My relationship is over now...

Remember me? I am the scorpio girl that was in love with the pisces. Well, I have been thinking about leaving him alone for a while now and last night was it. I heard from a friend that he is just using me for money and he also called me stupid and said I wasn't aggressive enough. Anyways, I called him last night and asked him did I mean anything to him and he said he wasn't answering that question so I told him I'm through with him and hung up on him. I am so hurt right now.It hurts when you are in love with someone and they don't love you back. I thought maybe we had something special. I guess not. I feel so stupid. He don't care about me and I guess I did the right thing, but why do I feel so bad?

You did the right thing ending it! He treated you like s---! NO ONE deserves that and he's SEVERELY dysfunctional! You deserve a man who will treat you with proper respect. Relationships require honesty, trust, understanding and love. It's especially difficult for Scorpions to trust until people prove themselves to them. I'm a Virgo girl with the same problem - I dated a guy who was selfish, crude, insensitive and disrespectful! He was a Gemini and I told him to go to hell!

Sorry you're hurting now, but it's best that you feel the pain now than later. The longer you let anybody walk all over you, the weaker you get. Get yourself together and don't look back. He's not worth it. Yes, it hurts when you love someone and they don't love you back. But, next time, be more careful/cautious. If a person/man loves you, he'll show you. He won't ask you for money all the time and use you up. He'll show you that he loves you. If you have to always ask a man if he cares, after years of dating, something's wrong. Read the signs and don't get so caught up in the physical attachment. Look at what he does and let your gut lead you. I have a sister-in-law who's being used up by my Pisces brother. She keeps going back to him, and each time he treats her with more and more contempt. You see, he knows he should do better by her, but her standards are so low and she's so desperate for his love, he dogs her out. Remember this: We teach people how to treat us. It doesn't just happen. A person will do as much to you, as their able to get away with. That doesn't excuse away terrible behavior, but we're not here to fix everybody. Fix yourself and love with follow.

I feel your pain. I just got over a relationship myself. I feel hurt and used. I have been hurt so many times that I have formed a barrier over my heart. I will find it hard to trust again. You feel bad because you gave your all to him and this is how it ended, with you crying and heart brake. But whatever you do don't let him see your tears. What good would it do, it will only make him think that he got the best of you. So take care of yourself and move on. I know it will be hard but you'll feel better in the long run.