Tired of My Scorpio's bout of solitude!!! (Page 2)

Posted by natural25
tiziani - if a couple agree to take some space, that makes sense. no problem. but when someone goes MIA, that's a horse of a different color.

I've never heard that term. lol

i envisioned a bright pink horse.

Tiz- This is nightbynight btw

lol just letting you know.

😉

Posted by Aine

Posted by natural25
tiziani - if a couple agree to take some space, that makes sense. no problem. but when someone goes MIA, that's a horse of a different color.

I've never heard that term. lol

i envisioned a bright pink horse.

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bring pink or purple? but I do like bright pink. 🙂

Usually when Scorpio males have disappearing acts, or go MIA... they're doing things they have no business, such as dealing with other women and what not. A Scorpio who's fulfilled, or evolved and mature wants to be in contact with his partner and see what she's doing, who she's talking to and be up under her, lol. His wrongdoing doesn't reflect on you, has nothing to do with you really just dealing with a unevolved Scorpio. Don't stop your life because he hasn't contacted you.

I meant to add with them, don't put up with their shit. They do seem to like soft, docile, classy women.. but don't let them get away with shit, and let them treat you any kind of way. Stand up for yourself, and command some respect.

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Posted by tiziani
Two weeks is nothing. Relationships only work on patience. As a Libra, you should understand that.

It's not ignoring someone if two people legitimately don't know what to say to one another. Would you rather have empty words as a substitute for a real relationship?

Where it becomes a dick move is if you haven't communicated that ahead of time or just dropped off the radar out the blue.

TWO WEEKS IS NOTHING?

Out of your mind. OUT OF YOUR MIND.

Any non-communication for any amount of time of which is 'out of the ordinary' for either of the two is a dick move.

Scenario:

I'm in a happy relationship. Everything is going well. We have a wonderful night together. Say our goodbyes the following day and head to work. Later on a text is sent.. no reply. Ok. - a few hours pass.. fine they must be busy at work. - The end of the night comes... ummm... Where is my s/o? For the last (however long the relationship has been) I've spoken to them every day...

I would be a bit concerned.

TWO WEEKS OF THIS?

Out of your mind.

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Well, the thread starter is a Libra - and would behave in the opposite manner.

Aries = take action
Libra = become doormat

*dormant

dammit 😛

Tiz -

Hello!! 🙂

If the person in said relationship runs out of things to say or share with me... then it's probably best that the relationship gets put on hold for awhile... as long as the other party is informed. IMO.

Wynter - Yes... we take charge right away... without thinking of the consequences. - Do NOW worry LATER... it doesn't always work out in our favor but during a fight or flight response sort of scenario it doesn't matter to us.

Either I'm gonna fight for us, or I'm gonna fly out of your life. 😉

Posted by ellessque
who are you kidding?

that was not a typo. 😛

lol I was wondering if it could have been an autocorrect typo but ... it was just too funny.

Yes. It's all about communication

😄

Yay.

Happily Ever After.

all of that. everysingleallofthat. it's common courtesy!

Posted by ellessque
If someone disappears for two weeks and I haven't read about them in the paper......then I don't need them in my life.

It's rude, it's disrespectful, it's emotionally abusive....end of story.

^^this

Posted by ellessque
If someone disappears for two weeks and I haven't read about them in the paper......then I don't need them in my life.

It's rude, it's disrespectful, it's emotionally abusive....end of story.

i totally agree.. u dont even know if he's left earth and moved to another planet or anything.. to wait that long without hearing anything from him is too damn hurtful and painful.. u seem strong, i hate to say it esp if u loved him that much but i think its better u let go now and just move on..