Questions for a scorpio

So as you all know, I really love a scorpio, so let me ask you a few questions for help.

What kinds of things annoy a scorpio?

What makes them trust?

What do they love about people?

What makes them uncomfortable?

What makes them comfortable?

What makes them love someone?

How do you show your affection for them? (Without scaring them off)

What scares them off?

Okay, that's all I can think of, if you have any more advice to help me I'd be forever grateful....and btw, I talked to my cousin and even he thinks I have a pretty good chance with this guy, despite the age difference.

Thank you both so much it helps a lot! And one more problem....I'm the chaser always, it's what I do....is that a problem? Should I play hard to get, I mean now that I started chasing I don't want to all of a sudden seem uninterested.

Posted by DonAmanMarat
Its all a phase, it all passes, and you're on to something newer and advanced.

Hmm, what do you mean?

Posted by SuperMissMan
So as you all know, I really love a scorpio, so let me ask you a few questions for help.

What kinds of things annoy a scorpio?

What makes them uncomfortable?

What scares them off?

# Analyzing them
# Asking many personal questions
# Trying to get to know them by asking too many questions


😛

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Posted by SuperMissMan
So as you all know, I really love a scorpio, so let me ask you a few questions for help.

What kinds of things annoy a scorpio?

What makes them uncomfortable?

What scares them off?

# Analyzing them
# Asking many personal questions
# Trying to get to know them by asking too many questions


😛

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Ooooh thanks for telling me that. I'm one for trying my best to get to know someone inside out. And I I ask a shitload of questions! How do I undo that, because I do think I made him a bit uncomfortable with them.

My main question right now is.....if I started out chasing him, and starting conversations, and all that stuff, should I start playing hard to get? Because after we got into personal things, he got really weird and less responsive and it's been like that for days since. And I always start the convos and he sometimes finest write back, at least not for a while, but like today I didn't text him till much later and it seems as if he was kind of waiting for it cuz he seems really enthusiastic...but right after that he just got all silent and unresponsive....so what? Should I start being hard to get, I mean I don't want him to think I've lost interest or something, because it's not like that at all..but I don't want to annoy him or scare him off....please help!

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What scares them off? Underage girls.

Fuck off.

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Posted by Whatu
What scares them off? Underage girls.

Fuck off.

This would scare me too!! It is illegal to have sex under 17 isnt it??

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Sixteen. And if my cousin says I have a chance, I know I do, he knows him better than anyone. When you have families like ours you'd understand that we don't exactly live like the rest of the world. I personally do, it's weird to me that he's older, but to someone like him and my cousin they wouldn't really give it a thought because it's not as big a difference as we see happening with everyone else we're close to....besides that ONE MORE FUCKING COMMENT ON MY FUCKING AGE ILL BLOW UP. IF YOU ARENT GOING TO HELP ME *****FUCK OFF***** really. I'm sick and tired of this shit. I really am, all I ask for is your help and you give me this shit. Not okay, I would be helping you, I don't need your judgement and criticism, so keep that shit to yourself everyone. Sorry for getting mad but this is a very serious and emotional situation for me I really love him and you are all making it so much harder for me. You're putting me down and making me feel worst and worst. I already feel scared, and now I'm starting to lose my courage so please just stop.

Posted by starlover
I just saw this


despite the age difference


what age is the guy Supermiss?

I'm not telling you. Not anymore. I don't need to be put down anymore I'm already feeling not good enough, I don't need people to make me feel worst.

Posted by starlover
I just saw this


despite the age difference


what age is the guy Supermiss?

Star, she's 16, and the scorpio guy is 19. The age difference is not problem if they were both adults. He's legally an adult. She is legally underage. By LAW he could be accused and found guilty of statutory rape, even if it was consentual, just because she's not a legal adult. If she can just WAIT 2 more years she will be of age and he won't risk such a thing. IF he's unwise enough to sleep with a 16 yr old and is convicted he will spend time in prison as well as being added to the sex offenders list. If she can't understand this or doesn't care what risk she puts him at, she is an immature, stupid and selfish child.

