Scorps - Do you have a hard time being alone?

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I don't mean necessarily in romantic relationships, just is it hard for you to be alone for any given amount of time? I'm noticing what might be a trend in my proximity and thought I would ask you guys for your thoughts.

My scorp cousin, for example. When he's in a relationship, he spends time with her daily. When he's not in a relationship, he has friends over all the time. Different friends in and out - cooking on the grill, beer time, watching sports, etc.

A scorpio coworker spends all her free time with her kids - they're always doing something.

A friend of mine goes out just about every night and never spends an evening home alone.

Now, I know my question is based on only three scorpios and this may not be a scorpio thing. I realize that. It may be just what they like to do. Not bad things, by no means. Actually, I wish I had their energy and social lives. 🙂

I was just wondering how the rest of you felt about alone time.
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Posted by starlover
My son is a Scorpio too...he loves alone time

We get each other so well ~ i call it the *Scorpio Club*....lol

It is so nice to read about others who are like minded


Please feel free to join the club ~

My daughter and I have a little Scorpio Club here too Star 😄
I adore seeing her Scorpioness coming to light, omg she is tooooooooooo cute!
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Posted by FixedWater
Posted by starlover
My son is a Scorpio too...he loves alone time

We get each other so well ~ i call it the *Scorpio Club*....lol

It is so nice to read about others who are like minded


Please feel free to join the club ~

My daughter and I have a little Scorpio Club here too Star 😄
I adore seeing her Scorpioness coming to light, omg she is tooooooooooo cute!

This would be a great thread. I hear you both on that!
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Posted by LetltB
Posted by FixedWater
Posted by starlover
My son is a Scorpio too...he loves alone time

We get each other so well ~ i call it the *Scorpio Club*....lol

It is so nice to read about others who are like minded


Please feel free to join the club ~

My daughter and I have a little Scorpio Club here too Star 😄
I adore seeing her Scorpioness coming to light, omg she is tooooooooooo cute!

This would be a great thread. I hear you both on that!
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Good idea Lib, I will wait for it... Lol
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Posted by starlover
We are so damned hard to live with anyway, it was probably the Universe's grand plan to give us the gift of loving our own company


lol



I don't understand what's so hard anyway. I think I am easy to live with. Sweet, and kind and loving 😄
(just don't ignore your fuckups and don't be scared to face your fears. It is an easy motto no? Lol)
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I don't like being physically alone. I can tolerate it, and I do so quite often, but I much prefer the ambient noise of someone else being nearby. If no one's around, I may turn on a TV in another room to try and trick my mind. But it can't be just anyone, either. It has to be someone who is part of the inner circle.

I am always thinking and I like to make things or come up with ideas (I play tabletop RPGs, build robots from Lego bricks, draw, etc) so I like having someone around to bounce ideas off of or to brag to. If for whatever reason I can't convince myself I'm not alone when I really am and it starts to bother me, I will usually get in my car and go somewhere randomly, like WalMart, and just wander around a bit. :/

I enjoy being LEFT alone, not being alone... I hate small talk, entertaining a lot of people, and dealing with the public at work (yay customer service!), those activities are draining.
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I tend to spend a lot of time alone, sometimes by choice, sometimes not. Most of the time, I'd prefer to have someone in the general vincinity (like somewhere else in the house), just so I know SOMEONE is there. Might not even talk to them, but at least they're there. I prefer to not be alone, because unless I have a SO at the time, without all those energies being directed at someone else, they seem to bend back around and end up being directed at myself, and that's not a good thing. Not a good thing because without having that outlet, ie. SO (as I am single now), it usually leads to way to much self-destructive behavior. Too much drinking, too much masturbation, too much fantasizing about darker and darker things, ya know. 😉. So for me, I guess being alone is far preferable to being lonely.