atlanteangoddess
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Scorpio first date
Posted by WhiteChocolate
He probably didn't have the money to go out.
very strong possibility, thats what I would do if I was broke at the moment ......or he just flatout wants to fawk
Well we're not looking to have a platonic friendship. So sex would happen eventually, we are consenting adults. We've talked about it. My kiddo would be at my parents house.
I have a feeling that he hasn't had some great dating experiences lately. Just on a comment or two he made.
I thought about it that he might not have money, but I'm not expecting for him to pay for me. I just want to meet him and see if we click and have chemistry.
Should I leave or give him an option for coffee instead? Is there a way to recover from this with a Scorpio or is it basically lost?
In general, regardless of sign, I've noticed this trend of men expecting to go to a girls house as the first date. I just don't understand this.
I have a feeling that he hasn't had some great dating experiences lately. Just on a comment or two he made.
I thought about it that he might not have money, but I'm not expecting for him to pay for me. I just want to meet him and see if we click and have chemistry.
Should I leave or give him an option for coffee instead? Is there a way to recover from this with a Scorpio or is it basically lost?
In general, regardless of sign, I've noticed this trend of men expecting to go to a girls house as the first date. I just don't understand this.
I'm probably older than most of you here. I don't sleep around. I'm actually very particular who I let in my life , especially since I have a kid.
Obviously there are numerous reasons not to invite someone over to your house the first time. All of which I suggested other options.
I'm not looking for a platonic friendship and I'm not looking for marriage or to have a revolving door to my bedroom. Just one guy to have something easy peasy with.
People act like wanting sex is a bad thing like it should be taboo. And heaven forbid a woman admit she has needs and wants them fulfilled. I have a very different view on sex. I'm also not a car to be test driven so I prefer to talk about what our style is. I think it's worse to get involved with someone the. To only find out your views wants and needs sexually are very different. Especially after the fact.
He seems like a decent guy, who might possibly be broke. I don't know. But we discussed not having sex in the first date already. I know he may still may try to use his powers of persuasion lol
But at least being out I have many options to consider and not be stuck with one.
Obviously there are numerous reasons not to invite someone over to your house the first time. All of which I suggested other options.
I'm not looking for a platonic friendship and I'm not looking for marriage or to have a revolving door to my bedroom. Just one guy to have something easy peasy with.
People act like wanting sex is a bad thing like it should be taboo. And heaven forbid a woman admit she has needs and wants them fulfilled. I have a very different view on sex. I'm also not a car to be test driven so I prefer to talk about what our style is. I think it's worse to get involved with someone the. To only find out your views wants and needs sexually are very different. Especially after the fact.
He seems like a decent guy, who might possibly be broke. I don't know. But we discussed not having sex in the first date already. I know he may still may try to use his powers of persuasion lol
But at least being out I have many options to consider and not be stuck with one.
Posted by atlanteangoddessNever date a guy who lacks respect on the first date. Meaning...you suggested a pub, he should have respected that.
Is it common for a Scorpio man to want to come to a girls house on the first date?
I suggested a pub not too far. And he asked what was wrong with being by a bottle of wine and getting to know each other. I promise I'm not a creep he said lol
I just told him that I don't go out often (he knows I'm a single parent) and it would be a nice change of pace. And that is click and are seeing each other i would hope he'd come over. I also reassured him that he's not a creep.
Usually he's quick to reply. I can see he read my message. So is he doing his Scorpio hiding thing or have I just lost him?
Sounds like a real jackass.
Posted by atlanteangoddessCoffee is for friends or business. Dinner is for potential lovers.
I just want to meet him and see if we click and have chemistry.
Should I leave or give him an option for coffee instead?
Have him take you to dinner!!
Posted by WhiteChocolateI have no expectations of where this is going. And that wasn't my question.
If all you're wanting is a casual fuck buddy relationship, you should expect casual fuck buddy levels of commitment and effort from men.
I'm curious is he doing a typical Scorpio hiding thing. Or is that it. Just looking for the Scorpio perspective.
I'm more curious more than anything, if I never hear from him again no big deal. It is what it is.
Posted by WhiteChocolateHmph.
Why would it matter if it's a Scorpio thing?
You've already admitted it is what it is.
wait for it.....
