scorp's revenge

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hey guys/girls I have these three friends who were gonna try to do something with our girlfriends for v-day (mine's a capricorn any suggestion's)so I did most of the planning, then one of my friend's girlfriend (whom I will now refer to as: that traitor) decided to try to ex me out of our plans for v-day luckily the other friend warned me . now both "that traitor" and her boyfriend are flaming me
so here's my problem : I have a couple pieces of info that I have carefully documented that can destroy the friend's and "that traitor"'s relationship plus their parent's phone number AND a couple locked text messages . so what should I do ? unleash my terrible, tempting plan or let it go ? plz don't give me the "right" thing to do give me the ur OWN, personal opinions
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Posted by scorpio_chic
p.s. and that IS my personal opinion... (being someone who used to try to seek revenge) happiness can never come out of trying to make someone else miserable. I've learned...

Refocus that energy on bettering yourself instead of focusing all that negative energy on them. Negative attracts negative.



so what should I do about the annoying texts I.E "I will kill you" (ha! I beat this guy with my feet only I'm a blackbelt in taekwondo so not likely)
basically I want to get on wth my life but we've been best friends for two years so doing this just ISN'T easy

^ lol so we've officially established an angel and a devil lmao
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hey guys/girls I have these three friends who were gonna try to do something with our girlfriends for v-day (mine's a capricorn any suggestion's)so I did most of the planning, then one of my friend's girlfriend (whom I will now refer to as: that traitor) decided to try to ex me out of our plans for v-day luckily the other friend warned me . now both "that traitor" and her boyfriend are flaming me
so here's my problem : I have a couple pieces of info that I have carefully documented that can destroy the friend's and "that traitor"'s relationship plus their parent's phone number AND a couple locked text messages . so what should I do ? unleash my terrible, tempting plan or let it go ? plz don't give me the "right" thing to do give me the ur OWN, personal opinions



Haha I love it.

Though sometimes the journey and planning can be more entertaining than the act of vengeance itself. At the end of the day, can you say for yourself if this will bring you a sense of real closure or will you still be saying to yourself "what the fuck"?

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Have to live with yourself at the end of the day. I might concoct all sorts of things in my head, but I'd feel terrible about the aftermath. I'd be responsible for the broken relationship, alienated friends, etc.
If they're not truly friends cut them out of your life. Not worth the energy expanded to put such a thing into motion. And karma can be a real mo'fo'.
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Posted by scorpio_chic
p.s. and that IS my personal opinion... (being someone who used to try to seek revenge) happiness can never come out of trying to make someone else miserable. I've learned...

Refocus that energy on bettering yourself instead of focusing all that negative energy on them. Negative attracts negative.



I agree 100% .

Seeking revenge will only make you feel better at that moment. Eventually you will realize that what you did was not the right thing to do.

I find that killing someone with kindness is revenge enough 🙂
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*sigh* I've warned him as best as I can, but in then out of school flaming has gotten to a boiling point when HE threatened me THEN challenged my religion when he himself plays basketball and texts during school and church treetrunk it I'm done being nice to him when obviously he won't stop I'm starting at 8 p.m central (tbh I'm not doing this for revenge I'm doing it so I can have peace and not be flamed by that that idiot)
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I hear you... maybe you confront her about the sht and tell her about herself in front of a bunch of folks to embarrass the hell out of her or maybe if your power of persuasion or leadership abilities are overpowering then you could easily get the rest of the friends to stop hanging out with them. But I can be a evil scorpio when i'm hurt but you NEVER WANT TO BE THE REASON TWO PEOPLE BREAK UP. (unless LOL one of these people cost you your relationship, i wouldnt go there)
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I hear you... maybe you confront her about the sht and tell her about herself in front of a bunch of folks to embarrass the hell out of her or maybe if your power of persuasion or leadership abilities are overpowering then you could easily get the rest of the friends to stop hanging out with them. But I can be a evil scorpio when i'm hurt but you NEVER WANT TO BE THE REASON TWO PEOPLE BREAK UP. (unless LOL one of these people cost you your relationship, i wouldnt go there)



hey I'm 4 days after you well that traitor tried and her bf passed my line of forgiveness altogether Now it's just principals
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I hear you... maybe you confront her about the sht and tell her about herself in front of a bunch of folks to embarrass the hell out of her or maybe if your power of persuasion or leadership abilities are overpowering then you could easily get the rest of the friends to stop hanging out with them. But I can be a evil scorpio when i'm hurt but you NEVER WANT TO BE THE REASON TWO PEOPLE BREAK UP. (unless LOL one of these people cost you your relationship, i wouldnt go there)



hey I'm 4 days after you well that traitor tried and her bf passed my line of forgiveness altogether Now it's just principals
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LOL You mind is made up... i know where you're at - you're in that mode where you feel like you have to send that message that'll leave them knowing they f-ed with the wrong one. Well, they better enjoy the time they shared.
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yup perfectly I only went halfway but I expect that I'll be twice as happy now since I initiated late tonight but hey maybe he'll get his priorities straight instead of being mr.dog cus his gf gave him a bone by treetrunking him lmao



