Scorp girl and Pisces boy....I need some help!!

Hi everybody! I need some help with a Pisces boy I am dating. We've been dating for 2 months now and we've been sleeping together. Initially, I had no problem trusting him but recently I have doubts about his intentions. I have a friend who is an aqua who is showing interest in me. But I totally just like him as a friend. This aqua friend is a big time player BTW. Well Aqua who knows well about playing suggested to check Pisces boy's phone. He said I will be surprised what I will find out LOL! So one night while Pisces and I were together, he accidentally left his phone in the bathroom. So out of curiosity I checked his phone. I found text messages from a girl which later I found out from Pisces that she was his ex. BTW Pisces doesnt know that I saw text messages to and from her. Anyway, Pisces said they were totally done since a year ago. One more thing, Theres a small picture of him and a girl posted on the wall in his room. Before it meant nothing to me but after I found out about the text messages, out of curiosity I asked Pisces about the girl and found out she was the ex gf. Now my questions: Do Pisces behave this way? Do you guys think he still has feelings for her? He admitted they still talk and see each other but only as friends. Whats up with the picture? do you guys keep pic of your ex displayed? His reasons they are still friends and its a nice pic of their trip. Should I ask him to take the pic down? I just feel his being disrespectful to me to have a pic of his ex posted on the wall in the room where we sleep together. Just want some insight if I should continue seeing this Pisces boy. I don't want to get caught in the middle incase they have some unfinished business going on! Thanks very much!

His chart: Birthday March 6

Sun Pisces 16.25
Moon Scorpio 10.19
Mercury Pisces 15.12 R
Venus Taurus 0.03
Mars Virgo 1.43 R
Jupiter Virgo 3.52 R
Saturn Virgo 24.13 R
Uranus Scorpio 25.33 R
Neptune Sagittarius 22.36
Pluto Libra 21.18 R
Lilith Virgo 26.50
Asc node Leo 29.14

My chart: Birthday Nov22

Sun Scorpio 29.45
Moon Aries 20.11
Mercury Sagittarius 18.12
Venus Scorpio 15.03
Mars Leo 8.58
Jupiter Cancer 4.47 R
Saturn Virgo 0.12
Uranus Scorpio 13.12
Neptune Sagittarius 15.17
Pluto Libra 15.46
Lilith Gemini 23.44
Asc node Libra 14.10

Rip that picture off the wall and flush it. But first I'd like to know what the texts said.

"i'd probably tell him that i cannot go all out and do lap dance for him while his ex is watching"

Hahahaha ... that was funny lol

The texts were only replies from the girl...Dang!! I didnt know how to work his phone so I couldn get to his outbox messages. The text messages were something like these for what I remember:
1) I she your gf yet? ( could she be referring to me?)
2) I didnt know I supposed to pick you up. (Pisces went on a trip came back that day, sent me text messages and I assumed his ex too)
3) I remember you took me to that restaurant. (I guess they went there somewhere hahah)
4) Im just dating around I still have feelings for my ex ( could be Pices??IDK!!)
5) Thats what you wanted me to do right date other people? (Ya just date other people)
6) Im hangimg out with friends its hard to text right now. (Maybe Pisces being pushy hahah)
7) I only reply to your text out of respect. ( What does she mean by this?)
8) How come you stopped asking me out? (maybe cause Pisces has me already ok stay away from him LOL)
9) Maybe we can do it when you get back. ( yah Pisces is back from his trip not sure what their planning to do tho)

Well those are some of them...I add more as I remember them..Thanks everyone!!!

"i was not joking tho JD for some reason i think that may work for a pisces "

Okay my bad ... it's hard to differentiate when you Cappies are joking are not. I thought it was hilarious. I just like those type of word plays. 🙂

Please I need some opinion from you guys..I need to make a decision if I will still continue seeing him or should I stop? Thanks

I spoke with him, he said he cares for her and all he wants is the best for her but he doesn't want to be with her neither does she. The girl has a new bf now. Should I still give him space to figure things out? Thanks.

