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Whats with the Signs under the element of Water? Its funny that the Earth element never really meets the Walter element, but rather be is oppisite like Taurus and Scorpio, I have friends that under the sign of water and had some Exs under that sign and for some reason i keep noticing a pattern of insecureity. as we all know, we bulls are very cautious people by nature, but with people under the element of water take it to a new level, the seem to be on an edge about relationships and in general loyatity. Its like you have to prove your loyalty not once but over and over and over again.But then again we bulls can be or make us look like we are insensitive at times.Idk The question to my rant is have you ever encountered anything like what i am describing and if so how did u manage.

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yeah i might win there in spelling.

what im saying is why is the water sign a very insecure sign and how can a earth sign which is a very cautious sign help make a water sign feel comfortable? instead of proving their loyalaty over and over again?