Not a Scorpio man hater, but not a Scorpio man lover

I was going to respond to some poor female's question posted in the Scorpio forum questioning how the Scorpio man in her life feels about her, why he's doing this or that and what she should do. I decided I'd create a topic myself. I want to give my own experience and insight regardless of the bashing I know I'll get. I've always given people the benefit of the doubt and I'm not judging every Scorpio man out there, maybe the so-called ones that haven't evolved. This is my opinion and advice. If you have all of these questions, you sit in constant anxiety and doubt and feel like you're always getting mixed signals, know this, it's not going to get better. There will be no happy ending where you'll get this loving, caring, passionate man to settle down with you and live happily ever after. You're having to work too hard, have too many questions, and are having too hard of a time as it is. It won't get easier, and it won't stop.

The testing, the temper tantrums, the ambiguity, the confusion, the push/pull, hot/cold, that will go on most likely indefinitely. I've spent years standing by with every bit of patience, loyalty and effort I could and have come to the realization it won't ever stop. This man doesn't want an easy going, peaceful, relationship. He wants drama, highs and lows, and won't mind, may even enjoy watching you suffer. That's not love or caring about someone, that's some emotional issues at work and at it's finest. Who cares about his great qualities that leave you stuck thinking you'll get more of it if your patient and loyal enough, you won't, and in the end it won't make up for his emotional abuse, degradation, and the years spent being miserable. Life's too short, and you can find that passion and intensity with someone who doesn't have you questioning if you should text him or give him space, act disinterested or show him you care. Work on finding ways to love yourself so you don't keep chasing this illusion of getting this all encompassing love these astrology sites have you believe you'll get with a Scorpio man who's not evolved. I know of Scorpio men who are evolved and are capable of sustaining a true relationship, but this is regarding the ones that aren't giving you that relationship, yet playing these games to keep you hanging on by a string. The ones who act like they feel something deeper for you but aren't saying, who show you how much they care, yet aren't consistent, who give you all this attention and then disappear, who adore you one day and hate you the next just for breathing wrong, and who give you hope one moment just to destroy it the next. That's the kind of power that gets them off, hurting you just because they can. That's not love, it's abuse and that's coming from a very insecure, self-loathing man. One day you'll wake up and it will no longer appeal to you to be someone's doormat and you'll wish you saved yourself all that heartache and time. Maybe you won't and will continue to be a glutton for punishment. Either way it doesn't get better after one, two or five years, not from what I've experienced. It's who he is, and how he is. He won't change for you or for the next person. It's a cycle that will repeat and only you have the power to walk away. So instead of wasting countless hours reading astrology articles and forums trying to get an understanding of why this Scorpio man treats you the way that he does, use that energy on figuring out why you don't think you deserve better. There are 15 people more or less in your life you'll feel a strong chemistry with, so if it's not working out with this one, onto the next.

Amazing opinion! Just amazing!

Seriously.

However there is no tutorial on how to deal with Scorps that holds the water!

A lot of Scorpios are married. Shit! HOW?

Who is that woman who tamed Scorpio?

There are tons and plenty!

Men are different from women and as long as I am here - there are so many signs that are having shitload of the same crap that Scorpios have.

Disappearing, not texting back, not calling, cheating...etc...

Scorpios just for whatever reason are blamed for all men kind!

Nevermind girls! I guarantee you will have and you do according to dxp - all shit you have from Scorpios - from every other men! So stop jerking off one sign because it’s just proclaimed that they ruled by genitalia’s...

All men are! Even if their shit doesn’t work - they proud they have it! To urinate with!

The end...

Posted by jolene6776
I was going to respond to some poor female's question posted in the Scorpio forum questioning how the Scorpio man in her life feels about her, why he's doing this or that and what she should do. I decided I'd create a topic myself. I want to give my own experience and insight regardless of the bashing I know I'll get. I've always given people the benefit of the doubt and I'm not judging every Scorpio man out there, maybe the so-called ones that haven't evolved. This is my opinion and advice. If you have all of these questions, you sit in constant anxiety and doubt and feel like you're always getting mixed signals, know this, it's not going to get better. There will be no happy ending where you'll get this loving, caring, passionate man to settle down with you and live happily ever after. You're having to work too hard, have too many questions, and are having too hard of a time as it is. It won't get easier, and it won't stop.

The testing, the temper tantrums, the ambiguity, the confusion, the push/pull, hot/cold, that will go on most likely indefinitely. I've spent years standing by with every bit of patience, loyalty and effort I could and have come to the realization it won't ever stop. This man doesn't want an easy going, peaceful, relationship. He wants drama, highs and lows, and won't mind, may even enjoy watching you suffer. That's not love or caring about someone, that's some emotional issues at work and at it's finest. Who cares about his great qualities that leave you stuck thinking you'll get more of it if your patient and loyal enough, you won't, and in the end it won't make up for his emotional abuse, degradation, and the years spent being miserable. Life's too short, and you can find that passion and intensity with someone who doesn't have you questioning if you should text him or give him space, act disinterested or show him you care. Work on finding ways to love yourself so you don't keep chasing this illusion of getting this all encompassing love these astrology sites have you believe you'll get with a Scorpio man who's not evolved. I know of Scorpio men who are evolved and are capable of sustaining a true relationship, but this is regarding the ones that aren't giving you that relationship, yet playing these games to keep you hanging on by a string. The ones who act like they feel something deeper for you but aren't saying, who show you how much they care, yet aren't consistent, who give you all this attention and then disappear, who adore you one day and hate you the next just for breathing wrong, and who give you hope one moment just to destroy it the next. That's the kind of power that gets them off, hurting you just because they can. That's not love, it's abuse and that's coming from a very insecure, self-loathing man. One day you'll wake up and it will no longer appeal to you to be someone's doormat and you'll wish you saved yourself all that heartache and time. Maybe you won't and will continue to be a glutton for punishment. Either way it doesn't get better after one, two or five years, not from what I've experienced. It's who he is, and how he is. He won't change for you or for the next person. It's a cycle that will repeat and only you have the power to walk away. So instead of wasting countless hours reading astrology articles and forums trying to get an understanding of why this Scorpio man treats you the way that he does, use that energy on figuring out why you don't think you deserve better. There are 15 people more or less in your life you'll feel a strong chemistry with, so if it's not working out with this one, onto the next.

