Hello to all of my friends in never never land. My scorp and I are back in the saddle riding high. Everything is a test and or a game with them..people. It has taken me a year to figure it out. They want that unconditional mother love and will do stupid things to see how you react. Don't. He still tries to make me jealous...I don't feed into it. It is weird but I look at him as a nice added something to my life. He is not the center. He hasn't invested enough into the relationship to become center. But it is a nice surprise when he comes around. The more you put them off, the more they come around. Men respond to no contact. It is like a salesperson that you tell no...no means yes and they will persist until they win. They love the chase....so keep them mystified. Act like oh...well and continue on without a second thought. And if they are contrary, make other plans. It will drive them nuts. It took a whole year to figure this out. They like short succient sentences. They don't like emotional long conversations about the relationship. A whisper, inuendo, a look..that is what they are about. I love to just stare into Lon's eyes. It is like I am looking directly into his soul. He is sooooooo all that. "I fell in love with you when I saw you and you smiled cause you knew." The End
