Scorpio man still liking my IG photos.

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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔

Here is his last DM to me:

“I didnt ghost u at all I think of u all the time I thought u didnt want to see me or talk to me how we got here idk but i didnt ghost u i told u when i m on nights it sometimes get hectic 4 me I dont think u believed that and it got quiet from there and that's the last of our talks it was never just about sex dont want u to think that at all about me had nothing to do with it please I hope not.”
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He wants to keep the door open for more sex in the future without having any actual accountability for his actions and your feelings

Proceed with caution



I have thought of that also, although he has told some mutual friends he has “ATTACHMENT ISSUES”. He gets no more sex here..NADA. click to expand

Hey, don't believe that attachment issues or the "work got hectic" bullshit for a second. Those are lame excuses and just empty words that mean absolutely nothing. There is no such thing as work being too hectic. Surgeons, lawyers, CEO's, etc have relationships and date too and I'm sure they make the time to contact their S.O's.

You are way too beautiful to be sitting here on dxp posting about some lame azz scorpio man and his transparent excuses and intentions. Go find you a man who will worship you for the goddess you are 👑 click to expand
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Awwwww thank you for your kind words😉.
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My condolences

Scorpios don’t go away



Even when they don’t want you? click to expand

Sounds like he expects some sort of verbal reciprocation or he could just be bored and you’re easy to stalk😐 click to expand



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OP don't fall for few IG likes.

IG likes isn't gonna hold your hand when you or he has to stand by each other.

Fuck IG likes.
If he really likes you, he would rather take a chance and risk getting rejected than walk away from you.

And here we have these grown men hitting "likes" and making women's heart beat faster.


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Really? I hit like because I genuinely like the picture. I had no idea it was making hearts flutter. 😬 click to expand

His heart fluttered out of his chest and got caught in the wind draft and blew away

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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔

Here is his last DM to me:

“I didnt ghost u at all I think of u all the time I thought u didnt want to see me or talk to me how we got here idk but i didnt ghost u i told u when i m on nights it sometimes get hectic 4 me I dont think u believed that and it got quiet from there and that's the last of our talks it was never just about sex dont want u to think that at all about me had nothing to do with it please I hope not.”
That DM is just bs.
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔

You took the time to make a thread, copy and paste his message but didn't ask him the same question you're asking us. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

"Thanks for clarifying things. I am curious what are you looking for because you don't seem to want friendship----yes that is a huge assumption on my part based on very little and me looking deeper into you stalking my photos and not wanting face time given your hectic schedule, but yeah what's up? Some chick on DXP told me to ask"

Obviously leave out the last part. Or not 😉.
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I have thought of that also, although he has told some mutual friends he has “ATTACHMENT ISSUES”. He gets no more sex here..NADA.

Oh, this is the same guy? Well, like I stated above have an actual conversation with the man. So far all you've written about is hearsay ("a mutual friend told me") and assumptions (about what he's doing).

Address his poor communication style ---regardless of how hectic his schedule is you can't just disappear, discuss his expectations/intentions, identify your expectations and proceeds from there. Most importantly hear what the man is saying, not what you think he's trying to say. You'll either move forward together slowly given his "issues" or go your separate ways.
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My condolences

Scorpios don’t go away



Even when they don’t want you? click to expand

Sounds like he expects some sort of verbal reciprocation or he could just be bored and you’re easy to stalk😐 click to expand



😐

OP don't fall for few IG likes.

IG likes isn't gonna hold your hand when you or he has to stand by each other.

Fuck IG likes.
If he really likes you, he would rather take a chance and risk getting rejected than walk away from you.

And here we have these grown men hitting "likes" and making women's heart beat faster.


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Exactly! I fell for this with a capricorn man years ago lol. I excused all of his disappearances and because of the occasional "likes", all I could see was some hope...of something... though I didn't know what lol. It was pathetic. I am surprised that middle aged men are using these social media tactics though. I was around 23 at this time, so that's to be expected. But 40 something year old men?? Bitch, bye. click to expand
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RIGHT!!!!
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔

Here is his last DM to me:

“I didnt ghost u at all I think of u all the time I thought u didnt want to see me or talk to me how we got here idk but i didnt ghost u i told u when i m on nights it sometimes get hectic 4 me I dont think u believed that and it got quiet from there and that's the last of our talks it was never just about sex dont want u to think that at all about me had nothing to do with it please I hope not.”

