Is unforgiveness an unforgivable sin

Why would one not forgive another ? Essp if it's a petty disagreement.

Doesn't forgiving mean taking control over your own pain and hurt ?

I personally forgive because I allow no one think they can hurt me over an extended period of time I forgive to release.

Why would another not want to forgive I understand some will never forget but isn't forgiveness the right thing to do for yourself ?

Posted by einrickpisces

Posted by Tinxy

Why would one not forgive another ? Essp if it's a petty disagreement.

Doesn't forgiving mean taking control over your own pain and hurt ?

I personally forgive because I allow no one think they can hurt me over an extended period of time I forgive to release.

Why would another not want to forgive I understand some will never forget but isn't forgiveness the right thing to do for yourself ?

They say "there's no forgiveness without justice" that because some mistake can't be forgiven just by saying "sorry"

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Yes I understand this if we were referring to a crime against another human... Murder, rape etc

But an argument ?
Do words really cut that deep I can't ever imagine not forgiving for such a things as angry words.

Posted by tiziani

Posted by Tinxy

Why would one not forgive another ? Essp if it's a petty disagreement.

Doesn't forgiving mean taking control over your own pain and hurt ?

I personally forgive because I allow no one think they can hurt me over an extended period of time I forgive to release.

Why would another not want to forgive I understand some will never forget but isn't forgiveness the right thing to do for yourself ?

I think that's a common sentiment amongst women but you're trying to apply it to a man.

Different ballparks.

Not really a big deal to a man if people can hurt us or not because it's just part of taking blows.

Djbuck made a good post on this a while back.

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So why would a man not forgive I'm intrested to know ...?