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Scorpio-Gemini relationship progress
Posted by notsosureI appreciate your input.
In all honesty, I just can´t imagine someone going after a married person with "pure" intentions. Certainly not a scorpio. It will not be about a relationship, it will be about winning you from another guy, getting you to break your own boundaries - as you say, he gets his way. Scorpios love that, love getting other people out where things are a little wrong, taboo, risky, secret, and feel that power over somebody else, that they can get them to do stuff, they know is actually bad, but do it anyway.
If you were not married, I don´t think he would feel so attracted to you, is what I´m saying - based on my own experience as scorpio woman with a scorpio guy. Maybe you´re lucky and you as a gemini don´t have this effect on scorpio.
However if in a few month or years I will come and post
We are together...what would you say?
He is great person who had tried to make it right.
His spouse can't forgive him for past sins.
He matured. She can't see it. She holds her anger.
All he wants is to be happy in his own skin.
Not happening with her. I had tried to tell him to talk to
her and apologize and make things work.
It took a week before he appeared and said nothing is going
to change. I am yet to ask what had happpened.
I am not a predator who is hunting for him.
I said I am never initiating a contact. If he had dissapeared
I would assume he is back to his family and happy.
She is however isn't one to willing to fix things.
I am on another hand is there.
He is not using me for anything. I am the outlet.
...........
But didn't you say you're not leaving your husband. So isn't this all its ever going to be? Or are you planning to finally leave?
well you didn't take long to prove my point for me huh?
Posted by TaurusinTexasIf things will fall into place as I am planning (not that I am planning...God's will) there are going to be a lot of working to do like making sure no one gets hurt.
But didn't you say you're not leaving your husband. So isn't this all its ever going to be? Or are you planning to finally leave?
Making sure my husband is taken care off. And not suffering.
If my love will leave he will make sure everyone is ok and ready for the change.
Nothing we will do that will hurt people we love.
Loved...but still love no matter what for the sake of us living as he put it 'be with you and
not to worry about anything'...
We aren't people to rush into oblivion.
Everything going to be thought well and hopefully everyone will find happiness.
At the end of the day.
Posted by HareI have no such habit like others.
Delete your account.
Vey! You did didn't you?
Ok, Rabbit Hare...why don't you just block me?
You know how to, right?
Whats your frigging problem?
You hate me...block me.
No! You want to know what I say but you enjoying
pestering me. Get a life!
"His wife won't forgive him for his past sins".
Good on her. He fucks up and continues to fuck up. He's cheating on her with you, what in that equation makes him a victim and her the villain?
Stop looking for validation. Your a nasty cheating hoe. A liar.
Good on her. He fucks up and continues to fuck up. He's cheating on her with you, what in that equation makes him a victim and her the villain?
Stop looking for validation. Your a nasty cheating hoe. A liar.
Go on Reddit if you want sympathy for your cheating deceiving ways. Apparently you get high fives there.
Posted by HeartofTopazWhen we are exhausted I am sure something will give. So far we are still into each other. More then ever.
Im a Scorp woman and I was in a committed relationship with a Gemini man for many years. The situations are obviously different here, but our relationship was very similar to what you've described here with your scorp.. On and off. While the relationship had its great parts, it was overall.. exhausting. Soooo If it's been this way between you guys for this long, I hate to say it but it will most likely never change. I would put your time and energy into something else... like.. your husband!
Thanks for not giving me crap. I don't mind but it is exhausting. Specially from people who don't know shit!
Posted by notsosureI appreciate your input. There is more than I can write down. It is deeper than I can describe.
You are both married?
To me it just seems like that when you chose to cheat, it is never really about the relationships you build by cheating. The cheating is your (bad) way of trying to deal with a situation, and therefor what brings you together is not your love for each other and genuine interest in each other, it is something else entirely.
The way I see it, all of this is about so many other things, problems in your life. And you don´t know how to deal with it. So you cheat. And then maybe to not feel bad about it and especially to not feel bad about yourself and face what´s maybe really going on (the real problems), you begin to romantisize it, again as a way to make your life better/good.