Did you reply to this DM?
Does he call or text you when he's free?
Idk his situation, but a man needs a supportive woman. Someone who would understand what he has going for him and be ready to go at his pace if his situation demands that.

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I did reply and he was supposed to contact me after a trip he took....I have not heard from him and that was over 2 weeks ago, he is GHOST other than DM or text messages. I moved on a decided to no longer respond to anything other than a phone call which I doubt will happen so he cal like my IG pixs all he want but I won't respond again.
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔
You took the time to make a thread, copy and paste his message but didn't ask him the same question you're asking us. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

"Thanks for clarifying things. I am curious what are you looking for because you don't seem to want friendship----yes that is a huge assumption on my part based on very little and me looking deeper into you stalking my photos and not wanting face time given your hectic schedule, but yeah what's up? Some chick on DXP told me to ask"

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Love you response however I think a conversation in person is what I have wanted since I would like to read his body language if possible. He does not seem to what to see me so there is not really anyway I can ask him anything. I would think two grown people would able to have an adult conversation but his avoidance is not making that possible.
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Oh, seems like an epidemic of such behaviour 😂 I have a 42 year old virgo fan that watches my ig stories religiously. He isn't liking any, but he never skips any either. In my top three viewers all the time. He is my fan apparently.
As for Scorpio, they can be equally weird as virgos. Only, Scorpio is darker and can have some strange ideas in their heads all the time. You are his "unfinished business". Let's see how the story unfolds...
I would like to know how it unfolds myself......and I am in the movie lol!!!!
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔


You took the time to make a thread, copy and paste his message but didn't ask him the same question you're asking us. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

"Thanks for clarifying things. I am curious what are you looking for because you don't seem to want friendship----yes that is a huge assumption on my part based on very little and me looking deeper into you stalking my photos and not wanting face time given your hectic schedule, but yeah what's up? Some chick on DXP told me to ask"

Obviously leave out the last part. Or not . click to expand

Love you response however I think a conversation in person is what I have wanted since I would like to read his body language if possible. He does not seem to what to see me so there is not really anyway I can ask him anything. I would think two grown people would able to have an adult conversation but his avoidance is not making that possible.
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Hmph. Well I agree and don't. I am with you on the in person part because frankly if you can't meet in person what more is there to pursue? However, if he is avoiding you because he he's embarrassed, etc then it's not gonna happen until he feel comfortable you won't cut him a new assh*le for disappearing. You may need to allow one things to happen before the other. As well, keep in mind some Scorp need to control their emotional expression. Needing to address his actions (if he genuinely cares about you) over the phone is one way to do that. I definitely would not advise this be over text/DM.

Although I think I know what your answer will be, but may I ask what you think you'll see or what will be confirmed for you in person that you can't determine over the phone and with time? I'm curious. I seem to be in a curious mood about people's choices today.
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔

Here is his last DM to me:

“I didnt ghost u at all I think of u all the time I thought u didnt want to see me or talk to me how we got here idk but i didnt ghost u i told u when i m on nights it sometimes get hectic 4 me I dont think u believed that and it got quiet from there and that's the last of our talks it was never just about sex dont want u to think that at all about me had nothing to do with it please I hope not.”



Did you reply to this DM?
Does he call or text you when he's free?
Idk his situation, but a man needs a supportive woman. Someone who would understand what he has going for him and be ready to go at his pace if his situation demands that.

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I did reply and he was supposed to contact me after a trip he took....I have not heard from him and that was over 2 weeks ago, he is GHOST other than DM or text messages. I moved on a decided to no longer respond to anything other than a phone call which I doubt will happen so he cal like my IG pixs all he want but I won't respond again.
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Okay, just saw this. Yeah, I'd move on until he can form actual words in person or at the very least over the phone.
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔


You took the time to make a thread, copy and paste his message but didn't ask him the same question you're asking us. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

"Thanks for clarifying things. I am curious what are you looking for because you don't seem to want friendship----yes that is a huge assumption on my part based on very little and me looking deeper into you stalking my photos and not wanting face time given your hectic schedule, but yeah what's up? Some chick on DXP told me to ask"

