Very subtle but any idea?

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Hola people! Never thought i'd be posting in this section here.

There's this scorpio guy (born November 2nd) who I have been friends with. His best friend(libra) and I were almost on the verge of getting in a relationship (we told each other that we really like each other) but that leeb turned out to be a mother of emotional manipulation and betrayal and the biggest hypocrite I've ever met. This scorpio guy confronted him many times for his wrongdoing and in that process he started getting closer to me. He would talk to me about him(the leeb) and our situation many a times of his own. Then he started texting me after he got a new phone. He fought with the leeb and isn't as good friends as he was with him before the incident.

Now, we have been texting often.He would ask me about my exams even though we are in different engineering department. I left for abroad during this winter break and he even stalked my flight lol. He was everyday in touch with me asking me about my day and talking about his.He shares about his family and his ambition and asked about mine. We share two classes together so when college reopened he immediately came and sat with me in one of those two shared classes.It's not like we talk a lot in person but he still sits with me. He even complimented me when I've looked nice. Day before he went out for dinner with his family and he kept texting me live photos of the food he ordered(we both are big time foodies). Yesterday he texted asking me where do I have lunch and said he looks for me in the canteen everyday(we're from totally different friend circle and we dont mingle with each other). I asked him "why" and he had no reply to that. Today we had a seminar and he gave me that "come sit next to me" look and I did. Again,we didn't talk way too much but we still sat together. It's like,we don't do the crazy texting thing but at the same time,it feels something with the way he behaves and looks at me lately.

My girl friends think he has feelings for me because they said they have caught him staring at me many times but I fear if I'm only misinterpreting all this. I know it's not too much info but what do you scorpios think?
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Posted by gia
Thank you guys. It's bit surprising how I sense some change in his behavior today.

He didn't seem too much into me the way he has been lately.

Maybe it's a guy thing or maybe my assumption that I've been misinterpreting the signs is true...idk.

My friends feel I must keep it casual and not give him attention of my own.

What is your opinion?
WRONG MOVE! If you like him, and you feel he likes you.. Keep it real.. The wrong thing to do to a scorp is act like you're not interested (not give him attention) and you are in fact interested.... he'll eventually "get the picture" & back off little by little.. don't make it easy, scorps like a good challenge and a chase..but We don't like confusion and games.. or the run around.. we are emotional people and already have a hard time giving ourselves to someone because of "trust issues" & the fear of getting hurt so be clear on your feelings. I'm not saying be all over him.. but keep it how it is.. if he is giving you attention, he obviously likes you and how things are NOW.. don't switch up.. he'll eventually tell you. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio
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Posted by gia
Thank you guys. It's bit surprising how I sense some change in his behavior today.

He didn't seem too much into me the way he has been lately.

Maybe it's a guy thing or maybe my assumption that I've been misinterpreting the signs is true...idk.

My friends feel I must keep it casual and not give him attention of my own.

What is your opinion?
WRONG MOVE! If you like him, and you feel he likes you.. Keep it real.. The wrong thing to do to a scorp is act like you're not interested (not give him attention) and you are in fact interested.... he'll eventually "get the picture" & back off little by little.. don't make it easy, scorps like a good challenge and a chase..but We don't like confusion and games.. or the run around.. we are emotional people and already have a hard time giving ourselves to someone because of "trust issues" & the fear of getting hurt so be clear on your feelings. I'm not saying be all over him.. but keep it how it is.. if he is giving you attention, he obviously likes you and how things are NOW.. don't switch up.. he'll eventually tell you. ๐Ÿ˜‰


Finally you got something right ?
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LMAO! You just had to say something negative huh? ๐Ÿ˜›

you know I'm ALWAYS right! ๐Ÿ˜‰
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Posted by Reincarnation
Posted by gia
We are chatting right now (it's 3:10 AM here) and i asked him if he has had a crush on anyone before.He said about this girl he had a thing for 2 yrs before college. He said he has never had on anyone else after her ๐Ÿ˜ข

He could be shy or lying.

