Scorp with Aqua Moon...The tests have begun!

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So it's been a little less than a month and already scorpio has begun the tests. Only they're really silly things like asking me to take a trip with him to Venice (tomorrow) and covering himself with a blanket while telling me he has no pants on, then he reveals later he does. Just silly stuff like that.

I'm worried tho about that aqua moon. I've heard it can be nasty, pulling a complete 180.

Has anyone had experience with a scorpio with aqua moon? Or with just an aqua moon in general? He is seriously the sweetest most stable guy I've ever been with. But I'm worried at some point this could all fall apart if something in his life (work) turns sore.

He was in a weird funk today and I instantly picked it up via text even though he said he was ok. He eventually admitted things weren't going the best at work, but he seemed fine when I hung out with him later today...I thought he might recede or something. Nope, still mr. dependable.

Anyway, if anyone knows anything about aqua moons or has experience with one please share.
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Posted by Pisco26
I briefly saw a Scorp with an Aqua moon and I must say, he was quite the charmer. But a lot of his charm was very genuine as well. Honestly I don't know much but I do recall several tests with him. He is also very stable and incredibly sweet. He would go to the moon and back for me.

But he did begin to get somewhat moody though. I'm not quite sure how the Aqua moon is, but I have heard that they do have a tendency to become moody due to the fact that they analyze everything. They're great thinkers.

I do know that, with my experience of this combo, that they are very genuine and loving. If you pass the tests, they will truly love you to your core and out. His brother, his twin, is also the same way. And they are both VERY devoted and faithful while in a relationship. I think someone with those placements can be quite the catch.



Yes this one is quite the catch. I've never met anyone like him. If I could have it my way I would never let him go. Perfect gentleman and prince charming 🙂

Hmm I'll have to look out for that moodiness. Was there specific things you remember him getting moody about? Like the way someone treated him or his job?

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I say hold on tight. 🙂

Yeah, he would get moody about his work, school, present, past and future type of things. He liked things to be in a certain order, like how his life was/is going and the relationships in his life. So I think he would get down if the slightest thing went out of order. He would often go to his room and spend hours in there just to "think".

And also because he is so sweet to everyone and MEANS it, he would feel like people were taking advantage of him a lot or if someone was rude, he would be upset because he didn't know how to be rude to people. They were just very good hearted men.

Funny, now that I think of it, today is his bday. 😛



Yeah, funny how you see this post on this bday :3

I felt sometimes like this scorpio might be taken advantage of. He is a generally nice person. I haven't really talked with him about whether he feels taken advantage of tho. He has a leo rising so he gives off the persona that he can take charge and has things under control, but I notice he can be soft spoken at times. He's the nice guy, but he does have a strong character. All of his friends love him

I can see where this scorpio would like things to be in a certain order too. He is very consistent with the things he does, like when he texts me.

Did you ever see him in a relationship?
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The Scorp I have fallen for has an Aqua moon. I'm horrible at knowing what part of what means what placement. His asc is Scorp, Merc too. (libra in both venus and mars, that's what scares me the most) I can give you what I know about him if it helps, but too both Scorp and Aqua being fixed kind of rolls together in some areas maybe?

Very driven, very particular, pays great attention to detail but sometimes quietly/unknown to others, meticulous in many areas....his bathroom? Spotless. Very sweet, everyone loves him, he hates when people are mad at him/doesn't like him, he will not like someone and you would be clueless because he talks to them (well what I saw in public) like they are a good friend (that too scares me, hard to know if he's being genuine then with people, particularly me is my main concern lol :/).

He is very smart, but sometimes you wouldn't know it. Funnier than all get out, loves to be a goofball, has a very dark side...not mean, just you know he's got some naughty thoughts running through that head, he is very cool and collected, I had yet to see his temper flare or even close, those close to him he is very protective of, non emotional meaning doesn't let things outwardly show. Death to him is a part of life, you live-you die.