Obviously leave out the last part. Or not . click to expand



Love you response however I think a conversation in person is what I have wanted since I would like to read his body language if possible. He does not seem to what to see me so there is not really anyway I can ask him anything. I would think two grown people would able to have an adult conversation but his avoidance is not making that possible.
Hmph. Well I agree and don't. I am with you on the in person part because frankly if you can't meet in person what more is there to pursue? However, if he is avoiding you because he he's embarrassed, etc then it's not gonna happen until he feel comfortable you won't cut him a new assh*le for disappearing. You may need to allow one things to happen before the other. As well, keep in mind some Scorp need to control their emotional expression. Needing to address his actions (if he genuinely cares about you) over the phone is one way to do that. I definitely would not advise this be over text/DM.

Although I think I know what your answer will be, but may I ask what you think you'll see or what will be confirmed for you in person that you can't determine over the phone and with time? I'm curious. I seem to be in a curious mood about people's choices today. click to expand
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Great question Beautiful!!! I read people pretty well and I would be able to gauge if he is embarrassed, remorseful or whatever it is he may be feeling or thinking. Our initial attraction was very strong, I would like to see if I really got played.
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔

Here is his last DM to me:

“I didnt ghost u at all I think of u all the time I thought u didnt want to see me or talk to me how we got here idk but i didnt ghost u i told u when i m on nights it sometimes get hectic 4 me I dont think u believed that and it got quiet from there and that's the last of our talks it was never just about sex dont want u to think that at all about me had nothing to do with it please I hope not.”



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Honestly.. I'm more offended by the way he types. click to expand
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Yes, like some teenager...this man is 46 and believe it or not has a great vocabulary and is well spoken yet...I GET THIS 😢
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Great question Beautiful!!! I read people pretty well and I would be able to gauge if he is embarrassed, remorseful or whatever it is he may be feeling or thinking. Our initial attraction was very strong, I would like to see if I really got played.

That may be hard with a Scorp. I've been told I give absolutely nothing in my expression with the exception of disgust lol. My eyes get darker when I'm pissed, but my expression stays the same. My ex Gem is very good at reading people too, however he always thought I was feeling the exact opposite of what I was actually feeling. Problem is he assumed he was right and would run with it.

Gems are definitely good a judging one's character. Assessing someone's feelings... well, I suppose it depends on the Gem and the nature of the relationship.
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Great question Beautiful!!! I read people pretty well and I would be able to gauge if he is embarrassed, remorseful or whatever it is he may be feeling or thinking. Our initial attraction was very strong, I would like to see if I really got played.
That may be hard with a Scorp. I've been told I give absolutely nothing in my expression with the exception of disgust lol. My eyes get darker when I'm pissed, but my expression stays the same. My ex Gem is very good a reading people too, however he always thought I was feeling exact opposite of what I was actually feeling. Problem is he assumed he was right and would run with it.

Gems are definitely good a judging one's character. Assessing someone's feelings... well, I suppose it depends on the Gem and the nature of the relationship. click to expand
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You are on point with your Gemini knowledge, this is not the first Scorpio I have encountered and I must say as annoying as the other guy was I knew and still know he cares for me, he will find any excuse to text me a hello out of the blue and we even had a nice conversation a few weeks back. He was just not a good fit for me our emotional chemistry was off but he was a really good guy. I like Scorpios and the one I posted about had a sexy masculinity that drove me crazy but I sense he is not as secure as he projected.
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔


You took the time to make a thread, copy and paste his message but didn't ask him the same question you're asking us. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

"Thanks for clarifying things. I am curious what are you looking for because you don't seem to want friendship----yes that is a huge assumption on my part based on very little and me looking deeper into you stalking my photos and not wanting face time given your hectic schedule, but yeah what's up? Some chick on DXP told me to ask"

Obviously leave out the last part. Or not . click to expand



Love you response however I think a conversation in person is what I have wanted since I would like to read his body language if possible. He does not seem to what to see me so there is not really anyway I can ask him anything. I would think two grown people would able to have an adult conversation but his avoidance is not making that possible.


