@FireyKitty
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Signs that are into YOU but YOU'RE not into.
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Pisces and Aquarius for me and I don't get it.I'm not into them in that way but have many of them who have been friend zoned by me....
Cancers
Aries & Libra.
Virgo's , Virgo's everywhere and anywhere I go, I mean I don't dislike them, but I always hit a wall with them an once I hit that wall there is no way I can proceed with the relationship.
Taurus. Not sure why. Maybe they like my down-to-earth attitude? I really couldn't tell you.
Nothing wrong with Taurus, by the way. I've just always seen them as better friends. No spark.
Posted by FieryAries9108
Virgo's , Virgo's everywhere and anywhere I go, I mean I don't dislike them, but I always hit a wall with them an once I hit that wall there is no way I can proceed with the relationship.
whats the wall
Sagittarius
Scorpio
Yeah. I always friend zone gemini's even though they're so fun. I think we have the same energy and personality though. Scorpios like "different" people that're sexual and spontaneous. And virgos like me because idk? I guess we bond but we also fight, a lot. Longest relationship was with a Virgo. Virgos and Leo's are a weird combo
Posted by FieryAries9108
Virgo's , Virgo's everywhere and anywhere I go, I mean I don't dislike them, but I always hit a wall with them an once I hit that wall there is no way I can proceed with the relationship.whats the wall
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intolerance of humanity
Posted by FieryAries9108
Virgo's , Virgo's everywhere and anywhere I go, I mean I don't dislike them, but I always hit a wall with them an once I hit that wall there is no way I can proceed with the relationship.whats the wall
intolerance of humanity
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lol. Im sure I know what youre getting at, but would you mind elaborating bbc
i attract alot of water and i really need an air man 😛
Pisces are attracted to me b/c they admire my courage & ability to live outside of the dream/fantasy world & still function just fine.
Taurus is attracted to my mind & the spontaneity I bring to the table, but I am turned off by their constant need for reassurance & routine.
I don't mind a little bit of a challenge or something different than me, but at the end of the day, I mesh much better with those I have the MOST in common with (personality-wise), not the least in common.
Pisces, Sag, Cancer
Aquarians,Capricorns, Aries, Sags, and Pisces.
I'm attracted to Geminis, Tauruses, and Scorpios.
Aquarians and leos
Cap chicks ALWAYS come on to me, but I'm only ever modestly flattered.
As for me, I always seem to scare away the Fishies. It's like, they're just not having any of this 😭
Capricorns, they're the most repulsive vile sign to me, yet it seems like the men flock to me.. or should I say attempt to. Unfortunately being a Cancer/Leo cusp I've heard this cusp personality seems to do something for them.
I think I'm pretty fair minded and would keep an open mind for any other sign depending on i they had a solid/decent chart.
Pretty much all the signs I am not into yet they seem to be into me however sometimes seldom by chance things happen that allow me to be into signs and them be into me. Bliss is this
Posted by prettyladii
Capricorns, they're the most repulsive vile sign to me, yet it seems like the men flock to me.. or should I say attempt to. Unfortunately being a Cancer/Leo cusp I've heard this cusp personality seems to do something for them.
The vile Caps probably flock because they see themselves in you. Law of attraction.
Virgo men hands down...they keep on pursuing me and I keep on rejecting them. They'd be about the only sign I know that I could have a fwb with and not get attached..I purposefully lost my virginity to a guy I had no feelings for so I wouldn't get attached..I found out later what his sun sign was..and sure enough it was Virgo..😉
Posted by FieryAries9108
Virgo's , Virgo's everywhere and anywhere I go, I mean I don't dislike them, but I always hit a wall with them an once I hit that wall there is no way I can proceed with the relationship.whats the wall
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it's indescribable in a way unfortunately.
Aries men - selfish, secretive, arrogant - but there's something about those eyes!
Cancer men - MOODY, too much push/pull, way too sensitive - but they're charming and sexy 😉
I give everyone a chance. But the guys I end up not being able to move forward with tend to be earth signs, cancer, or libra. Just something that doesn't click romantically for me, even if we make great friends (especially libra! love my libra friends). Scorpios are always tempting, but it doesn't turn out well after a while.
Pisces, Taurus, Capricorn, Virgo seem to be into me.
I don't have a particular preference but I never seem to get close to any other signs than the ones I mentioned.
