I don't think NO ONE can ever love as Scorpio

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I think Scorpios glorify their emotions.. Everyone loves, and have the capability to love strongly. Scorps don't love any different. They just don't conquer their emotions on the same level as other signs.

Scorpios idea of love is different. For example, revenge would NEVER be something I (aries) would partake in if I loved someone. How could you LOVE someone, then hurt them? If they hurt you, then perhaps they didn't really love you. Forgiveness is the highest form of love. If a scorp finds it very hard and almost impossible to give forgiveness, how could you say their love is incomparable? Trust is another form, and if a Scorpio can't truly trust, and lay it all bare, then that love is again tainted. Some Scorpios can over come this, most can't.

Aries love is the strongest love IMO, as an Aries would love you as much as they love themselves. Only if you are worthy. And we forgive easily. Revenge is too far in the past for the future bound Aries. Trust...eh maybe we talk about you too much... And air out your dirty laundry at the wrong time /-:


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Posted by RedScorpion
No woman I've ever known could match the intensity of love that I give. Which is ok because I have a greater need to give than receive.

Yes, it can be a curse when alone but a great gift when you're with someone special.



This! Love runs deep, unconditional, givers by nature, either you have us or you dont. Love is not a casual offering.....and the ones we have loved yearn to keep it even when they no longer deserve it.....once we are done & it takes more than many will handle its over....no turning back.....the love we have within & to offer definitely a gift
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No woman I've ever known could match the intensity of love that I give. Which is ok because I have a greater need to give than receive.

Yes, it can be a curse when alone but a great gift when you're with someone special.



This! Love runs deep, unconditional, givers by nature, either you have us or you dont. Love is not a casual offering.....and the ones we have loved yearn to keep it even when they no longer deserve it.....once we are done & it takes more than many will handle its over....no turning back.....the love we have within & to offer definitely a gift
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Beautifully said!! 🙂
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Posted by iheartnerdyboyz
I think Scorpios glorify their emotions.. Everyone loves, and have the capability to love strongly. Scorps don't love any different. They just don't conquer their emotions on the same level as other signs.

Scorpios idea of love is different. For example, revenge would NEVER be something I (aries) would partake in if I loved someone. How could you LOVE someone, then hurt them? If they hurt you, then perhaps they didn't really love you. Forgiveness is the highest form of love. If a scorp finds it very hard and almost impossible to give forgiveness, how could you say their love is incomparable? Trust is another form, and if a Scorpio can't truly trust, and lay it all bare, then that love is again tainted. Some Scorpios can over come this, most can't.

Aries love is the strongest love IMO, as an Aries would love you as much as they love themselves. Only if you are worthy. And we forgive easily. Revenge is too far in the past for the future bound Aries. Trust...eh maybe we talk about you too much... And air out your dirty laundry at the wrong time /-:


Pobody's nerfect.



i disagree totally but mainly if the aries is male as that's my only experience. aries may have to capacity to love you as they do themselves but the fact that you aren't them always prevents them. they seem to love selected traits only. they have strict love criteria and you have to tick all the boxes or none at all.

scorpios think they love harder than others but it's only cos we have a tendancy to make mountains out of molehills in every aspect of life. not necessarily in the drama sense but definately our responses to things are somewhat OTT.

i've learned not to follow my kneejerk reaction to things these days. i always over react in the first instance and end up making a twat of myself usually. now i absorb information before making any kind of response and make sure i've got a real perspective on things.

i don't think there are degrees of loving someone. you either do or you don't. it's no greater or lesser than for anyone else. the trouble with scorps is that it's not often that we are vocal about our feelings and so it's kind of irrelevant how deeply we love someone if we are unable to actually communicate that to them.

hence we express our love feelings in the act of sex.

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Posted by luckystar
"How could you LOVE someone, then hurt them? If they hurt you, then perhaps they didn't really love you."
"Forgiveness is the highest form of love"

Your first statement is completely false. It is entirely possible to want to hurt someone you love and have someone who loves you hurt you...ESPECIALLY if the feelings run deep.




Luckystar :*

How can an opinion be falso?

I've got an 8th house stellium, so believe me -- obsession and all that other stuff can lead me down the path of pain.

Anyway, If someone felt the need to hurt their partner because of 'whatever', then I believe they aren't very strong people. I kinda wallow when hurt. I do dream up ways to hurt him, I'm normal. But I wouldn't follow through. I wouldn't find satisfaction in knowing that "I" was the reason for a person's hurt.

Karma is there, and will take care of business, I believe. Even then, I don't revel in the after glow of an ex partner's demise.

I like to think I'm strong enough to overcome hurt. I'm certianly not a weak person. And I would like to think that the relationship I had was a learning experience, bad or good. I don't see the productivity of revenge.
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Posted by IntriguedScorp
We love very deeply but I'd estimated that--at least in the beginning--the only people who we know love that deeply are ourselves. We don't share 90% of our feelings. Let's face it. We spiral into a delusional vortex of obsession and the object of our love doesn't even think we are interested. Its all over these boards. (I'm feeling negative today)



Very articulate and concise. Perfectly said.
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Shaka ... happy you are back up walking again.