Hmph. Well I agree and don't. I am with you on the in person part because frankly if you can't meet in person what more is there to pursue? However, if he is avoiding you because he he's embarrassed, etc then it's not gonna happen until he feel comfortable you won't cut him a new assh*le for disappearing. You may need to allow one things to happen before the other. As well, keep in mind some Scorp need to control their emotional expression. Needing to address his actions (if he genuinely cares about you) over the phone is one way to do that. I definitely would not advise this be over text/DM.

Although I think I know what your answer will be, but may I ask what you think you'll see or what will be confirmed for you in person that you can't determine over the phone and with time? I'm curious. I seem to be in a curious mood about people's choices today. click to expand



Great question Beautiful!!! I read people pretty well and I would be able to gauge if he is embarrassed, remorseful or whatever it is he may be feeling or thinking. Our initial attraction was very strong, I would like to see if I really got played. click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
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I would like to see if I really got played.....trust all of us honey, you got played. I mean what more validation do you need? The guy can't even bring himself to type a "y" and an "o" before u in his dm. You're worth at the VERY least after sleeping with him a y and an o lol. I'm just trying to figure out what has happened to that thing we used to know as intuition. Why are people so afraid to be wrong about other people? There are so many men and women in this world, why do we get so hung up on one person?
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔


You took the time to make a thread, copy and paste his message but didn't ask him the same question you're asking us. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

"Thanks for clarifying things. I am curious what are you looking for because you don't seem to want friendship----yes that is a huge assumption on my part based on very little and me looking deeper into you stalking my photos and not wanting face time given your hectic schedule, but yeah what's up? Some chick on DXP told me to ask"

Obviously leave out the last part. Or not . click to expand



Love you response however I think a conversation in person is what I have wanted since I would like to read his body language if possible. He does not seem to what to see me so there is not really anyway I can ask him anything. I would think two grown people would able to have an adult conversation but his avoidance is not making that possible.


Hmph. Well I agree and don't. I am with you on the in person part because frankly if you can't meet in person what more is there to pursue? However, if he is avoiding you because he he's embarrassed, etc then it's not gonna happen until he feel comfortable you won't cut him a new assh*le for disappearing. You may need to allow one things to happen before the other. As well, keep in mind some Scorp need to control their emotional expression. Needing to address his actions (if he genuinely cares about you) over the phone is one way to do that. I definitely would not advise this be over text/DM.

Although I think I know what your answer will be, but may I ask what you think you'll see or what will be confirmed for you in person that you can't determine over the phone and with time? I'm curious. I seem to be in a curious mood about people's choices today. click to expand



Great question Beautiful!!! I read people pretty well and I would be able to gauge if he is embarrassed, remorseful or whatever it is he may be feeling or thinking. Our initial attraction was very strong, I would like to see if I really got played. click to expandclick to expandclick to expand



I would like to see if I really got played.....trust all of us honey, you got played. I mean what more validation do you need? The guy can't even bring himself to type a "y" and an "o" before u in his dm. You're worth at the VERY least after sleeping with him a y and an o lol. I'm just trying to figure out what has happened to that thing we used to know as intuition. Why are people so afraid to be wrong about other people? There are so many men and women in this world, why do we get so hung up on one person? click to expand
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It may be that some of us want to believe that there are still some good and decent people in this world. I have moved on a while ago...Thanks.
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He wants to keep the door open for more sex in the future without having any actual accountability for his actions and your feelings

Proceed with caution



I have thought of that also, although he has told some mutual friends he has “ATTACHMENT ISSUES”. He gets no more sex here..NADA. click to expand

Hey, don't believe that attachment issues or the "work got hectic" bullbutter for a second. Those are lame excuses and just empty words that mean absolutely nothing. There is no such thing as work being too hectic. Surgeons, lawyers, CEO's, etc have relationships and date too and I'm sure they make the time to contact their S.O's.

