Friends with Benefits

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by houstonpeach74 on Wednesday, September 6, 2006 and has 8 replies.

Can Scorpio Men Keep Sex and Emotions Separate

Scorpio men often experience deep emotional connections and may find it challenging to separate feelings from physical intimacy. While some can maintain a casual approach initially, their natural intensity may lead to attachment over time. Understanding their emotional depth is key to navigating relationships with Scorpio men.

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@houstonpeach74
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I know the answer for men in general, but can Scorpio men keep the emotional and the physical aspects of sex separate or will/do they eventually get too wrapped up and develop feelings or attachment to the female?

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well, i've noticed there are two types of scorpio men:

a) the players, whose emotional lives revolve around burying everything inside and having as much fun as possible, and

b) the romantics, who (as opposed to the player) use their scorpio power for more stable relationships.

i'm very much the romantic type of scorpio man, although if the opportunity arose to have casual sex with a girl i'd most likely take it, not because i'm jeopardizing my values but because by doing something i know will $ #!@ me up in the head, i know i'm strong enough to find a greater meaning in the ensuing conflict and come out a better scorp.

so for me, it's impossible to have "casual", "no strings attached" sex.

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Just wondering. AprilBaby made a comment on another thread that he was using work as a reason for not making time and that it really meant he wasn't into me. SHe's right. If someone was into you, they WOULD make time, no matter how busy or hectic your work schedule is.

Sooooo.....I proposed casual sex/casual relationship with him and he seems to be biting it. I asked him if he could separate the emotional aspect of it from the physical and he said he THOUGHT he could...I mean, he's a man...aren't all mean purely physical mostly?

He made it sound in one of his responses that he could try it and try not to get jealous if i wanted to see other people, blah blah blah.

I'm not going to have a casual relationship with him, just wanted to know his reaction.

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@Karima27
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What? HP Girl you are all messed up! Was this before or after you found out he lied about his birthday? I am hoping it was before because if it was after you should forget it. OR are you trying to use your "whip appeal" to hook his ass?