Posted by MintSprinkles
Virgo men hands down...they keep on pursuing me and I keep on rejecting them. They'd be about the only sign I know that I could have a fwb with and not get attached..I purposefully lost my virginity to a guy I had no feelings for so I wouldn't get attached..I found out later what his sun sign was..and sure enough it was Virgo..😉but you're earth, wouldn't that fit you best?
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Not necessarily..I like Virgo moons (I have one) but what I've found with Virgo men is that they are waaaay to nitpicky and they are always "joking" but it's usually at my expense..and it becomes annoying after awhile..basically yea..I just find them irritating after a while. I can only take these men in *very* small doses.
I find I mesh better with water signs, with some air thrown in there occasionally. I actually have a good even mix of elements in my chart..I have 2 of everything expect air where I have 4.
Taurus is supposedly a good match for me but I have clashed very badly with every one I have known.
Pisces, starts out great..ends badly
Posted by enfant_terrible
Cap chicks ALWAYS come on to me, but I'm only ever modestly flattered.As for me, I always seem to scare away the Fishies. It's like, they're just not having any of this 😭
Caps have a strong attraction to Leo's.
Sometimes it's mutually but I think it's stronger for the goat.
Libra! They love my taurus ass but I'm over them and the fickleness....
I'm a capricorn female. I don't take too well to cancers. Most traditional astrology books says caps and crabs should hit it off good. Never been the case with me. I find them attractive, but I can see right through all the wooing and seducing. No thank you.
I'm very attracted to scorpio men. But who isn't? They're good looking people. I hit it off really fast with them. But it's like a tug of war for control. Great for passionate sex, challenging going into a long term committed relationship.
Supposed to be most compatible with Pisces, Taurus and Virgo. Never settled into a relationship with either one of these men.
I've always been attracted to Leos, but stay away from them. There fun to watch tho! I have to admit, they are a bit busy for my reserved nature and I don't have an interest in keeping up. Aries men. The most charming, tons of fun. This guy can really lift my spirits. But He comes off as a lil fake. Kind of similar to cancer men. Rarely works.
Sagittarius men are VERY attracted to me. I enjoy them on a short term level. Anything after that won't work.
Although some work is initially needed, I get on best with the air signs. They make best friends and overall good lovers. Pleased.
Taurus and Capricorn
let's see...
Me:
Taurus
Gemini moon
Cancer rising
Mercury aries
Venus taurus
Mars scorpio
Jupiter capricorn
Saturn scorpio
Best way for me to di this i guess is going down the list:
Aries: I'm attracted off the bat and most of the time it's the same but always fizzles fast for me, generally emotional differences (dated more aries than any other and loved one very much)
Gemini: never been attracted to one outside of playful friendship that i know of
Taurus: never been attracted to one but i haven't known any really
Cancer: always heard they are my best match but haven't gotten a chance to find out
Leo: been mildly attracted to one but not really my cupof tea
Virgo: always attracted to me noticeably but never the same for me
Libra: cant say i have any experience with these
Scorpio: I'm always attracted to their intensity! Seems like they feel the same most of the time and my bf of four years I'm madly in love with still is a double scorpio 😄
Sagittarius: another overtly attracted sign to this bull... I honestly can only take sag guys in small doses in general sorry
Capricorn: always attracted to capees as friends never really been attracted to one otherwise tho and i don't think they view me that way either
Aquarius: in general i just dont understand this sign... Never known one to be attracted to me or vice versa
Pisces: generally pretty attractive to me and vice versa... One of the loves of my life was a double pisces
When it comes to actual relationship, the venus d mars placements are important to me
Venus in pisces and scorpio seem to be the absolute best for me
Mars in pisces and libra seem tobe problematic as I'm very proactive but very influenced by the energy around me... The aries, Capricorn, and scorpio energies seem to really get my energy up and keep me moving forward
-heather
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Cancers. Because majority I meet are stupid and dumb.Taurus. Also because they are stupid and dumb.
This doesn't sound very intelligent, must be all those dead brain cells.
Cancers, Pisces, Capricorn, Virgo
I'm guessing I constantly attract them because of my Pisces Rising
Not interested I need Fire, Air or a Scorpio LOL!
Posted by CreativeCap
I'm a capricorn female. I don't take too well to cancers. Most traditional astrology books says caps and crabs should hit it off good. Never been the case with me. I find them attractive, but I can see right through all the wooing and seducing. No thank you.I'm very attracted to scorpio men. But who isn't? They're good looking people. I hit it off really fast with them. But it's like a tug of war for control. Great for passionate sex, challenging going into a long term committed relationship.
Supposed to be most compatible with Pisces, Taurus and Virgo. Never settled into a relationship with either one of these men.