You are way too beautiful to be sitting here on dxp posting about some lame azz scorpio man and his transparent excuses and intentions. Go find you a man who will worship you for the goddess you are 👑 click to expand
those high profile businessmen have very very minimal contact... but yeah they make time, but minimal lol



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My condolences

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so true. xd
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔


You took the time to make a thread, copy and paste his message but didn't ask him the same question you're asking us. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

"Thanks for clarifying things. I am curious what are you looking for because you don't seem to want friendship----yes that is a huge assumption on my part based on very little and me looking deeper into you stalking my photos and not wanting face time given your hectic schedule, but yeah what's up? Some chick on DXP told me to ask"

Obviously leave out the last part. Or not . click to expand



Love you response however I think a conversation in person is what I have wanted since I would like to read his body language if possible. He does not seem to what to see me so there is not really anyway I can ask him anything. I would think two grown people would able to have an adult conversation but his avoidance is not making that possible.


Hmph. Well I agree and don't. I am with you on the in person part because frankly if you can't meet in person what more is there to pursue? However, if he is avoiding you because he he's embarrassed, etc then it's not gonna happen until he feel comfortable you won't cut him a new assh*le for disappearing. You may need to allow one things to happen before the other. As well, keep in mind some Scorp need to control their emotional expression. Needing to address his actions (if he genuinely cares about you) over the phone is one way to do that. I definitely would not advise this be over text/DM.

Although I think I know what your answer will be, but may I ask what you think you'll see or what will be confirmed for you in person that you can't determine over the phone and with time? I'm curious. I seem to be in a curious mood about people's choices today. click to expand



Great question Beautiful!!! I read people pretty well and I would be able to gauge if he is embarrassed, remorseful or whatever it is he may be feeling or thinking. Our initial attraction was very strong, I would like to see if I really got played. click to expandclick to expandclick to expand



I would like to see if I really got played.....trust all of us honey, you got played. I mean what more validation do you need? The guy can't even bring himself to type a "y" and an "o" before u in his dm. You're worth at the VERY least after sleeping with him a y and an o lol. I'm just trying to figure out what has happened to that thing we used to know as intuition. Why are people so afraid to be wrong about other people? There are so many men and women in this world, why do we get so hung up on one person? click to expand

It may be that some of us want to believe that there are still some good and decent people in this world. I have moved on a while ago...Thanks. click to expand
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There are still good people in the world lol. And you know what? They show you that from the jump.
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Posted by PhoenixRising
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I had a brief encounter with a Scorpio man...many said it was a pump and dump, yup might have been but I am just wondering if the interest is gone why he still follows and likes my photos in Instagram. I feel he is watching my every move as he will randomly like a photo.

He doesn’t seem to even want a friendship with me and has avoided any possible face time with me ....so what is this about? This man is in his 40s🤔


You took the time to make a thread, copy and paste his message but didn't ask him the same question you're asking us. Don't make it more complicated than it needs to be.

"Thanks for clarifying things. I am curious what are you looking for because you don't seem to want friendship----yes that is a huge assumption on my part based on very little and me looking deeper into you stalking my photos and not wanting face time given your hectic schedule, but yeah what's up? Some chick on DXP told me to ask"

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Love you response however I think a conversation in person is what I have wanted since I would like to read his body language if possible. He does not seem to what to see me so there is not really anyway I can ask him anything. I would think two grown people would able to have an adult conversation but his avoidance is not making that possible.


Hmph. Well I agree and don't. I am with you on the in person part because frankly if you can't meet in person what more is there to pursue? However, if he is avoiding you because he he's embarrassed, etc then it's not gonna happen until he feel comfortable you won't cut him a new assh*le for disappearing. You may need to allow one things to happen before the other. As well, keep in mind some Scorp need to control their emotional expression. Needing to address his actions (if he genuinely cares about you) over the phone is one way to do that. I definitely would not advise this be over text/DM.

Although I think I know what your answer will be, but may I ask what you think you'll see or what will be confirmed for you in person that you can't determine over the phone and with time? I'm curious. I seem to be in a curious mood about people's choices today. click to expand



Great question Beautiful!!! I read people pretty well and I would be able to gauge if he is embarrassed, remorseful or whatever it is he may be feeling or thinking. Our initial attraction was very strong, I would like to see if I really got played. click to expandclick to expandclick to expand



I would like to see if I really got played.....trust all of us honey, you got played. I mean what more validation do you need? The guy can't even bring himself to type a "y" and an "o" before u in his dm. You're worth at the VERY least after sleeping with him a y and an o lol. I'm just trying to figure out what has happened to that thing we used to know as intuition. Why are people so afraid to be wrong about other people? There are so many men and women in this world, why do we get so hung up on one person? click to expand



It may be that some of us want to believe that there are still some good and decent people in this world. I have moved on a while ago...Thanks. click to expand

There are still good people in the world lol. And you know what? They show you that from the jump. click to expand
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So true😎👍
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To be honest, I adore this pairing, but honestly, from a fellow Gemini, just move on and let it go.

