Oh I like karma

The Scorpio I'm friends with will get what she deserves to her on a silver platter she tree trunked with me gets what she deserves she needs a little eye opener. We worked for the same company she caused me so much trouble at work I had to leave, she thought she could move up to the rank I was working in, she's not going to get the position yesss 🙂

She went through so much trouble and pain to make me leave and she's not going to gain anything. I love it when Scorpios sting themselves, she was so hurt and angry with me she kept causing butter for me it got so unbearable she forced me out of the company we worked at.

I learned never s*** where you eat it gets messy, getting close to woman you work with not a good idea when things go sour it turns ugly which it did for me. Never let feelings develop between someone you work with, the feelings are mutual its not one sided between us, will I forgive her? Most likely, people would think I'm nuts but it is just the way it is. Fights happen there is a silence between us then something draws us back together eventually never fails.

I find it interesting the Scorpio was so focused on revenge but lost sight will anything be gained from it, in the end nothing was gained from it she's in the same place she was before. I wanted to leave anyhow I have other goals she just made me make a change quicker than I wanted too. It was tough to work together at times because feelings would get hurt so easily we are both very sensitive people. Nobody really seen our sensitive sides her and I were sensitive with each other the bond and understanding between us is strong. We look into each others eyes we can see each others soul we just understand each other plain and simple.

Wonder if she will come back to get a taste of crab meat again I have no doubts she will I will probably the only person that will talk to her. I will give her a month or two she will be wondering about me.

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Posted by Stihl46


I learned never s*** where you eat it gets messy, getting close to woman you work with not a good idea when things go sour it turns ugly which it did for me. Never let feelings develop between someone you work with, the feelings are mutual its not one sided between us, will I forgive her? Most likely, people would think I'm nuts but it is just the way it is. Fights happen there is a silence between us then something draws us back together eventually never fails.

This is amusing to me..
What did you expect?
You're in the rat race..
Only a Cancer would develop feelings for their rivals, so sensitive and emotional. ick.

If I saw opportunity to use my sexuality to disarm my competition, you bet my sweet ass I would!

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We were not rivals I had a higher position for a reason is experience she is a junior employee, there was feelings for each other it wasn't one sided at all Cancer and Scorps understand each other, from the day we met it was this mutual understanding I've never had that before with anybody. Then feelings got hurt ie hers that's when troubles started now I can see the reasoning for don't s*** where you eat. Put it this way her and I would have fights like a married couple the others thought we were married. I thought I was married to her she would act like we were a married couple, I would get the "Fine" answer when she was angry with me or start pouting.

All her efforts of Scorpio revenge on me did nothing for her she still is in the same position so she never gained anything career wise. The only difference is somebody with the same amount of experience I had has taken my position and I'm changing careers which I was planning on doing but not this soon. My revenge on her she never got an advancement she will never have one a position for her will never open up again until that employee retires which could be a decade.

I can talk about what happened between us now that I'm working for somebody else.

I??ll take the bait...


What happened? Tell the story.

Posted by Stihl46


I find it interesting the Scorpio was so focused on revenge but lost sight will anything be gained from it, in the end nothing was gained from it she's in the same place she was before. .

take your own advice 🙂

Okay when her and I met it was instant attraction for both of us we just understand each other its almost scary how much we understand each other. When we are were together at work we were a force to reckoned with, I was the one she could come to I was the only one she could be her Scorpio self ie not wearing the mask no invisible force shield around her. Her and I developed feelings for each other pretty sure she was scared of her feelings and she was scared to have a relationship with me because we worked at the same place.

She is seeing this other guy but he doesn't make her happy, I understood her so well she would show up at work and I could tell she was feeling down she wouldn't let anybody else see she was but she would come into my office I could read her face. I would give her comfort, I think it frustrated her that she couldn't have a relationship with me. It was tough working with her the way I could interact with others I couldn't with her, she would feel I don't think she was good enough. Her un-happiness kept brewing she started to take her anger out on me it started to get to the point we can't work together anymore we fought a lot. I started to feel pressure from my superiors it all come to a head and I decided to walk.