Posted by atlanteangoddess"I have no expectations" "it's no big deal" "I just want easy peasy sex" LOL so you make a thread about it and are pondering it every which way ...you can't even handle the "easy peezy" first date let alone the "easy breezy" sex. Who are you trying to kid lady? Haha! I hope he's saves himself the headache and doesn't smash lolPosted by WhiteChocolateI have no expectations of where this is going. And that wasn't my question.
If all you're wanting is a casual fuck buddy relationship, you should expect casual fuck buddy levels of commitment and effort from men.
I'm curious is he doing a typical Scorpio hiding thing. Or is that it. Just looking for the Scorpio perspective.
I'm more curious more than anything, if I never hear from him again no big deal. It is what it is.click to expand
OP, it doesn't seem you're too sure about what you're looking for at this moment in time. If you're at a 'go with the flow and see what happens' stage then you're going to get all sorts of people looking for all sorts of things with all sorts of approaches. It would help you to know if you're looking for casual sex or to date a few people first and then see where it goes and if it leads to something more. Whatever you're looking for is not wrong. You just need to be clear with yourself and then clear to the guys.
I'm currently dating and you're quite correct in your observation. Many guys want to invite themselves over to 'get to know you' which means they want to have sex with you. Don't kid yourself it means anything else. It doesn't. From a security point of view, which far too many people neglect, it's not wise to invite a total stranger into your home. That said, it doesn't mean all men are rapists. They're not. Far from it, most are normal blokes wanting to get their leg over. Not axe murderers.
If you want casual sex with men then be clear about it and match your expectations. He's not necessarily going to wine and dine you and put effort in if all he needs to do is pitch up at your doorstep for you to put out.
If you're looking to date then date. Sure, it may lead to sex later down the line but why not take some time to date and get to know a guy before jumping in.
If you're looking to date then he needs to be asking you out NOT inviting himself round so he can put in minimal effort to get maximum output.
If he's also looking to date and he's asking you out then he's going to need a few quid in order to at least buy a round of drinks or a reasonable meal somewhere. If he doesn't have the funds then he shouldn't be dating. If he's broke then what exactly is he bringing to the table on day one let alone any subsequent dates. Expecting a guy to have money to fill up his car, pay for parking and buy you a drink or a meal is not unreasonable or above standard. It doesn't mean you're a gold digger.
If he doesn't have a few quid or doesn't want to invest a few quid in you and in a date with you then move along to the next man who does have a few quid and who does see the value in investing in a date with you. There's 8 billion people on this planet. Rest assured one of them will want to take you out.
I'm currently dating and you're quite correct in your observation. Many guys want to invite themselves over to 'get to know you' which means they want to have sex with you. Don't kid yourself it means anything else. It doesn't. From a security point of view, which far too many people neglect, it's not wise to invite a total stranger into your home. That said, it doesn't mean all men are rapists. They're not. Far from it, most are normal blokes wanting to get their leg over. Not axe murderers.
If you want casual sex with men then be clear about it and match your expectations. He's not necessarily going to wine and dine you and put effort in if all he needs to do is pitch up at your doorstep for you to put out.
If you're looking to date then date. Sure, it may lead to sex later down the line but why not take some time to date and get to know a guy before jumping in.
If you're looking to date then he needs to be asking you out NOT inviting himself round so he can put in minimal effort to get maximum output.
If he's also looking to date and he's asking you out then he's going to need a few quid in order to at least buy a round of drinks or a reasonable meal somewhere. If he doesn't have the funds then he shouldn't be dating. If he's broke then what exactly is he bringing to the table on day one let alone any subsequent dates. Expecting a guy to have money to fill up his car, pay for parking and buy you a drink or a meal is not unreasonable or above standard. It doesn't mean you're a gold digger.
If he doesn't have a few quid or doesn't want to invest a few quid in you and in a date with you then move along to the next man who does have a few quid and who does see the value in investing in a date with you. There's 8 billion people on this planet. Rest assured one of them will want to take you out.
Posted by KittenLaRougeYou're a Capricorn so that really explains your answer lol which makes my head hurt reading, it's obvious and clear you have absolutely no clue what I'm asking and reading way too much into things. This is really a very simple question/s , why people read into more than there is , is beyond me.Posted by atlanteangoddess"I have no expectations" "it's no big deal" "I just want easy peasy sex" LOL so you make a thread about it and are pondering it every which way ...you can't even handle the "easy peezy" first date let alone the "easy breezy" sex. Who are you trying to kid lady? Haha! I hope he's saves himself the headache and doesn't smash lolPosted by WhiteChocolateI have no expectations of where this is going. And that wasn't my question.