And for me, that´s why this relationship is not going anywhere. Not anywhere real. Not until you realize and deal with the problems you´re trying to escape by cheating. Then maybe get together after.
A friend of mine has been in a relationship for 3 years or so, with a guy that she got with, while he was in a relationship and living with another girl. She complains about him a lot. That he is very egotistical. That he is all about himself. She doesn´t really trust him, when he is out. In my eyes, she is controlling - obviously becaue she is insecure. She too is egotistical and can´t stand being alone, so even though she has talked about for at least a year, that he is not the one for her, and complained about him, she doesn´t break up with him.
The reasons for being in a relationship are so often about so many other things than love, and in a situation like your own, I can´t imagine how it can truly be about love. This is just my view.
I am just listening to all I can and making my walk. Thanks again
Posted by LadyNeptuneSins in marriage aren't always a cheating. He hadn't cheated. She is not a villain. She is just shot.
"His wife won't forgive him for his past sins".
Good on her. He fucks up and continues to fuck up. He's cheating on her with you, what in that equation makes him a victim and her the villain?
Stop looking for validation. Your a nasty cheating hoe. A liar.
I said I was trying to get him to make it all ok. Whatever. Didn't happen. End of story.
I don't know if he didn't try hard enough because of me or she shot hit down on his way back.
I can't be responsible for her anymore.
Posted by DivaCanLeoCrippled?
This old azz crippled vagina is getting more dick then I am and this is how I know God doesn't exist. Nor good
Wow people are so disgusting, what is wrong with you people?!
I in no way condone cheating and I think it is the weakest act possible, however there are people on here being bullies. Straight up, nasty, keyboard warrior bullies!
I guess you've written other threads that I haven't even bothered (and won't) to read because I've seen a few people mention previous threads, so maybe there is a reason people are so passionately putting you down. I don't care though, I don't think there is any reason to be so nasty to another human being.
My two sense (and I haven't read your whole story, I've got better things to do) is that if you are both married and are clearly not happy then leave, don't cheat. If that person means anything to you at all then show them at least the respect to allow them to hold onto their dignity and not destroy them with your thoughtless acts. The only reason you stay in the relationship is because of selfish insecurities and the fear of "what if" if you leave and everything backfires. That's not fair!
I in no way condone cheating and I think it is the weakest act possible, however there are people on here being bullies. Straight up, nasty, keyboard warrior bullies!
I guess you've written other threads that I haven't even bothered (and won't) to read because I've seen a few people mention previous threads, so maybe there is a reason people are so passionately putting you down. I don't care though, I don't think there is any reason to be so nasty to another human being.
My two sense (and I haven't read your whole story, I've got better things to do) is that if you are both married and are clearly not happy then leave, don't cheat. If that person means anything to you at all then show them at least the respect to allow them to hold onto their dignity and not destroy them with your thoughtless acts. The only reason you stay in the relationship is because of selfish insecurities and the fear of "what if" if you leave and everything backfires. That's not fair!
Posted by stopbeingdelusional34 years!Posted by SagsagsagsDo they get along? :p
Gemini and Scorpio : My Mom and Dad.
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How is he supposed to see change within a week? He is full of shit and you know you've not stepped out of the scene in order for them to heal and move forward.
You don't want him to be 100% in with his wife bc that means you don't win, you don't get him or his attention.
It's takes real commitment to seeing changes made in a relationship and when there is infidelity therapy and dedication is a must.
If I was his wife you would need to get a mfing restraining order bc I would want to beat your ass and I'm not a fighter. You're a wedge in their life, a leach just waiting for him to come to you and tell you his woes.
Get a life of your own and get out of his and hers. That's what good people do.
You're so selfish it makes me sick.
You don't want him to be 100% in with his wife bc that means you don't win, you don't get him or his attention.
It's takes real commitment to seeing changes made in a relationship and when there is infidelity therapy and dedication is a must.
If I was his wife you would need to get a mfing restraining order bc I would want to beat your ass and I'm not a fighter. You're a wedge in their life, a leach just waiting for him to come to you and tell you his woes.
Get a life of your own and get out of his and hers. That's what good people do.
You're so selfish it makes me sick.
I don't get why she comes here for this?
