to come back. There is nothing about you in Scorpio dissapearance. You just going to have to be chill and busy with your life to not to notice this and not to get upset and not to make up stories about him being disrespectful and selfish (which would be tru in any other case but!)

If he is genuinely interested - you’ll have nothing to worry about except when is the next ‘happy time’ will come.

Then he will get used to you and become warmer and will be letting you know (kind of) about his whereabouts.

Time will go on. And IF you will stop listening to all negative ‘Gemini and Scorpios never be together’ - you’ll win. I know I did but he was bit too late.

Scorpios is a journey for Geminis but there is something totally magical in our ‘togetherness’ and it worth headache. I wish you best on your journey. So far you going on perfectly correct. ❤️

I totally agree with all you said. Although I am Gemini, I have Moon in Aries &

Ascendant/Rising in Leo. I was quite a “Now or Never” type of person in the past because of the 2 Fire sign on my Birth Chart. Then i realized these behavioral patterns and arrogant mindset can only harm my mental wellbeing. I trained myself to be more understanding to the people around me without losing myself. I started to feel more calm and feminine about myself after that.

And I truly appreciate that you genuinely share me ur wisdom. Thanks for showing u really care.

#June7/Gem

Yes. Arrogant mindset and ego. Not letting anyone come above me. I am also a Gemini with lots of Leo placements.

Btw, cute love story. I wish you lots of good luck. Scorpio men are not for everyone.

Thank u for your wish 😍.

I don’t really know what’s in the store for the future with him. But I believe he come in to my life for a reason. The question is,

Does he come into my life for giving me some new life lessons to learn?

Or what else?

Who knows?

All that I can do is going with the flow.
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You my dear have a patience of a saint.

If some guy didn’t respond to me for 2 weeks, the connection would be a dead end at that point. I would chew him and spit him out.

But in your case, you sound more mellow and humble. Just go with the flow is my advice. He sounds shy and insecure but that can be a good thing sometimes.
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Posted by Gem007
Posted by borednbeautiful
Posted by Gem007
Posted by GemiMay
Posted by Gem007

We are getting back in touch. He goes silent for almost two weeks. Then he sent me a message, three days ago. I try my best for not to overreact and keeping my coolness. He explain that he did not reply to my message because he did not know how to deal with it. And he also said he feel sorry about that.

After i saw that message from him,

I replied,

“U know what? Sometimes ur so cute. Sometimes it is difficult to read u.

But ur cuteness still wins.”

He replied,

“I thought you probably decided to never see me again if I don’t have that cuteness😒”

I replied,

"I can understand that everybody has to do their own things along with their own timeline.”

He said, “You're a really nice person.”

I replied, “thank u, for the compliment.”

Then I continued with a mix of humor,

“I think, I becoming mature in my 30’s.

I was a bad bitch when I was younger than.”

He said,…

“I know !!! 🤣🤣🤣”

He then asked when I would be ready to go on for a second date with him.

Then we finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.

You have chosen a very correct approach!

Amazing. But Gemini women ARE brainiacs if zodiac! 😂😂😂

What I want to warn you about is - if you will be totally in love with him - this approach will win you wish that rarely comes tru. And you know why? Because you will must have this approach to the end.

After date he might be with you for a few days which will seems like a year. Then he will be gone. Like gone/gone. Until he will feel to come back. There is nothing about you in Scorpio dissapearance. You just going to have to be chill and busy with your life to not to notice this and not to get upset and not to make up stories about him being disrespectful and selfish (which would be tru in any other case but!)

If he is genuinely interested - you’ll have nothing to worry about except when is the next ‘happy time’ will come.

Then he will get used to you and become warmer and will be letting you know (kind of) about his whereabouts.

Time will go on. And IF you will stop listening to all negative ‘Gemini and Scorpios never be together’ - you’ll win. I know I did but he was bit too late.

Scorpios is a journey for Geminis but there is something totally magical in our ‘togetherness’ and it worth headache. I wish you best on your journey. So far you going on perfectly correct. ❤️

I totally agree with all you said. Although I am Gemini, I have Moon in Aries &

Ascendant/Rising in Leo. I was quite a “Now or Never” type of person in the past because of the 2 Fire sign on my Birth Chart. Then i realized these behavioral patterns and arrogant mindset can only harm my mental wellbeing. I trained myself to be more understanding to the people around me without losing myself. I started to feel more calm and feminine about myself after that.

And I truly appreciate that you genuinely share me ur wisdom. Thanks for showing u really care.

#June7/Gem

Yes. Arrogant mindset and ego. Not letting anyone come above me. I am also a Gemini with lots of Leo placements.

Btw, cute love story. I wish you lots of good luck. Scorpio men are not for everyone.

Thank u for your wish 😍.

I don’t really know what’s in the store for the future with him. But I believe he come in to my life for a reason. The question is,

Does he come into my life for giving me some new life lessons to learn?

Or what else?

Who knows?

All that I can do is going with the flow.

You my dear have a patience of a saint.

If some guy didn’t respond to me for 2 weeks, the connection would be a dead end at that point. I would chew him and spit him out.

But in your case, you sound more mellow and humble. Just go with the flow is my advice. He sounds shy and insecure but that can be a good thing sometimes.
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Thanks for ur advice, my beautiful 😍

Although I can't predict what's next.

I try to peacefully accept what is meant for me and let go of what is not suited for me.

I am 31 and he is 26.

Even though he is 5 years younger,

I found that some of his concepts, thoughts, and sayings were even more mature than mine, sometimes.