If all you're wanting is a casual fuck buddy relationship, you should expect casual fuck buddy levels of commitment and effort from men.
I'm curious is he doing a typical Scorpio hiding thing. Or is that it. Just looking for the Scorpio perspective.
I'm more curious more than anything, if I never hear from him again no big deal. It is what it is.click to expand
I write off guys who just "want to come over and hang". In fact my first date was a restaurant down the street from me, just in case. A man should respect you. He should invite you out to dinner and pay for it. *hushes the peanut gallery*. If all goes well, YOU invite him out for drinks and YOU pay for it.
But really, just wanting to show up at your door like a booty call, no no, send that man packing.
But really, just wanting to show up at your door like a booty call, no no, send that man packing.
Posted by AgentP911I really do know what I want and we did discuss the type of relationship we were both looking for. I'm very clear it's not just about sex, even though it's a huge part of it. But I made it clear I expect for us to go out ,etc...... I make it clear were not having sex on the first or even second date. That if it's going to happen it will.
OP, it doesn't seem you're too sure about what you're looking for at this moment in time. If you're at a 'go with the flow and see what happens' stage then you're going to get all sorts of people looking for all sorts of things with all sorts of approaches. It would help you to know if you're looking for casual sex or to date a few people first and then see where it goes and if it leads to something more. Whatever you're looking for is not wrong. You just need to be clear with yourself and then clear to the guys.
I'm currently dating and you're quite correct in your observation. Many guys want to invite themselves over to 'get to know you' which means they want to have sex with you. Don't kid yourself it means anything else. It doesn't. From a security point of view, which far too many people neglect, it's not wise to invite a total stranger into your home. That said, it doesn't mean all men are rapists. They're not. Far from it, most are normal blokes wanting to get their leg over. Not axe murderers.
If you want casual sex with men then be clear about it and match your expectations. He's not necessarily going to wine and dine you and put effort in if all he needs to do is pitch up at your doorstep for you to put out.
If you're looking to date then date. Sure, it may lead to sex later down the line but why not take some time to date and get to know a guy before jumping in.
If you're looking to date then he needs to be asking you out NOT inviting himself round so he can put in minimal effort to get maximum output.
If he's also looking to date and he's asking you out then he's going to need a few quid in order to at least buy a round of drinks or a reasonable meal somewhere. If he doesn't have the funds then he shouldn't be dating. If he's broke then what exactly is he bringing to the table on day one let alone any subsequent dates. Expecting a guy to have money to fill up his car, pay for parking and buy you a drink or a meal is not unreasonable or above standard. It doesn't mean you're a gold digger.
If he doesn't have a few quid or doesn't want to invest a few quid in you and in a date with you then move along to the next man who does have a few quid and who does see the value in investing in a date with you. There's 8 billion people on this planet. Rest assured one of them will want to take you out.
I'm not looking for a heavy duty relationship. Just one guy something easy. From some of the answers on here this s
Posted by GennieYou're aqua like me lol I wanted to go to the pub down the street from my house. Lol and I agree as well. I'm just thinking out loud.
I write off guys who just "want to come over and hang". In fact my first date was a restaurant down the street from me, just in case. A man should respect you. He should invite you out to dinner and pay for it. *hushes the peanut gallery*. If all goes well, YOU invite him out for drinks and YOU pay for it.
But really, just wanting to show up at your door like a booty call, no no, send that man packing.
I'm really baffled how many of these dudes want to get to a ladies house so quick.
And with Aquas, we always want to friendzone the potential first to see if there is something there.
Posted by starloverAs I've mentioned before my child would never be in the house.Posted by atlanteangoddessIf your child is in the house....i would not encourage him to come to your home
Is it common for a Scorpio man to want to come to a girls house on the first date?
I suggested a pub not too far. And he asked what was wrong with being by a bottle of wine and getting to know each other. I promise I'm not a creep he said lol
I just told him that I don't go out often (he knows I'm a single parent) and it would be a nice change of pace. And that is click and are seeing each other i would hope he'd come over. I also reassured him that he's not a creep.
Usually he's quick to reply. I can see he read my message. So is he doing his Scorpio hiding thing or have I just lost him?