I really never worked with women before anywhere I worked its been all guy workers there is no issues with drama guys settle things man to man and its resolved. Women on the other hand love creating drama things turn into a big s*** show then it turns into he said she said bull**** argh the guy always loses. I've always had a leadership job or I've been foreman I've never had problems in my life with leadership until I started working with women, I swear from now on I will never work with women under me too much tree trunking drama. I will always have a foreman/supervisor type job or a job I work alone.

As for the Scorpio her un-happiness turned things into a big mess she never caused butter with any other employees with me she did because the Cancer Scorpio connection. Where is she today? same place same un-happiness but she doesn't have me to take it out on. Nobody believes me that she is un-happy because she has a bubbly persona she lets everybody see soon as she walked in my door of my office and the door closed that bubbly persona went away. I seen her rage, Scorpios have one hell of a temper, seen the emotions, spent a lot of time together having quiet time. Soon as she walked through the door I could read he

her face no words needed to be said I could tell if she was in a miserable mood. She could leave my office and flip the tree trunking switch and be bubbly again WTF.

It will be interesting if I hear from her again I probably will she can't walk away from me, the ripping fights we had most people would have walked away. It seems like the more troubles we had and got through made our relationship/friendship stronger.

I've read it enough times on the net what they say about Scorpio and Cancers being together is true its a roller coaster.

... lost me... What happened? This is more u observing her and making your own ideas of how and what she feels. Like most women do. That why cancer is feminine?

For a scorpio it will be interesting to see, if you??ll reply to her or not, if she let u hear from her again....

Counter9, it's a trap. Run.

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I find it interesting the Scorpio was so focused on revenge but lost sight will anything be gained from it, in the end nothing was gained from it she's in the same place she was before. .

take your own advice 🙂

DAT MIRRORING. Scorpio mirroring ftw!

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LOL

No wonder people get so wound up. Those eyes, they say so little... and they say so much at the same time. Best advice given is don't even try figuring them out. You can't, and you won't.

They can smile when pissed off like you think they are enamoured with what you've just done, and then cut you right down with a few concise words telling you exactly how you fucked up.

It's so terrifying that it's sexy.

Yes there is some mirroring she screws with me I will screw with her back, I can get the jabs in that cut her to the core emotionally when I get angry I get mean when she gets angry she starts drama in my life.

I give it a month not hearing from me she will be wondering about me she hasn't walked away from me yet. The Scorpio Cancer bond never seems to disappear after every fight we come back the feelings like we had when we first met come back.

Put this video on super slow.

It's all about you, Stihl.

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Yes there is some mirroring she screws with me I will screw with her back, I can get the jabs in that cut her to the core emotionally when I get angry I get mean when she gets angry she starts drama in my life.

I give it a month not hearing from me she will be wondering about me she hasn't walked away from me yet. The Scorpio Cancer bond never seems to disappear after every fight we come back the feelings like we had when we first met come back.

So that means....you'll be back in a month??

*quits dxp*

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I'm walking away from her if she wants to follow she can I'm going my own way she's screwed herself she's made an ugly mess. All she had on her mind was revenge she didn't think of the big picture she didn't think of the ramifications of what she's done. Oh well its her problem I doubt she will be at the company I left for very long she made some career killing mistakes she's done she cooked her own goose.

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The Scorpio I'm friends with will get what she deserves

I don't get people who use the term "friends" like that.

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The Scorpio I'm friends with will get what she deserves to her on a silver platter she tree trunked with me gets what she deserves she needs a little eye opener. We worked for the same company she caused me so much trouble at work I had to leave, she thought she could move up to the rank I was working in, she's not going to get the position yesss 🙂

She went through so much trouble and pain to make me leave and she's not going to gain anything. I love it when Scorpios sting themselves, she was so hurt and angry with me she kept causing butter for me it got so unbearable she forced me out of the company we worked at.

