Is my Scorp getting serious?

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We are married to other ppl
Are you getting divorced? If not what does it matter what he wants.
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We had been in this mess for 7 years.

He was never this attentive and we had an agreement that divorce is not an option.

But lately he said he loves me want to be with me and calling every chance he has and I am just asking of resident Scorpios here - what could that be? He finally fell for me as I wished he would
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We are married to other ppl
Are you getting divorced? If not what does it matter what he wants.
We had been in this mess for 7 years.

He was never this attentive and we had an agreement that divorce is not an option.

But lately he said he loves me want to be with me and calling every chance he has and I am just asking of resident Scorpios here - what could that be? He finally fell for me as I wished he would

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It took him 7 years to fall in love with you? What's his other placements?

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We are married to other ppl
Are you getting divorced? If not what does it matter what he wants.
We had been in this mess for 7 years.

He was never this attentive and we had an agreement that divorce is not an option.

But lately he said he loves me want to be with me and calling every chance he has and I am just asking of resident Scorpios here - what could that be? He finally fell for me as I wished he would


It took him 7 years to fall in love with you? What's his other placements?

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Lol no it took him 7 years to admit it...

He said he got pretty crazy about me when we had met.

He is 11 18 61

Please decode it for me
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We are married to other ppl
Are you getting divorced? If not what does it matter what he wants.
We had been in this mess for 7 years.

He was never this attentive and we had an agreement that divorce is not an option.

But lately he said he loves me want to be with me and calling every chance he has and I am just asking of resident Scorpios here - what could that be? He finally fell for me as I wished he would


Why is divorce not an option?
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It's complicated. He is a public figure. And I don't think he is quite there yet. He is finally seems so into me I am getting worry.

I was asking him to try to repair his marriage because I know how hard is this living a lie for him. In a week he told me no. Relationships with his wife beyond repair.

Since then he became more into me than ever.

And no we do not have sex for 2 years now.

We are strictly just talking. This is why he asked for picture to see me. Fully dressed so no yelling at me please.
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Ok, lately he is calling me every day. Sometimes 2-3 times. We used to have 5 min conversations.

Last one was 44 min. Something had changed in him. He talking about wanting to be with me. Asked for my picture because he missed me.

What should I expect? Does it mean anything?

And for those who are new yes we are still married.


O Mother Goose... what to say, what to say?



http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/mother-goose-vent-6736481/

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If you're married, id say its serious...,wait..wats the whole story ??
So you had a go at me for calling her out on her shady shit, but you've had no idea what an entitled cheater she is with another woman's husband? He's also her husband's frievd.

There were threads upon threads of her bragging to dxp scorpio forum about it and calling everyone jealous of her cuz she "doesn't cook from a box" for her husband. Delusional old woman. This happened a few years ago.

If you quote me, she'll say "Arielle you just jealous".

Mind of a little girl.

Very delusional

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Don't forget she thinks all white people are racist too... Yawn...
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Just because he's calling more etc I don't think it means anything. I think you want it to mean something. Until this dude divorces his wife, whatever he does means shit and it certainly isn't matching what you seem to want.
I was afraid of that. Thanks
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I'm familiar with your story plus I've had a couple of situations with partners who were not free etc. Until they sign the divorce papers and that court stamps it or whatever... Everything they do or say to you, and I mean EVERYTHING... Is total bullshit.
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Just because he's calling more etc I don't think it means anything. I think you want it to mean something. Until this dude divorces his wife, whatever he does means shit and it certainly isn't matching what you seem to want.
I was afraid of that. Thanks


I'm familiar with your story plus I've had a couple of situations with partners who were not free etc. Until they sign the divorce papers and that court stamps it or whatever... Everything they do or say to you, and I mean EVERYTHING... Is total bullshit.
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He is not saying anything. No bullbutter...
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Can we get this mother goose banned? Just asking
Free advice. You have rights not to open threads if OP is irritating you.

Same as you do not like TV channel - switch or shut down.

DXP has a lot of other posts to read like go post picture of your feet in socks or something...

Clean your azz before you try to clean a generation's ass!

Mother goose, huh?!

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These 2 subjects have nothing to do with each other,

Whatever I am experiencing doesn't mean I can't be surprised by others.
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If i am not wrong, OP is the one who told our generation is dating like nuts, we don't have integrity and stuff

Cheating on husband with another married man for SEVEN years - Integrity is oozing out from everywhere

Our generation is not the only one dating like nuts eh?

Just saying! 🙂


Yes being my generation I would ask first WHY 2 people who had never cheated - started.

Your generation makes '0h horror' out of everything.

He don't call - oh horror

She is cheating - oh horror

Everything is taking 2 to tango and my story has WHY in it so is his.

So throw the stone who without sin...