You'll be happier in the end. lol. If he decides he wants to do more than like a few photos on IG and pick up a phone and text or call, then gauge from there. However, he's giving you the very LEAST amount of work (pressing a button on an app) and has you where you are guessing his motives. Just don't do it.

Your worth is more than that and if that is all it takes to get you to run back to him, then idk. Make him work to even get a second of your attention and you won't find that on an app. Trust me. I know the feeling. You know what I did? Use that Gemini easily distracted trait to my own good, followed a bunch of new hot guys and discovered a new genre of music that has TONS of cute guys. I'm in heaven. lol.

I actually forgot about the Scorpio until I saw this thread. Girl... run!
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My condolences

Scorpios don’t go away

Even when they don’t want you? click to expand
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they always want someone in their back pocket ( AS A PLAN B OR C)

just in case their number one choice..usually a toxic partner doesn't work out

and or to make their first choice jealous

so they will keep stringing you along
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My condolences

Scorpios don’t go away



Even when they don’t want you? click to expand

Sounds like he expects some sort of verbal reciprocation or he could just be bored and you’re easy to stalk😐 click to expand


You’re an easy target.

Scorps don’t reach out via text unless they are absolutely wrung out.

Liking pics and stalking defs a scorp deal even when they aren’t involved with someone intimately.
Not surprising or out of the ordinary. click to expand
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Why is this? my thinking is if someone is not feeling me or that it was a pump and dump they would not waste valuable time following me on social media. Don’t the have more pumping and dumping to do...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Posted by JuneGeminiGirl
Posted by HoovesofTopaz
My condolences

Scorpios don’t go away



Even when they don’t want you? click to expand

they always want someone in their back pocket ( AS A PLAN B OR C)
just in case their number choice..usually a toxic partner doesn't work
and or to make their first choice jealous

so they will keep stringing you along click to expand
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Wow...thanks for that insight, if he makes ANY contact I will ignore. I am not a second choice kind of chick.
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Posted by JuneGeminiGirl
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by JuneGeminiGirl
Posted by HoovesofTopaz
My condolences

Scorpios don’t go away



Even when they don’t want you? click to expand



they always want someone in their back pocket ( AS A PLAN B OR C)
just in case their number choice..usually a toxic partner doesn't work
and or to make their first choice jealous

so they will keep stringing you along click to expand



Wow...thanks for that insight, if he makes ANY contact I will ignore. I am not a second choice kind of chick. click to expand
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yeah probably why he disappeared in the first place was dating other people

and one of his options that he likes more than you really took off

can't really multi-task

and now that there are problems or he anticipates there could be problems he is engaging you again

so he can keep the door open to use you for sex and or to make the girl he is actually seeing jealous
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Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by JuneGeminiGirl
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
Posted by JuneGeminiGirl
Posted by HoovesofTopaz
My condolences

Scorpios don’t go away



Even when they don’t want you? click to expand



they always want someone in their back pocket ( AS A PLAN B OR C)
just in case their number choice..usually a toxic partner doesn't work
and or to make their first choice jealous

so they will keep stringing you along click to expand



Wow...thanks for that insight, if he makes ANY contact I will ignore. I am not a second choice kind of chick. click to expand

yeah probably why he disappeared in the first place was dating other people
and one of his options that he likes more than you really took off

can't really multi-task

and now that there are problems or he anticipates there could be problems he is engaging you again
so he can keep the door open to use you for sex and or to make the girl he is actually seeing jealous click to expand
click to expand

Really interesting.....he took a trip to Aruba a few weeks back, my mutual friends told me he was alone and really quiet, he told the he has “ATTACHMENT ISSUES” during this trip. When we first started hanging out I asked him if he was seeing anyone and his answer was “no, there was someone but they did not work well in a relationship.” Maybe the toxic relationship you mentioned....hmmmmmm