Loving Scorpio's ... & Question .....

Hi there Scorps, I just wanted to say that throughout my life I notice I am usually always drawn to a Scorpio. I find that I have so much in common with Scorpio's. My moon sign by the way also happens to be Scorpio. I wasn't suprised when I first learned this. Everything I've learned about having a Scorpio moon, fit me so incredibly well, that it almost scared me to death. All jokes aside, it's been good for me to understand my emotions and feelings alot better.

Going on to my question, I have just two Sun Scorpio friends who are very much true to their sign. One of them however, I once had some problems with and we were always off and on friends. Througout the months we managed to work things out and form a understanding. Today we are good friends once again, but there are times I still wonder whether my friend still has bad feelings towards me even though those feelings are never shown. How I am suppose to know my friends true feelings, when they are never shown towards me? This person is a extremely private type as well and I really don't think they will ever be honest and direct with me.

I also have two scorp girlfriends but one of them is a close friend who I've known for a long time and it's funny because we've also had our falling outs. Scorpios are very emotional and so sometimes you have to be careful with how you come across to them. I mean one time we were throwing a party and my friend told her that she couldn't bring her younger sister because she was underage, well so she wouldn't get mad at HER she asked ME to talk to my scorp friend and I tried to make it clear that there would be NO underage ppl allowed and she got teary eyed and so I went back to work and later she wasn't talking to me. Everyone made a big deal about it but I knew that eventually she'd come around. And yes, one night we were both kinda tipsy at a party out in the country and I had never stopped talking to her the way I always did and we got together and ran into this huge field of... who knows, some sort of tree (it was at night and pitch black) and so we started scaring ppl who would go look for us- I repeat we were tipsyyyy! Later she told me that she hadn't wanted to talk to me while she was angry because she didn't want to say something that she'd regret and that she realized that she really had no reason to be mad. Oh boy they can hold on to a grudge forever (and you see for no reason!) lol!
Yeah, they're not too direct about how they feel about you, if you think that she still holds something against you I'd advice you to just be very observant and don't trust her too much with any secrets or anything that she could get back at you with.
Let me tell you that a while back I met a guy through my scorp friend who I later found out she had an interest in, well maybe I suspected it but since it was openly known that she had the hots for another guy I figured she couldn't openly hold anything agaisnt me. Well to make a loooong story short me and this guy became good friends and ended up going out, only thing was that I was still with someone else but managed to make it work (I know it sounds horrible but that's a whole different topic) Anyway this guy ended up figuring out that I was with someone else and although I wasn't too careful I suspect that maybe she had something to do with it but I don't care to know, ha ha if she did that's my girl! lol 😄 Gotta watch out for them little stingers 🙂
You know it's not hard to read a scorpio if you just listen to your intuition, feel the vibes that you're getting, really look beneath the surface (wow i just had a combination of a vision and dejavue) sorry anywho what I get from the post is that you're probably sensing something not quite right so just be observant or try to talk to her.

You really opened my eyes, tauruschic. Thanks alot for sharing this with me. I will definitely take all the good advices you have given. Scorpio's are definitely so highly emotional. They are indeed perhaps the most emotional people of all and sometimes even the slightest little problem you give them, they will take to heart in such extremes. I myself can even be this way sometimes. Actually, maybe alot of times, which really annoys my family and friends alot.

Back to my friend again, many times I have been kneely observant, but they are just so good at hiding their true feelings. Scorpio's seem to be extraordinary masters at hiding their real emotions and confusing people. In the end I usually just give up on observing my friend and let everything just be as they are. I will definitely just talk to them, and hopefully they will be very sincere with me.

I'm hoping everything will turn out well as times goes on. We really, want to be good friends since we share so many of the same interests, are alike in some ways and both understand eachother well even though we have our disagreements.

*Keenly observant

'Scorpio's are definitely so highly emotional. They are indeed perhaps the most emotional people of all and sometimes even the slightest little problem you give them, they will take to heart in such extremes.'


