My scorpio ex completely blindsided me...

My boyfriend broke up with me last night. He says I'm amazing and beautiful and he loves me as a friend, but not as more. Why I'm confused is he dated and agreed to be in a relationship with me (we were together for 3 months), and basically told me he was hoping his feelings for me would grow. He lives an hour away; he would drive down to see me (a lot of gas money) introduced me to his family, met my mom, talked about a future with me numerous times from taking dance classes to getting married.

He pursued me hard when we were dating and I kept him at arms length at first but he was persistent and I ended up falling for him hard. he really romanced me and basically put on this grand parade of love for me. I just feel so deceived now and confused as to how someone could date someone they don't even have romantic feelings for, let alone be in a committed relationship with them. for what reason?

I asked him why, He said he was trying to be the guy I deserved and has a superman complex. and I told him I didn't want a superman I just wanted to be loved and he said he was sorry numerous times and 'didn't know what to say' and didn't know how to tell me. What kind of person does this can someone make sense of it for me so I will be able to better understand and move on?

He said (when we were together) he feels like he's been in love with me all his life, but now when I asked why he said he loved me, he said I told him I loved him (and this was after the comment about being in love with me) so he said it back, but he only loves me as a friend and was thinking it would change over time. those are 2 contradicting statements. I feel like I let my heart get invested in a phony relationship that I thought was real and I just feel blindsided.

He said I'm perfect I'm everything he could ever want he just doesn't feel about me that I feel about him, that I deserve someone amazing it's just not him.

Another girl has entered the picture or probably never really left. He did you a favor by putting it all on him.

time heals all wounds.

It's good for you that he chose honesty instead of continuing on.

Forget the minor details and move on happily knowing you've learned a little something you can keep an eye out for next time.

This seems too fairy-taleish. What really happened? Are you pregnant?

Posted by Wynter
This seems too fairy-taleish. What really happened? Are you pregnant?

rofl

See if you were a scorpio woman you would have doubted his every word and wouldn't end up in shock like this 😛

anyway, you must be feeling awful so *hugs*

there is nothing to understand really, don't overanalyze things. scorpios are stupid. it didn't work out. just move on, have fun

Look at the bright side, better to be dumped at three months instead of three years. Less time wasted.

Superman complex?! He was trying to save you?! He sounds like a virgo lmfao

FW, your avatar is alllll me!!!! I want, I want, I want!

Kim, your so darn cute. Hehe
It's an awesome pic, I agree and when I'm done and need a change your welcome to it. Unless you wanna be twinsies— Lmao

Posted by FixedWater
Kim, your so darn cute. Hehe
It's an awesome pic, I agree and when I'm done and need a change your welcome to it. Unless you wanna be twinsies— Lmao

That was psychic-ish...how'd you know she was referring to your avi?

There's six avi's showing including yours.

weird!

Posted by Iwill

Posted by LetltB
There's six avi's showing including yours.

weird!

Letitbe u slippin??! Kim wrote "FW" = Fixedwater!! Fix up look sharp!

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...oops, missed that. 😕

Lol ... no problem Lib.