Posted by starlover
Well i am a mother of a 15yr old so i naturally care for other young people...i can't help it?

I think you need to take care dear girl....really i do


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I'm sorry, I shouldn't have blown up at you or anyone....he's 19 :/

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Posted by starlover
I just saw this


despite the age difference


what age is the guy Supermiss?

I'm not telling you. Not anymore. I don't need to be put down anymore I'm already feeling not good enough, I don't need people to make me feel worst.

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You don't need to feel bad for liking this guy, but you do need to keep your wits. Just WAIT for this guy. 2 more years and you won't put him at risk. If he goes to prison for you he will resent and hate you. If you actually love him then you won't put him at risk like that. 2 years is NOTHING in the scheme of things. Focus on school, focus on being his friend.

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Posted by starlover
I just saw this


despite the age difference


what age is the guy Supermiss?

Star, she's 16, and the scorpio guy is 19. The age difference is not problem if they were both adults. He's legally an adult. She is legally underage. By LAW he could be accused and found guilty of statutory rape, even if it was consentual, just because she's not a legal adult. If she can just WAIT 2 more years she will be of age and he won't risk such a thing. IF he's unwise enough to sleep with a 16 yr old and is convicted he will spend time in prison as well as being added to the sex offenders list. If she can't understand this or doesn't care what risk she puts him at, she is an immature, stupid and selfish child.

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Well, like I said for the LAST time, our families are different. Even if I was naked on the bed telling him I want him, he wouldn't have sex with me unless we were married. Him and my cousin. It's annoying but...it's how they are VERY religious. My cousin has had the same gf for five years, both of them....virgins. Both of them? 20 years old. Getting married....his best friend....he's the same. Please STOP IT.

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Posted by starlover
I just saw this


despite the age difference


what age is the guy Supermiss?

I'm not telling you. Not anymore. I don't need to be put down anymore I'm already feeling not good enough, I don't need people to make me feel worst.

You don't need to feel bad for liking this guy, but you do need to keep your wits. Just WAIT for this guy. 2 more years and you won't put him at risk. If he goes to prison for you he will resent and hate you. If you actually love him then you won't put him at risk like that. 2 years is NOTHING in the scheme of things. Focus on school, focus on being his friend.

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Get the hell off of this thread. I will not be insulted. If u aren't going to help me get off. I don't need your shit I didn't ask for it. I am not selfish. I know the situation better than you and anyone else, he wouldn't have sex with me anyways, so he wouldn't get in trouble.

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Posted by starlover
I just saw this


despite the age difference


what age is the guy Supermiss?

Star, she's 16, and the scorpio guy is 19. The age difference is not problem if they were both adults. He's legally an adult. She is legally underage. By LAW he could be accused and found guilty of statutory rape, even if it was consentual, just because she's not a legal adult. If she can just WAIT 2 more years she will be of age and he won't risk such a thing. IF he's unwise enough to sleep with a 16 yr old and is convicted he will spend time in prison as well as being added to the sex offenders list. If she can't understand this or doesn't care what risk she puts him at, she is an immature, stupid and selfish child.

Well, like I said for the LAST time, our families are different. Even if I was naked on the bed telling him I want him, he wouldn't have sex with me unless we were married. Him and my cousin. It's annoying but...it's how they are VERY religious. My cousin has had the same gf for five years, both of them....virgins. Both of them? 20 years old. Getting married....his best friend....he's the same. Please STOP IT.

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Religion means nothing when you're young and the hormones are raging. Some have the will power and some don't care. I speak from experience, because I was 16 once and so were my peers. I've seen friends get pregnant, I've seen at least one end up on the sex offenders list. Right now your future is unwritten and you can do/be as you wish. Don't be in such a rush.

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Posted by starlover
I just saw this


despite the age difference


what age is the guy Supermiss?

