Scorp/Aqua It`s Complicated!!

K.. So imma virgin to the scorp board but an old head to DXP.. Quite amusing here.. Anyway.. Ques. Coworker of mine.. 24 male scorp.. Me 34 female aqua. He recently started @ my job abt 3 mos ago.. Sexy! Body like OMG, 2 deep dimples and perfect pearly whites.. So im playin it cool my usual, "avoid him until he breaks" routine which works 90% of the time with normal male subjects.. Him: giving me the intense stare like he is going to rip my clothes off any minute.. EVERY TIME I look at him is driving me batty! So the other women are falling all over themselves just to talk to him which I laugh at but inside im slowly dying.. He is single, however I found out he had sex with one of the girls we work with but they are not a couple, per her.

He is an awesome person and extrememly fun. I avoid him intentionally bc the more small talk he tries to make with me the closer I am to ripping his clothes off and dragging him into the men's room.. My last day working with him will be the end of the month. I got another job so I want to let him know I want to get to know him.. But I am very shy about it.. I have never approached a guy before plus I guess I am uncomfortable bc I am so much older than he is. Plus I know he is trouble.. No man that fine couldn't be.. But still I fantisize about him every night.. I try not too, but there is no use. So here I am on DXP..

What do scorp guys like? How should I approach? Even if it is just for a friendship (yeah right).. Do scorp's like forward women or do they like to pursue the women they want? He is extremely laid back and that is what I like most abt him, but I notice when I flirt with other guys he takes notice.. Why if he is not willing to approach me?

Because he is a Scorpio and he is not used to approaching because he has probably never had to. LOL!! Just give him back the intense stare and if he hasn't come on to you by the time you leave your job then slip him your phone number on the way out the door and say nice to work with you. Give me a call sometime. What do you have to lose??

Why are women so dumb and gullible? Don't even bother giving this guy the satisfaction.

Thanx for the encouragement. Ironically when I got to work he came up to me and said "when work slows down a bit can I take u to lunch".. WTF OMG I was about to jump outta my skin. Now I feel all weird around him and don't know what to say. I hear with scorps its all about sex, which is fine but is it passionate like libras? How r scorp guys in a relationship? And he is so sexy and confident to be so young.. Is that a typical scorp trait? Im on cloud 9 🙂

Well since he is so young then yes, he will be all about sex, but also passion. You will feel loved by a Scorp even if he doesn't love you.

that makes no sense. you never do.

you will be smoked by a scorpio, even if he doesn't love you.

Aquabrat!!!! Yes, here we are on the scorp board after being on the libra board together! I am sooooo glad you finally got over the libra. I have got to tell you the couple of aqua girl/scorp guy pairs I have known didn't last long because the aqua ended up being too nice to the scorp guy and they are not the type to like women who don't challenge them, like call them on their shit. And just make them feel you will jump at their beck and call - Just keep that in mind.

Now on your situation: Tell him sure, you would love to go to lunch some time, you will let him know. Don't go the next day, don't let him see how frantic you are and that you are on cloud nine, but don't NOT show interest either. They don't like it "too easy" they wil get board. Trust, I know.

Good luck, and remember, age ain't nothing but a number. 🙂

QS! Hey girly. You always give the best advice. I know ..right.. im not on the beloved libra board anymore, but still very much intertwined with my libra. We are best friends so its kinda hard to get rid of him, im actually going there to celebrate his bday the second weekend in Oct..

Anyway.. Trying to move on.. But this scorp is hard for me to figure out. I know nothing abt scorps. He is crazy fun but there is so much going on with us, the age thingy, we work together so that's sticky, he just quit fooling with a girl at the job so she keeps throwing me mean mugs, he is hella sexy and I just found out he seranades his conquests with his guitar playing, he is white and I am not, and our signs are not compatible. (uhhgg ..)

I already picked up on the fact he likes a challenge. But I also know I have to be in control of this situation or I WILL be in love. So being the analytical aqua that I am.. Scorps are sexual beings.. He likes a challenge.. I thought maybe I would just treat him like my boy-toy/sexual slave/human dildo, OR completely play him as just the "friend" type, to screw with his head and tease the mess outta him until he breaks!

I have read on the board scorps are extreme but don't like to be treated like a sexual object? What guy doesn't like to be treated like a sexual object? .. Do scorps have to be in control? What happens when they are not?? Do they run away or become a puppy dog chasing behind his master?

I gotta figure out how to spin this one before our first date bc if I don't get it under control now, he will have me at his apartment that night legs in the air saying "whose your daddy" and I will be screaming "YOU ARE!" and that's just not a good look for the first date!

Oh .. gslove.. I'm all about the passion. As an aqua we do that well if the attraction is mutually intense. What I find difficult is trying to NOT detached my emotions.. I see that is acommon issue with scorps and aqua's from other posts I read here..
I can be passionate in bed but that's it. Unless I know things are going towards a serious relationship I will detach my emotions completely. This is where a libra or gem guy can out smart an aqua everytime. They know the key to unlocking our emotional door and coming right in and resting their feet. aarrrgg! Blasted men. Sorry.. (regrouping).. Thanks for your advice.. I gotta lot to learn.. jeez