I learned never s*** where you eat it gets messy, getting close to woman you work with not a good idea when things go sour it turns ugly which it did for me. Never let feelings develop between someone you work with, the feelings are mutual its not one sided between us, will I forgive her? Most likely, people would think I'm nuts but it is just the way it is. Fights happen there is a silence between us then something draws us back together eventually never fails.

I find it interesting the Scorpio was so focused on revenge but lost sight will anything be gained from it, in the end nothing was gained from it she's in the same place she was before. I wanted to leave anyhow I have other goals she just made me make a change quicker than I wanted too. It was tough to work together at times because feelings would get hurt so easily we are both very sensitive people. Nobody really seen our sensitive sides her and I were sensitive with each other the bond and understanding between us is strong. We look into each others eyes we can see each others soul we just understand each other plain and simple.

Wonder if she will come back to get a taste of crab meat again I have no doubts she will I will probably the only person that will talk to her. I will give her a month or two she will be wondering about me.

That's not what karma is.

Also, you're an ass.

He's like the Justin Bieber of DXP.
He's making a fool of himself all over America and Canada doesn't want him back.

What I don't get she let emotions take over, emotions controlled her decisions she caused troubles in my life because she was hurt she is unhappy in her life. She made a mess at work for me and her as well she put the spot light on her for all the bad reasons. I don't let emotions control my decisions I use reason and logic to make decisions I think before I act, she doesn't think before she acts it comes out in rage.

I'm off on a different path now the past is the past I have to move forward I'm not resistant to change like she is she hates change she fears things changing. Her life is planned to the T she packs a day planner she knows what she's doing 2 weeks from now. I do like some regularity in my life I can adapt to change, if I don't have some change I get bored.

As I said I will see if she comes back around lol

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nevermind, you are in Canada.

*breathes a sigh of relief*

??

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Stihl, it doesn't sound like the two of you were ever in a relationship. It sounds like all of this was in your head.

I am trying to follow all this. I am confused. My guess is Stihl46 may be a victim of a Scorp. Definitely hooked, thinking more about her than necessary.

Really, stihl46, do you want to have a relationship with this Scorp? Based on some of the things you wrote, I suspect that deep down, you are wildly attracted to her---but do not know how to transition out of the current power struggle, get rid of the push-pull toxicity element that is now part of your ex "work" relationship. Sounds to me that trust is broken in this relationship, work or potential love match.

Scorp was probably annoyed that you didnt strap on a pair of balls and tell her straight out how you feel/felt. She was probably waiting for you to make the first move, after pelting all hints at you.

Straightforward, apparently this girl he is obsessed with has a boyfriend.

If any of this is even true.

Even if she had a boyfriend, she still probably wanted him to say something. If it is true that there was some wild attraction going on between those two, I do believe the Scorp would have left her boyfriend. Scorps tend to be unwaverling loyal to their significant others--they definitely do not play games, give signals that he/she is available unless he/she is SO unhappy and have already emotionally left the relationship.

I see e11e. Just read his history, especially about "my boss is a sociopath."

You must really love this scorpio woman....

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nevermind, you are in Canada.

*breathes a sigh of relief*

??

lol....I wasn't sure if I needed to call security or something, but he's in Canada....and I'm in the US...so, it's no cancer men at my workplace 😛

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But... I'm in Canada 0.0

When I met her she was on the rebound she had a really ugly break up I was hesitant do I really want to be with her. I got to know her she wanted a relationship I was still hesitant, she wanted to be in a relationship so she started seeing this other guy who is a Gemini. As their relationship progressed she realized she's not happy and she turned angry with me. I can safely say soon as their honey moon phase ended it was 6-7 month mark she started causing trouble in my life. She gathered some stuff on me that would make me look bad at work which it did I got reprimanded I was angry. She did this more than once and she kept doing it she was angry, her and I would fight words would get said her feelings would get hurt.

It turned into a vicious cycle she wouldn't deal with her unhappiness she would take it out on me I was getting tired of her taking her unhappiness out on me she wanted to drag me down to her level. She hated every minute of it seeing that I was enjoying my life which I was I felt good I was making progress at work I was accomplishing things. Cancers are good leaders we can control things we can organize and take care of the way things operate.

