Is this scorpio seeking revenge?

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hurtbyscorpio
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I've been talking to a scorpio on and off for the past three years....nothing serious. He knows I like him, and he replies to me whenever he wants..pops up and disappears. That hurts my feelings a bit, it's like I can't get through. i recently passed one of his trust tests sometime last year, but I still didn't hear from him...he started liking my Facebook posts but never pictures of my face, and he comments on my posts sometimes too. Sometimes I don't hear from him for months until I initiate convos...Last month we recently connected...he seemed to pour put feelings that were genuine in a facebook message saying things how he really likes me and thought we should grow.(i initially thought it was just to get sex, but these were paragraphs) I didn't take him serious because of him disappearing and not responding to me for months at a time. I also recently befriended someone on facebook that wrote something negatively about him....and he responded and asked why did i befriend this person..he seemed totally offended. Even, though I told him it was just social media and i wasn't this persons friend in real life. he seemed totally ok with my apology, and i didn't hear from him anymore...until 4 weeks later when he poured out his feelings for me, honestly i didn't think they were genuine so i politely friend zoned him...he became offended and deleted all his messages and unfriended me on facebook, when i questioned why did he unfriend me..he said he didn't know how that happened and quickly friend-ed me back... Then, he randomly invites me to a birthday party his family had....i come and he's like watching me intensely the entire not, i figured he thought i'd sleep with him..but i didn't. I brought a friend along and he befriended her on facebook the next day...she's very attractive, but they had no other relationship other than through me. Was this done to make me jealous for shooting down his feelings?
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This isn't going to be what you want to hear, but drop him and move on. He sees you as an option not an interest to pursue. Especially after three years.




see what I mean, what on earth do u girls want? if this was sarcasm im sorry 🙂


I don't understand your point.

Are you saying you'd be serious about a girl, after talking to her on/off intermittently and never actually dating her for three years? I don't know too many Scorp dudes that would play out a situation like that. Scorp dudes I know that drag women around for years have told me point blank 'Yeah she's a nice girl and sex is good but I'll never marry her. Probably just going to date casually till we find someone else.'

It shouldn't matter what girls or guys in general want when it comes to dating. All that should matter is what the individual wants and if that lines up for each person.
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this poor guy poured out his feelings not once, but twice. She blew him off. i cant comment him disappearing in the beginning, he owed her nothing in the beginning but the day he opened up was the day he revealed himself..these are definitely kids lol but she blows him off, twice, but now wants to know if he's trying to make her jealous, why does she even care? she "friendzoned" him AND u tell her to get rid of him lmao she did months ago actually..U girls smh



yes OP, Hes trying to make u jealous. smh



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hurtbyscorpio
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I just wanted to know is he making me jealous? testing me to see will I reach out in a rage?
*Sigh* Probably. All it does to me when someone tries to make me jealous is make me lose respect for them and think they're immature. It never worked on me...
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It's very immature! He'd just been pursuing me hard the day before, got MAD and deleted everything and unfriended me! He also lied about unfriending me! I just believe his he was raged, and couldn't control his temper.....oh he also brought up me befrieding that person on facebook AFTER he said that it was ok 4 weeks back. idk, him going after my friend sounds like a lesson to me. i did get a little jealous but i'm not up for his mind games.
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hurtbyscorpio
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This isn't going to be what you want to hear, but drop him and move on. He sees you as an option not an interest to pursue. Especially after three years.




see what I mean, what on earth do u girls want? if this was sarcasm im sorry 🙂


I don't understand your point.

Are you saying you'd be serious about a girl, after talking to her on/off intermittently and never actually dating her for three years? I don't know too many Scorp dudes that would play out a situation like that. Scorp dudes I know that drag women around for years have told me point blank 'Yeah she's a nice girl and sex is good but I'll never marry her. Probably just going to date casually till we find someone else.'