Star, she's 16, and the scorpio guy is 19. The age difference is not problem if they were both adults. He's legally an adult. She is legally underage. By LAW he could be accused and found guilty of statutory rape, even if it was consentual, just because she's not a legal adult. If she can just WAIT 2 more years she will be of age and he won't risk such a thing. IF he's unwise enough to sleep with a 16 yr old and is convicted he will spend time in prison as well as being added to the sex offenders list. If she can't understand this or doesn't care what risk she puts him at, she is an immature, stupid and selfish child.

Well, like I said for the LAST time, our families are different. Even if I was naked on the bed telling him I want him, he wouldn't have sex with me unless we were married. Him and my cousin. It's annoying but...it's how they are VERY religious. My cousin has had the same gf for five years, both of them....virgins. Both of them? 20 years old. Getting married....his best friend....he's the same. Please STOP IT.

Religion means nothing when you're young and the hormones are raging. Some have the will power and some don't care. I speak from experience, because I was 16 once and so were my peers. I've seen friends get pregnant, I've seen at least one end up on the sex offenders list. Right now your future is unwritten and you can do/be as you wish. Don't be in such a rush.

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That's you. That's me. That's not him. Good day to you.

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Posted by starlover
I just saw this


despite the age difference


what age is the guy Supermiss?

Star, she's 16, and the scorpio guy is 19. The age difference is not problem if they were both adults. He's legally an adult. She is legally underage. By LAW he could be accused and found guilty of statutory rape, even if it was consentual, just because she's not a legal adult. If she can just WAIT 2 more years she will be of age and he won't risk such a thing. IF he's unwise enough to sleep with a 16 yr old and is convicted he will spend time in prison as well as being added to the sex offenders list. If she can't understand this or doesn't care what risk she puts him at, she is an immature, stupid and selfish child.

Well, like I said for the LAST time, our families are different. Even if I was naked on the bed telling him I want him, he wouldn't have sex with me unless we were married. Him and my cousin. It's annoying but...it's how they are VERY religious. My cousin has had the same gf for five years, both of them....virgins. Both of them? 20 years old. Getting married....his best friend....he's the same. Please STOP IT.

Religion means nothing when you're young and the hormones are raging. Some have the will power and some don't care. I speak from experience, because I was 16 once and so were my peers. I've seen friends get pregnant, I've seen at least one end up on the sex offenders list. Right now your future is unwritten and you can do/be as you wish. Don't be in such a rush.

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I know exactly what I want. I'm not going to let you or anyone else talk me out of it, so don't bother trying. You aren't helping anything you're only possible me off and making me piss you off so seriously you need to stop it.

Pissing*

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Posted by starlover
I just saw this


despite the age difference


what age is the guy Supermiss?

I'm not telling you. Not anymore. I don't need to be put down anymore I'm already feeling not good enough, I don't need people to make me feel worst.

You don't need to feel bad for liking this guy, but you do need to keep your wits. Just WAIT for this guy. 2 more years and you won't put him at risk. If he goes to prison for you he will resent and hate you. If you actually love him then you won't put him at risk like that. 2 years is NOTHING in the scheme of things. Focus on school, focus on being his friend.

Get the hell off of this thread. I will not be insulted. If u aren't going to help me get off. I don't need your shit I didn't ask for it. I am not selfish. I know the situation better than you and anyone else, he wouldn't have sex with me anyways, so he wouldn't get in trouble.

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I'm not insulting you. I said IF....IF....IF you are willing to risk him going to prison THEN you are selfish. This should be a sufficient warning on what could go horribly wrong. You insist he wouldn't, then why are you so intent on throwing yourself at him?

Posted by starlover
Teens often feel insulted.....they are meant to, tis their hormones 😄 Wait till you have them Moon....wwoooohhhhh


SuperMIss ~ Ms Moon and I are just trying to help you, we are both mothers and therefore feel concern


That is all


:~)))

Gods save me from teenagers! I know my mom will have a smug smile and think, "now you know". Luckily I also know the tricks we pulled, so good luck hoodwinking me.