For women in their 30's like me,

he’s the type of younger male,

who I can genuinely give the right amount of respect.

♥️

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Posted by Gem007
Posted by Findingbalance
Posted by Gem007

We are getting back in touch. He goes silent for almost two weeks. Then he sent me a message, three days ago. I try my best for not to overreact and keeping my coolness. He explain that he did not reply to my message because he did not know how to deal with it. And he also said he feel sorry about that.

After i saw that message from him,

I replied,

“U know what? Sometimes ur so cute. Sometimes it is difficult to read u.

But ur cuteness still wins.”

He replied,

“I thought you probably decided to never see me again if I don’t have that cuteness😒”

I replied,

"I can understand that everybody has to do their own things along with their own timeline.”

He said, “You're a really nice person.”

I replied, “thank u, for the compliment.”

Then I continued with a mix of humor,

“I think, I becoming mature in my 30’s.

I was a bad bitch when I was younger than.”

He said,…

“I know !!! 🤣🤣🤣”

He then asked when I would be ready to go on for a second date with him.

Then we finally agreed to meet up tomorrow.

I think you got it. It might take them aback at first but honesty and communication are key. But like real honesty. I know that sounds strange (because how can honesty be fake), but blunt straight from the heart kind of real honesty. Mean it. Tell him, as you did. Then let him process it. Don't dig, don't poke. Hes weighing it. Are you for real, what's the angle, etc. Patience. Then eventually he will get it. Most guarded mfers I swear lol. But they are cute, especially when they're really into something or someone, the energy is top notch (rather gem like imo).

Thank u for sharing and caring.

Blunt honesty is one of my best personality traits. I won't give away these traits. But I'll find

an alternative way to be gently blunt & honest.

Then I don't think you need any help lol. You got it. They're sensitive, as in easily hurt, but they do like and value honesty. Just keep it real, communicate and don't hesitate to tell him hey it hurts when you...but do it without drama so they feel safe to come out and reply. Good luck and enjoy your scorp. They're a special bunch.
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😇 Your quote ↩️

“Just keep it real, communicate and don't hesitate to tell him hey it hurts when you...but do it without drama so they feel safe to come out and reply.” ↖️

This is really, really helpful. 😇

Thank you so much.!!

♥️
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It takes a lot of work for it to work, IMO

I don’t find Scorpios to like an overly clingy person, the way Geminis can be. And they don’t necessarily like the playful mental gymnastics that Geminis have fun with.

Scorpios take it like an insult and like you are trying to make a fool out of them.

It’s a shame too because Geminis are fairly harmless and just like being playful.

It’s like .Scorpios don’t know what to do with your chaotic energy.

Lol, clingy is ok for a bit, but it does get annoying after a while.
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Thank you for ur participation. 😍

We’re just in the Very Early Stage Of Dating.

I feel like it’s too early to introspect about clinging or detaching.

If he feels that I’m being too clingy or needy to him & wants to leave me behind.

Well! that’s his choice.

I’ll always be ready to show some respect for the choice he's made even if it’s hurt my feelings.

Then, trying to accept the FACT about

"Him & I ... Now that we don't see eye to eye."

Try to learn how to forgive myself and him. After that, I'll eventually forget all of this.

I see, it’s such a shame to waste

my time & energy, investing in

begging somebody to stay

when all they want is to run away...



♥️
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Posted by saggurl88

It takes a lot of work for it to work, IMO

I don’t find Scorpios to like an overly clingy person, the way Geminis can be. And they don’t necessarily like the playful mental gymnastics that Geminis have fun with.

Scorpios take it like an insult and like you are trying to make a fool out of them.

It’s a shame too because Geminis are fairly harmless and just like being playful.

It’s like .Scorpios don’t know what to do with your chaotic energy.

Lol, clingy is ok for a bit, but it does get annoying after a while.
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Thank you for ur participation. 😍

We’re just in the Very Early Stage Of Dating.

I feel like it’s too early to introspect about clinging or detaching.

If he feels that I’m being too clingy or needy to him & wants to leave me behind.

Well! that’s his choice.

I’ll always be ready to show some respect for the choice he's made even if it’s hurt my feelings.

Then, trying to accept the FACT about

"Him & I ... Now that we don't see eye to eye."

Try to learn how to forgive myself and him. After that, I'll eventually forget all of this.

I see, it’s such a shame to waste

my time & energy, investing in

begging somebody to stay

when all they want is to run away...



♥️
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Gemini+Scorpio = 🤯

A disaster waiting to happen 💣

Quincunx = 🤔

So pretty much bad news? I am yet to meet a healthy and happy Scorpio/Gem couple.

Generally speaking yes i think so, Gem

I am staying on that fire 🔥 axis. Leo <——>Aries.

The only fire sign I am not into is Sagittarius.

Cancer men are cool too.

Are you Leo dominant?
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Yeah !!!

Sun in ♊️ Gemini

Rising/ Ascendant in ♌️ Leo

Moon in ♈️ Aries

Venus in ♌️ Leo

Blackmoon Lilith in ♑️ Capricorn

These are the placement in my natal chart.

♥️♊️
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Posted by Gem007
I told my Scorpio man that

“I feel like you’re not that into me. What if I’m feeling is right for you, I’m ok with that. At least we can still be real friends.”

He replies,…

“It’s not like that. I’m into you. I like you”

But he rarely texts me in a day. He even left me on reading when I’m sending the message through the messenger. I’m the person who doesn’t take offense to someone’s rejection.

I don’t really know how should I act toward him.

Just be patient.