It shouldn't matter what girls or guys in general want when it comes to dating. All that should matter is what the individual wants and if that lines up for each person.




this poor guy poured out his feelings not once, but twice. She blew him off. i cant comment him disappearing in the beginning, he owed her nothing in the beginning but the day he opened up was the day he revealed himself..these are definitely kids lol but she blows him off, twice, but now wants to know if he's trying to make her jealous, why does she even care? she "friendzoned" him AND u tell her to get rid of him lmao she did months ago actually..U girls smh



yes OP, Hes trying to make u jealous. smh



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FYI he poured them out ONCE in the course of 3 years, after all of his mind games! he seemed to notice only the BAD and never the good I did. I praised him and told him i liked him on several occasions! Sometimes no response or REACTION! so i just lost feelings, and friend zoned him when he poured our his...deep down i really like him, but don't trust him! He can have my friend! A taste of his own medicine seems better!
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Posted by Ellygant
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This isn't going to be what you want to hear, but drop him and move on. He sees you as an option not an interest to pursue. Especially after three years.




see what I mean, what on earth do u girls want? if this was sarcasm im sorry 🙂


I don't understand your point.

Are you saying you'd be serious about a girl, after talking to her on/off intermittently and never actually dating her for three years? I don't know too many Scorp dudes that would play out a situation like that. Scorp dudes I know that drag women around for years have told me point blank 'Yeah she's a nice girl and sex is good but I'll never marry her. Probably just going to date casually till we find someone else.'

It shouldn't matter what girls or guys in general want when it comes to dating. All that should matter is what the individual wants and if that lines up for each person.




this poor guy poured out his feelings not once, but twice. She blew him off. i cant comment him disappearing in the beginning, he owed her nothing in the beginning but the day he opened up was the day he revealed himself..these are definitely kids lol but she blows him off, twice, but now wants to know if he's trying to make her jealous, why does she even care? she "friendzoned" him AND u tell her to get rid of him lmao she did months ago actually..U girls smh



yes OP, Hes trying to make u jealous. smh




Aw! This "poor guy" ignored her for months and then didn't have the guts to speak to her directly about the friend thing. He's a big baby. He needs a pacifier.
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hurtbyscorpio
@hurtbyscorpio
8 Years

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Posted by MaxPower
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Posted by Ellygant
Posted by 13th
Posted by Ellygant
This isn't going to be what you want to hear, but drop him and move on. He sees you as an option not an interest to pursue. Especially after three years.




see what I mean, what on earth do u girls want? if this was sarcasm im sorry 🙂


I don't understand your point.

Are you saying you'd be serious about a girl, after talking to her on/off intermittently and never actually dating her for three years? I don't know too many Scorp dudes that would play out a situation like that. Scorp dudes I know that drag women around for years have told me point blank 'Yeah she's a nice girl and sex is good but I'll never marry her. Probably just going to date casually till we find someone else.'

It shouldn't matter what girls or guys in general want when it comes to dating. All that should matter is what the individual wants and if that lines up for each person.




this poor guy poured out his feelings not once, but twice. She blew him off. i cant comment him disappearing in the beginning, he owed her nothing in the beginning but the day he opened up was the day he revealed himself..these are definitely kids lol but she blows him off, twice, but now wants to know if he's trying to make her jealous, why does she even care? she "friendzoned" him AND u tell her to get rid of him lmao she did months ago actually..U girls smh



yes OP, Hes trying to make u jealous. smh




Aw! This "poor guy" ignored her for months and then didn't have the guts to speak to her directly about the friend thing. He's a big baby. He needs a pacifier.
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I'm with you here! He won't get the reaction he wants...... he's a mean scorpio, who covers it up as a nice guy to get what he wants..
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Posted by MaxPower
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Posted by Ellygant
Posted by 13th
Posted by Ellygant
This isn't going to be what you want to hear, but drop him and move on. He sees you as an option not an interest to pursue. Especially after three years.




see what I mean, what on earth do u girls want? if this was sarcasm im sorry 🙂


I don't understand your point.

Are you saying you'd be serious about a girl, after talking to her on/off intermittently and never actually dating her for three years? I don't know too many Scorp dudes that would play out a situation like that. Scorp dudes I know that drag women around for years have told me point blank 'Yeah she's a nice girl and sex is good but I'll never marry her. Probably just going to date casually till we find someone else.'