The thing about revenge is once you've started it, you'd better hope you don't have no dirt of your own. You just opened a can of worms for yourself, if you've been this man's friend for a few years I am sure that he's got some dirt on you as well so you can be sure that he'll AIR YOU OUT. Just be prepared for it boo. Revenge is a cycle.. it does not stop with you. All this wasted energy could've gone towards something more meaningful in your life.. that's the saddest part.
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WHAT'S MEANINGFUL ?! I spent YEARS helping this idiot with his future (college, hollidays and all) but just because some random piss-ant female comes along and takes his virginity he's so "in love" that even when she cheats his love "still burns stronger" when he forgives her . So maybe ur right they deserve eachother, but I'm not gonna be the one left behind and laughed at when I'm the one that got them this far
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well *sigh* after flaming me some more he went silent in which time I decided to go to my fave cofee place with my gf to talk about some issues then he showed up he walked over and told how his gf broke up with him cus of me (well i'm not gonna deny that) and that she told him she was still cheating on him and that he was half the man he was and that he wanted to apologize and thank me I accepted and bought him a drink and told him about a party and to get ready for it now things are back to normal i talked to my gf and now hopefully she'll talk and text me more often
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well *sigh* after flaming me some more he went silent in which time I decided to go to my fave cofee place with my gf to talk about some issues then he showed up he walked over and told how his gf broke up with him cus of me (well i'm not gonna deny that) and that she told him she was still cheating on him and that he was half the man he was and that he wanted to apologize and thank me I accepted and bought him a drink and told him about a party and to get ready for it now things are back to normal i talked to my gf and now hopefully she'll talk and text me more often



Now that it's all said and done...

Back to my original question:
At the end of the day, can you say for yourself if this will bring you a sense of real closure or will you still be saying to yourself "what the fuck"?

I'm not judging. Just curious... 🙂
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Posted by MsPisces.
Talk about control freak.


The revenge plot had little do with him flaming you. What you really wanted was for him to breakup with his girl and come crawling back begging for your forgiveness.


All it takes is a lousy apology for you to go from plotting to ruin someones life, to all of a sudden making like your best friends with that person again?




miss u got it wrong I originally wanted them to be together but just because "that traitor" came along and took his virginity he was mr.loyal dog and flamed me just because she didn't "like" me when I had been supporting that guy for years so you're wrong it had EVERYTHING to do with it and to answer you're question yes we've best friends for two years I don't think one bump will ruin everything two years has done for us
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well *sigh* after flaming me some more he went silent in which time I decided to go to my fave cofee place with my gf to talk about some issues then he showed up he walked over and told how his gf broke up with him cus of me (well i'm not gonna deny that) and that she told him she was still cheating on him and that he was half the man he was and that he wanted to apologize and thank me I accepted and bought him a drink and told him about a party and to get ready for it now things are back to normal i talked to my gf and now hopefully she'll talk and text me more often



Now that it's all said and done...

Back to my original question:
At the end of the day, can you say for yourself if this will bring you a sense of real closure or will you still be saying to yourself "what the fuck"?

I'm not judging. Just curious... 🙂
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tbh yes and ur second no I don't like 2 think back on past things I like 2 move on
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In summary, start counting down to the end of your friendship. Because sooner or later, your friend will see through you.

On another subject what is it about scorpios and seeming tough? Is it because you're weak inside? (serious question)

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maybe it's the fact that we see things and we think "how the fuck" can you not se it thus making us think "yup just wait you'll get yours" type thoughts
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Talk about control freak.


The revenge plot had little do with him flaming you. What you really wanted was for him to breakup with his girl and come crawling back begging for your forgiveness.


All it takes is a lousy apology for you to go from plotting to ruin someones life, to all of a sudden making like your best friends with that person again?




miss u got it wrong I originally wanted them to be together but just because "that traitor" came along and took his virginity he was mr.loyal dog and flamed me just because she didn't "like" me when I had been supporting that guy for years so you're wrong it had EVERYTHING to do with it and to answer you're question yes we've best friends for two years I don't think one bump will ruin everything two years has done for us
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If he was so quick to play you over some girl, especially considering all you said you've done for him, what makes you think you're best friends?

