Scorpio man has me confused

So I met him on a dating app last aug, since we’ve been seeing each other as much as we can. He lives almost 2 hours from me and is taking college classes/working 2 jobs so he is a busy guy. Before he got the two jobs we hung out more so the last couple months we’ve been getting a hotel room once a month in a town that’s halfway. The first time we did that everything was great, we were physical and he was affectionate. It didn’t feel like he only wanted sex with me but I woke up at 2am and he was gone. No note, never woke me to tell me. I sent him a text asking why he left without telling me, he said he had a bad migraine so he had to go home for his pills. Even though I was upset I understood. Then the next time we got a room together again everything was great but after 4 hours together he tells me he thinks he should head home so he gets a good sleep and doesn’t have a long drive in the morning before work. I understood but was still hurt that he couldn’t stay when we only get one night a month together and we both drive all that way. It leaves me confused because he tells me he likes me and I’ve even told him if he doesn’t want this or like me that he can tell me. I’ve gave him opportunities to be honest. He also has a tendency to ignore msgs sometimes then not get back to me for days or until I give in a msg him again which I hate to do cause I know he’s busy but it doesn’t take much effort to send a quick text. He’s also told me he’s not good with talking about his feelings so maybe he likes me more than he lets on but his actions make it confusing. Anyone else go through a similar situation or have an opinion?

Sounds like the guy I'm seeing now.

Same here, I knew him on a dating app; he's Scorpio; he's super busy; always no answers for my texts, or needed to wait about 24-48hrs, then got the response, but the difference was that every time i left him after sex since i wanted to have a good rest before going to work.

Due to his work, he needs to travel a lot (almost every day), so basically, we meet once a week, sometimes two weeks. I'm confused too, so I tell him what i feel, then he says he's not good at showing emotions; he's very practical, he always lose track of the time, blah blah.

Ok, then I just focus on my life, try not thinking of him. It's suffering, but have no choice 😢

Here’s a useful article I like to offer whenever I read the ‘he’s super busy’ excuse.

https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/being-super-busy-the-modern-lame-excuse-for-managing-down-your-expectations/

OP,

What is it you’re looking for? What do you want from life right now?

It doesn’t seem that you’re getting what you want from this guy. You’re unhappy. This isn’t what a loving relationship should look like.

From what I’ve read in your post, this guy isn’t offering you anything. You don’t need him to tell you he’s not interested in a relationship with you. He’s already showing you. He simply doesn’t have the time to invest in you or any one at the moment.

Make your own decision to end this and then find someone who is more local to you, who does have the time to date, and who is looking for more than a ‘halfway hotel fuck’.

Do you know if he’s single or not?

I don’t think you’ll be back here to check our answers, but I’m asking just in case.