It shouldn't matter what girls or guys in general want when it comes to dating. All that should matter is what the individual wants and if that lines up for each person.




this poor guy poured out his feelings not once, but twice. She blew him off. i cant comment him disappearing in the beginning, he owed her nothing in the beginning but the day he opened up was the day he revealed himself..these are definitely kids lol but she blows him off, twice, but now wants to know if he's trying to make her jealous, why does she even care? she "friendzoned" him AND u tell her to get rid of him lmao she did months ago actually..U girls smh



yes OP, Hes trying to make u jealous. smh




Aw! This "poor guy" ignored her for months and then didn't have the guts to speak to her directly about the friend thing. He's a big baby. He needs a pacifier.
I'm with you here! He won't get the reaction he wants...... he's a mean scorpio, who covers it up as a nice guy to get what he wants..

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OP youre gonna make matters worse wit this big baby. no reaction is something we (scorp M) cant handle...

hey at least youre getting a reaction from him, that means theres some feelings there...treat him the same way he was treating you, he'll be here in 5 months asking for help, and ima owe somebody here 10 bucks lol
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hurtbyscorpio
@hurtbyscorpio
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Posted by Ellygant
Posted by 13th
Posted by Ellygant
Posted by 13th
Posted by Ellygant
This isn't going to be what you want to hear, but drop him and move on. He sees you as an option not an interest to pursue. Especially after three years.




see what I mean, what on earth do u girls want? if this was sarcasm im sorry 🙂


I don't understand your point.

Are you saying you'd be serious about a girl, after talking to her on/off intermittently and never actually dating her for three years? I don't know too many Scorp dudes that would play out a situation like that. Scorp dudes I know that drag women around for years have told me point blank 'Yeah she's a nice girl and sex is good but I'll never marry her. Probably just going to date casually till we find someone else.'

It shouldn't matter what girls or guys in general want when it comes to dating. All that should matter is what the individual wants and if that lines up for each person.




this poor guy poured out his feelings not once, but twice. She blew him off. i cant comment him disappearing in the beginning, he owed her nothing in the beginning but the day he opened up was the day he revealed himself..these are definitely kids lol but she blows him off, twice, but now wants to know if he's trying to make her jealous, why does she even care? she "friendzoned" him AND u tell her to get rid of him lmao she did months ago actually..U girls smh



yes OP, Hes trying to make u jealous. smh




He can't hit and run with emotions. Which is what he did. It's a total water sign cop out to want to dump emotions on people then when they don't respond exactly how we want freak out and run. I know. I've been a master at it lol.

If you care about someone though, you give their emotional process just as much respect as you do your own. No ones feelings and way of thinking holds greater importance than another.
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So true! He expected me to be at his feet! And this time I wasn't so he gets mad and unfriends me then lies about it. This isn't the first time he's lied to me! I'm really just going to drop him altogether, although I know he's only going to talk to my friend to make me mad because he can't have him...but atleast I know I have that much power over him... does he think that will make me give in and sleep with him? He's a guy alot of girls want btw
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hurtbyscorpio
@hurtbyscorpio
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He could be trying to make you jealous. or he could just be sleezy.

I was involved with a scorpio man who dated not one but two of my ex girlfriends, the two girls I dated after him, right after him and I fell out.

The thing about jealousy though, is it doesn't matter if you don't allow it. I ignored the Scorp that did that to me and swear to god he threw multiple bitch fits trying to get me to react. He was just trying to bait me to see if he still had a hold. It didn't work. So he finally slinked away silently.

At a certain point, some scorps when you reject them become more concerned with evening the emotional damage they feel you inflicted on them. It's not about caring, it's about their ego.
Yes, I feel like I'd been trying so long with him.....that I just needed to do that for my sanity! I needed to stick up for myself...he probably saw me as a pushover.
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Posted by Ellygant
Posted by 13th
Posted by Ellygant
Posted by 13th
Posted by Ellygant
This isn't going to be what you want to hear, but drop him and move on. He sees you as an option not an interest to pursue. Especially after three years.




see what I mean, what on earth do u girls want? if this was sarcasm im sorry 🙂


I don't understand your point.