Keep those things separate if you canclick to expand
It's seems like common sense to me. Baffles me why people assume he'd be home.
Posted by AriesLoveThank you Š
AgentP911 spoken like a true woman ðŸ‘ðŸ‘ðŸ‘ðŸ‘. Why are these women so desperate now and days!?!
Let this guy take you out first, second, third whatever. Get to know each other..,whether it leads to something or not. You might not even want to sleep with him after hanging out with him a few times. Let him take interest in you and Scorpios like mystery, DO NOT invite him to your house right away. If he doesn't have money wait until he does or go for a less expensive date but then what is actually attractive about a man like that?
Stop acting desperate respect yourself. Who even talks about sex and you've never met? I mean really know your worth!
Although it has taken me a long time to learn all that. It's only been over the last few months I've been clear with what I'm looking for and how I'm going about it. If the guys aren't making the grade then I move on. Quickly. I've wasted a lot of time on shit before.
The guy I'm currently dating just asked me for exclusivity when we met for date six on Friday. We'd only kissed on date four but not because I'm a prude or a nun! We'd had a conversation about my 'process' which is Men are from Mars etc. So when we met up on Friday he said he wanted to do it right and asked me. To be fair, the other two I'd had dates with were not making the grade and I'd been thinking of seeing how it continued with this fella. I already knew he wasn't dating anyone else.
There was a LOT of shit out there though. I agree that knowing your worth is important!!!
Posted by AriesLoveI seriously wonder about people and their quick judgement. Did I say any of this? Did you read anything else i wrote? Desperate?? lmao far from it. I think you have no concept of what acting desperate is or what you're even talking about. You sound like you're looking for a reason to be offended. Just because a person can talk about sex like a mature adult and not like a callow minded individual doesn't mean they are desperate and don't have self respect. But hey, I guess i shouldn't have found out that one dude i wanted to date wanted to chloraform me as a fantasy. Yeah Its stupid to to find out if you're on the same page sexually before hand. you're right I should have had more self respect and not been desperate and let him take me out the bar he wanted to and let him roofy me. Yeah, brilliant. Or the guy who wanted me to pretend i was a 8 year old girl. Yeah, because it's better invest emotionally and go on a bunch of dates, and then find out what he's into. Yes, brilliant.
AgentP911 spoken like a true woman ðŸ‘ðŸ‘ðŸ‘ðŸ‘. Why are these women so desperate now and days!?!
Let this guy take you out first, second, third whatever. Get to know each other..,whether it leads to something or not. You might not even want to sleep with him after hanging out with him a few times. Let him take interest in you and Scorpios like mystery, DO NOT invite him to your house right away. If he doesn't have money wait until he does or go for a less expensive date but then what is actually attractive about a man like that?
Stop acting desperate respect yourself. Who even talks about sex and you've never met? I mean really know your worth!
My way of doing things may not make sense to you, which is fine. But don't be so quick to pass judgement on something you don't understand. my way teaching others has also saved other women from those potential horrors. And they have thanked me. One friend dated a guy for three month before sleeping with him, only to find out he was into extreme bdsm. She never knew, he thought that she was into it from some light conversations. She now wishes she asked to start, instead of wasting three months and all the heartache. He was a prince otherwise. So leave your judgement at the door, and ask if you don't understand. you know what they say about assuming.
Atlantean, I don't see how AriesLove was being judgemental. I re-read your posts on here and Aries gave sound advice.
Sure, you can talk about sex with a guy you've never met. You can even talk about sex with a guy you've never met in a mature way as adults etc but that's not the point.
I thought the point of the post was he wanted to come round yours but when you suggested to meet out for a date he lost interest. You then wanted to know if this was 'normal' and started to justify his behaviour by saying he may not have had any money and how could you get him interested again etc.
Why would you want to do anything to 'get him interested in you' when he's already told you he's not interested in YOU. He's only interested in sex with you. If you want him to come round and have sex with you then call him and put it on a plate. No problem.
If you're ultimately looking for dating with a view to meeting someone for a relationship then holding off on sex talk can be a good move. Why? Because if the guy constantly steers the conversation to sex then it tells you something. It's got fuck all to do with being mature adults. You wouldn't talk about sex if you'd only just met someone in a bar or to the new person at work you've only known for five minutes so why do that online.
