Virgo & Scorpio relationship difficulties!?!?!?!!?

in a earlier post i was asking advice on my Ex girlfriend she a scorpio & im a virgo! we was together 15months but we broke up because of circumstances, she didnt like me hanging around in gay bars, didnt like me doing drugs and didnt like the people i live with.

we broke up didnt see each other for like 2 months, but over the past 2 months she has been calling me drunk and we have been sleeping together but nothing more, ive had no problem with this, but last week she said we need to stop sleeping together to move on, and i was like why cant we get back together i know deep down she wants to but because the reasons why we split are still there she wont, so basically she said if i move out and stop going in the gay bars we could be together is that to controlling or should i just do it then we could be together. the other thing is i like this other girl a taurus, we get along great she does drugs goes in the gay bars and does alot more thing the same as me, me and her slept together last weekend had a great time but she has a girlfriend who she cheated on to sleep with me, now i really like her also but kinda know she doesnt want to be with me or want anything but i really like her, should i go for things with me ex which would be great or be patient with teh taurus and see if things progress with her?? please reply to a very confused virgo! Thank you (",)

Wow! Um you sound a little more than confused. Should i really ask why you hang around in gay bars? I mean i don't know you personally but it sounds as if though you have some personal issues going on. The Scorpio Girl probably really does love you but maybe she can't figure you out and that scares her. Her sleeping with you shows that she cares for you. If you really want to end the relationship with her then stop sleeping with her and give her an ultamatum. She may not like that but you have to do what's best for you and your feelings. Or have a heart to heart talk with her. Scorpios like to feel a deep connection. Best of luck to you...

Karima - what ultimatum would that be? the thing is yeah were sleeping toegther which is great and the fact that she has said we should stop it made it seem more real that we were split which sucks! the thing is she said we should be friends, but what EX Lovers do you personally know who stay in touch and are actual "friends" i know none, but we care so much i dont want to lose her so i dont know what to do but then again i also like the other girl! ——?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!———?/

Continuing to sleep with a person who is nothing more than a sex partner really confuses things when feelings are involved. I don't advise that for anyone is trying to break away from someone for good. It's either going to be all or nothing. So you can be Just Friends-But don't put yourself in a situation that makes you more vulnerable. If you have found someone new that you enjoy go for that relationship and leave the emotionally damaged one alone with the female Scorp.