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Ok, lately he is calling me every day. Sometimes 2-3 times. We used to have 5 min conversations.

Last one was 44 min. Something had changed in him. He talking about wanting to be with me. Asked for my picture because he missed me.

What should I expect? Does it mean anything?

And for those who are new yes we are still married.


O Mother Goose... what to say, what to say?



http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/mother-goose-vent-6736481/





I remember this thread....
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Ok, lately he is calling me every day. Sometimes 2-3 times. We used to have 5 min conversations.

Last one was 44 min. Something had changed in him. He talking about wanting to be with me. Asked for my picture because he missed me.

What should I expect? Does it mean anything?

And for those who are new yes we are still married.


O Mother Goose... what to say, what to say?



http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/mother-goose-vent-6736481/





I remember this thread....
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Posted by Gemitati
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If i am not wrong, OP is the one who told our generation is dating like nuts, we don't have integrity and stuff

Cheating on husband with another married man for SEVEN years - Integrity is oozing out from everywhere

Our generation is not the only one dating like nuts eh?

Just saying! 🙂


Yes being my generation I would ask first WHY 2 people who had never cheated - started.

Your generation makes '0h horror' out of everything.

He don't call - oh horror

She is cheating - oh horror

Everything is taking 2 to tango and my story has WHY in it so is his.

So throw the stone who without sin...

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Being my generation, i would say Cheating is not really an excuse! Doesn't matter that you have never cheated before! We, the new generation are learning from you, the old generation that if you have an excuse, you can cheat! That too in a world where Divorce thing exists! Better separate and then do whatever you want to do...why? For the sake of the husband and the wife getting cheated

You generalise a lotttttttt...your generation our generation blah blah blah

And the funny part is - when others are doing anything thats butter...and when you're doing anything that has Why in it—

Stop judging others! If you've a reason for what you're doing, others can have too! Every coin has two sides to it you see OP
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Just because he's calling more etc I don't think it means anything. I think you want it to mean something. Until this dude divorces his wife, whatever he does means shit and it certainly isn't matching what you seem to want.
I was afraid of that. Thanks


I'm familiar with your story plus I've had a couple of situations with partners who were not free etc. Until they sign the divorce papers and that court stamps it or whatever... Everything they do or say to you, and I mean EVERYTHING... Is total bullshit.
and knowing her, she won't do the divorce because she's to darn pride & deluded about it.
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Knowing her? Who know me? You? You are delusional...

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Just because he's calling more etc I don't think it means anything. I think you want it to mean something. Until this dude divorces his wife, whatever he does means shit and it certainly isn't matching what you seem to want.
I was afraid of that. Thanks


I'm familiar with your story plus I've had a couple of situations with partners who were not free etc. Until they sign the divorce papers and that court stamps it or whatever... Everything they do or say to you, and I mean EVERYTHING... Is total bullshit.
and knowing her, she won't do the divorce because she's to darn pride & deluded about it.
Knowing her? Who know me? You? You are delusional...


And even trying to pull that one won't do anything for me. Since your trick is actually trying to pull others down to play as a denial one where you only want to gain attention of it (mostly negative attention like cheating Scorpio and doesn't want to divorce your husband since I know you had an account name gem64 and old dxpnet knows you well enough of your infamous history) and plays like a 5 year old who doesn't get a treat, just like CC & Bitcheye.

Since your moon (leo) is so desperate, desperate of having attention and the easier trick to do is the negative so you can stroke your ego down. Just like that generation thread.

And I do recommend for everyone here is to block that old geezer down. No matter of giving her advice, she won't listen to it. Even telling her to divorce if she loves him that much it won't do anything since she came to validates anyway (with her pride of cheating on her husband, like for real).
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It was Gemi9. Where did you get 64? LOL

And I was suggesting blocking for a longest time!

But you are still participating. Why?

And I am not cheating. Its phone conversations only.

Read whats written. Oh horror LOL

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Here is post from mature person on the similar situation. Read and learn!

I went through the post and one thing that strikes me is that- you are a person of great integrity (not me).

Marraige is a necessity for the society to thrive. Its man made and not in heavens.

The possibility of meeting a soulmate/ kindred spirit after your marraige is so high – especially karmic ones – what you do and the choices you make are very personal to your journey and other people have no right to comment – as there is no right and wrong and black and white – as these peoples opinions stem from.

Heres to your love which comes from a deeper place than everybody else’s.
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Anyone who suggested divorce - have you thought of families don't survive divorces?

But they do survive infidelity. A lot of times!
I agree families can survive infidelity, but not if it is ongoing DUH I will tell you when my bf and I got together, we were both w other ppl. I am not asking your story to "throw stones" at you.

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yes but there is a limit... don't you think?

7 years ....would you wait 7 + years to get with your boyfriend ....