Nobody and I mean nobody seen her other side the "true scorpio" side of her the deep emotional side, soon as my office door closed and her and I were alone her fake persona was left on the other side of the door. She would have quiet time with me she could vent and we would talk she would feel at ease with me there were times she wanted to cry I would give her comfort. It would amaze me soon as she walked out of my office nobody would know there is a hurt and unhappy girl she would hide all that.

Her unhappiness kept brewing things got worse for me and her I, things started to get out of hand she started claiming things that I did in reality it didn't happen. I decided to walk I had enough her constant unhappiness and taking it out on me she kept getting me in the spot light of my superiors I would end up reprimanded.

I don't need that crap in my life I don't really need her in my life she needs to change her life, in reality I don't think she will ever be happy. Her boyfriend tries to make her happy nothing works he can have her I don't need to be dragged down. Trust me she isn't the only scorpio woman I know the another one I knew she was the same nothing could make her happy and the third one I know she is the same I never see her she's miserable and unhappy in her life.

Not sure what causes Scorpio women to be so unhappy in their lives? end up with the wrong type of men that don't understand their needs? The one I worked with I understood her I could read her like a book we spoke by eye contact and body language I knew what she wanted by the way she looked at me.

The one I worked with she makes her BF miserable he looks unhappy they are not a healthy relationship. His friends have asked me have I noticed he doesn't look healthy and happy anymore they have noticed it he's not himself anymore. I'm seeing first hand what an extremely toxic relationship looks like. She is his problem if things work out for me I will never have to see her again it is my get out of jail free card.

What the fuck. Girl bye.

I'm always moving forward I'm a bulldozer pushing forward in my life I had a few hard years of pushing dealing with what the Scorpio was doing to me. You could say she was putting sugar in my fuel and I had to keep repairing the damage she caused me. I pushing my life in a different direction I should hopefully be out of the clutches of a Scorpio woman.

At work she hated to see me succeed I would do well at work and she hated it she would try out do me to make herself look better than me. She was always more critical with me than the others, she hated the fact I had control and I took the lead.

I have gotten angry with her and said quit dragging me down if you are not happy in your life quit making mine that way. That would hurt her feelings and we would have a fight she would be pouting and giving me the silent treatment. Days I would ask her if she was doing okay she would give me the I'm Fine, tree trunk I felt like I was married to her.

The others I worked with are angry at her that I left I was a well liked team leader they liked working with me because I knew what I was doing. They understand I needed to move on with my life they seen the s*** she caused me. I have lots of support behind me I have/had a good network of supportive co-workers she doesn't. All the crap she caused me never got her anywhere it didn't move her career forward.

Lesson learned for me NEVER EVER let feelings develop or get close to the females you work with it causes nothing but troubles. When I used to be the leader of all guy work teams we never had issues there was never drama. After all this BS I will never lead a team of workers if women are involved. I've been a leader or had leadership roles in my jobs I worked since I was in my early 20s.

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stihl, you are reminding me of the guy in this lifetime movie....

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1927126/<BR>
chill the hell out!

LOL.

The way you said that was hilarious, but I've been getting that vibe from Stihl for a while now that there is the possibility of him having a mood disorder of some sort. I can't put my finger on why I feel that way, it's his writing style, or something, not just what he says, but how. His posts feel foggy.

JESUS, STIHL. STAHP.

Guardiananu, definitely mania of some sort is happening. Posts composed of continuous run-on sentences are hard to follow. Maybe he is a troll, maybe not. I think the relentless ramblings in long paragraph may indicate something more than traditional trolling.

In Australia we have a brand of chainsaws called "stihl" and I suspect this is the very brand of chainsaw that stihl plans to kill his Scorpio with!

0.o

Canada is big, but is it big enough?

Hopefully he's on the other side!

I'll have to ask my partner if his chainsaw is in good working order. I should just borrow a brush cutter from his work ...

**maniacal laughter**

I was so disappointed. the title looked so good but then I read the op. Yawn