Scorpio guy - so secretive

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Marinchik
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Hi everyone,
So about a week ago, I started talking to this scorpio guy online. He is currently on business trip for next couple of weeks. He does not volunteer much information about himself nor he asks me any questions about myself either. When I reply to him, I feel like I have to volunteer information about myself without him asking for it. In one of he emails, I was telling him about research project I am working on. He did not ask. At the end, I told him that I did not want to bore him with details. When he replied, he said " I like hearing about what you do, you seem very driven :-) " and then he asked me "I want to know where you have travelled, what keeps you busy outside of work, etc." When I asked him what he likes to do, he just ignored the question.
I kind of want to hear his voice, I prefer talking on phone rather than exchanging emails. Is it a good idea to give him my number? How do I make him open up a bit more about himself? I feel like I keep bragging about what I do at work, my interest, my research project and yet I know very little about him. Grrrrrrrrrr
Marina
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pathfinder
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Posted by Marinchik
and then he asked me "I want to know where you have travelled, what keeps you busy outside of work, etc." ...
I kind of want to hear his voice, I prefer talking on phone rather than exchanging emails.

Give him your number and ask him to call you and you can tell him what he wants to know. Then don't use email to communicate anymore. You're on a dating site to meet up, not become pen pals.
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LetltB
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Posted by Marinchik
Hi everyone,
So about a week ago, I started talking to this scorpio guy online. He is currently on business trip for next couple of weeks. He does not volunteer much information about himself nor he asks me any questions about myself either. When I reply to him, I feel like I have to volunteer information about myself without him asking for it. In one of he emails, I was telling him about research project I am working on. He did not ask. At the end, I told him that I did not want to bore him with details. When he replied, he said " I like hearing about what you do, you seem very driven :-) " and then he asked me "I want to know where you have travelled, what keeps you busy outside of work, etc." When I asked him what he likes to do, he just ignored the question.
I kind of want to hear his voice, I prefer talking on phone rather than exchanging emails. Is it a good idea to give him my number? How do I make him open up a bit more about himself? I feel like I keep bragging about what I do at work, my interest, my research project and yet I know very little about him. Grrrrrrrrrr
Marina



Oh come on, don't be a chicken, give him your home address (which he'll have anyway with just a phone number), and invite him over for a cup of afternoon tea. It's ok, really...maybe the tea will get him to chatter it up a bit. Have fun!
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MrFirebird
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Posted by IntriguedScorp
Well you should probably be aware that many scorps are listeners. We like to listen. 🙂



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He is getting to know you as of now-your likes and dislikes and the kind of person you are.
If you feel 'right' to him then he shall reveal more about himself,scorpio men are slow to open up.



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Yes, we can be slow.