Scorpio Playing Games with Flattery?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by kierkegaarder on Wednesday, September 21, 2016 and has 19 replies.

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@kierkegaarder
16 Years

I kind of understand where u are coming from too. I feel like it could be either/or. And I don't know how to tell except to be extremely cautious and bide my time...

Posted by AneemA
Nope. I don't think he's playing any games. He feels intensely. I can definitely relate. Usually by then scorps will get scared. Good for him he doesn't show his fear.

Expect some time when he pulls away from you, maybe he hasnt done it just yet. When he pulls away, you better believe he is not ending anything. Its just he needs to get his head straight.

I hope this is what his reality truly is.

I feel so.

Meet him.

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10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by kierkegaarder
Posted by Sssupes
She ain't even met the dude and I doubt she does with all this negativity y'all throwing at her.

im definitely thinking if its worth my time... but i guess it wouldn't hurt to at least meet once. He's taking the day off on the day I land.

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You been talking to him for a while. At least give him 10mins of your time

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11 Years1,000+ Posts

Mama everything sounds great BUT the part I don't like was when he asked are you getting tricked by me like the other girls. Whether its a joke or not my guard would be up but thats just me...I say meet him and see where it goes but still guard your heart..Guys seem to play with women emotions too much these days then move on to the next for you not to be careful with your precious heart and emotions.

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@kierkegaarder
16 Years

Posted by crabRiot
Mama everything sounds great BUT the part I don't like was when he asked are you getting tricked by me like the other girls. Whether its a joke or not my guard would be up but thats just me...I say meet him and see where it goes but still guard your heart..Guys seem to play with women emotions too much these days then move on to the next for you not to be careful with your precious heart and emotions.

i don't want to defend him but a few girls had kinda gone a bit stalkerish after meeting him and we are always "joking around"... but of course some jokes are half truths. ๐Ÿ™‚ I am so guarded in general though. Thanks Cancer x

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@Sssupes
10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by kierkegaarder
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Posted by kierkegaarder
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She ain't even met the dude and I doubt she does with all this negativity y'all throwing at her.

im definitely thinking if its worth my time... but i guess it wouldn't hurt to at least meet once. He's taking the day off on the day I land.

You been talking to him for a while. At least give him 10mins of your time

I guess. I mean, basically talking throughout the day, being on skype together while we're both working..

He said he feels like when we meet, we wont even have to speak and we'll just burst out laughing. And he'll just hold me.

So tempting to believe in it, but I've been burned a few times so I'm just being stoic.

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Let us know how it goes. Hope I don't have to eat crow. It taste like shit. If it goes sour I'll never stand up for another Scorp again

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@kierkegaarder
16 Years

Posted by Sssupes
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Posted by Sssupes
Posted by kierkegaarder
Posted by Sssupes
She ain't even met the dude and I doubt she does with all this negativity y'all throwing at her.

im definitely thinking if its worth my time... but i guess it wouldn't hurt to at least meet once. He's taking the day off on the day I land.

You been talking to him for a while. At least give him 10mins of your time

I guess. I mean, basically talking throughout the day, being on skype together while we're both working..

He said he feels like when we meet, we wont even have to speak and we'll just burst out laughing. And he'll just hold me.

So tempting to believe in it, but I've been burned a few times so I'm just being stoic.

Let us know how it goes. Hope I don't have to eat crow. It taste like shit. If it goes sour I'll never stand up for another Scorp again

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I hope you won't too. I have a few Scorpio friends (females) and they are generally amazing amazing people. But extremely selective when it comes to relationships.

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11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by kierkegaarder
Posted by crabRiot
Mama everything sounds great BUT the part I don't like was when he asked are you getting tricked by me like the other girls. Whether its a joke or not my guard would be up but thats just me...I say meet him and see where it goes but still guard your heart..Guys seem to play with women emotions too much these days then move on to the next for you not to be careful with your precious heart and emotions.

i don't want to defend him but a few girls had kinda gone a bit stalkerish after meeting him and we are always "joking around"... but of course some jokes are half truths. ๐Ÿ™‚ I am so guarded in general though. Thanks Cancer x

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All the best.

Keep us posted.

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@kierkegaarder
16 Years

Also, I just remembered we met during the mercury retrograde... so there must have been some miscommunication, misinformation along the way.. Guess all will be clearer soon huh.

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Posted by crabRiot
Mama everything sounds great BUT the part I don't like was when he asked are you getting tricked by me like the other girls. Whether its a joke or not my guard would be up but thats just me...I say meet him and see where it goes but still guard your heart..Guys seem to play with women emotions too much these days then move on to the next for you not to be careful with your precious heart and emotions.

I think it was the wording. I think it meant to say "are you tricking me like the other girls".

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@kierkegaarder
16 Years

Posted by dolluxe
I just based my advice on my interactions with my Scorp friends and my ex and current Scorp. @Reincarnation is right. Just use your intuition. Hope everything goes well for you girl.

Thank you for your well wishes.

I suppose after the mercury retrograde ends tomorrow my intuition should come back. ๐Ÿ™‚

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10 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by kierkegaarder
Posted by Sssupes
Posted by crabRiot
Mama everything sounds great BUT the part I don't like was when he asked are you getting tricked by me like the other girls. Whether its a joke or not my guard would be up but thats just me...I say meet him and see where it goes but still guard your heart..Guys seem to play with women emotions too much these days then move on to the next for you not to be careful with your precious heart and emotions.

I think it was the wording. I think it meant to say "are you tricking me like the other girls".

No its actually correct, he did say this "Are you getting tricked by me like the other girls?" and before that he just sent me a screenshot of a girl that has been stalking him for awhile.

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That actually makes zero sense.

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@MysScorp
9 Years

Scorps love sex (most of us). We can turn any conversation into sex. If we like u, we will share ouselves and even be personal. Be cautious... Know that we love the chase and trying to figure u out...gauge where ur mind is and what we may be able to influence u to do... bad or good. Scorps and Caps r a good match. Let him have his space.. Don't tell him everything too soon. Be ur sexy self and let the chemistry flow.. Just keep one eye open so to speak.. And please don't be flirtatious.. We like the friendliness because we don't trust ppl.. but don't let that green eyed monster awaken... They can be so sweet, then become possessive. We listen to everything u say to see if ur stories are consistent. If u tell a story from ur past differently, he will notice.. Just b honest. We understand that no one is perfect.. We'll with the flow and sink with the ship if we care..... Sorry I got off topic

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@kierkegaarder
16 Years

Posted by MysScorp
Scorps love sex (most of us). We can turn any conversation into sex. If we like u, we will share ouselves and even be personal. Be cautious... Know that we love the chase and trying to figure u out...gauge where ur mind is and what we may be able to influence u to do... bad or good. Scorps and Caps r a good match. Let him have his space.. Don't tell him everything too soon. Be ur sexy self and let the chemistry flow.. Just keep one eye open so to speak.. And please don't be flirtatious.. We like the friendliness because we don't trust ppl.. but don't let that green eyed monster awaken... They can be so sweet, then become possessive. We listen to everything u say to see if ur stories are consistent. If u tell a story from ur past differently, he will notice.. Just b honest. We understand that no one is perfect.. We'll with the flow and sink with the ship if we care..... Sorry I got off topic

Thank you. No worries. Even if this Scorp doesnt work out there may be another in the future. Sadly since we met (altho not physically) during Mercury Retrograde, I am now not too positive about this.