Scorpio woman games or what?

Hi, I'm a taurus sun and mercury anyway--gemini venus, capricorn mars, and cancer moon.

Lately I seem to be having all sorts of issues with the Scorpio women in my life. Most recently and more specifically though is a scorpio from my past.

She's a scorpio sun, mercury, venus and aries moon and gemini mars.

Anyway, here's the story: We met about 3 years and I was single so was she. I was VERY single though and extremely flirty even a bit promiscuous and she liked me (I did flirt with her a lot) but I didn't know how much she was into me if at all (we met on the club scene). So she hits me up now, 3 years later and wants to know why I was a "player" back then and why I would try to get with her and when she would say no I would make out with 4-5 other girls; she remembers the conversations that we had and the things we talked about (which tells me that she was way more into me than I was her at that time). I told the truth to the best of my ability and explained that I was emotionally unavailable, nobody wanted to know me on a real level and blah blah until I met my ex and we were together for the last 3 years (scorpio too btw). So I told her that was a long time ago and I'm really not a player and basically asked for a chance to prove it. --I took that kind of personal, someone calling me a player when I try to be honest all the time, no matter what.-- Well, since that convo she only talks to me to say she's busy and has a crazy dramatic life right now and is upset about some family issues and to reassure me that she's not ignoring me. I like to chase and don't mind being patient/understanding so I didn't really think anything of it. Last week though, she stops replying at all. Then today updated her Facebook that she's in a relationship.

So here I am, wondering what just happened...rejection? revenge? Just blows my mind why she could come out of the blue like that and initiate things if she had no intentions.

Any suggestions?

Yeah, definitely arrogance, but like I said I had no clue she was really into me. I mean, she must have rejected me or made me feel like she wasn't interested back then for me to have not given her a chance and to have found my ex. I can't help but be hung up on it...call it curious nature.

Feels kind of like the combination of rejection and revenge, but why would she even bother even after 3 years? It's not like I ****ed her mother or something.

OMG yes, very close anyway, the degrees are only off by a bit. So cool!!

Well, what do you think about it?

That's such a...Scorpio answer! You're right though =) Probably doesn't help with all of this Mars and Mercury retrograde either.

I know, and I really don't try to be...just sorta happens I guess.

Eyeofthebull, I don't know how it is for you, but for me it feels like a game. They are always sending mixed signals, at least to us it feels that way. Do you know what I mean? I can almost say that scorpios may be afraid of love and I could be wrong. It's something I'm dealing with at the moment and if you want her then you better be able to battle the world for her for how long is not foreseen lol.

Yeah Redi, Scorpio's sure do know how to make it seem like we're stuck playing a game. Good luck with your Scorpio! I don't want to give up, but at the same time I don't want to be stepping on anyone's toes since she made it Facebook official that shes in a relationship. =/

LeoVirgoGirl, yeah it is normal to remember conversations, but I don't remember what we talked about about back then and it's very vague even the times that we interacted; she does remember very clearly though, and that is what makes it significant to me. I am flirty and never claimed to not be, but I am also fiercely loyal when I am serious with someone. It's all in my chart lol

So things wouldn't have worked with the Aries because he was a flirt or because things got serious with the Scorpio first?

Friends and stuff compliment me on my fb and say "miss you, looking good" etc. but I don't really flirt with women on my fb, and I also tried to make it known to her that I wanted to take it somewhere without being creepy or pushy. I guess she was talking to someone else though and decided to blow me off instead of tell me that she's not interested. Still won't answer me actually, even though I said to her she should have told me, so I didn't feel like a dumbass. Haha, I abhor being ignored =p

Ah, yeah if it's any of that then she's already made up her mind about me. I guess it's just really weird too because within the last week, she's quit her job and within 24hrs of making it fb official that she's in a relationship, she's moved across the country with this new person (according to fb anyway)! Scorpios can be so mysterious at times!