Honestly.......Something smells fishy.

what smells fishy—

Your man's texting his ex hun.....it can't get more fishy than that.

Remember you did not get to check the outgoing texts. Who knows what he wrote but it seems like he's the one who texts her looking for her.

Pisceans can be wishy-washy. He may not consider you guys totally exclusive. — Depending on how old he is, he could be playing around. If you are serious and want an exclusive relationship with him, then you will either have to forget you snooped (because to tell him could freak him out), or tell him what you want. It's only been two months, which is still a little too soon to know what each of you want from the other...

We are not exclusive but we agreed that we would let each other know if we want to date other people or if we like other people of opposite sex. Hes 30.

Posted by saggirlius
We are not exclusive but we agreed that we would let each other know if we want to date other people or if we like other people of opposite sex. Hes 30.

Ok, could you consider that in his mind, he could be abiding by that agreeement?

IMHO, an agreement like the two of you have is loosey-goosey -- which it usually is during the first couple of weeks/months. This can be a very shaky period for you both, two months into somehthing, feelings start to either intensify or wane -- and these feelings often don't run parallel (you both experiencing the same "type" of feeling at the same time.). So, it could go either way because neither of you really has any grounds to question each other's actions.
I'm sure you have been through this stage before. So what did you do in the past? You probably did like the rest of do, go with the flow to see if you both will get to the next level -- exclusivity and committment to each other.

Right now, you both have left it open to do whatever you want. Upside: As long as each of you "tells" each other about it. Downside: Sometimes, once you are told about the "other attraction", a seed has already been planted (interest) and nourished (thought about, given attention) and now it's ready to break ground and you can't do anything about it -- no matter how it affects you.

So, imho, Lady saggi, just relax and see where your relationship goes. So what about the texts. Forget about her, she's an interruption, but not important. Enjoy what you have with him. It's really all you can do right now in order to let your relationship progress naturally without letting anyone outside influence your vibe.

🙂

sagigoat, I must have been posting at the same time as you were. we seem to be saying some of the same thing. 🙂

YES PISES BEHAVE THAT WAY I DATED MY EX THEY ARE FOREVER FORGIVIG AND LOVING BUT LOYAL. BELIEVE WAT HE SAYS! DONT BE TOO JEALOUS BECAUSE THAT WILL PULL HIM AWAY. HE WANTS U TO UNDERSTAND HIS PURE HEART OF STAYIN FRIENDS WITH EVRYONE IF HE IS WITH U NOT HIS EX IT MEANS HE LOVES YOU!

MY EX PISES WANTED ME TO MEET HIS EX GF JUST BECAUSE HE THOUGHT ITS NESESSARY!

I SAID NO BUT HE INSISTED. THE THING ABOUT FISH IS THAT THEY CAN BE UNSURE IN UR LOVE OR WANT EVRYONE TO GET ALONG! DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY OR UR RELATIONSHIP WILL DIE THEY ARE LIKE THAT THEY NEED EVRYTHING TO PROVE THEY ARE THE MOST LOVED ONES, TAKE MY SUGGESTION AND ASK HIM ABOUT HIM MEETING UR EX TO UNDERSTAND U BETTER

AND TELL US HIS REACTION TOO

I told him I'm uncomfortable seeing the pic on the wall. He said he will take it down. I haven't seen him so I hope the next time I'm at his place I wont see the pic anymore.

Also, He hasn't met any of my friends and I haven't met his. I told him about plans with my friends to see a concert. My friends will take their boyfriends with them. I will go with another friend whose bf cant go cause hes in another state. Pisces said he'll go with us. BTW hes white I'm Asian. The big part of the concert will most likely be in our language not in English. I told him he might get bored. Well, he said its alright.

Oh one other thing I tried to break it off with him before cause of the sex thing but he didn't want to.He said I will hurt him If I did that. He said we needed more time to get to know each other and he wanted to get to know me more. Since I really like him ..why not go with the flow right?

oh sorry...sex without an exclusive relationship.