He's had two major rels, both women broke his heart. In my eyes, he's since become a serial dates...must be dating someone it seems at all times, but breaks up with everyone within a short time. Holds almost a fairytale ideal of what his woman should be.
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I don't know about the moody part though. I never saw him moody, even if it was a short time. I know in the last month we would be in a full on convo, and he'd go silent...like to the point you wonder if A) you said something wrong, or B) something major happened and he had to drop everything. So I'd send a text a few hours later, oh he's fine getting ready for bed, etc. BUT, then again he said he met someone last week, so who knows he may have been talking to her during those times...very few times, but enough really to where I thought I said something to offend him. I would always ask, and he said I hadn't. So who knows. I do think though if he doesn't agree with you on something, he would be quick to have to go, or would say it... We had just started getting to know one another so I don't think he wanted to rock the boat so soon but I noticed that this summer on something, it was like he got on the fence about a subject we were on...all of a sudden he had to go, was going to bed it was a good night, ttyl...like I had no chance to respond, convo was over (via text) and it took him to read my next text to realize (in his mind) that we were both on the same page...and then he 'didn't have to go', or I guess continued to keep texting with me for a few hours after. That one I did notice, but it was a pretty sensitive subject (our marriages leading to divorces).
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The Scorp I have fallen for has an Aqua moon. I'm horrible at knowing what part of what means what placement. His asc is Scorp, Merc too. (libra in both venus and mars, that's what scares me the most) I can give you what I know about him if it helps, but too both Scorp and Aqua being fixed kind of rolls together in some areas maybe?

Very driven, very particular, pays great attention to detail but sometimes quietly/unknown to others, meticulous in many areas....his bathroom? Spotless. Very sweet, everyone loves him, he hates when people are mad at him/doesn't like him, he will not like someone and you would be clueless because he talks to them (well what I saw in public) like they are a good friend (that too scares me, hard to know if he's being genuine then with people, particularly me is my main concern lol :/).

He is very smart, but sometimes you wouldn't know it. Funnier than all get out, loves to be a goofball, has a very dark side...not mean, just you know he's got some naughty thoughts running through that head, he is very cool and collected, I had yet to see his temper flare or even close, those close to him he is very protective of, non emotional meaning doesn't let things outwardly show. Death to him is a part of life, you live-you die.

He's had two major rels, both women broke his heart. In my eyes, he's since become a serial dates...must be dating someone it seems at all times, but breaks up with everyone within a short time. Holds almost a fairytale ideal of what his woman should be.



This scorpio, aqua moon has mars in libra too. They seem very similar in what you described.
He said after his engagement a year ago didn't turn out the way he wanted we dated (after 8 months of being single) but never found anyone he wanted to be long term with until he met me. I know that sounds like something out of a movie, but I don't think I've ever met someone so genuine.
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Moody and quite at the same time, my friend who is cancer with aqua moon is like that. Aqua moon are nice to everyone,that is one thing that bothered me they love everyone not just some people.



Aww whats wrong with that?

I've found that he shows how much he cares for me by caring for my friends as well. He still shows he cares for me more though by putting me above others. Could be other placements in his chart that makes him specifically loyal. He does have a venus in scorpio
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I've known him for about 4 years now and we tried to work out something between us but we were both just too busy and wound up staying friends. We dated for a couple of months before we kind of just let things go. So I experienced a little bit of that relationship factor.

Hes only had one girlfriend since I've known him. He was so cute because he was just so infatuated and in love with her. It was very sweet to watch. Sadly, they broke up about a month ago though. He was upset but now he's back to his focused, career oriented self.



I could see the focus on career bit with this scorpio too. After his engagement didn't work out he focused on traveling. Went to 17 different countries. Seems like the type of person who would really put his all into something else if he was heart broken
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Moody and quite at the same time, my friend who is cancer with aqua moon is like that. Aqua moon are nice to everyone,that is one thing that bothered me they love everyone not just some people.



Aww whats wrong with that?

I've found that he shows how much he cares for me by caring for my friends as well. He still shows he cares for me more though by putting me above others. Could be other placements in his chart that makes him specifically loyal. He does have a venus in scorpio
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His venus in scorp is doing the work there if he is putting you ahead of other people. My friend also has aqua rising and leo venus, the problem is just that no one is really important to her, she loves everyone but could easily live without all of people in here life. My venus in scorp dose not like that.
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I've known him for about 4 years now and we tried to work out something between us but we were both just too busy and wound up staying friends. We dated for a couple of months before we kind of just let things go. So I experienced a little bit of that relationship factor.