@hare I might have been a little to passionate about this. Lol.
Posted by HareLmao!! Thanks, I needed that.. —Posted by WateryGem
@hare I might have been a little to passionate about this. Lol.
Control yourself, Gemini!
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Posted by HareWhat's reddit used for?Posted by leowwwReddit?Posted by WateryGemWhere else is she going to romanticize her disgusting affair?
I don't get why she comes here for this?
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Lol so there's no point?
Posted by HareBad ass of what?Posted by leowwwLOL @ bad assPosted by HareNah there's a multitude of fuck ups like her there, here she's a bad ass.Posted by leowwwReddit?Posted by WateryGemWhere else is she going to romanticize her disgusting affair?
I don't get why she comes here for this?
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Posted by leowwwI just can't imagine this is good for her mentally!! It would tear me apart knowing I was hurting others bc of my choices.Posted by WateryGemOf fuckery affairs.Posted by HareBad ass of what?Posted by leowwwLOL @ bad assPosted by HareNah there's a multitude of fuck ups like her there, here she's a bad ass.Posted by leowwwReddit?Posted by WateryGemWhere else is she going to romanticize her disgusting affair?
I don't get why she comes here for this?
8 years going strong.
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I take it you are the Gemini— It seems that way anywho-- anyways he will take what you give. He enjoys pulling your strings when he feels like it.... and you let him but the truth is-- he'll never be with you---he will never trust you--- Ever. A Scorp would never purposely choose a partner to be with FOR REAL that they don't trust. Everything you're doing to be with him-- is everything he'll imagine you doing if you were ever with him and for that your relationship is doomed from the start. Stop wasting your time. If you don't want to be with your husband move the FuQ on. Don't expect shyt from that scorpio though... IJS.
Posted by SagsagsagsI am wondering at which point it becomes laughable?Posted by GemitatiLMAO ?Posted by stopbeingdelusional34 years!Posted by SagsagsagsDo they get along? :p
Gemini and Scorpio : My Mom and Dad.
Married for 34 years.
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Posted by CAPLOCKSAIDMuch popcorn can give you gas...Posted by Gemitati
Here is a relationship progression with a Scorpio.
Met and locked eyes.
Friendship for a long time.
He is coming forward and asking for time together. Get refused.
Sexting.
Gets his way.
Goes away for a while.
Comes back.
Some more affair.
Goes back to retreat.
Comes back with texting and calling daily.
Bad time for both comes business wise.
Some months of no communication.
Texts back. Daily.
Calling whenever time permits.
Calling every moment he can.
Arranging meeting in person and makes best of it!
Keeps calling and insisting on meeting some more.
Says no more pictures - face to face as often as possible.
Starting to communicate on weekends.
Reporting everything going on if for some reason couldn't call or text.
Are we onto something here?
And please heaters just remember this story is 8! Years long so your negative energy is wasted here.
Thanks for understanding.
And no I do never initiate contacts.
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Scorpio and Gemini: still a better love story than twilight.
Posted by SagsagsagsStrange sense of humorPosted by GemitatiWhen you emphasized the 34 years part..Posted by SagsagsagsI am wondering at which point it becomes laughable?Posted by GemitatiLMAO ?Posted by stopbeingdelusional34 years!Posted by SagsagsagsDo they get along? :p
Gemini and Scorpio : My Mom and Dad.
Married for 34 years.
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Met and locked eyes.
Friendship for a long time.
He is coming forward and asking for time together. Get refused.
Sexting.
Gets his way.
Goes away for a while.
Comes back.
Some more affair.
Goes back to retreat.
Comes back with texting and calling daily.
Bad time for both comes business wise.
Some months of no communication.
Texts back. Daily.
Calling whenever time permits.
Calling every moment he can.
Arranging meeting in person and makes best of it!
Keeps calling and insisting on meeting some more.
Says no more pictures - face to face as often as possible.
Starting to communicate on weekends.
Reporting everything going on if for some reason couldn't call or text.
Are we onto something here?
And please heaters just remember this story is 8! Years long so your negative energy is wasted here.
Thanks for understanding.
And no I do never initiate contacts.