Are you saying you'd be serious about a girl, after talking to her on/off intermittently and never actually dating her for three years? I don't know too many Scorp dudes that would play out a situation like that. Scorp dudes I know that drag women around for years have told me point blank 'Yeah she's a nice girl and sex is good but I'll never marry her. Probably just going to date casually till we find someone else.'

It shouldn't matter what girls or guys in general want when it comes to dating. All that should matter is what the individual wants and if that lines up for each person.




this poor guy poured out his feelings not once, but twice. She blew him off. i cant comment him disappearing in the beginning, he owed her nothing in the beginning but the day he opened up was the day he revealed himself..these are definitely kids lol but she blows him off, twice, but now wants to know if he's trying to make her jealous, why does she even care? she "friendzoned" him AND u tell her to get rid of him lmao she did months ago actually..U girls smh



yes OP, Hes trying to make u jealous. smh




He can't hit and run with emotions. Which is what he did. It's a total water sign cop out to want to dump emotions on people then when they don't respond exactly how we want freak out and run. I know. I've been a master at it lol.

If you care about someone though, you give their emotional process just as much respect as you do your own. No ones feelings and way of thinking holds greater importance than another.
So true! He expected me to be at his feet! And this time I wasn't so he gets mad and unfriends me then lies about it. This isn't the first time he's lied to me! I'm really just going to drop him altogether, although I know he's only going to talk to my friend to make me mad because he can't have him...but atleast I know I have that much power over him... does he think that will make me give in and sleep with him? He's a guy alot of girls want btw
What about this "friend" of yours? Who dates their friends exes? That's shitty too. And also high school drama shit.
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so true! even though I friendzoned him she knows that I have feelings for him..
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hurtbyscorpio
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Posted by 13th
Posted by Ellygant
This isn't going to be what you want to hear, but drop him and move on. He sees you as an option not an interest to pursue. Especially after three years.




see what I mean, what on earth do u girls want? if this was sarcasm im sorry 🙂


I don't understand your point.

Are you saying you'd be serious about a girl, after talking to her on/off intermittently and never actually dating her for three years? I don't know too many Scorp dudes that would play out a situation like that. Scorp dudes I know that drag women around for years have told me point blank 'Yeah she's a nice girl and sex is good but I'll never marry her. Probably just going to date casually till we find someone else.'

It shouldn't matter what girls or guys in general want when it comes to dating. All that should matter is what the individual wants and if that lines up for each person.




this poor guy poured out his feelings not once, but twice. She blew him off. i cant comment him disappearing in the beginning, he owed her nothing in the beginning but the day he opened up was the day he revealed himself..these are definitely kids lol but she blows him off, twice, but now wants to know if he's trying to make her jealous, why does she even care? she "friendzoned" him AND u tell her to get rid of him lmao she did months ago actually..U girls smh



yes OP, Hes trying to make u jealous. smh




He can't hit and run with emotions. Which is what he did. It's a total water sign cop out to want to dump emotions on people then when they don't respond exactly how we want freak out and run. I know. I've been a master at it lol.

If you care about someone though, you give their emotional process just as much respect as you do your own. No ones feelings and way of thinking holds greater importance than another.
So true! He expected me to be at his feet! And this time I wasn't so he gets mad and unfriends me then lies about it. This isn't the first time he's lied to me! I'm really just going to drop him altogether, although I know he's only going to talk to my friend to make me mad because he can't have him...but atleast I know I have that much power over him... does he think that will make me give in and sleep with him? He's a guy alot of girls want btw
What about this "friend" of yours? Who dates their friends exes? That's shitty too. And also high school drama shit.
so true! even though I friendzoned him she knows that I have feelings for him..
Friends don't do that. When I was 15, I turned down a super-hottie because my man was jonezing for her. You just don't do that.
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Thanks os much for hearing me out, and understanding! means so much