Scorpio sex starting to SUCK! (Pun intended)

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@AprilFoolsUHoe
9 Years

Okay.

So he's still very yummy, and gets REALLY intense just by looking at me, but I've always hated giving blowjobs but I found it fun to do with him, and once he realised I give good blow jobs, that's all he ever wants. I guess he was never really into them before and would get bored, so maybe this is new to him or some bullshit, but it's really boring for me, because I don't want to sit there and suck dick for hours, or really for more than ten mins, and then---here we go again, if I stop, guess what he does? CUDDLES. Isn't that nice.

Especially lately I've been a bit upset and would like to "let loose" get off a bit but I can't because either all we are doing is kissing, cuddling, or I'm sucking dick, and It's boring. But he still turns me on, should I just say bye to him and hi to the shower head (LOL) and just move on sexually elsewhere, air is there a way to talk about this that will actually make a difference? He's not an asshole I just don't think he realises that I'm B O R E D. He knows I'm not very cuddly and we joke about it a lot but C'MON get tf off me with those feels.

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@bricklemark
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Tell him...ask him...lm a bit bored...l want you to do stuff....seriously !!! It'll turn him on !!!!

We think women WANT to suck d but when they ask, or hint, we're like, ok, let's go ? It's on ??

Women are always complaining about raoe and harassment, we're scared to touch you!!! Ask him !!!!!!

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@AprilFoolsUHoe
9 Years

That peach licking makes me highly uncomfortable —

And hm, I just don't want to end up saying it a little too harsh, I have a bad problem with that. Don't mean to but it always comes out wrong. I honestly think I'm just not going to hang out with him anymore, it's not even fun anymore. If he wants some, he can go get some bravery and go for someone else, I'm not interested anymore.

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@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

You should talk to him first and TELL him that you need some more variety. Have you tried getting him to reciprocate at the same time (aka 69ing)? When I was your age I was doing every position there was. You need to communicate with your partner and possibly get creative. It doesn't make sense that he seems to be getting his while you're still left unsatisfied. If he can't perform "down there" then the least he could do is "go down" on you.

If he refuses to vary things up or get creative, then you'll need to reconsider your relationship. Communication is key though.

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@AprilFoolsUHoe
9 Years

Posted by Chuckcem
You should talk to him first and TELL him that you need some more variety. Have you tried getting him to reciprocate at the same time (aka 69ing)? When I was your age I was doing every position there was. You need to communicate with your partner and possibly get creative. It doesn't make sense that he seems to be getting his while you're still left unsatisfied. If he can't perform "down there" then the least he could do is "go down" on you.

If he refuses to vary things up or get creative, then you'll need to reconsider your relationship. Communication is key though.

I'll guide him how I want from time to time and he will do it, and then stop, and cuddle. He "teases" me pretty much the whole time and then stops to cuddle.

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@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by Chuckcem
You should talk to him first and TELL him that you need some more variety. Have you tried getting him to reciprocate at the same time (aka 69ing)? When I was your age I was doing every position there was. You need to communicate with your partner and possibly get creative. It doesn't make sense that he seems to be getting his while you're still left unsatisfied. If he can't perform "down there" then the least he could do is "go down" on you.

If he refuses to vary things up or get creative, then you'll need to reconsider your relationship. Communication is key though.

I'll guide him how I want from time to time and he will do it, and then stop, and cuddle. He "teases" me pretty much the whole time and then stops to cuddle.

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Did you talk to him about the cuddling thing btw? Also what's wrong with him going down on you?

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@AprilFoolsUHoe
9 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
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Posted by LadyNeptune
69 is your friend. That way you both can share in the sore jaw

I actually do not enjoy getting head.

whys that??

I don't know, I get insecure and then not enjoy it. I haven't let him go down on me like that yet.

Why are you feeling insecure??

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It's just such a private thing, so personal. And it doesn't even feel that great (at least the few times i have let people go down on me) not my thing.

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@Modelsink
9 Years

Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Okay.