Again, there's nothing wrong with it but this comes from someone who has been asked all sorts of personal questions online about sex. From 'how many people have i slept with, have I had a threesum, do I like anal sex, have I been with someone of a different race' and a whole host of seriously inappropriate questions that frankly, don't make up a genuine dating process. What purpose do any of these answers serve anyway?
Sure, you want to know if you're sexually compatible just as you want to ensure you're compatible in other areas but that comes later. I'd recently had six dates with a Scorp Sun and I thought things might be ok in that department but as it happens it was awful!! It took a few dates to get there but it's always risky to test drive the car too early if you're looking for more than just sex. That said, I've had some great one nighters which turned into something more. The point is to have a process and stick with it.
And if he's not asking and taking you out then move on.
Sure, you can talk about sex with a guy you've never met. You can even talk about sex with a guy you've never met in a mature way as adults etc but that's not the point.
I thought the point of the post was he wanted to come round yours but when you suggested to meet out for a date he lost interest. You then wanted to know if this was 'normal' and started to justify his behaviour by saying he may not have had any money and how could you get him interested again etc.
Why would you want to do anything to 'get him interested in you' when he's already told you he's not interested in YOU. He's only interested in sex with you. If you want him to come round and have sex with you then call him and put it on a plate. No problem.
If you're ultimately looking for dating with a view to meeting someone for a relationship then holding off on sex talk can be a good move. Why? Because if the guy constantly steers the conversation to sex then it tells you something. It's got fuck all to do with being mature adults. You wouldn't talk about sex if you'd only just met someone in a bar or to the new person at work you've only known for five minutes so why do that online.
Again, there's nothing wrong with it but this comes from someone who has been asked all sorts of personal questions online about sex. From 'how many people have i slept with, have I had a threesum, do I like anal sex, have I been with someone of a different race' and a whole host of seriously inappropriate questions that frankly, don't make up a genuine dating process. What purpose do any of these answers serve anyway?
Sure, you want to know if you're sexually compatible just as you want to ensure you're compatible in other areas but that comes later. I'd recently had six dates with a Scorp Sun and I thought things might be ok in that department but as it happens it was awful!! It took a few dates to get there but it's always risky to test drive the car too early if you're looking for more than just sex. That said, I've had some great one nighters which turned into something more. The point is to have a process and stick with it.
And if he's not asking and taking you out then move on.
Posted by wickedIs that as opposed to sounding like a miserable bitch? Don't worry, the sarcasm and rude retorts are stPosted by AgentP911Great post from you
Atlantean, I don't see how AriesLove was being judgemental. I re-read your posts on here and Aries gave sound advice.
Sure, you can talk about sex with a guy you've never met. You can even talk about sex with a guy you've never met in a mature way as adults etc but that's not the point.
I thought the point of the post was he wanted to come round yours but when you suggested to meet out for a date he lost interest. You then wanted to know if this was 'normal' and started to justify his behaviour by saying he may not have had any money and how could you get him interested again etc.
Why would you want to do anything to 'get him interested in you' when he's already told you he's not interested in YOU. He's only interested in sex with you. If you want him to come round and have sex with you then call him and put it on a plate. No problem.
If you're ultimately looking for dating with a view to meeting someone for a relationship then holding off on sex talk can be a good move. Why? Because if the guy constantly steers the conversation to sex then it tells you something. It's got fuck all to do with being mature adults. You wouldn't talk about sex if you'd only just met someone in a bar or to the new person at work you've only known for five minutes so why do that online.
Again, there's nothing wrong with it but this comes from someone who has been asked all sorts of personal questions online about sex. From 'how many people have i slept with, have I had a threesum, do I like anal sex, have I been with someone of a different race' and a whole host of seriously inappropriate questions that frankly, don't make up a genuine dating process. What purpose do any of these answers serve anyway?
Sure, you want to know if you're sexually compatible just as you want to ensure you're compatible in other areas but that comes later. I'd recently had six dates with a Scorp Sun and I thought things might be ok in that department but as it happens it was awful!! It took a few dates to get there but it's always risky to test drive the car too early if you're looking for more than just sex. That said, I've had some great one nighters which turned into something more. The point is to have a process and stick with it.
And if he's not asking and taking you out then move on.
I have noticed your posts in the taurus forum.
