My Scorpio boyfriend says he wants revenge

Our relationship has last for nearly 2 years. Recently he has been working in another country for 9 weeks. We have small fights, not about cheating but about respecting.

He says he wants to destroy this relationship and see if it can rebirth.

Even it's not own wrongs, I don't want to breakup so I say sorry, cry a lot and begging him to think again.

He says he loves me, he miss me, he wants me,... but he don't want to see me again. I text and call him a lot but he is being so cold. He says he don't belong to me anymore, I'm nothing to him, he will seek for other girls, dating,.. for 3-4months untill he feel it's enough , he will come back.
I says it's not fair because I never cheat on him. I always tell him where I go and who I go with. He answers "I'm a scorpio and my revenge must be more cruel, nothing is fair"...

I'm a taurus and I cannot stay in an unstable relationship like that 😢

Posted by SoPi


I'm a taurus and I cannot stay in an unstable relationship like that 😢

Yes you can. You are a Taurus ... you will take what is served to you and make the best of it.

But the Scorpio is just trying to see WHO IS MASTER?
He is just trying to see who has CONTROL.

If you LET him ignore you for weeks or months and then take him back when he is ready
he will do it to you over and over again to ensure he is still MASTER.

If you tell him that he is not welcome back in your life after a few months
then he will be mad ... but it was his own choice. He can't expect you to
just wait around for him. Or can he?

Anyway, this is a test ... of how much he can disrespect you.
It will happen again and again if you let it.

Best advice: Find a capricorn who is a total mama's boy.
You'll need to wear the pants there but I'm sure you're used to it.

I'm sorry to tell you this but if this guy is REALLY how you are portraying him, then he is a total JERK, and many other bad words.

Why would you want to be with someone who treats you with so much disrespect?
LEAVE him, get out of that sick relationship! Don't you see that he is mentally and emotionally abusing you?

No human being deserves being treated the way he is treating you. Please repeat this as many times as you need it, until you believe it: "I am worthy! I am great! I only deserve the best!".
You have to truly believe that and then you will attract it.

Staying with someone who treats you like that is masochism. Don't hurt yourself anymore, you deserve better than. YOU DON'T NEED HIM! move on

I'm sincerely trying to give you the best advice I can, but to each their own. You are the only one who can make the choice. Just ask yourself: "why should I stay with someone that hurts me, disrespects me and is constantly putting me down?"

Actually he not ignore me. He still answer me, still good night if i say it first. He text less, but taking photos around and send me. But if I ask him where is he or who he go with- he says "You're nothing to me, you don't have the rights to ask".

Last night he also call me, we talked a lots. The ice seems to be melting... but then I refuse to tell him something he want to know (because it's a story of a friend and I promised not to tell anyone). He is cold again and says that he wants revenge.

He doesn't ignores you, but he treats you like crap.
If your boyfriend is telling you that "You are nothing to him" and that you have no right to ask about his whereabouts he is CLEARLY showing you how little he cares for you.
Don't make excuses for him. he is an A S S H O L E
You are his girlfriend, you have all the right to ask where he is and with whom. Also, I really don't understand why are u with someone that is telling you up front that you mean nothing to them? please explain me, I don't get it.
Raise your self esteem and you standarts a little

Posted by camim20

You are his girlfriend, you have all the right to ask where he is and with whom. Also, I really don't understand why are u with someone that is telling you up front that you mean nothing to them? please explain me, I don't get it.
Raise your self esteem and you standarts a little

He did wrong first, then he apology and begging me, he give me so much promises. But I don't feel enough so I keep blaming, keep angry, keep complaint him. I also complaint about old stuff. After 8 hours argument, he said I'm selfish and do not respect him, he feels tired (we arguing from his working time to sleeping time so he can't get-up to work on the next morning). He says he want to break up. So that's why now he do not consider me as his girlfriend.

Posted by camim20
I'm sorry to tell you this but if this guy is REALLY how you are portraying him, then he is a total JERK, and many other bad words.

Why would you want to be with someone who treats you with so much disrespect?

Because he says he wants revenge but he haven't do it. And it's just 4 days since we had that argument.

LOL, this thread sounds like a big fat lie. Who says things like that? Rebirth. Really? Either this is made up or the dude in question reads way too many astrology books. I'd laugh in his face.

Posted by scorpiopics

Posted by SoPi


I'm a taurus and I cannot stay in an unstable relationship like that 😢

Yes you can. You are a Taurus ... you will take what is served to you and make the best of it.