I've always been attracted to Leos, but stay away from them. There fun to watch tho! I have to admit, they are a bit busy for my reserved nature and I don't have an interest in keeping up. Aries men. The most charming, tons of fun. This guy can really lift my spirits. But He comes off as a lil fake. Kind of similar to cancer men. Rarely works.
Sagittarius men are VERY attracted to me. I enjoy them on a short term level. Anything after that won't work.
Although some work is initially needed, I get on best with the air signs. They make best friends and overall good lovers. Pleased.
so basically nobody is good enough.
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I guess saying that cancers don't work makes everybody not good enough. Lol I really didnt answer the forum question of saying what signs are attracted to me but Im not attracted to them. The only one is cancer!
Cancer and virgo men
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Cancers. Because majority I meet are stupid and dumb. If I meet an intelligent one, then maybe we can mix. No balance. My Libra placements can't take it. Everything is an extreme and most of the time they can't even explain who they are or give a solid reason for why they do shit. They talk a good game, but that's about it.Taurus. Also because they are stupid and dumb. They just don't interest me. No Imagination. Likes to play mind games. Kind of boring. Gimme an intelligent artist that keeps it 100 and is a freak. (((((((((( They usually lack all of that.
The irony
You should make a "signs you're into but aren't interested in you."
Taurus
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Cancers. Because majority I meet are stupid and dumb. If I meet an intelligent one, then maybe we can mix. No balance. My Libra placements can't take it. Everything is an extreme and most of the time they can't even explain who they are or give a solid reason for why they do shit. They talk a good game, but that's about it.Taurus. Also because they are stupid and dumb. They just don't interest me. No Imagination. Likes to play mind games. Kind of boring. Gimme an intelligent artist that keeps it 100 and is a freak. (((((((((( They usually lack all of that.
+1. Exact same experience with both signs
Posted by AriesIntrovert16
You should make a "signs you're into but aren't interested in you."
That list doesn't exist, jk lol.
@Geminivixen
I don't think you dislike water signs because they are sensitive I think it is because they make you feel sensitive and you don't like that...
Cancers and Pisces, ew.
never dated a taurus, aquarius, gemini, libra, virgo, or aries.
i have seriously dated/married scorpio, cancer, sagittarius, leo, pisces, capricorn.
i am not a fan of fire signs. i don't like to compete and they always want to one-up me...and, like, for WHAT? my fellow sagittarians looooooove me. i love them, too, but i love them more as friends. i value their friendship. but they always want me for more than friends and i have to friendzone them right away. i don't like leos. i had a hard time with one, not so much of a hard time with another, and they continue to come for me. i just cannot deal with their exploitation of others' weaknesses and vulnerabilities.
i love water signs. i love that they just jump into love without fear with me because many men say i scare them or am too much to tame/handle. however, i cannot do cancers no matter how sexy. they swarm to me yet i cannot stand a person that supports debates, arguments, and explanations with certifiable bullshit pulled right out their ass 1 second prior to presentation. i can barely do scorpios because they think they are so wicked smaht and crafty yet i can see right through them. but they love my venus in scorpio and my cancer rising, so they always check for me.
pisces are my weakness.
good god.
Gemini's. Too unstable, weak and talk to damn much.
They are entertaining but a relationship with them would be hell.
The thing about Gemini's is they have really hot bodies but they have horrible personalities.
Lots of Earth signs are always coming my way, but I think it's because of my Virgo rising... also a lot of Leo's, Sag's, and some Aries. Have Definitely had some water, more Pisces than anything, some Scorps, probably Cancer the least though there have been one or two. For some reason not a lot of air, except for maybe one Aqua.
I attract Aries people. I say "people" because a long-time Aries female friend was probably in love with me. Although I very much enjoy socializing with Aries, romance doesn't work. The drama potential is just too much for me. I was fine with soothing Aries egomania earlier in life. These days, it's just burdensome.
I also draw the occassional water sign and I almost always love these men more than they love me and the timing's always wrong. In these relationships, either I'm not quite ready for them or they're not quite ready for me or there are other external issues (school, professional, health, etc.) Right now, a water sign is expressing attraction and it's heartbreaking because the time/place is as wrong as it gets.
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You know how there are signs that aren't cowardly when it comes to courting you but you're not down...? Gemini, Scorpio and Virgo men come in packs for me. They try hard but I'm just not into it. Of course there are exceptions, I've dated all 3 signs but idk why those 3 signs like me the most?
What are yours? And why do you think that is?