He. Will. Not. Go. To. Prison. How hard is that to unspderstand? My aunt got married to a nineteen year old at 16...he didn't go to prison. This is bs. Lots of people have sex with older people and NOONE gets in trouble, and besides that not what will happen with him. I wouldn't push him to either. I just want a relationship with him and one that'll last until I am old enough to do things. Get it through your head. I'm done with this shit, if u won't help, leave. I'll I'm asking is for help about getting into a relationship with him, not why I shouldn't be in one, if you can't get that through to you, don't even comment.

Saying I'm a stupid selfish immature child is an insult, and I won't put up with it.

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Haha Moon, I wasn't an easy one....very challenging i was in some ways

My lad is good...but we talk, talk, talk, all the time.....i decided to tell him about my past, how i drank too much, smoked too much and didnt work hard enough at school and guess what?? He has turned out the opposite. He said to me *mum you have put me off**. I always give him choices but make him aware of the consequences and don't talk down to him....seems to work


Reverse psychology hey? The finger wagging just dont work with some

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You're doing it right! My parents told us a lot about their pasts, too. They didn't hide things, and it was in the hopes that we wouldn't make the same mistakes. We didn't. I did make different or new mistakes, but that's human nature.

Posted by starlover
My son is a Scorpio

I am a Scorpio


I would not want to be in a romantic relationship with a Scorpio, although i love the sign, we are moody, difficult to live with and overly complex. Add all that to the male psyche and you have someone who broods and internalizes emotions ~ not easy!

Personally i prefer someone lighter and fun to be with ~ more easy going, but that is just me

You may like all the above


Good luck!


:~))

I defiantly feel the way you do, I love someone who can be light and a bit easier to be with, but that's the type of person who I don't take seriously. Scorpios are strong to me, and they make me feel like I need to keep my a to together and it help me feel organized inside, and it gives me a constant goal. I need it, and I'm able to deal. My aunt is a scorpio and she raised me, and all hell would break loose if she got mad, but...life goes on, you learn how to handle it. :/ I don't know, I feel bad for blowing up at you two, I'm just very frustrated because I really love the guy and I wouldn't ask for anyone or anything else, and it need help. So I'll just take the advice I've already gotten, and wing it.

Posted by SuperMissMan
He. Will. Not. Go. To. Prison. How hard is that to unspderstand? My aunt got married to a nineteen year old at 16...he didn't go to prison. This is bs. Lots of people have sex with older people and NOONE gets in trouble, and besides that not what will happen with him. I wouldn't push him to either. I just want a relationship with him and one that'll last until I am old enough to do things. Get it through your head. I'm done with this shit, if u won't help, leave. I'll I'm asking is for help about getting into a relationship with him, not why I shouldn't be in one, if you can't get that through to you, don't even comment.

You can't predict the future, and I guarantee EVERY SINGLE young adult who ended up in prison for having sex with their 16/17 yr old girlfriend didn't once think it would happen to them. As for help on having a relationship with him, just be yourself. He will either like you or he won't. There is no magic formula.

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Saying I'm a stupid selfish immature child is an insult, and I won't put up with it.

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I said IF you didn't care about the risks you might put him up to (prison, etc) THEN you are an immature, selfish child. It's up to you on whether or not you're those things or not, based on your own actions.

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Posted by starlover
My son is a Scorpio

I am a Scorpio


I would not want to be in a romantic relationship with a Scorpio, although i love the sign, we are moody, difficult to live with and overly complex. Add all that to the male psyche and you have someone who broods and internalizes emotions ~ not easy!

Personally i prefer someone lighter and fun to be with ~ more easy going, but that is just me

You may like all the above


Good luck!


:~))

I defiantly feel the way you do, I love someone who can be light and a bit easier to be with, but that's the type of person who I don't take seriously. Scorpios are strong to me, and they make me feel like I need to keep my a to together and it help me feel organized inside, and it gives me a constant goal. I need it, and I'm able to deal. My aunt is a scorpio and she raised me, and all hell would break loose if she got mad, but...life goes on, you learn how to handle it. :/ I don't know, I feel bad for blowing up at you two, I'm just very frustrated because I really love the guy and I wouldn't ask for anyone or anything else, and it need help. So I'll just take the advice I've already gotten, and wing it.