Hes only had one girlfriend since I've known him. He was so cute because he was just so infatuated and in love with her. It was very sweet to watch. Sadly, they broke up about a month ago though. He was upset but now he's back to his focused, career oriented self.



I could see the focus on career bit with this scorpio too. After his engagement didn't work out he focused on traveling. Went to 17 different countries. Seems like the type of person who would really put his all into something else if he was heart broken
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God I hate saying 'my Scorp' because we don't even date lol But for thread purposes, my Scorp got into working out after the last heartbreak. Like major working out, needed something to keep his mind off things so he did it for hours each day. Did the P90, and completed it. Said by the time he was done, he had worked through the breakup. Nice thing with him is he's friends or gets along with exes, same as me so we both got and understood that. Only one I know of that he pretends to like is the ex wife, but there's a lot inside of him that I know drives that.
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Moody and quite at the same time, my friend who is cancer with aqua moon is like that. Aqua moon are nice to everyone,that is one thing that bothered me they love everyone not just some people.



Aww whats wrong with that?

I've found that he shows how much he cares for me by caring for my friends as well. He still shows he cares for me more though by putting me above others. Could be other placements in his chart that makes him specifically loyal. He does have a venus in scorpio



His venus in scorp is doing the work there if he is putting you ahead of other people. My friend also has aqua rising and leo venus, the problem is just that no one is really important to her, she loves everyone but could easily live without all of people in here life. My venus in scorp dose not like that.
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I think you're right. That scorpio venus is just so loyal and dedicated.
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*waves* Hey everyone! I just joined this site!

I'm a 24 y/o female Scorp, with a moon in Aquarius. I also have a Mars in Libra AND Venus in Scorpio!

What specifically would you like some insight on? I can try to give you a bit of general info about me, since I hold four of his placements...

I am shy and quiet. Very intelligent. ALWAYS THINKING! I can't seem to ever shut off my mind. I think about things even when I don't want to think about things. In fact, I over think a lot (as an Aqua friend has told me). If there is something I can't figure out, I will toss & turn & search all the possibilities for answers until I can get to the bottom of it. Any unsolved problem torments me, it becomes almost an obsession to solve it. I love analyzing why people do the things they do, and why people behave the way they behave. I feel like if I am able to understand those things, I can become a better person and help people on a more individual level.

I am nice to all people, very understanding. I accept people for who they are. I am a very good friend to the people I hold close to me. I am loyal and commited in my friendships/relationships. I am very trustworthy, dependable and patient. Sometimes I get taken advantage of for being that way.

Hopefully that gives you a little insight. If you have any specific questions, I'll be around!
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Moody and quite at the same time, my friend who is cancer with aqua moon is like that. Aqua moon are nice to everyone,that is one thing that bothered me they love everyone not just some people.



venus in aqua can be the same way
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Totally, that's why I just go in the opposite direction when I hear someone has this placements 🙂
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Moody and quite at the same time, my friend who is cancer with aqua moon is like that. Aqua moon are nice to everyone,that is one thing that bothered me they love everyone not just some people.



Aww whats wrong with that?

I've found that he shows how much he cares for me by caring for my friends as well. He still shows he cares for me more though by putting me above others. Could be other placements in his chart that makes him specifically loyal. He does have a venus in scorpio



His venus in scorp is doing the work there if he is putting you ahead of other people. My friend also has aqua rising and leo venus, the problem is just that no one is really important to her, she loves everyone but could easily live without all of people in here life. My venus in scorp dose not like that.



I think you're right. That scorpio venus is just so loyal and dedicated.
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Too loyal and dedicated for someone who has moon or venus in aqua in my opinion
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UPDATE:

So that aqua moon finally reared up it's ugly head. Scorpio came to meet with me this morning since he was near my university and told me he'd been talking to his sister and realized, while were heading in the direction of a relationship, he's scared of titles.

Keep in mind it's not even been a month since we've known each other. I wasn't even planning on pushing for it to be official till the 3-4 month mark. He told me he wanted to take it slow and the reason why he told me he's scared is because he doesn't want me left confused about anything. He said he did this because he respects me.

