I just don't get it

I have been talking and going with this new scorpio man for not long. We've been talking daily via phone and meeting for drinks when work permits. He's all of the sudden stopped calling, won't return any phone calls. I just don't get it. Any suggestions?

As a Scorpio male,i do this often,but it`s not because i am not interested or because i am playing games or something.I don`t call cuz I DON`T WANT TO,OR BECAUSE I AM IN BAD MOOD.That`s it.

I have a grudge there as well. I think scorps get quite selfish there. Perhapz they try to save the situation from worsening.

"Why can't you just tell a person that you are in a bad mood and don't feel like taking any calls? At least it won't leave them confused. Where is your sense of honor?"

Sense of honor!!what this got to do with honor?..
Anyway,i don`t know about the others but when i want to be alone i just want to be completly isolated,no communication at all,also if she is really interested in me then she won`t cut off everything between us just because of this.Person who doesn`t respect my privacy and my need to be alone is not worth beeing with.
It includes everyone,girlfriend,friends or best friends.

Well,i am not a nice guy and i never said so,i am rude,and all i want is to be comfortable and frankly i don`t care a lot if someone bothered because of these stupid things.this is how i live and if someone doesn`t like it then what`s the hell.

Yep,i am so afraid of confrontation,anything else?

Getting hooked is alwayz a dangerous affair,and more so with a scorpio. U alwayz have to deal with such peculiarities/idiosyncracies whenever U allow such important space in Ur life/existence to somebody whoz foreign to Ur self. Perhapz scorpioz have every right to be assertive/obsessed, they can make life easier for others by being less inscrutable albeit. Then on the other hand I see intense glamour in their love for privacy,one of the myriad reasons why people find them irresistible.

I have hardly seen any scorpio not living on his own termz and conditons. But U have full rights to not be the second signatory in this contract as well.

"and I let him know I am not afraid of him like everyone is."

So otherz are afraid right ?

Perhapz U do the right thing. But U cant extend what is right for U to others as a rule.
If SS or Lnurse have other equally effecive methodz to deal with this, perfect.

"It is the most effective way to avoid confusion, and it is consideration of all people"

Confusion has a code, a transmitter and a receiver. With scorpioz U have to work really hard to get the code correct. Of course a badass transmitter cant be exonerated the same way a dumb receiver cant be called deserving. Benevolent consideration is not a virtue most scorpioz are endowed with. They are gritty in their support.

It wud be silly to treat scorpio segment as a homogeneous one and apply a single simplistc branding to all. Scorpioz are demanding no doubt and they expect otherz to show respect to their right to privacy. On the other hand they are supposed to be intense in their support and are excellent counsellers. Give them the best U have and get the best out of them from those areaz they excel in. And If U find that arent measuring up, U are under no obligation to cave in to their demandz. One doesnt have to pick the wrong bait...pick the right signal.

I didn't knew Scorps needed space that much ? I never had any fight with a Scorpio , yet. Maybe because i'm 1/3 Scorpio ( Moon). LivelyNurse, just wait for his call. if he doesn't .... just move on...

He is not that into you then ..

"I personally think Scorpios are being cowards"

Those who do it that way ...are indeed cowards. Itz unethical and avoidable. Perhaps they close their eyes and just wish unpleasant thingz away.

"And I do not see respect for people as some form of weakness, as a matter of fact it takes a lot of strength"

No dispute there. Some cuation has to be exercised here though as one need to observe people earning respect rather than simply extending the same to all n sundry. Respect is one concept which cant be fully appreciated by everybody. Itz fragile and a great amount of empathy is called for to understand it fully.

"But then again, I think half of what people say about Scorps is bullbutter anyway, so I don't really give that nonense too much power."

Observations made in that "half" are population variables and not sample variables. Taken and studied collectively , it seems to be assigning lots of power to them which i not a correct way of looking at the whole thing. And even scorpioz are supposed to slog n allow themselves to evolve to that exalted level which they are entitled to astrologically,so to speak.Nobody inherits anything automatically.

Boy, if everyone listened to Bran, what a better world this would be...

If everyone acted the way Bran said, no one would ever have any bad feelings again...

I think Bran must really be god in disguise, he is just so knowledgeable about everyone's relationships and knows just what to do...

My advice to livelynurse: just lay low for a bit. He may call again, or may not. Start looking for some other company..don't depend on this guy. Also, why are you having daily phone calls with a guy who is "new" in your life, sweetie? Most guys don't like women to be too available...they live for the chase. Play hard to get...be hard to get.

Eaglegirl

Lively, is this the same Scorpio who showed you pictures of naked girls on your first date?

"Hiya peach - I can answer that one on nurse's behalf. It's not that guy, it's another one. "

EGEM and her grip on DXP...LOL

thanks gem...i was hopeful it wasn't that fruitloop.

"when i want to be alone i just want to be completly isolated,no communication at all,also if she is really interested in me then she won`t cut off everything between us just because of this.Person who doesn`t respect my privacy and my need to be alone is not worth beeing with.
It includes everyone,girlfriend,friends or best friends."

I agree with HP. Some days a person feels chatty and some days people need some alone time. A person that needs to be talked to everyday is to needy. Chill livelynurse. He'll call you again. Just give him time......If your dealing with a scorpio male you'll find that they are very private and guarded. If not talking to him on a regular basis frustrates you you might as well end the relationship now. Because that part of him will never change. If you respect his privacy and "wait out" his brooding times, you'll make a very loyal friend!

wow, i offered advice and don't remember giving it...but good job peach.

Such books make me cringe...They make me instantly think of Bridge Jones..