Want some suggestions.

Hello. I have been with my scorpio for almost 3 months now, im a hopeless romantic naturally but the last couple dates weve gone on she seemed.... Well... Bored tbh. So i was hopeing you scorp people could give me some suggestions to help show her how much i feel for her and how important she is to me. I have a few but you can only do so much when both parties libe with their units.

Well its mutually done. Like i plan a date then she does and so on in that matter.

Sounds a little routine to me. Examples would be good?

Thats cute.

I am about as Scorpio as Scorpio gets so maybe also post her Moon /Venus /Mars to give us a broader picture of her - but from my perspective, a guy has to strike the balance between making me feel important / adored and not feeling like a walkover. Which is a hard line to walk.

I like things with a bit of depth -getting sent a song that reminds him of me, maybe a text to tell me how beautiful I am. I don't like suprises that much and I am not materialistic. You'd win my heart faster with the right words or a funny present that shows that you "get me" than anything big or awe inspiring.

Everything for me is about how I feel, how he feels and the sexiest thing in the world is feeling that crazy deep level connection like it;s the two of you against the world.

I don't think you should worry so much about big gestures, but be consistent, honest, trustworthy, confident and look at her like you have never seen anything more beautiful in your life

Posted by Brandonb55
Hello. I have been with my scorpio for almost 3 months now, im a hopeless romantic naturally but the last couple dates weve gone on she seemed.... Well... Bored tbh. So i was hopeing you scorp people could give me some suggestions to help show her how much i feel for her and how important she is to me. I have a few but you can only do so much when both parties libe with their units.

What's her Venus and Moon?

Moon is aries. Unsure on her venus tho.

Posted by Brandonb55
Moon is aries. Unsure on her venus tho.

All i saw was venus enters scorpio. So shes a scorp with aries moon scorp sun and venus. Thats all i know so far, still trying to learn all of this stuff honestly

Posted by AgentP911
Sounds a little routine to me. Examples would be good?

Umm the last one we went to was the david bowey memorial thing at the park near my place. Only went for the movie tho. Before that it was a picnic in the park (she actually chose both)

Posted by brandyp
It always helps to have a lot of outside stimuli. Try going to feed or pet some animals, that kinda thing is so feel good and is not boring. If she is bored petting and feeding animals then maybe she is boring.

While you should be making an effort ( and it sounds like you are) it's not your full time job to entertain her.

Its not. Doesnt mean i want to make her feel more loved than any other man could have shown.

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Posted by brandyp
It always helps to have a lot of outside stimuli. Try going to feed or pet some animals, that kinda thing is so feel good and is not boring. If she is bored petting and feeding animals then maybe she is boring.

While you should be making an effort ( and it sounds like you are) it's not your full time job to entertain her.

Its not. Doesnt mean i want to make her feel more loved than any other man could have shown.

Sry dude, I'm just grumpy. You should do watever it takes to keep your girl, gl.

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Thanks. And sorry if that sounded rude. Not my intent.

I swear Cancer and Scorpio could stand the test of time.. My parents have been through it all and still remain. (My Dad is an alcoholic though so that sucks...) And like I said my Mom has stood by his side.

My Mom is a Scorpio and honestly she's never asked for much. My best friend too and man that woman does more for others than herself. Both just want to be respected and understood. They both actually feel happy when someone does something for them. Both however are quiet and being a libra (not overly extroverted, but definitely more than them) I often wonder if they are bored because they are so quiet. But when I ask they say no. Pretty content with whatever. Never really complain. It's pretty early so ask her what she likes to do. Take a mental note and think of ways to have fun. But honestly, my Mom and friend don't ever really need something crazy and out there to do. My impression of Scorpios is not that you have to entertain them, it's that you have interesting conversations, hang out together, and be there if and when they need you. (Although they are very independent as well.)

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Posted by Brandonb55
Hello. I have been with my scorpio for almost 3 months now, im a hopeless romantic naturally but the last couple dates weve gone on she seemed.... Well... Bored tbh. So i was hopeing you scorp people could give me some suggestions to help show her how much i feel for her and how important she is to me. I have a few but you can only do so much when both parties libe with their units.

Im not a scorpio women.. but planning dates all the time can be boring... u need some spontaneity.. in your life.... ex: when shes at work and if u can make it for her lunch break do it. call and let her the day of..that u want to take her to lunch...... if u had something planned change it up with out her knowing shock the panties off her...

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Most fun weve had in a while was last night. I told her to dress pretty and i took her on a movie date. Btw suicide squad.... I dont think it was worth the 25bucks i blew for it and concession.but yeah, she loved that i told her i was picking her up at this time and where were going is a surprise. Took her to lunch and movie. First time ive seen her smile that much since we first kissed.

Is she daring? You guys should do something adventurous! If not outdoors, try something thrilling.

Me and her have been trying to find roomates and i suggested eachother. She is afraid due to not knowing what will happen lets say 2 years down the road and shes also had a bad experience with roomates. She likes the idea but she is going to meet with her friend and talk to her about it because of her being her rock and all that. I find it to be a wonderful idea and she sees the fear behind it all. Im letting her decide on her own and not bringing it up again until she is ready to talk about it.