I take it you dumped that taurus guy who hinted at getting physical but didnt wanna date you properly? You sound happy. Im kinda curious. U must be seriously seeing someone. If u are, Im happy for you :-)click to expand
Still present! Š
I only had one actual date with the Taurus Sun/Sag Moon/Venus and Mars Aries. That was before Xmas. He was constantly going on about sex but after I returned from my two week trip over Xmas he still didn't ask me out. He kept inviting me round for sex and was dressing it up as 'seeing if we had a connection' so I told him he was lazy, was a keyboard warrior, and that he was in my 'dial-a-fuck' category to only call in desperate need of sex. He was a bit offended but I'd been 100% clear with what I was looking for. He wasn't as clear, dressing up wanting more when he was only looking for sex, and he later confirmed that although he said did really like me he was happy being single and playing the field. I said no problem.
We still had kinda kept in touch via messenger and he knew I was still dating but I'd moved on to dating a Scorp (referenced above) and another Taurus who I'd been talking to since before my trip and over Xmas.
I met up with the Scorp and the Taurus Sun/Leo Moon and Rising/Aries Venus and Merc/Cap Mars when I returned from holiday. I liked both but had swung more to the Scorp but looking back now I had a better connection with the Taurus Sun/Leo Moon. Not sexual connection at the early stage but friendship, ease of communication, having a laugh, plus just being a nice fella, looking for the same things, being available for a relationship etc. I'm kinda glad I was multi dating so I didn't focus on just one person.
It wasn't until after it went badly tits up with the Scorp on date six (he was lovely but as more dates passed the connection I thought was there just wasn't there) that I thought yeah I like this Taurus dude (on date five). Then I mentioned exclusive dating via text (he wasn't dating others and we were discussing dating and my process which was Men are from Mars etc) and the following date he asked me to be exclusive. Said he wanted to wait and ask me in person! Awwww!
The amusing thing is the first Taurus had actually got round to asking me out a few weeks ago but I was genuinely busy. It had been over two months since we had met and I wasn't sure what had changed in his life to ask me out properly. We had genuinely got on and I did fancy him but his laziness and method had put me off. Perhaps he was just being a slow bull or was hard up for a shag so he thought if he met with me he might at least get a snog! I turned him down and then he asked me out the following week which was when I told him I was now exclusively dating someone else. That was kind of a good moment but no malice meant, and he wished me well.
I think I'm happy as my dating process has had good results. There's so much good feedback on this forum to learn from and I've tried to follow as much as possible. Taurus Sun/Leo Moon seems like a keeper to me. He's well into me so my Leo Mars is loving it! Will see how it goes... Fuck me! That's my life story for now right there Š
I only had one actual date with the Taurus Sun/Sag Moon/Venus and Mars Aries. That was before Xmas. He was constantly going on about sex but after I returned from my two week trip over Xmas he still didn't ask me out. He kept inviting me round for sex and was dressing it up as 'seeing if we had a connection' so I told him he was lazy, was a keyboard warrior, and that he was in my 'dial-a-fuck' category to only call in desperate need of sex. He was a bit offended but I'd been 100% clear with what I was looking for. He wasn't as clear, dressing up wanting more when he was only looking for sex, and he later confirmed that although he said did really like me he was happy being single and playing the field. I said no problem.
We still had kinda kept in touch via messenger and he knew I was still dating but I'd moved on to dating a Scorp (referenced above) and another Taurus who I'd been talking to since before my trip and over Xmas.
I met up with the Scorp and the Taurus Sun/Leo Moon and Rising/Aries Venus and Merc/Cap Mars when I returned from holiday. I liked both but had swung more to the Scorp but looking back now I had a better connection with the Taurus Sun/Leo Moon. Not sexual connection at the early stage but friendship, ease of communication, having a laugh, plus just being a nice fella, looking for the same things, being available for a relationship etc. I'm kinda glad I was multi dating so I didn't focus on just one person.
It wasn't until after it went badly tits up with the Scorp on date six (he was lovely but as more dates passed the connection I thought was there just wasn't there) that I thought yeah I like this Taurus dude (on date five). Then I mentioned exclusive dating via text (he wasn't dating others and we were discussing dating and my process which was Men are from Mars etc) and the following date he asked me to be exclusive. Said he wanted to wait and ask me in person! Awwww!