From my observation, its true to the T, very well written

But, the key sentence, in my opinion, is this: " I've spent years standing by with every bit of patience, loyalty and effort I could and have come to the realization it won't ever stop.

So, the advice is very good, but unfortunately everybody has to come to this realization in their own time, when they are ready.... if they idealize that man, it will take a bit of time to realize all this and to move on...

nobody stopped loving somebody, because the others said some "home truths" 🙂 maybe some of the advice-receivers stopped to act at least externally so desperate (which is a big achievement in itself), but didnt stop loving... so, it takes time, sometimes years, like you know yourself

PS. in my experience with scorpios, they want a woman who doest love them fully, they dont even mind if the woman is cheating on them, they want to be doormats, but despise if somebody is a doormat to them - just my observation

Posted by Pandora101

Posted by jolene6776
I was going to respond to some poor female's question posted in the Scorpio forum questioning how the Scorpio man in her life feels about her, why he's doing this or that and what she should do. I decided I'd create a topic myself. I want to give my own experience and insight regardless of the bashing I know I'll get. I've always given people the benefit of the doubt and I'm not judging every Scorpio man out there, maybe the so-called ones that haven't evolved. This is my opinion and advice. If you have all of these questions, you sit in constant anxiety and doubt and feel like you're always getting mixed signals, know this, it's not going to get better. There will be no happy ending where you'll get this loving, caring, passionate man to settle down with you and live happily ever after. You're having to work too hard, have too many questions, and are having too hard of a time as it is. It won't get easier, and it won't stop.

The testing, the temper tantrums, the ambiguity, the confusion, the push/pull, hot/cold, that will go on most likely indefinitely. I've spent years standing by with every bit of patience, loyalty and effort I could and have come to the realization it won't ever stop. This man doesn't want an easy going, peaceful, relationship. He wants drama, highs and lows, and won't mind, may even enjoy watching you suffer. That's not love or caring about someone, that's some emotional issues at work and at it's finest. Who cares about his great qualities that leave you stuck thinking you'll get more of it if your patient and loyal enough, you won't, and in the end it won't make up for his emotional abuse, degradation, and the years spent being miserable. Life's too short, and you can find that passion and intensity with someone who doesn't have you questioning if you should text him or give him space, act disinterested or show him you care. Work on finding ways to love yourself so you don't keep chasing this illusion of getting this all encompassing love these astrology sites have you believe you'll get with a Scorpio man who's not evolved. I know of Scorpio men who are evolved and are capable of sustaining a true relationship, but this is regarding the ones that aren't giving you that relationship, yet playing these games to keep you hanging on by a string. The ones who act like they feel something deeper for you but aren't saying, who show you how much they care, yet aren't consistent, who give you all this attention and then disappear, who adore you one day and hate you the next just for breathing wrong, and who give you hope one moment just to destroy it the next. That's the kind of power that gets them off, hurting you just because they can. That's not love, it's abuse and that's coming from a very insecure, self-loathing man. One day you'll wake up and it will no longer appeal to you to be someone's doormat and you'll wish you saved yourself all that heartache and time. Maybe you won't and will continue to be a glutton for punishment. Either way it doesn't get better after one, two or five years, not from what I've experienced. It's who he is, and how he is. He won't change for you or for the next person. It's a cycle that will repeat and only you have the power to walk away. So instead of wasting countless hours reading astrology articles and forums trying to get an understanding of why this Scorpio man treats you the way that he does, use that energy on figuring out why you don't think you deserve better. There are 15 people more or less in your life you'll feel a strong chemistry with, so if it's not working out with this one, onto the next.

From my observation, its true to the T, very well written

But, the key sentence, in my opinion, is this: " I've spent years standing by with every bit of patience, loyalty and effort I could and have come to the realization it won't ever stop.

So, the advice is very good, but unfortunately everybody has to come to this realization in their own time, when they are ready.... if they idealize that man, it will take a bit of time to realize all this and to move on...

nobody stopped loving somebody, because the others said some "home truths" 🙂 maybe some of the advice-receivers stopped to act at least externally so desperate (which is a big achievement in itself), but didnt stop loving... so, it takes time, sometimes years, like you know yourself

PS. in my experience with scorpios, they want a woman who doest love them fully, they dont even mind if the woman is cheating on them, they want to be doormats, but despise if somebody is a doormat to them - just my observation

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