Leo and Scorpio, please help!

It is a long story...

Currently, I am in a relationship of 3 years with a Cap, but for a long time I am fascinated by a Scorpio. My relationship is sort of dying, I have discussed with the Cap, we both know the current state of things, and we probably don't end it right now just because there still are some feelings (mostly companionship) and we know that probably it will hurt, so we just postpone it (I know, not very wise)

About the Scorpio:
I am a Leo woman (27) and I met the Scorpio man (33) in 2006. He had a girlfriend; I just briefly heard of her existence from common friends. 2 months after we met we were a "couple" for 3 days (he initiated it); I was so happy! But after the 3 days, he decided he doesn't want to see me anymore because "I am a woman and women bite emotionally too hard for him to bear". I disappeared. During the next 3 years we kept talking occasionally on the phone (4-5 times/year - very profound conversations), a few times we met socially because of common friends. 3 years ago we met in a bar, started talking... and we ended up having sex,the emotions were overwhelming. Than again we did not see wach other for a few months and when we did meet we acted like a couple in love, holding hands, kissing and so on. The next day, I left to study in another country, where I started my relationship with the Cap. Meanwhile, the Scorpio wrote me a couple of emails, and we chatted online a few times. 8 months ago we had an interesting discussion, he said he really misses me and needs me to come back to have me close and asked "why I didn't love him". For me it was shocking, I was always fascinated by him, and he was the one pushing me away. 2 months ago I came back to my home city and I let him know that I am back, he said we have to meet. After 4 days I called him. He said he is unable to meet because of back pain. I said ok, let me know when you feel better. A few weeks after, he sent me a message saying "you and me, we are playing. since 2006". Then yesterday, he sent a message asking "when will we meet", I replied today, then again no reply.
Also, I have heard that he ended his relationship a 3-4 months ago. Another relevant element is that his job keeps him out of the country for 6-8 months a year.

I don't understand what (if?) does he want with me? What should I do, considering I am fascinated by this Scorpio? I can not stop thinking of him, dreaming of him...

Thank you for your patience and I am eagerly waiting your advic

Thanks!

The Scorpio does not know about my boyfriend, maybe he heard of his existence, but for sure he does not know any details. I want to sort things out with the Scorpio, so that I will be calm(er) and able to sort out my relationship with the Capricorn also.

I can't categorize what has happened so far as either slow or intense, because it was not a relationship, it was exactly how he called it, a game; a few phone calls and emails per year, on average 2-3 face to faces per year, a few kisses, a wonderful evening, some deep conversations and a very strange feeling which I have no idea how to call... it's not love and it's not overly intense attachment, that's why I cal it fascination. Maybe fascination is too strong, but I don't have any other name to call what I feel.

wow! that's a pretty intense story! i LIKE it! i sometimes think the best relationships are formed from these exact circumstances! it's veeery scorpy too.

one thing you know for sure is that you have time with this guy and it's not like you have to make a rush decision about anything LOL....just be careful that this long drawn out sexy play is not what drives your feelings for each other. it's a totally different ballgame actually living day in day out with someone to what you two have experienced together so far.

but like i say, you have time...you're both still young (BIYOTCH!!)..tourettes, excuse me....i didn't get married til i was 31 and that was after 10 years of this kind of play although we lived together sort of for some of the time and actually, thinking about it turned out to be crap and we've now split....sooooooo....but yeah, you know it really is true that some love stories take aaaaages to pan out.

talk about sexual tension though...must drive you nuts!!