
loyally vengeful
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Posted by scorpio_chic
p.s. and that IS my personal opinion... (being someone who used to try to seek revenge) happiness can never come out of trying to make someone else miserable. I've learned...
Refocus that energy on bettering yourself instead of focusing all that negative energy on them. Negative attracts negative.

Posted by loyally vengeful
hey guys/girls I have these three friends who were gonna try to do something with our girlfriends for v-day (mine's a capricorn any suggestion's)so I did most of the planning, then one of my friend's girlfriend (whom I will now refer to as: that traitor) decided to try to ex me out of our plans for v-day luckily the other friend warned me . now both "that traitor" and her boyfriend are flaming me
so here's my problem : I have a couple pieces of info that I have carefully documented that can destroy the friend's and "that traitor"'s relationship plus their parent's phone number AND a couple locked text messages . so what should I do ? unleash my terrible, tempting plan or let it go ? plz don't give me the "right" thing to do give me the ur OWN, personal opinions

Posted by scorpio_chic
you will never get ahead if you're too busy trying to get even.



Posted by scorpio_chic
p.s. and that IS my personal opinion... (being someone who used to try to seek revenge) happiness can never come out of trying to make someone else miserable. I've learned...
Refocus that energy on bettering yourself instead of focusing all that negative energy on them. Negative attracts negative.




Posted by nov5male
I hear you... maybe you confront her about the sht and tell her about herself in front of a bunch of folks to embarrass the hell out of her or maybe if your power of persuasion or leadership abilities are overpowering then you could easily get the rest of the friends to stop hanging out with them. But I can be a evil scorpio when i'm hurt but you NEVER WANT TO BE THE REASON TWO PEOPLE BREAK UP. (unless LOL one of these people cost you your relationship, i wouldnt go there)

Posted by loyally vengefulPosted by nov5male
I hear you... maybe you confront her about the sht and tell her about herself in front of a bunch of folks to embarrass the hell out of her or maybe if your power of persuasion or leadership abilities are overpowering then you could easily get the rest of the friends to stop hanging out with them. But I can be a evil scorpio when i'm hurt but you NEVER WANT TO BE THE REASON TWO PEOPLE BREAK UP. (unless LOL one of these people cost you your relationship, i wouldnt go there)
hey I'm 4 days after you well that traitor tried and her bf passed my line of forgiveness altogether Now it's just principalsclick to expand


Posted by scorpio_chicPosted by loyally vengeful
yup perfectly I only went halfway but I expect that I'll be twice as happy now since I initiated late tonight but hey maybe he'll get his priorities straight instead of being mr.dog cus his gf gave him a bone by treetrunking him lmao
The thing about revenge is once you've started it, you'd better hope you don't have no dirt of your own. You just opened a can of worms for yourself, if you've been this man's friend for a few years I am sure that he's got some dirt on you as well so you can be sure that he'll AIR YOU OUT. Just be prepared for it boo. Revenge is a cycle.. it does not stop with you. All this wasted energy could've gone towards something more meaningful in your life.. that's the saddest part.click to expand


Posted by loyally vengeful
well *sigh* after flaming me some more he went silent in which time I decided to go to my fave cofee place with my gf to talk about some issues then he showed up he walked over and told how his gf broke up with him cus of me (well i'm not gonna deny that) and that she told him she was still cheating on him and that he was half the man he was and that he wanted to apologize and thank me I accepted and bought him a drink and told him about a party and to get ready for it now things are back to normal i talked to my gf and now hopefully she'll talk and text me more often

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Posted by MsPisces.
Talk about control freak.
The revenge plot had little do with him flaming you. What you really wanted was for him to breakup with his girl and come crawling back begging for your forgiveness.
All it takes is a lousy apology for you to go from plotting to ruin someones life, to all of a sudden making like your best friends with that person again?

Posted by VirgoHeroPosted by loyally vengeful
well *sigh* after flaming me some more he went silent in which time I decided to go to my fave cofee place with my gf to talk about some issues then he showed up he walked over and told how his gf broke up with him cus of me (well i'm not gonna deny that) and that she told him she was still cheating on him and that he was half the man he was and that he wanted to apologize and thank me I accepted and bought him a drink and told him about a party and to get ready for it now things are back to normal i talked to my gf and now hopefully she'll talk and text me more often
Now that it's all said and done...
Back to my original question:
At the end of the day, can you say for yourself if this will bring you a sense of real closure or will you still be saying to yourself "what the fuck"?
I'm not judging. Just curious... 🙂click to expand

Posted by loyally vengefulPosted by VirgoHeroPosted by loyally vengeful
tbh yes and ur second no I don't like 2 think back on past things I like 2 move onclick to expand
Cool!