He sounds young. How old is he?
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He's 22. We were having frank open talks and my friends were kinda teasing me so I told him "my friends are teasing us because I never stay up so late just to chat with a guy". Then minutes later my friends teasingly sent me an article on how some psychology research study states that when a guy and a girl stay up till late night to talk,it induces some feelings inside them so I told him "my friends just sent me this silly article which states that when a guy and a girl stay up till late night to talk,it induces some feelings inside them lol.So I'm gonna go sleep now".

He said "you know..You yourself are making this situation awkward.You didn't have to mention all that to me :\"

I felt embarrassed after he said that,obviously.I don't know what was I thinking. I just said "I just said what I read :\ But anyway I'll go now.Gn Bye" and he replied bye.

I screwed up :\ Man I'm so bad at this :\ ๐Ÿ˜ข

Plus,I guess this also confirms that he most likely doesn't have those feelings for me and only sees me as a friend.
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Why not just be playful and express yourself in the same language, if you like him, touch him. Rub your hand on his back before you take your seat, smirk or smile when he gives you the stare, bump into him when you sit. Start the conversation with body language and finish it with some advancing dialogue.

Beginning to think some people make this harder than it has to be. If he doesn't respond to body language, it's better than suffering awkward silences when you think you've bombed in front of him.
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Idk i was(still am) really pissed with his comment :\ I'm a piscean so I am too sensitive and it gets me bad.

We didnt talk yesterday but today he texted me in the afternoon saying "So what special cooking today for your Sunday lunch??". I just said "nothing" so he gets the hint that I'm mad at him. Then he asked "are you fasting". I said "cooking fish". He read but didn't reply. I hoped he understood that I was mad at him but he didn't :\ I know it might seem childish of me but thats how my piscean bones work :\

We have a class together tomorrow so I'm sure he'd initiate a conversation. I'd ignore him a bit to show him i'm mad at him.If he catches the hint,then well and good and if not then I'll have to be straight,which I hate.
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There's an update I'd like to share-

So we were were talking day before yesterday and he just realized I'm a pisces. I intentionally told him flirtily that Pisces and Scorpio is known to have one of the best compatibility. He checked it out on the web and was happy to see the positive results and we talked about it. Then yesterday I watched a movie he had mentioned he really loves.I told him I watched it and he shared how emotional he gets each time he watches it. Today we met and initially and the most of the time during the day,he seemed uninterested and bored. However,at the end of the day he called me and asked where I am. There were some cool technical events put up in our college and while watching that,he was talking about his dream to join the air force and we then talked non stop. We discovered few things we share in common. Then we both left for home and were waiting for the bus. Again,we talked non-stop about each others family and sat together in the bus and continued talking. However,in the bus,the topic switched to his ex. Today he admitted he still has feelings for her and hasn't moved on fully but needs to.He was describing how he used to think about her 24*7 when they had that mutual attraction(they were never in a relationship though). She is the first girl he has had those feelings for. He said he used to fancy her all the time. Then we switched to another topic.

We sat together in the train and continued to talk till his stopover came. He got off and looked at me once.

Does it at all even remotely feel that this guy might have 'those' feelings for me? I just feel friendzoned

I need your inputs here guys xx
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@Reincarnation, I'm not too good with answering these for myself but I've had few who have had a bad crush on me or really liked me to want to pursue a relationship.His own best friend(libra) was crazy behind me and we hit it off well until I got to know his true nature. Even this scorpi has complimented me few times.

So I'd like to believe yes,I am. Although I have gained some weight now ๐Ÿ˜ข I have been working my ass off to shed those pounds.
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Posted by Epi
Why not just be playful and express yourself in the same language, if you like him, touch him. Rub your hand on his back before you take your seat, smirk or smile when he gives you the stare, bump into him when you sit. Start the conversation with body language and finish it with some advancing dialogue.

Beginning to think some people make this harder than it has to be. If he doesn't respond to body language, it's better than suffering awkward silences when you think you've bombed in front of him.
What if he rejects that?? ๐Ÿ˜•