Well, in regard to relationships, mine usually end up going beyond the decade line: loooooong term! Sometimes longer than they should have lasted. However, I occasionally think of the Virgo man I was very much in love with. That was 3+ years ago.

I haven't forgotten him. You most probably remember that time. Anyhow, he said 'Hi' again around the holidays and occasionally we chat. I prefer to stay away from him this time.

Unfortunately, that love ignites at times... but I don't know how to get rid of it.
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I do have to wonder how deep a Scorpios love really runs. I've seen both male and female, "in love" still cheating, either emotionally or even sexually, and they don't seem to have a problem with it as long as their s/o doesn't find out because they have other motives for that act. Then they can be in a world of pain when it goes wrong, or have the nerve to feel betrayed when that person moves on. And no this isn't just from my own personal experience, but its something I've seen with both October/November Scorpios. Mainly with the males, although I had a Scorpio friend still cheat and not think twice about it on her ex. Maybe their love has intensity, but depth and loyalty with consistency may not be present like with other signs.
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Maybe loyalty has another meaning, to them. And I'm not bashing I like Scorpios, but find this to be very hypocritical of them. And yes these were "in love" Scorpios, I know for a fact one scorpio guy won't open his heart up, or take another woman seriously after his girlfriend who he cheated on left him and moved on. Although he is to blame for that relationship he still resents her, and acts like no one is right so I know he is/was very in love with her. Their love seems a little superficial to me, but maybe its depends on the decan of the Scorpio as well and of course how evolved they are. But a few other signs such as Aquarius, Cancer, and Taurus have unwavering, deeply felt, unconditional love.
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Topic: "I don't think NO ONE can ever love as Scorpio"

Most people believe that no one can love as deep as themselves, regardless of a sun sign. Personally, I'm not impressed by "scorpio" love. Whatever that is supposed to be. I may be missing your point. Imho, Knowing what love is and actually living in a such a way would blow me away. Love doesn't belong to a sun sign.
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I'm having a hard time reading through this thread because it is getting longer by the minute. I appreciate every single posters comment. Thank you for meeting up here and taking part.

What I did see repeatedly posted thoughout though are occasional upset or angry commentaries about the level of love a Scorpio can feel. There obviously is no proof of anybody's level of love within the zodiac sign.

What I know from myself is I truly believe my love has the power to harm me. This includes faded love. Sometimes relationships outlive themselves. People change by age and the surrounding dynamics. A relationship may turn into power struggle. The scale may tip heavy on one side by one partner becoming giver. As much as it profits the receiver, he may lose respect for the giver.

Whatever reasons, what I am sure of pecular to Scorpio are the following:

1) Cheating Scorpios are not in love!

We don't cheat and when you do experience cheating scorpio, then it means it's been over long time ago. They tried everything to keep their relation, but it started harming them. They found a way to move on.

That means, the partner is aware. You as friend may not know it because remember?... Scorpios do not like public displays about what's going on in their lives.

They still love their partner, but on a different level now. It is the quality they like in the person they chose to be with.

2) Lover never returns! They either continue loving or when it ends, it ends.

3) We are not leightweight lovers. I think everyone can agree on that. If you want Scorpio, be prepared for heavy-weight love.

4) If you are unsure about his love, PLEASE ASK! You will get the whole truth.

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about the original post, I am aware it is a double-negative. It was an honest mistake because when emotions run high, grammar can lose importance.

Unfortunately, I realize I am not totally over him. What I do know is if he were to be wanting another go with me -- I am keeping him arm length away at the moment -- I wouldn't want to go back together with him.

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it wasn't just about me. I meant also the Scorpio side of me. That's why we are here. You can be different Let-it-be, but again... That also would speak for yourself only.

Some things are common and some things, of course, influenced by our environment or even other planets in our charts. No need to take offence. My point is, I do believe Scorpios possess a higher sense to emotions when they allow it.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Took offense to what exactly ?




Took offense to Fumi making the insinuation that by virtue of being Scorpio, it equates to being better .... most things Fumi says are utter bullshit, anyway, so I'm not surprised that she comes off sounding arrogant.


If she wants to be arrogant, then sobeit ... but, then she attempted to make the assertion that it's due to being a Scorpio.
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Took offense to what exactly ?




Took offense to Fumi making the insinuation that by virtue of being Scorpio, it equates to being better .... most things Fumi says are utter bullshit, anyway, so I'm not surprised that she comes off sounding arrogant.


If she wants to be arrogant, then sobeit ... but, then she attempted to make the assertion that it's due to being a Scorpio.
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all I here is blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

I stopped reading your crap long time ago, so don't bother posting
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Posted by ellessque
ar??ro??gant/??ar??g??nt/Adjective: Having or revealing an exaggerated sense of one's own importance or abilities.

If I don't exaggerate my own sense of importance or abilities, who else is going to?

Hell yeah I'm arrogant, and so are most of the users on here that voice such strong opinions on topics.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being arrogant, in my opinion.



LOL hell yeah!

High five!! 😄