Gemini and scorpio relationships/friendships

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Noreallynow on Monday, August 18, 2014 and has 15 replies.

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I'm Scorpio.

I have a Gemini friend who I've known for maybe ten years. He's Scorpio moon. We get on great but I just have to remember how 'flaky' and unplanned he is but then that's just him and it adds to the mix quite well. Lightens the mood although I can 'smell' his Scorpio moon a mile away when he tries to wind someone up or be manipulative but it's usually in a playful way.

My mother is a Gemini. She's full of crap though.

My new fella has Venus in Gemini and the liveliness is quite good.

Not sure how I'd fair in a relationship with a Gemini or heavily Gemini dominant.

I think the key thing is to relax and let them be as they are and don't take stuff personally.

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Posted by FoxGlove
Heh... if you're asking 'good or bad' -- I'm guessing you might be the Scorpio in the relationship? My answer -- you're in for a hell of a ride. 😉 It'll be good *and* bad -- amazing and terrible -- many times both at once. I'm a Gem with gemini venus -- I've had to Scorpios in my life whom were/are very important to me. The first was my "first love" and we still talk pretty often and are def. warm and friendly - he would like it to be more, but I'm not interested in going there with him. The second was a really unlikely long-distance relationship with someone with whom I felt a great connection, but who's 17 years younger. So, yeah, not very realistic. He actually met someone local recently and has started dating her -- I'm happy about it for his sake, he deserves it. So, the best I can say -- complicated -- but could be very rewarding. Also, a lot depends on the other placements (moon, venus, mars) -- what are those for both parties?

I know some geminis. Not being disrespectful, but I would never date one.

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There's some that I get along with and there's some that I don't like. It depends on their personality. I know one gemini girl who is in school and is doing well for herself. Sweet girl, no kids, funny, everyone likes her. We get along very well. The other is out there. Wild. Sleeps with multiple men. Gossips and stirs up drama. Then wonders why a guy doesn't wonder why her ex boyfriend didn't want to wife her after sleeping with other men while they were together, but turns up her nose at everybody because she thinks she's better. I don't get that. I feel sorry for her. Another gemini man I know is cool. We have good conversations and we joke and laugh a lot, but he's moody. He's a different person everyday.

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Posted by Noreallynow
There's some that I get along with and there's some that I don't like. It depends on their personality. I know one gemini girl who is in school and is doing well for herself. Sweet girl, no kids, funny, everyone likes her. We get along very well. The other is out there. Wild. Sleeps with multiple men. Gossips and stirs up drama. Then wonders why a guy doesn't wonder why her ex boyfriend didn't want to wife her after sleeping with other men while they were together, but turns up her nose at everybody because she thinks she's better. I don't get that. I feel sorry for her. Another gemini man I know is cool. We have good conversations and we joke and laugh a lot, but he's moody. He's a different person everyday.

Then wonders why her ex boyfriend wouldn't wife her*

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I had a gemini best friend at high school. I don't remember laughing so much with anyone else..

But she was really self-centered and lacked empathy. So I kind of stopped hanging out with her 😛

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Posted by Fox
Oh yeah, I also know of another Scorp/Gem couple who live together and are planning a future together.(related to the couple I mentioned) The couple are teachers. In both cases it's a female Scorpio and a Gemini male though.

I'm talking gemini female and scorpio male.

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Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by Fox
I know a Scorpio/Gemini couple that have been married for more than 20 years.

That's crazy..

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one of my best friends is a Gemini that I have known sense I was the tender age of 2. Do we get along yes and NO!! I was engaged to a Gemini when I was 19!! I returned the ring! I knew right then and there we was NOT Going to work out! We are still to this day better off as friends than lovers. All we did was fight.... Better off as friends NOT lovers when it's between a Gem and a Scorp 🙂

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Posted by Scorpy76

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by Fox
I know a Scorpio/Gemini couple that have been married for more than 20 years.

That's crazy..

one of my best friends is a Gemini that I have known sense I was the tender age of 2. Do we get along yes and NO!! I was engaged to a Gemini when I was 19!! I returned the ring! I knew right then and there we was NOT Going to work out! We are still to this day better off as friends than lovers. All we did was fight.... Better off as friends NOT lovers when it's between a Gem and a Scorp 🙂

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I totally agree

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I'm a Scorpio man that was married to a Gemini woman for 8 years. The sex was great, we got along, never fought, and had great communication. I went to work out of town and for a couple months and she found someone else. I would stay away.