The amusing thing is the first Taurus had actually got round to asking me out a few weeks ago but I was genuinely busy. It had been over two months since we had met and I wasn't sure what had changed in his life to ask me out properly. We had genuinely got on and I did fancy him but his laziness and method had put me off. Perhaps he was just being a slow bull or was hard up for a shag so he thought if he met with me he might at least get a snog! I turned him down and then he asked me out the following week which was when I told him I was now exclusively dating someone else. That was kind of a good moment but no malice meant, and he wished me well.
I think I'm happy as my dating process has had good results. There's so much good feedback on this forum to learn from and I've tried to follow as much as possible. Taurus Sun/Leo Moon seems like a keeper to me. He's well into me so my Leo Mars is loving it! Will see how it goes... Fuck me! That's my life story for now right there Š
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If two Scorpio men fall in love with the same woman, would they compete for her? Back off and wait to see what she does or continue the pursuit?
I've been dating a Scorpio man who gives too much details of all the women he's dated and been in relationships with. It's so much that I've started tuning him out or ask him to stop and now I just tell him well if they were so perfect why aren't you stil
I saw a Scorpio man cried often like when we had an argument or when I told him to stop our relationship ( I was really sick of his lies sometimes).
How do I get a Scorpio man back after I told him that I don’t think he can give me what I want (a committed relationship)? We’ve been seeing each other for three months (with no label - taking it slow) and it hasn’t been crystal clear that he lik
I'm starting to view them as weak, like the other 2 water sign men.
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I am a 29 year old Cancerian woman who works with a married Scorpio man. We have become quite friendly of late and have developed what some might call an 'emotional affair' as we text each other quite a lot out of work (but nothing sordid), and he has ta
Hi Everybody. New the the forum. Have been left pretty badly hurt and confused by a Scorpio man and wanted to know if anyone can help me understand how these mystical creatures work. He sure is the most complex man I have ever known. Me and my Sco
So here it is... I am (was) a Scorpio Man's Other Woman... In all fairness, I was the fool, and didn't know I was the mistress until 4 months after our rekindled friendship from college turned physical. (It must've slipped his mind he had a girlfriend of
I asked him is there anything specific that you like, he said anything you make will be fine i'm sure. :/ ...thanks for nothing! I'm no Betty Crocker, but I can throw something good together. Every time we go out to lunch, he pays for it, so I
Will anyone please clear this dilemma: What does this mean: My best friend ,Scorp, knows I love him, really love him but he rejected saying "I am too perfect", about 3 years ago. But he does not want me to leave and go away from him. Whenever I tried
I would appreciate if any advice from Scorpio men. My boyfriend is lying to me about his days off. He is intense and attentive when we met in person. Phoned me and texted me daily. However, he came and saw me once per week during his 4 days off. Recently
I work with a Scorpio man with whom I have an intense connection. I now know he has a girlfriend and therefore we have both acted respectably ever since. I've tried to be acquaintances with him but I still like him and can guarantee that he knows this onl
The past 10 months, I’ve been speaking with this attractive Scorpio man (I am a one too), we live in different states but we used to text often FT , voice message, videos communicating while on the go etc…There was constant communication. While there
Boring boring blah blah blah yadda yadda So. Scorp boy who is lovely and very chilled asks me to his birthday party tomorrow night. First Decan Scorp yeh? Anyhow, just before I met my now ex (so years ago now) he'd asked me out on a couple of dates an
Hi all, I have a scorpio male co-worker and he has been really interested in me. Was approaching me with sexual comments and requests since I started working there. so I obviously refused all of his requests. Then he admitted that he was joking but we
Hello, well me and this Scorpio male used to talk just as friends since his sister is my best friend and well he asked me to homecoming dance and a couple days before that I got back with my ex and he asked me RANDOMLY! I was not expecting this AT ALL and
We have been in relationship for 5 years, our love story is like that of romeo and juliet, recently he broke up with me because he had a fight with his family because of our relationship. He said to me we'll just end our relationship for the peace in his
I suggested a pub not too far. And he asked what was wrong with being by a bottle of wine and getting to know each other. I promise I'm not a creep he said lol
I just told him that I don't go out often (he knows I'm a single parent) and it would be a nice change of pace. And that is click and are seeing each other i would hope he'd come over. I also reassured him that he's not a creep.
Usually he's quick to reply. I can see he read my message. So is he doing his Scorpio hiding thing or have I just lost him?