Please help me understand.....

Posted by JTaurus
So I have the most wonderful Scorp guy friend!!! However, I am having a hard time understanding what it is that he wants from me, so I will try my best not to make this to lengthy, hell I'd get annoyed as well. When we were first partnered together in class he kept touching me as if he was trying to catch the light on the old "simon says" game, but he gave me that deep stare Scorps are known for giving hahaha and said; yes we are "friends." Another day I felt that someone was staring at me, kinda like an x-ray and sure enough it was him. He leans on me, some part of him like (his arm or leg touches) when he has plenty of room to avoid this, he has also cupped his hand over mine when there was no real need for him to touch me. We laugh, smile and talk alot like friends do, he shared personal information about himself without me asking him anything. YES I am confused by his actions, anyways one day as he was coming out of the elevator and I was headed into it he grabbed the hell out of my elbow spun me around with his head tilted to the right with a semi-devlish smile still holding onto my elbow of course I stood there talking to him, where was I going to go he wasn't letting go. Anyhow it is stuff like that he does and said we are just friends, um..to me friends aren't that extreme to eachother, right. So my question is this " am I reading to much into his actions or am I right in thinking he is trying to tell me he is ready to be more than just a friend"?

Yes I do have some feelings for him, no I haven't heard of him doing this to other women. I just don't get that whole mixed signal thing, like I am going to say one thing but act it out in another way. Kinda like the "cool chase"

Posted by JTaurus
Yes I do have some feelings for him, no I haven't heard of him doing this to other women. I just don't get that whole mixed signal thing, like I am going to say one thing but act it out in another way. Kinda like the "cool chase"

Congratulations, sweetheart, you have bagged yourself a Scorpio.
Lovers ought to be best friends.

So, I got brave today and used the "L" word with him today, yes I told him that I like him. I didn't expect a response, but for the simple fact that he didn't say oh or okay made me feel small. I'm usually good at keeping my feelings to myself, uhhh I just want to crawl into a hole. No..I didn't bug him after the long silence, I'm going to leave it alone and give him time to think. Well at least I know that we are best friends and can't ruin that, but the air is going to be thick for a while.

Sunrays, I absolutely agree. Ok you got me, I do love him. It's been three years since I had and kind of feelings for a guy and I don't want them to come out all at once and sending him running in the other direction. I don't trust or love easily.