Posted by &2gedanowThe user who posted this message has hidden it.
In summary, start counting down to the end of your friendship. Because sooner or later, your friend will see through you.
On another subject what is it about scorpios and seeming tough? Is it because you're weak inside? (serious question)
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Posted by loyally vengefulPosted by MsPisces.
Talk about control freak.
The revenge plot had little do with him flaming you. What you really wanted was for him to breakup with his girl and come crawling back begging for your forgiveness.
All it takes is a lousy apology for you to go from plotting to ruin someones life, to all of a sudden making like your best friends with that person again?
miss u got it wrong I originally wanted them to be together but just because "that traitor" came along and took his virginity he was mr.loyal dog and flamed me just because she didn't "like" me when I had been supporting that guy for years so you're wrong it had EVERYTHING to do with it and to answer you're question yes we've best friends for two years I don't think one bump will ruin everything two years has done for usclick to expand

Posted by Hypnotic—
- he'll have the last word..
- you will regret doing this..
/thread

Posted by MsPisces.Posted by loyally vengefulPosted by MsPisces.
Talk about control freak.
The revenge plot had little do with him flaming you. What you really wanted was for him to breakup with his girl and come crawling back begging for your forgiveness.
All it takes is a lousy apology for you to go from plotting to ruin someones life, to all of a sudden making like your best friends with that person again?
miss u got it wrong I originally wanted them to be together but just because "that traitor" came along and took his virginity he was mr.loyal dog and flamed me just because she didn't "like" me when I had been supporting that guy for years so you're wrong it had EVERYTHING to do with it and to answer you're question yes we've best friends for two years I don't think one bump will ruin everything two years has done for us
If he was so quick to play you over some girl, especially considering all you said you've done for him, what makes you think you're best friends?
You refer to it as 'one bump' as if its something minor, but then why were you prepared to ruin his life over said 'bump'?
All it took was a half ass apology for you to forget all that happened and become bffs again. You're basically telling him he can do as he wishes to you, and all he has to do is say sorry, and you're right by his side again. Be careful about the kind of signals you send out to people. You'll easily be taken advantage of.click to expand


Posted by loyally vengefulPosted by &2gedanowThe user who posted this message has hidden it.
In summary, start counting down to the end of your friendship. Because sooner or later, your friend will see through you.
On another subject what is it about scorpios and seeming tough? Is it because you're weak inside? (serious question)
maybe it's the fact that we see things and we think "how the fuck" can you not se it thus making us think "yup just wait you'll get yours" type thoughtsclick to expand

Posted by loyally vengeful
ok this is how I see it my friend got addicted to a drug after his first use . In order to keep using it he lashed out at everone who was trying to help him . I stung him with a light dose of my "sleep detox venom" lol, then took away all of his drugs . he wakes up and can't go out cus he's high and if he did he'l go to jail . When he's sober and detoxed he'll realize what it did to him, then he never uses it again .


Posted by scorpio_chic
He said in another forum that he was on 16... so that explains it all.

Posted by loyally vengeful
hey guys/girls I have these three friends who were gonna try to do something with our girlfriends for v-day (mine's a capricorn any suggestion's)so I did most of the planning, then one of my friend's girlfriend (whom I will now refer to as: that traitor) decided to try to ex me out of our plans for v-day luckily the other friend warned me . now both "that traitor" and her boyfriend are flaming me
so here's my problem : I have a couple pieces of info that I have carefully documented that can destroy the friend's and "that traitor"'s relationship plus their parent's phone number AND a couple locked text messages . so what should I do ? unleash my terrible, tempting plan or let it go ? plz don't give me the "right" thing to do give me the ur OWN, personal opinions
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so here's my problem : I have a couple pieces of info that I have carefully documented that can destroy the friend's and "that traitor"'s relationship plus their parent's phone number AND a couple locked text messages . so what should I do ? unleash my terrible, tempting plan or let it go ? plz don't give me the "right" thing to do give me the ur OWN, personal opinions