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That's all you can do, take the advice and wing it. Don't look at it as a game or a challenge, because as soon as you put a "plan" into place, that's when you lose the person. He might be interested in you and he might not. You'll find that over and over in life, that not every person you come into contact will reciprocate the feelings, just as not everyone who wants YOU will have that reciprocated from you.

My first real crush was when I was 9 and he was 12. We rode horses together, chased each other around with horse whips. He taught me to drive a pony cart. All those years we never had the guts to let the other know how we felt. Found out this year that he had a huge crush on me, too. He's married now. See how life is? Not always fair, certainly not as we might want it at a certain moment, sometimes sweet and sometimes bitter, and sometimes a bit of a comedy. Roll with the punches and enjoy the rest. Learn and grow. This is life.

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My son is a Scorpio

I am a Scorpio


I would not want to be in a romantic relationship with a Scorpio, although i love the sign, we are moody, difficult to live with and overly complex. Add all that to the male psyche and you have someone who broods and internalizes emotions ~ not easy!

Personally i prefer someone lighter and fun to be with ~ more easy going, but that is just me

You may like all the above


Good luck!


:~))

I defiantly feel the way you do, I love someone who can be light and a bit easier to be with, but that's the type of person who I don't take seriously. Scorpios are strong to me, and they make me feel like I need to keep my a to together and it help me feel organized inside, and it gives me a constant goal. I need it, and I'm able to deal. My aunt is a scorpio and she raised me, and all hell would break loose if she got mad, but...life goes on, you learn how to handle it. :/ I don't know, I feel bad for blowing up at you two, I'm just very frustrated because I really love the guy and I wouldn't ask for anyone or anything else, and it need help. So I'll just take the advice I've already gotten, and wing it.

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My first love was a Libra with a Scorp moon. I had long r.ships with an Aqua ~ Scorpio moon and another long one with an Aries ~ Scorp moon

Put me off for life 😄...but i am a Scorp with 5 planets in her, so maybe it was too much of a mirror for me?

You are probably different. Don't worry about the blowing up....you have better manners than a lot of adults here and know how to say sorry, which is really good.

Now, you are going to hate me for this lol....but when i was your age, i was totally in love with a Libra guy (the Scorp moon one) and now when i look back i think haha, what did i see in him?

Mind yourself and be happy but safe!

x

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Thank you! And yes, I know what you mean, it does happen, I will look back and wonder why I ever liked them. It happens when I like someone usually. But when I really love them (like a Taurus who after three years I finally got over) I don't think back like that. I know I'm still young but you can never be too youn

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Posted by starlover
My son is a Scorpio

I am a Scorpio


I would not want to be in a romantic relationship with a Scorpio, although i love the sign, we are moody, difficult to live with and overly complex. Add all that to the male psyche and you have someone who broods and internalizes emotions ~ not easy!

Personally i prefer someone lighter and fun to be with ~ more easy going, but that is just me

You may like all the above


Good luck!


:~))

I defiantly feel the way you do, I love someone who can be light and a bit easier to be with, but that's the type of person who I don't take seriously. Scorpios are strong to me, and they make me feel like I need to keep my a to together and it help me feel organized inside, and it gives me a constant goal. I need it, and I'm able to deal. My aunt is a scorpio and she raised me, and all hell would break loose if she got mad, but...life goes on, you learn how to handle it. :/ I don't know, I feel bad for blowing up at you two, I'm just very frustrated because I really love the guy and I wouldn't ask for anyone or anything else, and it need help. So I'll just take the advice I've already gotten, and wing it.

That's all you can do, take the advice and wing it. Don't look at it as a game or a challenge, because as soon as you put a "plan" into place, that's when you lose the person. He might be interested in you and he might not. You'll find that over and over in life, that not every person you come into contact will reciprocate the feelings, just as not everyone who wants YOU will have that reciprocated from you.

My first real crush was when I was 9 and he was 12. We rode horses together, chased each other around with horse whips. He taught me to drive a pony cart. All those years we never had the guts to let the other know how we felt. Found out this year that he had a huge crush on me, too. He's married now. See how life is? Not always fair, certainly not as we might want it at a certain moment, sometimes sweet and sometimes bitter, and sometimes a bit of a comedy. Roll with the punches and enjoy the rest. Learn and grow. This is life.