So he's still very yummy, and gets REALLY intense just by looking at me, but I've always hated giving blowjobs but I found it fun to do with him, and once he realised I give good blow jobs, that's all he ever wants. I guess he was never really into them before and would get bored, so maybe this is new to him or some bullshit, but it's really boring for me, because I don't want to sit there and suck dick for hours, or really for more than ten mins, and then---here we go again, if I stop, guess what he does? CUDDLES. Isn't that nice.

Especially lately I've been a bit upset and would like to "let loose" get off a bit but I can't because either all we are doing is kissing, cuddling, or I'm sucking dick, and It's boring. But he still turns me on, should I just say bye to him and hi to the shower head (LOL) and just move on sexually elsewhere, air is there a way to talk about this that will actually make a difference? He's not an asshole I just don't think he realises that I'm B O R E D. He knows I'm not very cuddly and we joke about it a lot but C'MON get tf off me with those feels.

Practice makes perfect. Use your imagination and suggestions. Why wait on him and call him boring when you seem to be just as boring yourself. It's your sex too so take control of it.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by LadyNeptune
69 is your friend. That way you both can share in the sore jaw

I actually do not enjoy getting head.

whys that??

I don't know, I get insecure and then not enjoy it. I haven't let him go down on me like that yet.

Why are you feeling insecure??

It's just such a private thing, so personal. And it doesn't even feel that great (at least the few times i have let people go down on me) not my thing.

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A lot of dudes go at your clit with the same intensity they want for their dick, not realizing that we are waaaaaaay more sensitive down there. You need to communicate with him on what feels good and what doesn't. A great way to do this is moan loudly/verbal encouragement whenever something feels bomb.

If your worried about your look or scent than do some prep work prior. After shaving rub in some coconut oil for silky smooth skin. Also drink pineapple or mango juice a few hours before...this will improve your taste.

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@Modelsink
9 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by LadyNeptune
69 is your friend. That way you both can share in the sore jaw

I actually do not enjoy getting head.

whys that??

I don't know, I get insecure and then not enjoy it. I haven't let him go down on me like that yet.

Why are you feeling insecure??

It's just such a private thing, so personal. And it doesn't even feel that great (at least the few times i have let people go down on me) not my thing.

A lot of dudes go at your clit with the same intensity they want for their dick, not realizing that we are waaaaaaay more sensitive down there. You need to communicate with him on what feels good and what doesn't. A great way to do this is moan loudly/verbal encouragement whenever something feels bomb.

If your worried about your look or scent than do some prep work prior. After shaving rub in some coconut oil for silky smooth skin. Also drink pineapple or mango juice a few hours before...this will improve your taste.

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Pure water is the best drink to detoxify the body and no takeway food.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

You say the sex sucs but the thing is, your 50% of the equation. You need to communicate with him. I mean do you want to get off or no? Take control of your own pleasure.

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@AprilFoolsUHoe
9 Years

Posted by Infinite8
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Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.

I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?

Yes...quite literally actually.

What?!?? Pffff....

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Oh but hilarious right? WRONG. It's actually very annoying because I already don't really like cuddling that much. And yes yes yes we have talked about it, and I usually push him off of me and sit far away until he wants to be sexual again, but he cuddles way too much. For even a cancer.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by Infinite8
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by enfant_terrible
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.

I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?

Yes...quite literally actually.

What?!?? Pffff....

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Oh but hilarious right? WRONG. It's actually very annoying because I already don't really like cuddling that much. And yes yes yes we have talked about it, and I usually push him off of me and sit far away until he wants to be sexual again, but he cuddles way too much. For even a cancer.

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Ok I have the perfect solution for you.

You need to bring a vibrator into bed with you. When he takes his selfish ass breaks (despite you asking him to continue) you whip out the vibe lay back and get your O. It'll send a pretty clear message that its not all about him.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

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Hey!

My five year-old niece was surfing on my PC, clicked on one of my tabs and accidentally saw this. She was so traumatised...

For Christ's sake... change your offensive avi!

Nope.

Don't let your five year old niece surf the web. This site is 18 and up. I'm not gonna be penalized for your neglect.