Do they do the same when you do something good for them, or do them a favor - do Scorpio moon folk get happy to an 'extreme', or only violent to extremes? Just wondering. I've learned that Scorpio Sun Sign folk and Scorpio Moon Sign folk need to be very wary of each other, it can be pretty unpretty otherwise..

That's a really good question, Elliot. When I do something good for my friend like help them out or whatever, I usually get a quiet "Thank You". But this, is the way my friend is usually with everyone, and I really don't mind it. However, I would rather see my friend rave over my goodness to them, in a louder way so I can really see that my help is truly appreciated. My friend appreciates my help and everything I do know, but doesn't show their emotions much but only mostly when they are in high spirits.

Elliot of the High Scorpios - "do Scorpio moon folk get happy to an 'extreme', or only violent to extremes? Just wondering."

I can definitely say for sure that when I'm excited about something, my happiness does go to extremes. When I'm very much personally offended about something, my sensitivness goes way to the extremes. I'm no violent person and completely abhor violence, but other's with a Scorpio moon who are violent, I do believe their violence can go to the extremes.

To add ...

But I think their background and how the person was raised also plays a major part in it.

So Elliot, is there some violent person with a Scorpio moon stalking you or anything? 😉 I just find it quite interesting of you to ask me that question.

Stalking me?? Yea right! I wouldn't suffer that sneakiness! The reason I asked was just so I learn a little more about them. I always assumed that Scorpio in the moon placing is no different from a Scorpio Sun Sign, but that's not true - and so now I'm interested because I don't like a non-understanding of people (I'm a scorpion), and I want to know all about the Scorpio in Moon placing. Just to know.

Lol, a Scorpio Moon can turn a diplomatic Libra into a raving lunatic and PROUD of it! (Eminem)

The sun and moon scorpio question is somewhat true but once you've formed an understanding to respect each others space it's very good so long as both know to approach each other correctly and not get easily offended by the others mood swings.Basiclly in a bad situation,one has to be a little more receptive,rational and willing to ignore certain things as to not make it worse by getting mad and throwing it back.Kinda put aside personal pride momentarily to make a clear headed comprimise.

My brothers an aquarius w/ scorpio moon and gemini rising.Yes,the number one person the above description is based on.Anyhoo,he was diagnoised with ADD when he was a child,one of the side effects to the medication was it could cause bi-polar disorder,it did so yeah,he can be violent to the extreme either to himself or other people.I can't say if his moon though due to the disorder.He has learned to control it to the point where if he does get that angry or depressed he will just hit an inanimate object or take a walk or something for the depressed part.After only two years of knowing the disorders there he's got it under control pretty well.

Okay,the the original post,virgogirl,you've also got our tendancy to reflect and wonder about those things too so basically all you can do is ask her.It still may pop up in your head time and again it depends on how much your willing to trust her answer.If theres no reason to doubt it beyond just wondering you should probably give her the benifet of the doubt,she could be wondering the same thing about you too so maybe talking about it will give yourselves some closure so you can move on from it.

You know what also works really well other than intuition and an ability to be keenly observant?

Very simple, if you can start her off on a topic that you know interests her and you can get into it and start her off rambling, that would be great. Because when people start rambling and going on and on about something stuff just pours out eventually bit by bit. Yeah it's funny but it works, you know when you're into a juicy discussion it slowly starts to 'mutate' into other things and it goes into other areas and if you can just squeeze in a couple of comments that will get the discussion to head to where you would like it to go and just let her talk you may get clues, hints, or what the heck sometimes people just get plain comfortable and bam answer the question you've been yearning to have answered.
I mean if you don't want to be direct or you don't think it's the time to be direct go with this one. You just need patience because it doesn't always go THERE (where u want it to go) and you shouldn't push in the slightest bit or feel impatient, u unwantingly send off vibes that intuition catches. Anywho whatever.
But yeah just letting people talk is a good thing, I personally never miss an opportunity to let someone ramble on and never say anything that could possibly influence their thoughts.
And then there's always the old 'lets have a drink' lol! in which you never get tipsier than the other! ha ha!
Just suggestions. Keep us updated and luck 🙂