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Okay. I very much agree with you, I know

And we are pretty compatible for the most part:
Him-
Scorpio sun
Gemini moon
Scorpio mercury
Scorpio venus
Leo mars

Me-
Pisces sun
Aquarius moon
Aries mercury
Aries venus
Scorpio mars

Posted by jeannegrey
SuperMiss----good things come to those who WAIT. trust me on this 🙂 starlover was only being sincere....

Okay, I can be patient with him, thank you for helping me 🙂 thank you very much.

So as you all know, I really love a scorpio, so let me ask you a few questions for help.

What kinds of things annoy a scorpio?

What makes them trust?

What do they love about people?Altruism,honesty and compassion

What makes them uncomfortable?Nosey-fake -intrusive people

What makes them comfortable? Slow trust and honesty built over time-loyality

What makes them love someone?All the above and a sense of humor

How do you show your affection for them? (Without scaring them off)

What scares them off?Liars, chearers

What kinds of things annoy a scorpio?

What makes them trust? Keeping your word. Being consistent. Not playing games.

What do they love about people? I love everything about people and I hate them at the same time. The light and dark inside of people. Death and life. It's all very beautiful when you think about it.

What makes them uncomfortable? In a relationship, any sort of game. In life, not being able to accomplish what you set out to do.

What makes them comfortable? Being the master of my destiny. A comfy home to retreat to. Good friends, good drinks, and a lot of laughs.

What makes them love someone? That's a big question. Trust I would say. Mutual respect. When I love, I just do.

How do you show your affection for them? (Without scaring them off)I've never scared anyone off before, but I'm pretty subtle with how I show affection. It's the little things I do. I follow that with a big gesture every so often. I'm the sappy type quite often. I love to be romantic. Candle lite dinners, long walks, deep conversations, playing music for that person. I have a lot of ways. I get protective of my loved ones. No one can hurt them if I'm there.

What scares them off? Lies. Games. Apple chips. Ew

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Just my 2 cents:

What kinds of things annoy a scorpio? - Stupidity, insincerity, not being considerate, clowns

What makes them trust? - Time and honesty.

What do they love about people? - Their infinite capacity for good. Not that most people utilize that capacity, but...

What makes them uncomfortable? - The "Spotlight", having to express emotions, people prying into my personal thoughts and feelings when it's obvious it's none of their business to know.

What makes them comfortable? - Silence.

What makes them love someone? - Honesty, responsibility, self awareness, self confidence, patience.

How do you show your affection for them? (Without scaring them off) - By the everyday things that I do for them. You want sappy romance? Find someone else.

What scares them off? - Clowns, pit bulls, STDs.

LOL, loved every answer. I agree with you but for 2 exceptions.
Comfort: knowing that you are trustworthy, your honest in what you say, you don't renig on your promises/ word / agreement. Lastly, the environment that surrounds us (depending on what your Scorpio likes of course.)

What scares them off? : Insanity, Childish drama, Promiscuous ways, Overbearing, Asking or Expecting us to Compromise who we are. ( just as a few examples )

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SuperMiss----good things come to those who WAIT. trust me on this 🙂 starlover was only being sincere....

Okay, I can be patient with him, thank you for helping me 🙂 thank you very much.

You will be fine no matter what happens little fish. You have a spirit about you---I can see it 🙂

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🙂 thank you!


Thanks to all of you actually! You all have helped me understand scorpios a lot better, I really appreciate it!

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SuperMiss----good things come to those who WAIT. trust me on this 🙂 starlover was only being sincere....

Okay, I can be patient with him, thank you for helping me 🙂 thank you very much.

You will be fine no matter what happens little fish. You have a spirit about you---I can see it 🙂

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Scorpios doesn't love to all mankind, in general hate everything and really love (the only way we know love) very few people.

The good part and what differentiates us from most is when we love we do completely, love the full, lights and shadows.