You refer to it as 'one bump' as if its something minor, but then why were you prepared to ruin his life over said 'bump'?

All it took was a half ass apology for you to forget all that happened and become bffs again. You're basically telling him he can do as he wishes to you, and all he has to do is say sorry, and you're right by his side again. Be careful about the kind of signals you send out to people. You'll easily be taken advantage of.
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Talk about control freak.


The revenge plot had little do with him flaming you. What you really wanted was for him to breakup with his girl and come crawling back begging for your forgiveness.


All it takes is a lousy apology for you to go from plotting to ruin someones life, to all of a sudden making like your best friends with that person again?




miss u got it wrong I originally wanted them to be together but just because "that traitor" came along and took his virginity he was mr.loyal dog and flamed me just because she didn't "like" me when I had been supporting that guy for years so you're wrong it had EVERYTHING to do with it and to answer you're question yes we've best friends for two years I don't think one bump will ruin everything two years has done for us





If he was so quick to play you over some girl, especially considering all you said you've done for him, what makes you think you're best friends?

You refer to it as 'one bump' as if its something minor, but then why were you prepared to ruin his life over said 'bump'?

All it took was a half ass apology for you to forget all that happened and become bffs again. You're basically telling him he can do as he wishes to you, and all he has to do is say sorry, and you're right by his side again. Be careful about the kind of signals you send out to people. You'll easily be taken advantage of.
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i was his only friend and he got excited

it was a lesson he had to learn

ok so how do I make sure that doesn't happen without not bein' friendds with him ?
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ok this is how I see it my friend got addicted to a drug after his first use . In order to keep using it he lashed out at everone who was trying to help him . I stung him with a light dose of my "sleep detox venom" lol, then took away all of his drugs . he wakes up and can't go out cus he's high and if he did he'l go to jail . When he's sober and detoxed he'll realize what it did to him, then he never uses it again .
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In summary, start counting down to the end of your friendship. Because sooner or later, your friend will see through you.

On another subject what is it about scorpios and seeming tough? Is it because you're weak inside? (serious question)


maybe it's the fact that we see things and we think "how the fuck" can you not se it thus making us think "yup just wait you'll get yours" type thoughts
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Hmm ... but pisces people are like too, aren't they? Apart from the passing judgement part, pisces people can see through facades. Isn't that a water sign thing?
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ok this is how I see it my friend got addicted to a drug after his first use . In order to keep using it he lashed out at everone who was trying to help him . I stung him with a light dose of my "sleep detox venom" lol, then took away all of his drugs . he wakes up and can't go out cus he's high and if he did he'l go to jail . When he's sober and detoxed he'll realize what it did to him, then he never uses it again .



Nice analogy... P**sy is a drug. But then why would you want your friend off pussy?

Wait a second... Your GAY! (I'm joking)
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loyally vengeful,

as much as I don't agree with what you did, you seem cool headed for a scorpio (taking everybody's judgement of the situation in your stride instead of attacking).

Kudos for that.

I have an aqua friend who I've cut off. Some people just don't change. No point keeping them around.

Which is why I say your friendship may not last.

You wouldn't treat a good GOOD friend the way you did. And a good friend wouldn't push you to the limits you seemed to reach.

So sooner or later, you'll both see through one another and things will go to sh**.

Good luck on that.

P.S seeing things that are hidden is not a good enough reason to act on bad thoughts. That's the same test my aqua friend failed (isn't aquarius called the forgotten water sign?)

Which is where the scorpio question came from.

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hey guys/girls I have these three friends who were gonna try to do something with our girlfriends for v-day (mine's a capricorn any suggestion's)so I did most of the planning, then one of my friend's girlfriend (whom I will now refer to as: that traitor) decided to try to ex me out of our plans for v-day luckily the other friend warned me . now both "that traitor" and her boyfriend are flaming me
so here's my problem : I have a couple pieces of info that I have carefully documented that can destroy the friend's and "that traitor"'s relationship plus their parent's phone number AND a couple locked text messages . so what should I do ? unleash my terrible, tempting plan or let it go ? plz don't give me the "right" thing to do give me the ur OWN, personal opinions



Typical psycho scorp behvior...my god. Do you all really do this crazy shit just to get back at someone??!! How do you have the time and energy? You should stay out of other people's business...it may just come back and haunt you.
I'd like to think you are just a very young and very un-evolved scorp male.
It's kinda scary :/