Scorpio-on-Scorpio

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bella_ragazza
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My best friend's parents are a couple of scorpio!They have a very good relationship-they think,act alike,they almost always agree on everything!
The lady is 16 years younger than her husband and him was married before,but we don't know any details of that marriage!Scorpio'secret!
Are you interested in a specific side of the story?I don't know about what aspect of S-S relationship you want to find out more.
Bella
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Ironically, male scorpios tend to be good friends with me...the only time I was involved with another Scorpio (Male) was many years ago when I was a Teenager...he was as quiet and shy as I was, there was a real strong attraction at the beginning, and I probably would have been real happy with him because he was willing to do anything for me, but I broke up with him because I still had some strong feelings for an ex boyfriend, Libra, he (Scorp Male) did suffocate me at times but I didn't mind, it was just that he was soo quiet.......anyway, I'll never forget him because he was a real nice guy, very sensitive...and giving....
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wow, thank you for that post--it was very informative! I'm so glad you've found happiness with one of us, too.

Now, I'm not in a relationship with another scorpio, but I have a friend who's a scorp who I am very close to, and I was just wondering if anyone had any stories of this type of relationship. It's nice to hypothesize about what it would be like 🙂

I think I will find true happiness only with another water sign. Who knows...I will remain open minded and work on my relationship with my fire-sign boyfriend. But a girl can dream. lol.

Thanks again to you, you've been quite helpful!
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Kennyg/Linda:

I loved reading your story (especially the part about "like any good scorpio, he ignored me for weeks...lol)! No really, I looove love stories. I am so glad that you had him there with you through such a scary/upsetting time in your life. Yes, and the good thing about Scorps, is that we don't shy away from extreme emotions. We go through them head first...and I'm glad you were with someone so strong during a time when you needed it so much. Thank you for sharing your story, it is nice to hear about nice things these days. 🙂

Thank you for the "good luck" with my Leo. I soooo hear you though, about seeing where things lead with my scorpio friend, the only bad part is that we live pretty far away from each other. Only a 2 hour plane ride, but still...we're both too young to be able to afford frequent airplane rides just to see each other, you know what I mean? But, as I said, it's nice to hypothesize, and also, I would be foolish to completely close myself off to other possibilities...money shouldn't really stand in the way of feelings I suppose.
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Hi there Aprilbaby...well, let me put it to you this way. Though I am rarely physically unfaithful when I am in a committed relationship, I tend to get upset when I feel I'm not appreciated enough or the emotional side of our relationship is not there. You know, when the relationship becomes devoid of romance, passion, etc, etc. and it becomes all about the daily grind and you feel more like brother and sister than boyfriend/girlfriend. I suppose that could be normal after 3 and 1/2 years together, but still it is disappointing. I feel kinda like after all this time, he still doesn't know me. Anything he knows about me, it's because I told him. He makes no effort to try to see who I really am, deep deep down, if that makes sense. He never looks past the surface. Also, there are real feelings that I have for this Scorpio and that I know he has for me.

Well those are my ramblings for the moment. lol.
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Phoenix,I don't know a thing about your Leo,but if I just assumed that he is acting like me in a relationship with a Scorpio,I could tell you this about his apparent lack of interest in discovering what is going on beneath the surface of your personality:he is aware of the fact that you are not going to tell him anything unless you want to,so he is waiting patiently for you to disclose yourself.
And between Leos and Scorpios will always be a sort of battles of the will and ego:who is the first to speak,to unvail the untold ( that is considered a sign of weakness in business negotiation for example ).
Maybe is it so,maybe it isn't-but give him a chance before " giving him the flick".
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My young one is a scorp and his future wife is too, they both going to be 21 in a few days,, they are in love since 5 th form never splitted,,,with other people my little (he-he 6,1 ft and etc comparing to my 5,4) brother could be cold and hursh but u should see this 2 toghther,,hopefully that how it will stay. Also despite all the warnings this two can't wait to be married, in russia u can get married since 18, somehow my mom talked them out to wait till colledge graduation...
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Dear Aprilbaby,

You are so awesome! Thank you so much for your suggestions, and also, your insights are dead on, babe. I know, it's totally the "grass is always greener" syndrome...anything I do right now while I'm still with my bf will be because "anything better will do" kind of thing. So, I will work on my relationship with him. I will put to use your advice (love the letters idea) and I will see if anything can be salvaged. I've hung in there for three years, what's another 6 months or so? I've sort of decided that if I still have lukewarm feelings for him after that amount of time, then maybe it's time to get out. I have done "romantic" things for him in the past, but he never seemed all that grateful, so I sort of stopped. For example, I once filled a glass bottle up with 100 slips of paper, and on each slip was a different thing I loved about him. At the time, it wasn't that hard...lol, now, I don't know if I could knock something like that out so easily. 😛 All kidding aside, you are right, I should really try before I jump off this train, or I might regret jumping.

Thank you so much! 🙂