Thanks so much guys! You have all been very helpful. I'm lucky that this aqua moon hasn't been as hard to deal with as some of the others. He's being very open about his feelings on all of this. Which is a lot more than I could ask from an aqua moon let alone a scorpio sun.

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Also I will add, I am as true to Venus in Scorpio as you can get. In love, I put my partner first. I'm extremely loyal and very serious in relationships. I put my whole being into the other person. In my mind, that dedication is never ending. So when it does end... I get annihilated. Suffering long term afterwards...



Thanks so much for the insight. Btw, how are you when it comes to putting titles on a relationship? Does it scare you? Or can you just jump into it? Or do you need a few months before you're comfortable with it? Thanks!
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Happy: the scorpio man I dated said the same thing to me. basically, he was still healing from his relationship wounds and wasnt sure he was ready to love and wanted to date. he lied and respected me and didnt want me to be hurt if I was looking for the big *R* (relationship). I respected that and accepted it and said lets do this one day at a time. There seemed to be a lot of relief, which is what we all want...a stress free "lets get to know each other and have fun" environment. Its really his way of protecting himself because he is getting hooked on ya 😉
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If he said he respects you, he most definitely means it! I read that and smiled, because I say at times, and ONLY when I absolutely mean it. I think that's a very good thing to hear him say.

As far as relationship titles go, "scared" might not be the right word. I think it's being cautious more then anything. Venus in Scorp makes for some VERY STRONG feelings. In order to protect them, I tend to take things SLOOOWLY as well. I like to be certain that the feelings are real (sometimes they feel so overwhelming it's hard to believe!). I see no rush to put a title on anything. I think w/Aqua moons, our thoughts have a tendency to rush ahead, and while you probably weren't thinking so much about titles and things of that nature, it has probably crossed his mind quite a few times. He's just being cautious and wants to be certain that its the right thing. Give him time, and when he's figured it out in his coconut, he'll get comfortable about it =)
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Happy: the scorpio man I dated said the same thing to me. basically, he was still healing from his relationship wounds and wasnt sure he was ready to love and wanted to date. he lied and respected me and didnt want me to be hurt if I was looking for the big *R* (relationship). I respected that and accepted it and said lets do this one day at a time. There seemed to be a lot of relief, which is what we all want...a stress free "lets get to know each other and have fun" environment. Its really his way of protecting himself because he is getting hooked on ya 😉



Yes, he told me it was because of stuff that has happened in the past. I can see he's wanting to move past it though and try again with me. I told him my thoughts: that usually people don't show their true selves till after 3-4 months and that's probably when I would push to become official.

He told me he didn't want to wait that long 🙂

Yeah I think he's getting hooked too ;P Glad he came to me and told me what he was afraid of instead of disappearing or going cold
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If he said he respects you, he most definitely means it! I read that and smiled, because I say at times, and ONLY when I absolutely mean it. I think that's a very good thing to hear him say.

As far as relationship titles go, "scared" might not be the right word. I think it's being cautious more then anything. Venus in Scorp makes for some VERY STRONG feelings. In order to protect them, I tend to take things SLOOOWLY as well. I like to be certain that the feelings are real (sometimes they feel so overwhelming it's hard to believe!). I see no rush to put a title on anything. I think w/Aqua moons, our thoughts have a tendency to rush ahead, and while you probably weren't thinking so much about titles and things of that nature, it has probably crossed his mind quite a few times. He's just being cautious and wants to be certain that its the right thing. Give him time, and when he's figured it out in his coconut, he'll get comfortable about it =)



Yeah, I think he's being cautious too. His engagement a year ago didn't go well and he's afraid of being burned. He says he wants to get to the point of a relationship tho...he just wants to take it slow, like you said. I can see the strong feelings too. Title or not I he shows them.

Honestly I have thought of titles, but I've learned in the past if I try to force it the guy will become scared. I've dealt with a lot of guys who didn't want a title or who never asked for one so I was a bit sad when I heard him say this. I had to remind myself tho that it's not even been a month and at least he's treating me like I'm his, title or not, he has been consistent and respectful. And the fact that he told me he wanted to get to that point (before 4 months no less) makes me feel much better about it. So I guess now all I do is wait