(and there is no signs of that ending at anytime ...)
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Anyone who suggested divorce - have you thought of families don't survive divorces?

But they do survive infidelity. A lot of times!
I agree families can survive infidelity, but not if it is ongoing DUH I will tell you when my bf and I got together, we were both w other ppl. I am not asking your story to "throw stones" at you.


yes but there is a limit... don't you think?

7 years ....would you wait 7 + years to get with your boyfriend ....

(and there is no signs of that ending at anytime ...)
That's what I'm asking. Why aren't they just together. He does not want to divorce his wife?? I would have moved on by now, no way would I wait around for 7 years thas too damn long.



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yes ...thats true ...see I don't know the whole story either .....I'm fairly new ...but from what I hear ...op is an older lady like in her 50's who is married to a cappie who has money ...she has started an affair with a scorpio who she loves ...but wont divorce her husband b/c he has money ....OP PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CORRECT ME IF THIS IS NOT CORRECT...but if what people are saying is true ...I mean this is beyond anyone's advice or help the true is if they really loved each other they would have to some balls get a divorce from their spouses and move on with each other and be happy life is too short for this crap....and if she really is that old then she should know better ...and I kinda feel bad for the cappie ...no one deserves to be used for their cash....
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Anyone who suggested divorce - have you thought of families don't survive divorces?

But they do survive infidelity. A lot of times!
I agree families can survive infidelity, but not if it is ongoing DUH I will tell you when my bf and I got together, we were both w other ppl. I am not asking your story to "throw stones" at you.


yes but there is a limit... don't you think?

7 years ....would you wait 7 + years to get with your boyfriend ....

(and there is no signs of that ending at anytime ...)
That's what I'm asking. Why aren't they just together. He does not want to divorce his wife?? I would have moved on by now, no way would I wait around for 7 years thas too damn long.





yes ...thats true ...see I don't know the whole story either .....I'm fairly new ...but from what I hear ...op is an older lady like in her 50's who is married to a cappie who has money ...she has started an affair with a scorpio who she loves ...but wont divorce her husband b/c he has money ....OP PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CORRECT ME IF THIS IS NOT CORRECT...but if what people are saying is true ...I mean this is beyond anyone's advice or help the true is if they really loved each other they would have to some balls get a divorce from their spouses and move on with each other and be happy life is too short for this crap....and if she really is that old then she should know better ...and I kinda feel bad for the cappie ...no one deserves to be used for their cash....


Oooooh that's why she won't divorce him, wow. Thanks for filling me in. So the cap has no idea that any of this is going on!?!

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guuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrlll 😏 lol I don't know if cappie knows are not? Op? does cappie know? is this right?
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Anyone who suggested divorce - have you thought of families don't survive divorces?

But they do survive infidelity. A lot of times!
I agree families can survive infidelity, but not if it is ongoing DUH I will tell you when my bf and I got together, we were both w other ppl. I am not asking your story to "throw stones" at you.


yes but there is a limit... don't you think?

7 years ....would you wait 7 + years to get with your boyfriend ....

(and there is no signs of that ending at anytime ...)
That's what I'm asking. Why aren't they just together. He does not want to divorce his wife?? I would have moved on by now, no way would I wait around for 7 years thas too damn long.





yes ...thats true ...see I don't know the whole story either .....I'm fairly new ...but from what I hear ...op is an older lady like in her 50's who is married to a cappie who has money ...she has started an affair with a scorpio who she loves ...but wont divorce her husband b/c he has money ....OP PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CORRECT ME IF THIS IS NOT CORRECT...but if what people are saying is true ...I mean this is beyond anyone's advice or help the true is if they really loved each other they would have to some balls get a divorce from their spouses and move on with each other and be happy life is too short for this crap....and if she really is that old then she should know better ...and I kinda feel bad for the cappie ...no one deserves to be used for their cash....


Oooooh that's why she won't divorce him, wow. Thanks for filling me in. So the cap has no idea that any of this is going on!?!


guuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrlll 😏 lol I don't know if cappie knows are not? Op? does cappie know? is this right?
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It's been 7 years, the cappie most likely knows and probably has his own. You know when your spouse is cheating on you, sometimes it takes a while but you eventually figure it out, they slip up or your heart just tells you and 7 years is a long time, so he's bound to have caught on

And every family I know, including my own survived divorce just fine, so not sure what that's about.
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Anyone who suggested divorce - have you thought of families don't survive divorces?

But they do survive infidelity. A lot of times!
I agree families can survive infidelity, but not if it is ongoing DUH I will tell you when my bf and I got together, we were both w other ppl. I am not asking your story to "throw stones" at you.


yes but there is a limit... don't you think?

7 years ....would you wait 7 + years to get with your boyfriend ....

(and there is no signs of that ending at anytime ...)
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Yes I will wait to the rest of my life! Never before and not until now I was attracted to a person this much.