Okay, so she doesn't have a sense of humour...

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Was that supposed to be funny? Cause I'm not getting....

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by LadyNeptune
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Posted by ScorpioTruth
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Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.

I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?

Because women like foreplay too, FYI.

Foreplay = greasing up your special lady when she's 'not in the mood'.

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Foreplay sounds so forced. Like something husbands had to learn in the 1950's so that their rigid wives would stop faking headaches. When she's in the mood she's jumping you before you can even rock a full erection. Women aren't that different from men ime.

When she's not in the mood however, she needs foreplay. Emphasis on *needs*, not *wants*. So why bother someone for sex if that particular day it feels like a chore to them for whatever reason?

Hence my aversion to what's traditionally considered foreplay.

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@enfant_terrible
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Posted by Infinite8
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by ScorpioTruth
Posted by enfant_terrible
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.

I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?

Because women like foreplay too, FYI.

Foreplay = greasing up your special lady when she's 'not in the mood'.

Lol... that's fucked up. ?

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When she's in the mood she'll come to you juices dripping and everything.

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@SofiaV87
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Yea so u will have to communicate to him that u need more sex & that you're ok with Blow js but that u have your needs as well .. I see he's a scorpio with a Pisces moon & likes to over cuddle .. you're an Aries with an Aries Venus, don't know how this will work but u never know , let us know what happens !

Edit: & your mars is in Scorpio ?! Ok it's done , move on lol

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17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by Infinite8

Well... sometimes just being is considered foreplay.

But traditional is also fun IF unexpected. Repition and lack of creativity is what would cause me to have a headache ✋—

Kidding aside.. yeah foreplay to me can last a whole day without any touching even. It's when you know you're both frisky and have a banter going till you have the opportunity to rip eachother's clothes off.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Infinite8
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by Infinite8
Posted by AprilFoolsUHoe
Posted by enfant_terrible
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.

I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?

Yes...quite literally actually.

What?!?? Pffff....

Image Not Found

Oh but hilarious right? WRONG. It's actually very annoying because I already don't really like cuddling that much. And yes yes yes we have talked about it, and I usually push him off of me and sit far away until he wants to be sexual again, but he cuddles way too much. For even a cancer.

Ok I have the perfect solution for you.

You need to bring a vibrator into bed with you. When he takes his selfish ass breaks (despite you asking him to continue) you whip out the vibe lay back and get your O. It'll send a pretty clear message that its not all about him.

?... is it even worth trying?!?! They don't sound like they are into each other at all.

They don't bring out the best in each other. She's too busy being insecure and he is either selfish or getting her vibes and just not getting turned on enough by her to bring the wolf out.

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It's basically a fuck you-wake up call. Last resort. Since communicating with words doesn't seem to be working.

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@enfant_terrible
17 Years10,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by Infinite8

If you want a simple woman that is always "on" she'd have to have a hell of a lot of masculine energy - make sure no feminine changeability gets in the way for you...lol.

No one's always 'on'. I'm just saying if you have a bad day I'm not going to foreplay you into having sex with me. It's either organic or it's not.

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by ScorpioTruth
Posted by enfant_terrible
Why don't you just take care of business and get on top of the d. when you stop sucking. Pun intended.

I mean what's he gonna do, lift you off his dick to cuddle?

Because women like foreplay too, FYI.

Foreplay = greasing up your special lady when she's 'not in the mood'.

Image Not Found

Foreplay sounds so forced. Like something husbands had to learn in the 1950's so that their rigid wives would stop faking headaches. When she's in the mood she's jumping you before you can even rock a full erection. Women aren't that different from men ime.

When she's not in the mood however, she needs foreplay. Emphasis on *needs*, not *wants*. So why bother someone for sex if that particular day it feels like a chore to them for whatever reason?

Hence my aversion to what's traditionally considered foreplay.

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Thing is I can be turned on and super wet...doesn't mean I'm ready for penetration. If you spend the time prior to fucking the whole experience is much much MUCH better for us and its far more likely we're gonna cum. At least 15 mins foreplay is what I, personally, require.

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