But the Scorpio is just trying to see WHO IS MASTER?
He is just trying to see who has CONTROL.

If you LET him ignore you for weeks or months and then take him back when he is ready
he will do it to you over and over again to ensure he is still MASTER.

If you tell him that he is not welcome back in your life after a few months
then he will be mad ... but it was his own choice. He can't expect you to
just wait around for him. Or can he?

Anyway, this is a test ... of how much he can disrespect you.
It will happen again and again if you let it.

Best advice: Find a capricorn who is a total mama's boy.
You'll need to wear the pants there but I'm sure you're used to it.

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As much as I want to kick your ass for this comment, there is truth to it.

Yes, as a Taurus, we have to take what we are given. But we're not gonna take it without some sorta hello.

Thanks everyone for your advise.
I think I don't want to believe that he's gone... He says he still love me so I keep hoping that he will change his mind or he just want to make me sad but will not really do what he said 😢

Posted by SoPi
Our relationship has last for nearly 2 years. Recently he has been working in another country for 9 weeks. We have small fights, not about cheating but about respecting.

He says he wants to destroy this relationship and see if it can rebirth.

Even it's not own wrongs, I don't want to breakup so I say sorry, cry a lot and begging him to think again.

He says he loves me, he miss me, he wants me,... but he don't want to see me again. I text and call him a lot but he is being so cold. He says he don't belong to me anymore, I'm nothing to him, he will seek for other girls, dating,.. for 3-4months untill he feel it's enough , he will come back.
I says it's not fair because I never cheat on him. I always tell him where I go and who I go with. He answers "I'm a scorpio and my revenge must be more cruel, nothing is fair"...

I'm a taurus and I cannot stay in an unstable relationship like that 😢

You may not want to hear this, but consider the break up a blessing. He sounds quite disrespectful and full of drama. Next.

"I'm a scorpio and my revenge must be more cruel, nothing is fair"...

Who says that? What a cryptic nerd.

massive troll

Posted by SoPi
Thanks everyone for your advise.
I think I don't want to believe that he's gone... He says he still love me so I keep hoping that he will change his mind or he just want to make me sad but will not really do what he said 😢

What an upbringing you've had eh?

I'm sorry you were raised to think this is love and respect. It's not too late to seek help and realize hoping he will change his mind is damaged thinking. However, if being sad makes you happy, then you just carry on with those lovely thoughts of yours.😉

Posted by wantingtoflyyy
massive troll

lol yup. Hey..they have to be entertained too. Pathetic lives are needy, and the holidays are around the corner.😉

Posted by SoPi
Our relationship has last for nearly 2 years. Recently he has been working in another country for 9 weeks. We have small fights, not about cheating but about respecting.

He says he wants to destroy this relationship and see if it can rebirth.

Even it's not own wrongs, I don't want to breakup so I say sorry, cry a lot and begging him to think again.

He says he loves me, he miss me, he wants me,... but he don't want to see me again. I text and call him a lot but he is being so cold. He says he don't belong to me anymore, I'm nothing to him, he will seek for other girls, dating,.. for 3-4months untill he feel it's enough , he will come back.
I says it's not fair because I never cheat on him. I always tell him where I go and who I go with. He answers "I'm a scorpio and my revenge must be more cruel, nothing is fair"...

I'm a taurus and I cannot stay in an unstable relationship like that 😢

He sounds bored and looking for fire.
He's living in a new country and that can really energize and rejuvenate a person.
He may need some excitement.
You should have nutted up on his ass when he said that.
You might have gotten an invite.
Don't always beg, cry, and be so understanding, let the wild bull out of the stable once and a while. 😉

I know that you were with him for 2 yrs. that is a long time. But regardless, what he said & what he is doing is A down right slap in the face! Does he still have feelings? Probably. Feelings don't just disappear just like that but it's over. His actions shows that it is. Don't hang on and hope he will come back. He probably wants to take advantage that he's in a new country and wants to meet the women there. The whole, I will come back is bull! If you don't love yourself or stand up for yourself, no one will.

As a Cancer who just divorced an abusive and controlling Taurus (15 yrs married) I can attest for the fact that their stubbornness makes it very hard for them to let go and face the fact that something is over when they aren't the one to pull the plug. My ex is still trying to play his old games. My advice for the OP: move on, sweety, and do it at a full gallop! The man sounds like a complete and utter ass, I don't care what his sign is. Live and learn and then find someone who is respectful and can communicate on a mature level. My advice: ditch the jerk and then take time to sort through your own heart and figure out what makes you tick and why.