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Anyone who suggested divorce - have you thought of families don't survive divorces?

But they do survive infidelity. A lot of times!
I agree families can survive infidelity, but not if it is ongoing DUH I will tell you when my bf and I got together, we were both w other ppl. I am not asking your story to "throw stones" at you.


yes but there is a limit... don't you think?

7 years ....would you wait 7 + years to get with your boyfriend ....

(and there is no signs of that ending at anytime ...)
That's what I'm asking. Why aren't they just together. He does not want to divorce his wife?? I would have moved on by now, no way would I wait around for 7 years thas too damn long.





yes ...thats true ...see I don't know the whole story either .....I'm fairly new ...but from what I hear ...op is an older lady like in her 50's who is married to a cappie who has money ...she has started an affair with a scorpio who she loves ...but wont divorce her husband b/c he has money ....OP PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CORRECT ME IF THIS IS NOT CORRECT...but if what people are saying is true ...I mean this is beyond anyone's advice or help the true is if they really loved each other they would have to some balls get a divorce from their spouses and move on with each other and be happy life is too short for this crap....and if she really is that old then she should know better ...and I kinda feel bad for the cappie ...no one deserves to be used for their cash....

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NO! He has no money! And I had explained why Scorp wont divorce. He is a public person and it would be a nightmare. I am also not hurting my husband. I am performing my wife duty as cooking, cleaning and keeping him happy. Hope dies last...

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Anyone who suggested divorce - have you thought of families don't survive divorces?

But they do survive infidelity. A lot of times!
I agree families can survive infidelity, but not if it is ongoing DUH I will tell you when my bf and I got together, we were both w other ppl. I am not asking your story to "throw stones" at you.


yes but there is a limit... don't you think?

7 years ....would you wait 7 + years to get with your boyfriend ....

(and there is no signs of that ending at anytime ...)
That's what I'm asking. Why aren't they just together. He does not want to divorce his wife?? I would have moved on by now, no way would I wait around for 7 years thas too damn long.





yes ...thats true ...see I don't know the whole story either .....I'm fairly new ...but from what I hear ...op is an older lady like in her 50's who is married to a cappie who has money ...she has started an affair with a scorpio who she loves ...but wont divorce her husband b/c he has money ....OP PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CORRECT ME IF THIS IS NOT CORRECT...but if what people are saying is true ...I mean this is beyond anyone's advice or help the true is if they really loved each other they would have to some balls get a divorce from their spouses and move on with each other and be happy life is too short for this crap....and if she really is that old then she should know better ...and I kinda feel bad for the cappie ...no one deserves to be used for their cash....


NO! He has no money! And I had explained why Scorp wont divorce. He is a public person and it would be a nightmare. I am also not hurting my husband. I am performing my wife duty as cooking, cleaning and keeping him happy. Hope dies last...

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did you actually say that ...your performing your wifely duties AND YOUR HAVING AN AFFAIR ...whats wrong you ...marriage is built on love ...not this bullshit ....----I don't want to be rude or mean but if you want to be HAPPY don't be afraid to divorce and move on.....
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Anyone who suggested divorce - have you thought of families don't survive divorces?

But they do survive infidelity. A lot of times!
I agree families can survive infidelity, but not if it is ongoing DUH I will tell you when my bf and I got together, we were both w other ppl. I am not asking your story to "throw stones" at you.


yes but there is a limit... don't you think?

7 years ....would you wait 7 + years to get with your boyfriend ....

(and there is no signs of that ending at anytime ...)
That's what I'm asking. Why aren't they just together. He does not want to divorce his wife?? I would have moved on by now, no way would I wait around for 7 years thas too damn long.





yes ...thats true ...see I don't know the whole story either .....I'm fairly new ...but from what I hear ...op is an older lady like in her 50's who is married to a cappie who has money ...she has started an affair with a scorpio who she loves ...but wont divorce her husband b/c he has money ....OP PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CORRECT ME IF THIS IS NOT CORRECT...but if what people are saying is true ...I mean this is beyond anyone's advice or help the true is if they really loved each other they would have to some balls get a divorce from their spouses and move on with each other and be happy life is too short for this crap....and if she really is that old then she should know better ...and I kinda feel bad for the cappie ...no one deserves to be used for their cash....


NO! He has no money! And I had explained why Scorp wont divorce. He is a public person and it would be a nightmare. I am also not hurting my husband. I am performing my wife duty as cooking, cleaning and keeping him happy. Hope dies last...


did you actually say that ...your performing your wifely duties AND YOUR HAVING AN AFFAIR ...whats wrong you ...marriage is built on love ...not this bullshit ....----I don't want to be rude or mean but if you want to be HAPPY don't be afraid to divorce and move on.....
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I didn't mean sex!